Sex secrets =)

So ladies & gents, spill the beans! What are your sex secrets!—!

For those of you that have any special tricks or remedies, please share with us!

I'm not only talking about the physical & literal act of sex. I'm talking about oral sex or foreplay too =P

Here's my tip of the day: Ladies...absolutely use sex toys on your man when you're giving him head! You can use a cxck ring or vibrating ring--I'm telling you, he'll be SPRUNG!

Yoga & pilates are good excerises for women that have had children & that are experiencing a little "looseness" down there, if ya know what I mean! Doing so tightens up your vaginal walls & makes the sex better!

I've also heard that touching/foundling a man's balls while giving him oral sex OR while riding him takes him to new levels! It seems to work for me! It's the perfect spice/touch to make the sex/head that much better!

Guys: When you're giving the gals oral sex, rub her nipples while doing so! Show us how well you can multi-task dammit!

These are some of the things I've "heard" (coughs)

LADIES:
1. Wear boots/heels when giving head or having sex! Public isn't the only place where heels make us look more sexy! The bedroom is the perfect place for them, even if the lights are off.

2. Is rubbing/fondling a man's nipples really a turn on for them? (cough: so far it has been!)

3. When giving head, add some flavored stuff to the mix! Trust me, he won't be upset if you decide to make an "ice cream sundae" out of his slinger! Whipp cream & flavored lotions/creams/gels always do the trick!

4. Altoids during oral sex (on either gender) will make anyone receiving it sprung for life! I heard that using Peppermint or Spearmint flavors (vs. Cinnamon) will further stimulate their junk down there!

5. This is kind of old-school but hey, I've heard that it works. Get some "ALUM." It's seasoning that you can get in the grocery store; Mccormick (brand) makes it; it's used for vaginal tightening too! Put 1 tsp of it in your bath/tub water & soak in it for about 20 minutes. It'll instantly tighten you up & have you feeling like a VIRGIN every time. Not to mention, it lasts for about a week, no matter how many times you have sex! It's NOT for women who are extremely sensitive down there.

GUYS:

1. If you're going to use any kind of flavored lubricant or lotion/cream/gel, understand that some women are very sensitive down there. So make sure you use 1 that is unscented and/or sugar-free, that way you don't have to worry about her breaking out into a rash by morning!

2. Touching/foundling/rubbing our nipples is always a plus when you're giving us oral sex or when we're riding you =) Pleasure in more areas than 1 is always a bonus *WINK*

I've heard that men prefer to get "wet/slippery" head, meaning they like for women to make their mouths as wet as possible. Some women accomplish this by spitting on his slinger, some others may use a lubricant/massage oil & of course some women just prefer to constantly lick up & down the shaft too =) I've heard that the "SLURPING" sound is a GOOD sign that you're giving him head the "right way" lol lol

Lots of lovely hints there.

Something a bit less esoteric, but good, wear socks. Having your feet get cold can be rather distracting.

I also found that while performing oral sex on my female partner, that if I tickled her just outside her vagina lips it was quite pleasing. Also stroking and tickling from the inside of her thighs upward into the pubic hair area was something she found enjoyable.

The engorged vagina lips are quite tender. A bit of sucking and licking there was always a good thing. Being very gentle of course.

Fingers inside while tongue on the clitoris, especially as climax approached, was certainly the way to go.

Enough for right now, I, ah, I think I hear my mother calling me....

Her on top, sitting up straight, and rubbing her clitoris with your thumb/finger, or better yet, with a vibrator.

Hahaha! Wouldn't want your girlfriend to walk in on you typing the word "vaginal" into the computer! But hey, it's cool, I'd let you crash over at my place until you guys get back together!

Posted by dofacc
Fingers inside while tongue on the clitoris, especially as climax approached, was certainly the way to go.
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Yes yes yes! BINGO! Well, it feels great until you realize the guy has bear claws & 10" finger nails! Ouch!

I don't really have any secrets. Well... maybe my "secret" is I really tune in to my partner's needs, wants, likes, and dislikes. I dive in and go for it, see what their response is, and go from there. I don't really see this as exuding special knowledge though. I figure this is what most people do.

😕 Krys!!!
I thought you were a nice Christian girl.lol

LOL Yes, the one smiling in church. Often.

