My Ex and I are bac together but are love is lost

what should I do ?

So why did you get back with him if the love is lost?

Posted by RocDaBoat
what should I do ?

You answered your own question in your heading.

You should not settle, that means you should break up for good, and never look back.

Love can be rekindled.

2 people who never broke up can experience 'lost love.'

Just b/c it fades or isn't as strong, doesn't mean say F it, walk away & give up.

You have to know when to 'work on it' or when to talk away.

If you've both tried everything & yet still can't get that spark back, then it's time to move on. If you've addressed the issues & honestly admitted to yourselves that the relationship just isn't worth it anymore, then it's time to move on...not b/c the love can't be rekindled but b/c the spark will never come back if 1 or both people in the relationship don't wanna be in it

But if you haven't even tried, you're setting yourself up for a big 'what if'

Couples rekindle love all the time. There's this false conception that it's only love if the flame stays hot the entire time.

That's not true.

Dr. Phil said it best. "In order to have a good marriage, 2 people have to fall in love with eachother over and over and over again."

I have found it's much better to be single than to be in a loveless relationship.
End it already, stop flogging a dead horse. One of you decided at some point that your relationship couldn't work, and ended it ... why drag it out? Are you that scared of being alone?

Posted by AutumnalChick
I have found it's much better to be single than to be in a loveless relationship.
End it already, stop flogging a dead horse. One of you decided at some point that your relationship couldn't work, and ended it ... why drag it out? Are you that scared of being alone?

I agree. I would rather be single than be in a loveless relationship. My problem is the moving on & letting go, or always being sucked back into the loveless relationship. Being a hopeless romantic I feel and think with my heart and always wear it on my sleeve. Guess you could say I have sucker written across my forehead! Lol.