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Relationship and control
+1 to what has already been said.
You shouldn't have had to even ask for him to not communicate with his ex out of respect for your feelings. The fact that he did told you everything you needed to know. It wasn't controlling at all and honestly you dodged a bullet.
You shouldn't have had to even ask for him to not communicate with his ex out of respect for your feelings. The fact that he did told you everything you needed to know. It wasn't controlling at all and honestly you dodged a bullet.
Wayment!
Homegirl attacked you at your job? You spent two weeks In the hospital? You still suffer from trauma from the incident? And your man is still friendly and sexting this bitch?!?!?!!!!!
How did she even know where you work?
Like how isn't he angry about her hurting you?
Homegirl attacked you at your job? You spent two weeks In the hospital? You still suffer from trauma from the incident? And your man is still friendly and sexting this bitch?!?!?!!!!!
How did she even know where you work?
Like how isn't he angry about her hurting you?
^^^^
And furthermore as a friend FIRST he should especially take what you say into the highest consideration. I'm sure you were a good friend to him since he obviously wanted you as his girlfriend too. I think you gotta rethink this whole relationship. I'm sure if he loses you he will think about how important his friendship with Emma really is. There's no reason for them to speak let alone be friends.
And furthermore as a friend FIRST he should especially take what you say into the highest consideration. I'm sure you were a good friend to him since he obviously wanted you as his girlfriend too. I think you gotta rethink this whole relationship. I'm sure if he loses you he will think about how important his friendship with Emma really is. There's no reason for them to speak let alone be friends.
Posted by bkbella86
Wayment!
Homegirl attacked you at your job? You spent two weeks In the hospital? You still suffer from trauma from the incident? And your man is still friendly and sexting this bitch?!?!?!!!!!
How did she even know where you work?
Like how isn't he angry about her hurting you?
Yeah, the guy's messed up. :/
Posted by bkbella86
Wayment!
Homegirl attacked you at your job? You spent two weeks In the hospital? You still suffer from trauma from the incident? And your man is still friendly and sexting this bitch?!?!?!!!!!
How did she even know where you work?
Like how isn't he angry about her hurting you?
+57829578357983
I was thinking the same thing. This guy's a fucking tool. The entire situation reeks of fuckery she should no longer tolerate.
Let him having his sexting, crazy hoe. The OP has better things to do than get scraps from this loser.
BK brought up a good point...how did she know where the OP worked?
You're an idiot, actually.
You have based everything on what he tells you. You don't know shit about his relationship with her except for what he tells you .... the only Emma knows is what he tells her.
so, both of you are ridiculous females who are acting/reacting in your life based on a guy playing you two.
Oh, I know, I know ... but, you lurves him and so therefore it's ok if you look like a douchebag with no values.
Posted by CappyGemmy
We had a best friend thing going on, but we always knew it was more, except we weren't ready. Both in denial.
And here it is ... you use the word "we" and actually believe that he feels the same way you do ... eventhough his actions show that the he doesn't feel the same as you.
From the very beginning, even before you were with him .... you believed that he felt the same way as you. And now, even as his actions have proven to you that he doesn't care about your feelings ... you still believe that he is worth something.
that means you have no rational gauge for measuring a person's worth, since you put so much stock in a player, and put yourself in denial to believe he is worth more.
this is the reason why these boys are able to continue ... because there are females like you out there giving them status.
You can't control him ... you can only control yourself .... and here you are telling yourself he's perfect for you, just after you told us he treats you like shit.
seriously ... all of this is your fault. You have the ability to do right by yourself for your own well being ... but, have chosen to be a douchebag and pine for a guy who doesn't care about you.
Stupid women like you are a dime a dozen out there ... and not really worth more status than douchebag.
Obviously, the OP doesn't have anything better to do than to await with bated breath for whatever scraps he decides to throw her way ... and she will likely honor those crumbs to high heaven, and act like he is everything in the world for giving her something.
Sad, really ..... that she is so fucking stupid.
Yes, break...up...with...him...now. Not only as a boyfriend, but as a best friend, he should NOT be friends with this girl. For the simple fact alone, that she attacked you and put you in the hospital for 2 weeks. By him remaining friends with you for that reason, and for how it makes you feel, it goes to show that he does not respect you as a friend or girlfriend. It's that black and white...there is NO grey here.
Posted by kindness
.... it goes to show that he does not respect you as a friend or girlfriend. It's that black and white...there is NO grey here.
I don't see any reason why he should have respect for her.
I see no reason why a guy should respect a chic who doesn't have enough integrity to respect herself. The lady will not only allow herself to want a guy like that, she encourages herself to believe it's acceptable to want a guy to treat her like shit.
there's no grey there, it's black and white = people will treat you the way you allow it
So, really, since she doesn't give a flying fuck about how she's treated ... why should he bother caring for someone who would disrespect herself like that?
"I don't see any reason why he should have respect for her."
I totally agree, his actions alone prove that. If people don't have respect for themselves, how do they expect it from anyone else? If people don't love themselves, how do they expect someone else to do so?
A lot of these postings, I too am guilty of it, refer to others people's actions, or lack thereof, as a reason they feel a certain way. What do I do? How could they?
The truth of the matter is, we shouldn't give people the power to make us feel a certain way. It is us who allow it, and that isn't "their" bad... it's ours (those who allow it).
By focusing on ourselves, loving ourselves, respecting ourselves, knowing what our worth is... this is where we need to focus our energy on.
I totally agree, his actions alone prove that. If people don't have respect for themselves, how do they expect it from anyone else? If people don't love themselves, how do they expect someone else to do so?
A lot of these postings, I too am guilty of it, refer to others people's actions, or lack thereof, as a reason they feel a certain way. What do I do? How could they?
The truth of the matter is, we shouldn't give people the power to make us feel a certain way. It is us who allow it, and that isn't "their" bad... it's ours (those who allow it).
By focusing on ourselves, loving ourselves, respecting ourselves, knowing what our worth is... this is where we need to focus our energy on.
Dude if she attacked you and he keeps his friendship with her, what does this tell you?
It tells you she can come back and fuck you up again and he won't bat an eyelash.
Do you need to get into hospital again to realize he's not by your side and never was? Forget as a lover, he's not into you as a friend also.
It tells you she can come back and fuck you up again and he won't bat an eyelash.
Do you need to get into hospital again to realize he's not by your side and never was? Forget as a lover, he's not into you as a friend also.
Posted by CappyGemmy
she got upset, she showed up at my work, she started a fight and she attacked me. Upset that my best friend/boyfriend ended the relationship with her to be with me.
Following the attack, I stayed in the hospital for 2 weeks.
Nice. Did you consider contacting the authorities? Probably not.
Your whole story smells like bullshit.
And probably is, considering Cappygemmy dumped the OP a week ago then disappeared.
Posted by P-Angel
Obviously, the OP doesn't have anything better to do than to await with bated breath for whatever scraps he decides to throw her way ... and she will likely honor those crumbs to high heaven, and act like he is everything in the world for giving her something.
Sad, really ..... that she is so fucking stupid.
Desperation and a lack of self respect will do that. I'm all good with it...one less asshole (guy)on the streets for decent women to weed through.
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Nevermind the SEXTING and then the lack of respect for your feelings and how the situation makes you feel.
....the sexting alone would be enough cause to ditch the guy. There's a reason he keeps bitches like her around, and he's already proven why.
What more is there to wonder? You aren't being controlling, but he's being absolutely disrespectful toward you and your relationship. Do something about it or don't complain.