LOL

that sock thing is true though,trust a taurus or two.I don't hump in them,but like my feet warm.
I read women can't orgasm when their feet are cold,and I believe it.

but that's all the tips I'm comfortable sharing...😉

Sex secrets huh? Well, Im with ninjamu. I LOVE tuning into what my partner wants/needs. For me, I don't necessarily dive in (not at first anyways...lol) but I like taking the time to explore my partners body and learning about what gives them "goosebumps"

Also, an ice cube in the mouth before giving head and then blowing air with my lips on it tends to work 😛

Posted by BellatheBull
😕 Krys!!!
I thought you were a nice Christian girl.lol

Well I don't feel bad b/c I'm married so sinful fornication doesn't apply to me! YESSSSSS! I can freely talk AND have sex & yet not feel a tad bit of shame or guilt! HA!

And yes, I'm the 1st one at church & the 1 smiling the most throughout the whole service =P

Posted by BellatheBull
that sock thing is true though,trust a taurus or two.I don't hump in them,but like my feet warm.
I read women can't orgasm when their feet are cold,and I believe it.

Ugh! What's even worse is when someone's bear claws scratch you! If a man or woman's toenails aren't trimmed, houston we've got a problem!

Actually, I might have to disagree with the whole "cold feet" thing. I never sleep with socks on or wear them around the house b/c they make me too hot. The same applies in the bedroom during sex. I seem to orgasm just fine =X Tehe

I've heard that men can't orgasm at all if they're cold in any way, shape or form! Their slingers will easily go from 8" to 2" if they're cold! And oh man, the look of embarrassment on their faces when their slingers temporarily pass away is hilarious!

LOL Get it girl, nothing wrong with a little bounce in your stroll before you sit down.

Posted by krysrenee7

Posted by BellatheBull
that sock thing is true though,trust a taurus or two.I don't hump in them,but like my feet warm.
I read women can't orgasm when their feet are cold,and I believe it.

Ugh! What's even worse is when someone's bear claws scratch you! If a man or woman's toenails aren't trimmed, houston we've got a problem!

Actually, I might have to disagree with the whole "cold feet" thing. I never sleep with socks on or wear them around the house b/c they make me too hot. The same applies in the bedroom during sex. I seem to orgasm just fine =X Tehe

I've heard that men can't orgasm at all if they're cold in any way, shape or form! Their slingers will easily go from 8" to 2" if they're cold! And oh man, the look of embarrassment on their faces when their slingers temporarily pass away is hilarious!

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lol!

yeah,the bearclaws are a no no!

I don't like socks either,unless it's really cold. but during winter sex I try to keep them under the comforter if possible somehow.lol

LMAO! And don't you hate it when you're so warm under the covers in a cold house & yet your partner (in the midst of everything) snatches the blanket from you so that your bare ass or body part is exposed to the cold!!!!? It's like nooooooo!

I hate it when having "under the blanket" sex when all of the sudden 1 toe gets exposed to the cold air all b/c your partner (or yourself) can't keep the blanket under control! lol UGH! Having 1 thigh, buttcheek or big toe out in cold air (even if the rest of your body is still covered/warm) can ruin everything!!!!!

I reside alone, so I may write, or indeed speak the word vagina if I so chose. Indeed, I can use female genitalia or external sex organs if the mood so takes me.

Yes, the penis does indeed shrink when cold. Frost bite is a real problem (seriously). By withdrawing up to, and into the body when cold, the penis is protected from serious injury from the cold.
Laugh if you will, but where do you think the old saw of "Once (frost) bitten" came from?

And I had rather assumed adequate personal hygiene when speaking of the delicate nature of use of the fingers.

Posted by dofacc
I reside alone, so I may write, or indeed speak the word vagina if I so chose. Indeed, I can use female genitalia or external sex organs if the mood so takes me.

It was a joke! As in haha-hehe lol!

And I know your answer was given with the assumption that the other person had good hygiene, but I couldn't help but to think about this 1 time when I woke up the next morning with Freddy Kruger scratches on my leg from this 1 guy I used to be with! His toenails were so long & omg I just find it highly coincidental that our feet only met during sex! Those "claws" never came out until we were in the moment of having mad passionate sex! HA! And he wondered why I could never cum! It wasn't that he wasn't good---or he was excellent in bed, but damn it, those damn toenails always ruined everything!!!!! Smh smh

lol thanks for the chuckles.... oh that hygene thing is by far the most important factor in tips for sexiness.I am well maintained from top o my head to well polished and manicured toenails>. from tarter scraping my teeth, flossing once a day , cleaning inside of ears, plucking eyebrows .keeping trimmed , shaving legs, toenails and hands well maintained and i expect the very same concern from my lover as well . please people (guys) keep it pristine

lol lol so I think we'll add "Listerine breath" to our list of sex secrets!!!

Oh hell, guys & gals that do NOT have good hygiene, just go get listerine-flavored perfume/cologne! That'll do the trick!

