Lets say...

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OK. Let's say..

A man flirts with you.... your single.

We all do this differntly.

Today, I accidentialy hit him with the door in my office I laughed.


He comes around maybe, twice a month but I do have his number...

I like him! I think he has a gf though. His gf mother came in for a trial procedure a year ago, and every time I saw him, I mentioned her as his mother in law, in which he feverishly denied.

He's a Flirt. A good one. No idea his bday.

But I want dinner. I want to hang out.

Lets say you were me.

What would you do?


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Posted by 000sillylion000
If he brings you donuts, maybe turn it around and offer to buy him a donut and a coffee for a quick brunch -- something super informal that gives you the wiggle room to ask the single/flirty questions without being intense. Cause let's be real. Donuts are the most flirty, playful of foods. Fruits are sex foods, cake is drunk food, but donuts? A/S/L food like whoaaaaaaa
Um no. I won't. He must do more I can offer my availability.
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What was his reaction when you hit with the door?
I didn't see it becaused i didnt face him

He asked me if the bike outside was mine.


I said yes.


He asked if I lived near by, I said yes.

And walked off.

This guy hads been in contact with me for years.... he always points out my hair or whatever.
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Well if you don't mind your job and have no future plans about your career, or your working place doesn't require you to be conservative then I don't see any issues.
Well ask him to help you with little things you need sometimes, give him a chance to feel needed, do you do that?
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What was his reaction when you hit with the door?
I didn't see it becaused i didnt face him

He asked me if the bike outside was mine.


I said yes.


He asked if I lived near by, I said yes.

And walked off.

This guy hads been in contact with me for years.... he always points out my hair or whatever.
Well if you don't mind your job and have no future plans about your career, or your working place doesn't require you to be conservative then I don't see any issues.
Well ask him to help you with little things you need sometimes, give him a chance to feel needed, do you do that?
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I Just texted him about clarification about his surgey consult
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Posted by 000sillylion000
If he brings you donuts, maybe turn it around and offer to buy him a donut and a coffee for a quick brunch -- something super informal that gives you the wiggle room to ask the single/flirty questions without being intense. Cause let's be real. Donuts are the most flirty, playful of foods. Fruits are sex foods, cake is drunk food, but donuts? A/S/L food like whoaaaaaaa
This.


Or something like it... but definitely


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Posted by 000sillylion000
If he brings you donuts, maybe turn it around and offer to buy him a donut and a coffee for a quick brunch -- something super informal that gives you the wiggle room to ask the single/flirty questions without being intense. Cause let's be real. Donuts are the most flirty, playful of foods. Fruits are sex foods, cake is drunk food, but donuts? A/S/L food like whoaaaaaaa
This.


Or something like it... but definitely


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Ok. I texted him. I used work as an excuse. It was late, like 945pm. He responds the next morning. I was embarrassed so I told I texted the wrong person.

Silence.

Then last night he texts and tries to find out why I contacted him so late.

I just told him"i saw you, and i wanted to know if we could get together outside of work, i was embarrassed I used work as an excuse so I lied and told you I had the wrong number. Very unprofessional."

He called and was authentically flattered. Asked where I was a year ago when he brought me in doughnuts, apple annies and gifts every week. I told him he didnt need to explain but thanked him for calling.

All is well. And the next time I see him I'll be cordial. 🙂

A small step to for others but a huge step for my life. I told the truth. And it's all good. (Besides having strep. Apparently that was a side effect of being a sneaky liar.)



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Posted by 000sillylion000
If he brings you donuts, maybe turn it around and offer to buy him a donut and a coffee for a quick brunch -- something super informal that gives you the wiggle room to ask the single/flirty questions without being intense. Cause let's be real. Donuts are the most flirty, playful of foods. Fruits are sex foods, cake is drunk food, but donuts? A/S/L food like whoaaaaaaa
This.


Or something like it... but definitely


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Ok. I texted him. I used work as an excuse. It was late, like 945pm. He responds the next morning. I was embarrassed so I told I texted the wrong person.

Silence.

Then last night he texts and tries to find out why I contacted him so late.

I just told him"i saw you, and i wanted to know if we could get together outside of work, i was embarrassed I used work as an excuse so I lied and told you I had the wrong number. Very unprofessional."

He called and was authentically flattered. Asked where I was a year ago when he brought me in doughnuts, apple annies and gifts every week. I told him he didnt need to explain but thanked him for calling.

All is well. And the next time I see him I'll be cordial. 🙂

A small step to for others but a huge step for my life. I told the truth. And it's all good. (Besides having strep. Apparently that was a side effect of being a sneaky liar.)



