love is an endless chance and a choice you make.

.. this is best read when currently you're
in a relationship (for couples only)
and not the unrequited kind of love ..


Sometimes we fall in love and it feels so great--
So great that we never want to fall out of it...
But sometimes, though we hate to admit,
We have to fall out of it..
And falling out of love is such a great decision
to make...
Actually, it's one decision that can haunt us forever..

Falling out of love doesn't just mean that we
don't love the person
anymore..
It means more than that..
It means not wanting the person whom you have
thought to be a part of you-

To be a part of your today and tomorrow.
It might also mean that you don't want to care
for the person anymore
Or rather, that you have grown tired
Of waiting for that person to come back to you...
And that it's that waiting that made you fall out of love..
It might also mean that you can't have what you want,
And that you are no longer wanted by the other person..
Now that would hurt a lot, but if that is the case,
Then maybe, falling out of love is the right choice.

But how can a love as sweet as mine be so wrong?
How and why would I want to fall out of love from
someone I truly care for?
Why would I want to start my life all over again
When I can just pick up the pieces and go from there?
But most of all, why would I want to teach my
heart not to love someone
Whom I have known in my heart, as the one person
that I will love forever.

These questions and so much more can be answered
by a single word..
And that word is "LOVE"..
Though we don't want to admit it to ourselves,
love has two sides..
Falling in love and falling out of love..
It has two faces and we tend to forget the one
that hurts..
And maybe, this is what I, myself have forgotten.
Maybe I have forgotten, that when I let myself
fall in love,
I also let myself vulnerable to feel the pain of
falling out.
This is this risk that I have to accept
If I want to experience "LOVE"
And it is this "LOVE" that has led me to where I
am today.
Maybe it is not all love that will keep us in a
relationship..
Maybe there's more to it than love..
Maybe relationships need more ingredients other
than love..

Maybe if patience, loyalty, trust, respect,
honesty, and communication are added
Then maybe, the relationship will be better.
But what happens when we all know these and more
Yet we still do fall out of love..
What is next? Do we fall out of love like a lightning?
Do we fall out of love as if we got burned?

No--we don't...
For falling out of love takes so much of who we
are.. It takes away our strength and our heart.
Falling out of love is like trying to stop
something that we are fond of
doing,
Or trying to stop what we like so much...
It can also mess up with our minds...
'Coz when we fall out of love, we try to be so
analytical if why it has to end.
So now I ask, if falling out of love is so hard to do,
Then why do we still have to fall in love in the first place?

i know it's awkward but it's a matter of risk you have to take to win the person back. especially when someone realizes that the amount of love they have for the person is still greater than the pain it has caused.

also, relationships that are build in trust can stand the test of time/trials 'coz these are cornerstones in a relationship.

it's too good to be true, painful and hard as it may seem but it's something real ..you just have to make it happen.

it's not being a doormat either, it's having hope and faith that somehow you will be able to win the battle. i also noticed that when someone opens themselves to other options they tend to get more confused about their feelings, instead of trying to be steady with one person and loving them for who at what they are despite of. i don't know and i'm not sure if it works best for everyone else -- to each is own.

i'm not pondering at all. it feels so good to be inlove.