New year, New me :)

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by sweethearts on Saturday, January 4, 2014 and has 2 replies.

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Life is pretty damn perfect right now, unlike what I have read around here my 2013 was good...it had it's down times but the ups out way the downs. So when my bff (Taurus) and I were discussing what our New Years Resolutions were, mine being, go back to my original plan 7 years ago and do what I intended to do back then and did everything but...she said that I needed to also stop being so bloody nice to people that don't deserve it....food for thought... and yes I let people walk all over me so as not to cause problems......BUT no more!!!

If your glass is half full, you don't belong in my life...too much negativity and it rubs off or rubs me up the wrong way. I deleted my Taur friend because he was always woo is me, so negative and then wonders why him being such a nice person that he has so many problems...he breeds it!

So who else has realised that they need to change their thinking and ways for the better for themselves or listened to their bff's that see more than we do?

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@mfwb55
12 Years1,000+ Posts

It works this thinking positivity stuff I know I need to for myself just so i can think straight otherwise I am not so good i let my thoughts get the best of me and like to stay away when this happens and for me if i am having runaway thoughts and thoughts control you and I figure well I best let those thoughts be positive as much as possible to see if how things are with myself

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Yes we like things planned 🙂

There's a quote that I'm fond of,

It's not about surviving the storm but learning how to dance in the rain.

Or

Life might not be the party that you had hoped for but while we are here we might as well dance!