Live In Couples?

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RainingPeanuts
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Married couples?

I would like to know what life is like as a couple who lives together. How long have you been living under the same roof?

WHAT IS YOUR DAILY LIFE LIKE? aghhh
What do you do everyday? Basic stuff, aside from the surprises here and there (if there's any!)
How do you handle chores? Who cooks? Do you cook EVERYDAY?!
Very important... how much time do you spend cooking?
How about, do any of you have a hired cook? How much do they go for?
Is your spouse messy? If hampers for dirty clothes exist... is there ever a..problem..about..leaving..clothes laying around? I'm just saying.. does a problem like that exist??
What kind of arguments do you have?
Do both of you pick up after yourselves? What are the traditional roles? Do you follow? How does it work? About this cooking thing.. do you learn to cook what the other likes or does he better learn to like the damn food!! .. or both.. yeah, makes sense. I'm just curious.

Type your little hearts out, don't spare the details. Pretty please
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?I would like to know what life is like as a couple who lives together.?
Okay?Of course you WILL have your up's, down's, rolls of bafflements, flips of flaring moods, tumbles of her emotionally breaking down over?.who knows, but that's nothing compared to the days of benefit (passed, but better yet future) and un-measureable joy both of you have (and will) share.

?How long have you been living under the same roof??
3 crazy years

?WHAT IS YOUR DAILY LIFE LIKE? Aghhh?
?Aghhh!!? is the word..LOL!..but on a serious level?. Aside from taking care of the pets/cleaning/etc, we do not follow with a planner..things happen when it needs to happen. Though we are big fans of giving each other our breathing room, we still go out on the town (w/ our dogs sometimes) at sun-set to different movie stores, deli's/bakerys, landmarks, restuarants, and music places to talk, tease, play, eat and take pictures when time isn't an issue.

?What do you do everyday? Basic stuff, aside from the surprises here and there (if there's any!)?
Sex.

?How do you handle chores??
I wash dishes & vacuum, but she does all rest of the chores. But when I clean?she'll seldom re-trace, RE-clean, and gets crazy and emotional about it. And it's so annoying.

?Who cooks? Do you cook EVERYDAY?!?
Because she is left-handed, I peel & slice the potatoes and ect. And that's it!..lol. If something isn't microwave-able, she'll cook it. No, she doesn't cook EVERYDAY, 3 to 4 days a week is most sufficant for us. Since there will be enough food for the whole neighborhood and their ancestors when she DOES cook, she'll give some to our friends that's too ?busy? to cook so that there will be ?a small amount' to ?no' left-overs . We also enjoy trying new dishes some nights if we can?Moroccan, Greek, African, Japanese etc?from different restaurants. At lunch break, she'll sometimes bring me a different thing. Though it's better consumed during the summer, yesterday was Indian dolmas w/ a tabbouleh salad with some kind of water(forgot the name).

?Very important... how much time do you spend cooking??
On Sundays, days on which she is off, or get off early..it takes her 2 hours minimum to prepare the whole FEAST?(Though it's too long, it's well worth the wait.)
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?How about, do any of you have a hired cook? How much do they go for? ?
HELLS NO!!..I wish we would waste money on a asshole that does the same things we can do?.for free.

?Is your spouse messy??
Sometimes, I wish she was?..she SO serious about cleanliness and being tidy she cleaned her friend's house when she was bored. I surely wouldn't do that?it'll only take away from the taunts.

?If hampers for dirty clothes exist... is there ever a..problem..about..leaving..clothes laying around? I'm just saying.. does a problem like that exist—
Clothes hampers DO exist here?.And every since my wife taught me the different powders, bleaches, ammonias, soaps, and dryer tissues, I look forward to washing clothes. Hell, I even mix-up the brands for a better result. (For instance Downy Ball, a bit of white vinegar, & Clorox makes whites white as fuck). Now that I recently found that the Scuntii streamer can be used as and iron, I like ironing?or streaming..whatever the hell you call it.

?What kind of arguments do you have??
Though the ?arguments? regularly do not last passed 8 minutes or so, it's primarily from me being pushy, highly corrective of others, stubborn, or selfishly egotistical, to her being a left-hand yes-man to people, a EXTREME perfectionist, stubborn, whiny, or her wanting to go far out into the dark alone. When things get TOO thick, I'll go outside and she'll go up stairs.?

?Do both of you pick up after yourselves??
Yes, but when sometimes I forget to place a glass in the sink or a jar in the trash, and as a result, I get to sometimes hear her whin & moan about the issue?.YAY!!🙂

?What are the traditional roles you follow??
?I just said them.

?How does it work? About this cooking thing.. do you learn to cook what the other likes or does he better learn to like the damn food!! .. or both.. yeah, makes sense. ?
I DO NOT cook (except mirco-wavables sometimes🙂..what?..I want my credit!) And the only things that are not my favorite of her's is the baked cube steaks, hen dumplings, and turkey/broccolli & cheeses casserole because she's heavy-handed w/ the seasonings, salts, and spices.