Not me. I'm low maintenance and don't want a polished man. I like them a little scruffy. When my guy comes home sweaty and musky from working hard in the sun...oh MAN that's hot! 🙂

No nasty, gnarly toenails, though! Yuck! And tooth brushing away the morning breath is a great thing!

I was responding to rocktressa, but- yeah!- Listerine!

Hahahahaha! I wouldn't mind getting the raw uncut version of my man if he just got home from the gym. But even then, I've noticed that even the men who work out for a few hours might STILL touch up a little with cologne or some kind of breath mint or spray! But literal funk is NEVER sexy! lol lol Body odor is not a turn on at all, even if I love you to pieces! Some chicks make their partners get in the shower and/or get spotless clean before they allow their guys to touch them. Perhaps they should loosen up a bit but then again, hey if you think about it, even the most sweatless person might end up being just as sweaty AFTER the sex anyways! So you're gonna be exposed to sweat or funk regardless anyways!

Socks—?? are you guys for real! One of the biggest no-no's is men wearing socks. Theres is nothing more unattractive then a naked guy with socks on. Maybe its a UK thing but whenever a girl is saying how bad a guy was in bed its an ongoing joke to say "bet he left his socks on too!" lol

hmmm sex secrets, well not going to give them all away but no matter what a guy says, his G-spot is up his ass and though I have more than a few times almost been punched in the face initially for doing it during oral, all the guys admitted after that it felt amazing.

LMAO LMAO LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by libra sun
Socks—?? are you guys for real! One of the biggest no-no's is men wearing socks. Theres is nothing more unattractive then a naked guy with socks on. Maybe its a UK thing but whenever a girl is saying how bad a guy was in bed its an ongoing joke to say "bet he left his socks on too!" lol

hmmm sex secrets, well not going to give them all away but no matter what a guy says, his G-spot is up his ass and though I have more than a few times almost been punched in the face initially for doing it during oral, all the guys admitted after that it felt amazing.

NO SOCKS HERE EITHER. Oh my goodness, I find them distracting. It's like... you're naked... take those socks off.

Hmmm secrets? Well, no matter how many men seem to clench up in fear at the thought of teeth, some of the guys I've been with seem to really enjoy when I just lightly scape my teeth along their shaft. Not like hard, just a nice, light touch. Also, pay close attention to the head.

It seems that the guys I've been with also like it when I nibble or lick their ear. And sucking on necks is not just for girls. I love to nibble on guys' necks; it just drives them crazy.

Posted by Candeh15

Posted by libra sun
Socks—?? are you guys for real! One of the biggest no-no's is men wearing socks. Theres is nothing more unattractive then a naked guy with socks on. Maybe its a UK thing but whenever a girl is saying how bad a guy was in bed its an ongoing joke to say "bet he left his socks on too!" lol

hmmm sex secrets, well not going to give them all away but no matter what a guy says, his G-spot is up his ass and though I have more than a few times almost been punched in the face initially for doing it during oral, all the guys admitted after that it felt amazing.

NO SOCKS HERE EITHER. Oh my goodness, I find them distracting. It's like... you're naked... take those socks off.

Hmmm secrets? Well, no matter how many men seem to clench up in fear at the thought of teeth, some of the guys I've been with seem to really enjoy when I just lightly scape my teeth along their shaft. Not like hard, just a nice, light touch. Also, pay close attention to the head.

It seems that the guys I've been with also like it when I nibble or lick their ear. And sucking on necks is not just for girls. I love to nibble on guys' necks; it just drives them crazy.

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Hmmm, it's even better when you're with a guy whose automatically expecting to do all the work b/c when a woman comes in & does the things that men usually do, it catches him off guard & makes him sprung even harder! This 1 guy I used to date was always the only 1 who did the neck kissing. Well, when I came along & started kissing him on his neck, he was so in shock & almost felt relieved that finally!, a woman was willing to do the same things to please him that he's always been the only 1 doing the whole time! (wink)

That's why I find it incredibly useful to ask a man what he's never done, what he's always wanted to do or what his main complaints are sexually in reference to other women he's dated in the past! And if they mention to you something that they've always wanted & yet it's something that you regularly do OR are atleast down to do, that makes things even more spicy & better!!!

lol,you guys and the socks.

it would be unattractive tho.

Ropes, chains, blindofld, a bucket full of chocolate sauce to pour over his head and plenty of threatening, yet dirrrty sex talk.

Posted by dofacc
Lots of lovely hints there.

Something a bit less esoteric, but good, wear socks. Having your feet get cold can be rather distracting.

HUGE TURNOFF!!! lazy bastard.

Fingers inside while tongue on the clitoris, especially as climax approached, was certainly the way to go.

