need advice pleasee

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Candaceee
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5 Years

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this guy ive seen for about a month now told me he said he doesnt feel a "heart to heart" emotional connection with me and for me it bothered me alot and knowing it was bothering what he said he told me to forget about it he kept brushing it off as time will tell. After a day later we had plans to meet he texted me asking me if he could have the day to himself. Since that day it bothered me so i just chose to end things with him since he said practically his heart isnt there and i felt like i wasnt capable to help him get to where he can feel emotional connection with me. Was it too early on to stop trying or was it a sign that he himself couldnt get there and instead of breaking it off he chose to kind of have alone time and gradually show signs of being distant. 

When i broke things off he said he thought alot about it and his heart wasnt there and accepted it

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Greylatern, The Laughing Heart
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He isn't feeling it. Good for him for owning up to that. If you do honestly like the guy offer a friendship.

The only possible problem I see with this is, if he is slow to warm up and doesn't know it. It's legitimate to be this way with people excluding the rare one offs where everything just clicks.

What ages are you guys and how much relationship experience you both have?