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Second marriage
Posted by HippeeGem
I don’t think i’d ever get married again. Right now I just want to focus on my kids while they’re all still living with me. Time is fleeting. And you never know what can happen tomorrow.
I feel like since I got seperated and divorced, i’ve made a lot of impulsive decisions and started relationships and dated people who I knew either weren’t able to commit, or that I really wasn’t that into.
So I can’t imagine committing to marriage again at this point in my life.
But I’m all for being surprised and proved wrong.
So if he was right and your kids weren’t home you would get married again?
What for?
Posted by MothToFlame
No.
What would be the point?
That’s what I think...but @HippeeGem has a point as well. And hopefully she will be happy and married again.
I guess my point is that I would feel more secure being legally married but divorce feels crappy and I wouldn’t want to go trough this again.
And loose out on the alimony checks? No way 😂
Posted by LadyNeptune
And loose out on the alimony checks? No way 😂
You don’t have to worry...wait...you made more than him. So you will pay him! 🤦♀️
Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptune
And loose out on the alimony checks? No way 😂
You don’t have to worry...wait...you made more than him. So you will pay him! 🤦♀️click to expand
Would have to be stupid enough to marry without a prenup. And I don’t have a dick so that likelihood is slim to none 😆
Posted by LadyNeptune
And loose out on the alimony checks? No way 😂
People rarely get alimony anymore. In my state you have to be married for a min 10 years to even discuss it.
Posted by emeraldgem
Second marriages have a high divorce rate. I think I read somewhere that it was even higher than for the first ones.
If I were to marry again, divorce would not be an option. 'Til death do us part. Natural causes or murder/suicide.
Really? Nobody talking about divorces after second marriages. I am surprised. So...people learn NOTHING!?
Well...3 is the magic...any info in that? Lol
Posted by SeaLionPosted by LadyNeptune
And loose out on the alimony checks? No way 😂
People rarely get alimony anymore. In my state you have to be married for a min 10 years to even discuss it.click to expand
Well I’m assuming most on their way to second marriages are boomers and yeah plenty of them collecting their monthly alimony checks and waiting to pull that social security
Posted by SeaLionPosted by LadyNeptune
And loose out on the alimony checks? No way 😂
People rarely get alimony anymore. In my state you have to be married for a min 10 years to even discuss it.click to expand
Ok. Where are we moving? Into your state or out of it? It’s a thing to think about. 🤔
I don't see the point in getting married. Only reason I ever got married was cause I wanted children. If I knew then that I wasn't going to have any I would have never gotten married in the first place.
I cant say if I'd do it again. I have known ppl who have said that and they end up doing it.
I cant say if I'd do it again. I have known ppl who have said that and they end up doing it.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by SeaLionPosted by LadyNeptune
And loose out on the alimony checks? No way 😂
People rarely get alimony anymore. In my state you have to be married for a min 10 years to even discuss it.
Ok. Where are we moving? Into your state or out of it? It’s a thing to think about. 🤔click to expand
Depends if you are trying to avoid paying or wanting to get paid 😂
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SeaLionPosted by LadyNeptune
And loose out on the alimony checks? No way 😂
People rarely get alimony anymore. In my state you have to be married for a min 10 years to even discuss it.
Well I’m assuming most on their way to second marriages are boomers and yeah plenty of them collecting their monthly alimony checks and waiting to pull that social securityclick to expand
More like GenXers.... boomers are well into their 60s or older at this point.
If I hadn’t remarried, I’d not have my Shorty and I’d have never moved to Milwaukee. If I didn’t move here, I wouldn’t have met the Virgo and probably wouldn’t have a job I love.
Never say “never”, I say.
Never say “never”, I say.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by emeraldgem
Second marriages have a high divorce rate. I think I read somewhere that it was even higher than for the first ones.
If I were to marry again, divorce would not be an option. 'Til death do us part. Natural causes or murder/suicide.
Really? Nobody talking about divorces after second marriages. I am surprised. So...people learn NOTHING!?
Well...3 is the magic...any info in that? Lolclick to expand
Oh God, okay I've been married 3 times and the last one I married (Gemini) was because I couldn't imagine my life without him. If you're in love, do it.
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