Players with feelings

I don't understand if it is Europeans here or what but why is everyone talking about playing with each other feelings?

Playing is sociopathic quality. The world is a playground for them and they must win every time or die!

Why do you let people play with your feelings?

When I agree to relationships like that I am playing and I don't care about winning.

It is called life.

Why would I be a toy to anyone? Unless I am bored out of my mind and I rather do anything than continue to be bored.

But if you found someone you love - you just go build relationships and if this person mistreating you - that

is the end of it. If you agree to be mistreated and your mind to be twisted - you are dealing with sociopath!

And one answer is - RUN! Its in a books.

What normal person would enjoy others misery? And why almost every post has this word in it?

Are there really so many players and so many participant in the games they don't like?

Move to another table. Or shut up and swallow it!

I really have to not like you to get miserable though. Aqua moon isn't miserable and always waiting for the perfect opportunity to confront. Then if it's left along long enough and not talked about it . Then I guess they are proving they weren't that interested and I gotta move on. Because my earth doesn't give up easily.

So now it's actions. I wish people were mimes I would be able to pick it up and get a feeling on it. But nope some words are swifter and more charming than I even. Haha

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I really have to not like you to get miserable though. Aqua moon isn't miserable and always waiting for the perfect opportunity to confront. Then if it's left along long enough and not talked about it . Then I guess they are proving they weren't that interested and I gotta move on. Because my earth doesn't give up easily.

So now it's actions. I wish people were mimes I would be able to pick it up and get a feeling on it. But nope some words are swifter and more charming than I even. Haha

What had happened to the normal relationships guy meets girl. They like each other, dating, getting married.

No games, no nothing...

I don't get why this is aimed at Europeans?

No 90 day rule here..basically not any rules because it happens organically.

Naturally is better but you know I let instinct, mother earth last time on a guy it was great. AND then the lies and shit and no sex even though he sexy. So damn if you do or don't.

90 days is a very short time to get to know each other better. At least been on 3 dates the most. Then kick back see the actions. I'm patient I'm waiting.

Sociopaths & narcissists usually don't show up and announce that they're sociopaths and narcissists and ask if you want to be played lol They're usually actually very charming & likeable & it is only after the other person develops feelings & attachment that the bad side comes out. Then the person who is being played is confused, trying to figure out what happened because the "player" has the capability of being a good person, the played person attempts to get that "good" person back..... and then it becomes a game. Also sociopaths/narcissists are often attracted to empaths, because like vampires, they need to feed and empaths are pretty juicy when it comes to emotions lol Empaths feel the need to heal so it becomes a match made in hell.

My baby's father is an sociopath and narcissist. I noticed he use to get off on hurting me and degrading me. I don't want TO SEE NO CHARACTER SIMILARITIES OF HIM AND A NEW GUY I TALK TO. If I see it, or they make me feel like he did? I RUN—?? just no way I'm going through that Shit again. He was also hypocritical and judgemental, and thinks he better than me, and he never congratulates me on any achievements, and til this day he still tries to use me for sex. Like one of the most toxic man I have ever dealt with! And the relationship was dry and unfulfilling for me (they typically is dry and unfufilling which is why I dislike relationships).

I don't know why this is aimed at 'Europeans' either?

It fucks me off when well over 40 very different countries are all lumped in together as if we are one 'Borg'!

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I don't know why this is aimed at 'Europeans' either?

It fucks me off when well over 40 very different countries are all lumped in together as if we are one 'Borg'!

I had never seen word 'players' on USA boards.

This is why I had assumed it is an European thing.

That is all.

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Posted by Gemitati
I don't understand if it is Europeans here or what but why is everyone talking about playing with each other feelings?

Playing is sociopathic quality. The world is a playground for them and they must win every time or die!

Why do you let people play with your feelings?

When I agree to relationships like that I am playing and I don't care about winning.

It is called life.

Why would I be a toy to anyone? Unless I am bored out of my mind and I rather do anything than continue to be bored.

But if you found someone you love - you just go build relationships and if this person mistreating you - that

is the end of it. If you agree to be mistreated and your mind to be twisted - you are dealing with sociopath!

And one answer is - RUN! Its in a books.

What normal person would enjoy others misery? And why almost every post has this word in it?

Are there really so many players and so many participant in the games they don't like?

Move to another table. Or shut up and swallow it!

What exactly is the point of this thread?

We have two psychopaths running for president one of them is going to president. The world keeps spinning. I should add this though. Both heros and villains are psychopaths.

If you want to know if someone is a sociopath, you need to learn to ask the write questions.

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Thanks for your input.

Just FYI - we do not ask questions all the time.

Sometimes we vent in forums, sometimes we just talk out of our butts,

sometimes we do not make point, it is like when you watch TV you have

a choice to change the channel. Actually you always have a choice to

change the channel or hit previous button.

Live, learn, save your keyboard from wearing off!!! Relax. Have a drink.