I like your style, but there seems to be something missing here. Like - he didn't pursue any further after calling? So he does have a GF.
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I don't know nor care now. But we never touched that subject and its all good. No lines crossed.
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Posted by Mohini
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late, like 945pm. He responds the next morning. I was embarrassed so I told I texted the wrong person.

Silence.

Then last night he texts and tries to find out why I contacted him so late.

I just told him"i saw you, and i wanted to know if we could get together outside of work, i was embarrassed I used work as an excuse so I lied and told you I had the wrong number. Very unprofessional."

He called and was authentically flattered. Asked where I was a year ago when he brought me in doughnuts, apple annies and gifts every week. I told him he didnt need to explain but thanked him for calling.

All is well. And the next time I see him I'll be cordial. 🙂

A small step to for others but a huge step for my life. I told the truth. And it's all good. (Besides having strep. Apparently that was a side effect of being a sneaky liar.)


No, it wasn't.

Besides, that kind of honesty is mind blowing--

takes a ridiculous amount of courage.

That's the operative.

You're right though, it is huge... cosmically speaking.

🤗 😄


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What kind of donuts?
You're in Australia, but these are called, "Krispy Kreme" they melt in your mouth and do not cost a fortune but on days when I forget my breakfast, they were a god send when topped with star bucks coffee.

The fluffy just made type.
We have Krispy Kreme here. You buy them at 7 eleven.

He's trying to get you fat to keep in his dungeon.
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No shit? Im not cultured sadly.

They are good ha-ha
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What kind of donuts?
You're in Australia, but these are called, "Krispy Kreme" they melt in your mouth and do not cost a fortune but on days when I forget my breakfast, they were a god send when topped with star bucks coffee.

The fluffy just made type.
We have Krispy Kreme here. You buy them at 7 eleven.

He's trying to get you fat to keep in his dungeon.
Or he is seriously seducing her. Those are wife-making donuts right there...
Naw you want to barf after 3.

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Rumor is, you can freeze them and microwave them to life .... js
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Posted by Arielle83
What kind of donuts?
You're in Australia, but these are called, "Krispy Kreme" they melt in your mouth and do not cost a fortune but on days when I forget my breakfast, they were a god send when topped with star bucks coffee.

The fluffy just made type.
We have Krispy Kreme here. You buy them at 7 eleven.

He's trying to get you fat to keep in his dungeon.
Or he is seriously seducing her. Those are wife-making donuts right there...
Naw you want to barf after 3.
You have to build up a tolerance. It's like marriage.
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That might be why I'm single... i never liked them. I like salt.
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Mohini
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What kind of donuts?
You're in Australia, but these are called, "Krispy Kreme" they melt in your mouth and do not cost a fortune but on days when I forget my breakfast, they were a god send when topped with star bucks coffee.

The fluffy just made type.
We have Krispy Kreme here. You buy them at 7 eleven.

He's trying to get you fat to keep in his dungeon.
Or he is seriously seducing her. Those are wife-making donuts right there...
Naw you want to barf after 3.
You have to build up a tolerance. It's like marriage.
That might be why I'm single... i never liked them. I like salt.
I prefer salt and vinegar...best to make your tongue raw with so much of the good stuff. Similar to being single.
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I'm the queen of single
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Mohini
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What kind of donuts?
You're in Australia, but these are called, "Krispy Kreme" they melt in your mouth and do not cost a fortune but on days when I forget my breakfast, they were a god send when topped with star bucks coffee.

The fluffy just made type.
We have Krispy Kreme here. You buy them at 7 eleven.

He's trying to get you fat to keep in his dungeon.
Or he is seriously seducing her. Those are wife-making donuts right there...
Naw you want to barf after 3.
Rumor is, you can freeze them and microwave them to life .... js
Eww. That's not a good thing. Like how you can clean toilets with coke? I like to take turns drinking it. One swig for me, one for the toilet bowl. I love things multifunctional food.
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Hello. I said.. "rumor has it"


Have fun with your toliets.
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Mohini
Posted by Arielle83
What kind of donuts?
You're in Australia, but these are called, "Krispy Kreme" they melt in your mouth and do not cost a fortune but on days when I forget my breakfast, they were a god send when topped with star bucks coffee.

The fluffy just made type.
We have Krispy Kreme here. You buy them at 7 eleven.

He's trying to get you fat to keep in his dungeon.
Or he is seriously seducing her. Those are wife-making donuts right there...
Naw you want to barf after 3.
Rumor is, you can freeze them and microwave them to life .... js
Eww. That's not a good thing. Like how you can clean toilets with coke? I like to take turns drinking it. One swig for me, one for the toilet bowl. I love things multifunctional food.
lmao

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@tiziani please don't