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HUGE TURNOFF!!!

i can't stand it.

one, your nails might be too long.

two, your nails might be dirty...UGH! i hate you.

and reading more of the thread, maybe the no socks is a black chick thing—

eh...

I find nude guys with socks on hilarious! So, if he wants to appear serious and sexy, he should probably take them off!

omg

ATTENTION: do not use an altoid, peppermint, or spearmint when giving oral.

fuck. that. nonsense.

It burnsssssssss & it's not a good burn. Please take my word for it. Do not try that at home/

Black men are NEVER sockless haha

"So no, pleasure sexually is not non-christian. And, I'll add if some religious person says otherwise, send them to me"

HA! You said it best!

We're all human, & whether we're Christian or not doesn't change the fact that we all have needs, and/or that we know a few tricks or 2 in the bedroom! Hell if anything, the bible thumpers are the most freakiest!

Posted by brianafay
omg

ATTENTION: do not use an altoid, peppermint, or spearmint when giving oral.

fuck. that. nonsense.

It burnsssssssss & it's not a good burn. Please take my word for it. Do not try that at home/

Weird. I've never had any bad experiences with it. Of course I've always used it on men, but I've got nothing but thumbs up for it! Hmmm, I guess everybody's experiences are different. Plus, levels of sensitivity on certain private parts differ too

Posted by aPiscesPrincess
I love to squeezed my muscles inside tightly (not just during orgasm, but on 'demand').. he loved feeling that too, but sometimes he would tell me to stop squeezing because it always made him cum too quick lol!

Ha! Very true! The "Squeezing" technique works like a charm every time! Their moaning always escalates up a notch when you do that!

"To: BellatheBull where you commented on krysrenee7 saying, "I thought you were a nice Christian girl. LOL"

Had to laugh at your statement. Glad it was written 'tongue-n-cheek', as laughter requires some truth too truly be funny.
I'd have to say, most people think most true christians are up tight. Honestly, I've found most 'religious' people (any denomination, christian, buddhist and arab) up tight.
Honestly, God designed us to have pleasure in each others bodies, (just with a few guidelines). So we can avoid the pitfall I've read about on these threads (and have fallen into myself). So no, pleasure sexually is not non-christian. And, I'll add if some religious person says otherwise, send them to me!"

Ha ha...yeah I am Christian,and like Krys far from uptight.God gave us sensation for a reason 🙂within those guidlines you mention.
I don't really fit in with a lot of Christians :/ but there are those of us who don't,I just wish people on the outside wouldn't lump us all together and see Christianity the way they do...uptight and judgmental.

So you're trapped in a blizzard and you're about to have sex with your lover...and you have to take your socks off?

Fuck.

^ LOL I would say no, keep the socks so you don't freeze.

Signed,

Practical

I spend a lot of time studying the man I am having a relationship with.

Just as all women do not masturbate in the same way neither do men. I like to ask them to let me watch and while I am studying them I tend to say things to um help but not actually touch them. This helps oral a great deal. When I met my current partner during our presex conversations he told me that he had never had an orgasm from oral sex alone and when I watched him masturbate I knew why so instead of the standard sort of up down thing I instead positioned myself so my butt was kind of facing him, used my hands as a support and worked in more of a twirling motion.

It took me 45 mins the first time but he did offer me the keys to his car and propose marriage afterward so I suppose I did an okay job.

In my experiences I have also found that many women don't know what to do in missionary so it's best to try and think of him almost like you would if you were alone and he was your hand. Move in the same sort of way almost.

Don't be afraid of experimentation. Address why something seems out of bounds for you. Have sex outside, have sex in the backseat of the car, have sex on a hotel balcony - as long as no children or law enforcement officials around experiment.

Laugh! Have a good time, tackle each other, wrestle around some, make your neighbors think you're moving furniture. Don't worry too much about how you look because if someone is having sex with you they obviously find you attractive.

Communicate with your partner and tell them what feels good and what you want them to do.

Send dirty texts/pictures in the middle of the day.

Invest in a 10 dollar vibrating egg that you can use alone or with your partner.

Invite sex, think sex, allow yourself to feel full attraction to your partner and every part of their body.

Wait a minute...pump the brakes! I have never heard of the alum in the bathtub trick! Does it really work?? Lol. If so, that might put kagels out of business. Lmao.

Only thing I can think to add to all this is ladies, go ride horses. Cowgirls have the tighest pussys because we use those muscles to ride. 😉

Alum is used often in homemade pickle making. Just so you know. *tapping side of nose*

LMAO They wouldn't know that you've got the rest of the ingredients *cough* at home.