People who like being chocked during sex...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Sag89 on Thursday, December 26, 2013 and has 34 replies.

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Why? I mean boys or girls. It doesn't do anything for me. I mean I'd only do that if it was for real right?

lol jk.

I've heard the lack of oxygen causes a sensation.

Has anyone felt that?

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{singing}I DON'T CARE, I LOVE IT.
It's been done once and I always thought I would hate it. I'm not sure if it was because of dominance, prowess, passion but I really enjoyed it

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Posted by exoskeleton
last night dude had me in the kitchen. one hand choking me hard, the other rubbing my clit.

when i was about to come he got me bent over the counter and hit it from the back, buckwild.

we both came and i was hazy and wobbly, about to fall over, marveling.

so majestic, lol.

sounds like you get lost in sex 🙂

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Posted by raerain
I am not sure if I would do it again, last time he choked me I was high on magic mushrooms and it felt like a wrestling match.I hit him with the table light.Next thing I know, I was on the floor. Forgot to use the safety word. Never again- magic mushrooms and sex together.

I like this thread

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Posted by LilyTree
I am not arrogant enough to assume everyone's first language is English, and that they should be fluent in it. The Internet is multi-cultural after all.

Hahaha. That is actually really true tho. Good thought. English is mine, I just mess up whenever I type from phone.

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Posted by Sag89
Why? I mean boys or girls. It doesn't do anything for me. I mean I'd only do that if it was for real right?

lol jk.

I've heard the lack of oxygen causes a sensation.

Has anyone felt that?

For some people it's about the pain. That's why they like it.

For others it's not about the pain but instead about getting off on someone using a specific way to exercise having power of them. It's about the ultimate submissiveness.

Being choked is just 1 form/way people get to experience pain OR the high of feeling completely controlled. Some people prefer to get that exact "euphoria" or "high" from being handcuffed, chained, beaten or through dominant vs submissive role playing.

All require an extremely high amount of trust though b/c these acts technically involve doing things to the body that can cause serious injuries or open up the door to horrific things if the person who is in control has a criminal intent.

Being choked might be considered the extreme to some & "just the beginning" to others

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Posted by size zero superhero
Never tried it, nor been asked to participate in erotic asphyxiation. No thanks, personally.

I knew a girl that admittedly enjoyed(being the receiver of)sexual strangulation to the point of unconsciousness. She was drawn to other pain-inducing acts. FWIW she also had a history of childhood sexual abuse(unfortunately).
I'm not suggesting the two factors go hand-in-hand, nor insinuating there are definite correlations between engaging "deviant"/rough sex versus prior sexual abuse--just that in the aforementioned case, one may have had *something* to do with the other.

I believe that. I have a past of some but it's the totally opposite. The idea of rough like that makes me sick to my stomach and scared. Interesting.

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Oh well thanks size zero and yea i don't mean to get all dark and personal I just thought i can see how that may be true for some people. And corn that sounds like an interesting experience.

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Posted by size zero superhero
Never tried it, nor been asked to participate in erotic asphyxiation. No thanks, personally.

I knew a girl that admittedly enjoyed(being the receiver of)sexual strangulation to the point of unconsciousness. She was drawn to other pain-inducing acts. FWIW she also had a history of childhood sexual abuse(unfortunately).
I'm not suggesting the two factors go hand-in-hand, nor insinuating there are definite correlations between engaging "deviant"/rough sex versus prior sexual abuse--just that in the aforementioned case, one may have had *something* to do with the other.

you and me both.

Vanilla and boring is all i got.

When i read about David Carradine and his possible most likely death. I was thinking.... jeezum. terrible.

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Posted by Geminivixenn
I like it rough from time to time, why not? 😛 Sometimes when I am not in the mood I think choking is lame. You know what I think is even more lame..? Playing music while having sex.. INSTANT TURN OFF!

OMG RIGHT? like I never understood that. I find it completely distracting from the moment.

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Posted by Sag89
Posted by Geminivixenn
I like it rough from time to time, why not? 😛 Sometimes when I am not in the mood I think choking is lame. You know what I think is even more lame..? Playing music while having sex.. INSTANT TURN OFF!

OMG RIGHT? like I never understood that. I find it completely distracting from the moment.

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Me three!

That's for the emotionally numb generation, those born with earphones attached to their skulls!

I want to hear screams and moans during sex, and I perfer to follow my own rhythm, tyvm!

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Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by Sag89
Posted by Geminivixenn
I like it rough from time to time, why not? 😛 Sometimes when I am not in the mood I think choking is lame. You know what I think is even more lame..? Playing music while having sex.. INSTANT TURN OFF!

OMG RIGHT? like I never understood that. I find it completely distracting from the moment.

Me three!

That's for the emotionally numb generation, those born with earphones attached to their skulls!

I want to hear screams and moans during sex, and I perfer to follow my own rhythm, tyvm!

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Yep! Wanna hear em'

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what?? i've never heard people not liking to play music during sex... it depends on the music though, for sure. not cheesy typical stuff like marvin gaye or electro or rap music. sensual stuff i think enhances things. and you can still hear all the moans and what not.... it's like a light lull in your ears... i like that 🙂

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ALSO. just thought of something. ever seen "in the realm of the senses"? it's a japanese erotic movie, primarily about sexual asphyxiation.. based on a true story about a crazy japanese lady. don't wanna ruin the movie for any inquiring minds... also non simulated sex scenes... escandolo!

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Posted by bloodflood
ALSO. just thought of something. ever seen "in the realm of the senses"? it's a japanese erotic movie, primarily about sexual asphyxiation.. based on a true story about a crazy japanese lady. don't wanna ruin the movie for any inquiring minds... also non simulated sex scenes... escandolo!

I don't wanna ruin the movie either, but I'm gonna ruin this thread by posting some filth from it *mwahah* 😄

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Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by bloodflood
ALSO. just thought of something. ever seen "in the realm of the senses"? it's a japanese erotic movie, primarily about sexual asphyxiation.. based on a true story about a crazy japanese lady. don't wanna ruin the movie for any inquiring minds... also non simulated sex scenes... escandolo!

I don't wanna ruin the movie either, but I'm gonna ruin this thread by posting some filth from it *mwahah* 😄

"I have to return some videotapes"
I could insert some clever gif or video to go along with that quote but I'm toooo lazy.

Also pretty sure video stores are basically extinct now.