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Posted by AgentP911
I don't know why this is aimed at 'Europeans' either?

It fucks me off when well over 40 very different countries are all lumped in together as if we are one 'Borg'!

I had never seen word 'players' on USA boards.

This is why I had assumed it is an European thing.

That is all.

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It's not really a UK thing. We just have wankers and arseholes. I always thought 'player'' was more of an American thing but only because I'd seen it on American boards. Written more as 'playa' which is not how the UK would write it. Same as 'gansta' which we also don't really use unless you're from a bigger city such as London, Birmingham, Manchester, and you're white skinned imitating your perception of USA black gangster people.

I can't really shed much light on your question.

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Posted by AgentP911
I don't know why this is aimed at 'Europeans' either?

It fucks me off when well over 40 very different countries are all lumped in together as if we are one 'Borg'!

I had never seen word 'players' on USA boards.

This is why I had assumed it is an European thing.

That is all.

It's not really a UK thing. We just have wankers and arseholes. I always thought 'player'' was more of an American thing but only because I'd seen it on American boards. Written more as 'playa' which is not how the UK would write it. Same as 'gansta' which we also don't really use unless you're from a bigger city such as London, Birmingham, Manchester, and you're white skinned imitating your perception of USA black gangster people.

I can't really shed much light on your question.

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I appreciate you had tried though...

I went on my regular serious US board with

players question. All I had got is 'definition of the player'

and this is not what you are talking here about.

Here everyone is 'played' when as a matter the fact it is 'just

people meet and fall in and out just because it is life!

Here players are everywhere and it is also depends on signs.

When in real iife any sign can be a player but it seems to me that

younger generations don't really know anything about relationships

or playing dumb victims.

Sad really. You have so many excuses for your own weeknesses and stupidity.

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Posted by AgentP911
I don't know why this is aimed at 'Europeans' either?

It fucks me off when well over 40 very different countries are all lumped in together as if we are one 'Borg'!

I had never seen word 'players' on USA boards.

This is why I had assumed it is an European thing.

That is all.

It's not really a UK thing. We just have wankers and arseholes. I always thought 'player'' was more of an American thing but only because I'd seen it on American boards. Written more as 'playa' which is not how the UK would write it. Same as 'gansta' which we also don't really use unless you're from a bigger city such as London, Birmingham, Manchester, and you're white skinned imitating your perception of USA black gangster people.

I can't really shed much light on your question.

I appreciate you had tried though...

I went on my regular serious US board with

players question. All I had got is 'definition of the player'

and this is not what you are talking here about.

Here everyone is 'played' when as a matter the fact it is 'just

people meet and fall in and out just because it is life!

Here players are everywhere and it is also depends on signs.

When in real iife any sign can be a player but it seems to me that

younger generations don't really know anything about relationships

or playing dumb victims.

Sad really. You have so many excuses for your own weeknesses and stupidity.

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I think players are more sociopathic. I think there's a difference between someone who sets out to manipulate or deceive another person, and who is comfortable with that. Then there's people who are either fake, don't give a shit about others, in the dating game just screwing about etc who like to pretend to be 'all knowing' but really they don't have a clue what they want of what they are doing. Not just in the young crowd either. I think the 'you've been played' is just a newer term for you've been conned or you've been had. Someone or something was not as you thought it would be.

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Posted by AgentP911
I don't know why this is aimed at 'Europeans' either?

It fucks me off when well over 40 very different countries are all lumped in together as if we are one 'Borg'!

I had never seen word 'players' on USA boards.

This is why I had assumed it is an European thing.

That is all.

It's not really a UK thing. We just have wankers and arseholes. I always thought 'player'' was more of an American thing but only because I'd seen it on American boards. Written more as 'playa' which is not how the UK would write it. Same as 'gansta' which we also don't really use unless you're from a bigger city such as London, Birmingham, Manchester, and you're white skinned imitating your perception of USA black gangster people.

I can't really shed much light on your question.

I appreciate you had tried though...

I went on my regular serious US board with

players question. All I had got is 'definition of the player'

and this is not what you are talking here about.

Here everyone is 'played' when as a matter the fact it is 'just

people meet and fall in and out just because it is life!

Here players are everywhere and it is also depends on signs.

When in real iife any sign can be a player but it seems to me that

younger generations don't really know anything about relationships

or playing dumb victims.

Sad really. You have so many excuses for your own weeknesses and stupidity.

I think players are more sociopathic. I think there's a difference between someone who sets out to manipulate or deceive another person, and who is comfortable with that. Then there's people who are either fake, don't give a shit about others, in the dating game just screwing about etc who like to pretend to be 'all knowing' but really they don't have a clue what they want of what they are doing. Not just in the young crowd either. I think the 'you've been played' is just a newer term for you've been conned or you've been had. Someone or something was not as you thought it would be.

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I would like to talk about it with you some ore because I did not really get your drift but I think you have something...I want to hear more. Thanks