Should I be worried about this Libra guy? (Page 2)

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Of course you're wary. These guys move too fast and they take off just as fast.

YOU need to take control in how fast any of this moves. You keep it at the pace you want to keep it. If you allow it to go as fast as he wants, this will fizzle out faster than you realize.

They ARE known for serial dating if they aren't really ready to settle down. The immature ones who aren't ready to settle down can easily pull this crap with several women in a short time frame. It's disheartening if you get involved with one of those.

Yeah, I feel like he is immature, and in his late 20's...no thanks. We do not communicate anymore, and I quite like it. I just think he could not handle someone being busy.

Posted by notafollower
I have a Libra friend who is so sweet and loving - we are always joking around & when were just having a good time , we are both so into eachother, however i needed time to think about persuing a relationship w him & he was mad i guess. Started posting pics w another female on social media to get back at me.
He came begging for me to forgive him - but i was never able to forget. So though its a blast when tnings are good , chances are you wont really understand eachother when youre upset - theyre kinda selfish tbh & a narcissist too. But overall , w their flaws and all, i think theyre one of the best matches for a Cancer (as long as theyre honest)

Really? I thought Cancers were their worst match...yeah something was off putting. And oh yikes at what that one Libra did to you- what a moron!

Posted by CG04

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Of course you're wary. These guys move too fast and they take off just as fast.

YOU need to take control in how fast any of this moves. You keep it at the pace you want to keep it. If you allow it to go as fast as he wants, this will fizzle out faster than you realize.

They ARE known for serial dating if they aren't really ready to settle down. The immature ones who aren't ready to settle down can easily pull this crap with several women in a short time frame. It's disheartening if you get involved with one of those.

Yeah, I feel like he is immature, and in his late 20's...no thanks. We do not communicate anymore, and I quite like it. I just think he could not handle someone being busy.

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Guys like him are so not worth the time then. Like I said, I dealt with one like that. It never changed, only got worse. I got tired of feeling like a commodity to the dude. Male or female, someone should never make you feel like that with that kind of treatment. If they do, it's time to kick them to the curb.

Posted by CG04

Posted by notafollower
I have a Libra friend who is so sweet and loving - we are always joking around & when were just having a good time , we are both so into eachother, however i needed time to think about persuing a relationship w him & he was mad i guess. Started posting pics w another female on social media to get back at me.
He came begging for me to forgive him - but i was never able to forget. So though its a blast when tnings are good , chances are you wont really understand eachother when youre upset - theyre kinda selfish tbh & a narcissist too. But overall , w their flaws and all, i think theyre one of the best matches for a Cancer (as long as theyre honest)

Really? I thought Cancers were their worst match...yeah something was off putting. And oh yikes at what that one Libra did to you- what a moron!

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They really aren't an ideal match for Libras. You have uber emotional Cancer who clings on and you have airy, detached Libra who can't be smothered or they float away.

She seems a tad too optimistic. Not to say it will never work, but it's considered a "challenging" match.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by CG04

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Of course you're wary. These guys move too fast and they take off just as fast.

YOU need to take control in how fast any of this moves. You keep it at the pace you want to keep it. If you allow it to go as fast as he wants, this will fizzle out faster than you realize.

They ARE known for serial dating if they aren't really ready to settle down. The immature ones who aren't ready to settle down can easily pull this crap with several women in a short time frame. It's disheartening if you get involved with one of those.

Yeah, I feel like he is immature, and in his late 20's...no thanks. We do not communicate anymore, and I quite like it. I just think he could not handle someone being busy.

Guys like him are so not worth the time then. Like I said, I dealt with one like that. It never changed, only got worse. I got tired of feeling like a commodity to the dude. Male or female, someone should never make you feel like that with that kind of treatment. If they do, it's time to kick them to the curb.

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Yup! And yup! I just like people who are honest, I am honest, yeah I have a hard time committing but I tell people these things- I do not dissapear into thin air...maybe it's the new age tech phenomenon and ghosting, but I just think everyone deserves some kind of explanation.