Busted on DXP by love interest??

Has this ever happened to anyone?? I'm putting a lot of info out there and I just might get busted if my "interest" gets inquisitive (which he is)... what to do??

...Linda?

hee hee!

Well my real secrets are exposed. I never really thought about it, but now I really am getting worried. He and maybe some of his friends would recognize, if they ever found this... I am so stupid!!

LS..

What's funny? I'm in misery.

I was laughing at yamma.

From what I remember you wanted him to find your messages early on.

My Scorpio knows I post here and what my username is. He has even read a few things over my shoulder. I doubt he would ever come here by himself and read stuff behind my back. Not that it would matter. I tell him pretty much everything anyway.

Nope... did not want him to find me here.. and especially not now..

But it is kinda funny anyway bc if I could be completely honest in the real world I would not have to worry about being busted.. I wonder if all aquas have this problem.. we are very secretive...

I'm an aqua and I am pretty free with information. I am open an honest with just about everything. It works to my advantage too, Sometimes giving out lots of information actually allows you to control the flow of information. People come to expect you will just tell them everything thus allowing you to be secretive and hide things without having to try. If you leave something out people don't question it, they just assume you have told them everything. Ofcourse I have a scorpio rising so that may play a part in this too.

Well my real secrets are exposed. I never really thought about it, but now I really am getting worried. He and maybe some of his friends would recognize, if they ever found this... I am so stupid!!

hey! no I'm not stalking you, I was just browsing and this topic caught my eye lol

hehe! that's exactly why I didn't go as far as saying that much about aquarius to VLL.
I was pming him trying to help him out and I was getting help from him as well. but I did not go as far telling him all what you said...cause it's just too much and really WHO can you trust online?..X_X

but still though, don't freak out. You helped VLL a great deal and you lifted a lot of weight off my shoulders.

if this guy you're interested in does anything to you, just tell him that this is the way the Aquarians are and you were just trying to help some people out. If anything,just tell him not to take it too seriously if he sees it. if he does, tell him you were just being honest unlike MOST people in this world! you'll think of something!!

and please don't call yourself stupid, aquarianbrat! you are opposite of stupid, that's for sure!! you should be happy with yourself because at least you were open and honest with yourself to others. you helped us out the most. thanks bunches ^_~

Reiniba-Chan..

Oh girlfriend, you have not been on the Libra posts yet... No, sweetie, I spilled all my guts on the pavement of those threads... it's all there in black and white. If you followed me here... you need to follow me there... He is a libra and I was trying to figure him out. The aqua threads are petty and mild compared to what is on there. I'm basically mud if he finds me here. But that is what I get. I have lived with worse embarrassment... well, no I haven't but I will... it's not like I said anything that was not true, just a whole lot he does not know and I did not want him to... self-preservation thing...

I went blindly into this posting business... thinking I had found the best thing ever.. and it is.. if I could have been a little more discrete. Well, anyway I will know sooner or later.. I guess when he starts avoiding my calls... or being completely disinterested when we do talk.. I will know something is wrong and will retreat into my shell and not come out for about 6 months... then I will get over it and move on like I always do...

Thank you for the compliments also!! You're great..

On a serious note-don't you think you are being slightly paranoid?

jroussou...
I am feeling you completely. I checked that out too... doesn't look possible 😢

Yama..

I am hoping it is just paranoia! But I don't know...

Paranoia ... not just for schizophrenics anymore!

🙂

I am sure you are fine honey. It he finds it pretend to have a seizer and deny everything. Works everytime!

lol!!! Thanks LS.

a libra? phew *wipes sweat* libras are definately understanding to the Aquarius.
lol you'll both probably laugh about it..lol I can always be open and honest with all the libras I know even when I do get a little weird with them. I've done and said all kinds of embarassing things in front of a libra I know from work..he will tease me about it later. I quit the job but my brother still works there. he tells me all the time how much this libra wants to be with me and he has a model after him!! cept he thinks he can do better with me..how odd is that..o_O

libras are awesome..he'll think you're a little bit crazy but just be yourself- he'll still like you..I'm sure of it.
I think they just move closer to you when you open up. lol

RC.. aww thanks for the words of encouragement.. I hope we laugh about it... It is rather funny, I just hope he looks at it that way..

Anyway. There is something I noticed about myself and I wonder if other Aqua's notice this also about themselves.. I get very embarrassed easily and I am soooo hard on myself when I make even the smallest of mistakes, like I write something wrong.. I can never cross it out and keep going, I have to start the whole thing over.. even if it is just a note to myself. My rational is I don't know who might come across it and they will might think I am sloppy, so I HAVE to rewrite it. Is that just me, or are all aqua's semi-paranoid about mistakes and stuff..

RC - "libras are awesome..he'll think you're a little bit crazy but just be yourself- he'll still like you..I'm sure of it. I think they just move closer to you when you open up. lol"

LOL!! Yeah! I am a little bit crazy.. so he would be correct! I actually may be a lotta bit.. but hey that is a thread for next week when I am home and totally bored to death...🙂



Where I work, I made a mistake the other day and everyone started laughing at me... I got so mad at myself.. and one lady said softly to me.. "it's okay to make a mistake sometime".. then I suddenly realized that I did not have to be perfect in front of everyone and I started laughing too. Then I noticed it again earlier, when LS was writing about schizophrenia... I used to work with a group of dually diagnosed patients... now that's real paranoia.. I am not that bad... I don't think. Anyway.. I started laughing at myself after I thought about it for a minute, because I am really uptight about this whole thing and he may not even care that much... I don't know.. is the point so why am I getting so worked up over something I don't even know is happening??

OH. I did not mean for that to come out like that. The top paragraph goes with the bottom one.. Man that was weird.. **Aqua scratches her head**

Aqua

People generally like people who can laugh at themselves. It is a very endeering quality. Just enjoy yourself.

I also find if you don't make a big deal about things and act like something crazy is completely normal others will follow suit and just accept it as a quirk and not think too much about it.

Oh... Thank you I really need to hear that.. I am finding out so much about myself lately.. I am definitely on a new path and it feels good. Everyone on here has really helped me see a different side of life. Where would I be without you guys?? LOST.

antibling.."actually,I think some of that is for Firfox,but it's pretty much the same...."

Not sure what this is... No, I fear he found me at DXP. We live a state away. Do you have any suggestions about that??

I am guessing I will have to plead insanity.. That is my last defense.

"Has this ever happened to anyone?? I'm putting a lot of info out there and I just might get busted if my "interest" gets inquisitive (which he is)... what to do??"

Well, it's kinda like MySpace, but not as popular and clich`e. If some one recognizes you, you shouldn't give not one fuck. Oh hell, every one else is on it. Your grown. Hell, at least your not being sexual or something, everything is fine.
Besides, this is a nice site. VERY family-friendly..hmmmmm

Okay.. jrussou, archer, antibling.. you all are great.....I love what you said, archer, about offense is the best defense.. this is true. I have been thinking A LOT about my defense if it is needed.

a4_gem... "Oh hell, every one else is on it. Your grown. Hell, at least your not being sexual or something, everything is fine. Besides, this is a nice site. VERY family-friendly..hmmmmm"

I know he would not care if I was being sexual.. he probably would get a kick out of that.. but it's the stuff I said about him that he does not know.. You know how guys get scared away when they think a woman is in love with them.. He does not have a clue.. but NOW he does if he is here. And I have not heard from him since Sunday.. even though I wrote him a few emails since then... getting nervous, this is just not like him to not respond *sigh*

About the family friendliness of the site.. this is why I love it here. Everybody seems to be very respectful of others and if they do curse or have something to say that may be a little vulgure, they do it appropriately. I love DXP!!

BUT if I "get ghost" on you all.. you will know it is because I have been caught and I won't be able to return... for a while anyway...

jrussou..."The only way I can think of to hide something on these pages is to post so much BS that no one has time to read through all your posts. Hide in the clutter I say

Antibling..."good point....I'll never get found out ..."

LOL!! 🙂 hehehe!! Love it!!

Okay.. if anyone cares.. I don't think I got busted here.. he has not said anything about the site and he claims he has been busy all week and when he is online it is 4 am in the morning and he doesn't really have time to check his email.. so I think I am good.. Thanks you all for your help and support.. I guess I was a lil noid.. oh well.. it was fun..🙂

Oh my aquarainbrat ...... THAT CAN HAPPEN!!! Oh dear .... oh dear ... honestly, I don't know what I'd do. Darn it, I was being honest so none of the guys should get offended by what I've said. lol

cappysweetie... uuhh.. I was being honest also, painfully hones, bc I never thought he would find me. But my guy does not know I have any feelings for him like THAT!! I am not sure if he would be flattered or disgusted if he found out... all the stuff I said.. I have been honest and detailed, he may get made his biz is on the net like that.. I don't know.. but I hope I never have to find out..

Good luck to you 😉.. hope none of your guys are inquisitive..

Painfully honest.. ya'll know what I mean..

Interesting observation jrussou.. I wonder who this mysterious bxpnet'er is.. or does dxp throw topics out that every once in a while? That is weird.

.. and thank you.. Yes, I am very glad I did not get busted too. Now my posts are a little more reserved, well...where he is concerned anyway..can't really be too reserved though, or this chat stuff wouldn't be all that fun, now would it...😉