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This topic was created in the Relationships forum by leooox on Saturday, August 31, 2019 and has 8 replies.

Can Women Achieve Their Goals Through Crying

Crying can sometimes influence others' responses, but it is not a reliable method for women to achieve goals. Men may respond differently based on individual attitudes, but emotional expression alone is rarely a strategic tool for success. Understanding emotional dynamics is complex and varies across situations and relationships.

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@leooox
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Do women get what they want through crying (either manipulative crying or just crying because sad) ? Do men do whatever they can to stop a woman from crying or does it simply not matter to you ( if you are a man). discuss

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Posted by leooox

Do women get what they want through crying (either manipulative crying or just crying because sad) ? Do men do whatever they can to stop a woman from crying or does it simply not matter to you unless they matter to you. discuss

I thought it’s working until Aries. It doesn’t. He just says ‘I am not going to kiss your ass!!!’ and putting on a video he made where it says ‘spoiled child’ non stop...until I am leaving the room or something...

Or if I am crying and staring at him he said

You have that 15th century Eastern European look and you don’t break a gaze...even in 39 min I look at you and you still have that stare...and I feel I better do what she wants because I am not ready to die...

But it’s bulshit because he agreeing with me and keep doing his stuff...🤦‍♀️

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Posted by leooox

Do women get what they want through crying (either manipulative crying or just crying because sad) ? Do men do whatever they can to stop a woman from crying or does it simply not matter to you ( if you are a man). discuss

My sister does alot. I haven't really ever cried to be manipulative. If I cry it's genuine.

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11 Years10,000+ Posts

I don't really give people what they want through crying. A few times I'll be like "There, there." And be a shoulder to cry on. Then eventually I'll see its just an act, and be like "Bitch, just get over it already. " Truthfully I'm never that blunt though. Even once I see it's just an act I tend to just get more withdrawn from them when it happens. I'll get to a point where I just keep doing what I'm doing, let them have their moment, and add little to no input.

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@applecherrypie
7 Years

Ugh I hate women who cry to manipulate situations and make themselves out to always be victims. Certain women are very guilty of this because their parents never mf taught them accountability and society will coddle them. Please! Parents, if your kid starts crying because they did something bad which hurt another kid, make sure you confront them and remind them they are not the real victims. It's a freaking hard habit to break for some adult women. 🙄

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by GobbyDo women get what they want through crying (either manipulative crying or just crying because sad)?

Mostly, yes, but there are some who are genuinely emotional.Do men do whatever they can to stop a woman from crying or does it simply not matter to you?

Depends on the situation. If I sense it's manipulative, I'll just stare at them (sometimes smirking inside because I know what they're up to).

That's probably one of the reasons why Cap men often get a bad rap...

No, it’s not why...👯‍♀️

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by applecherrypie

Ugh I hate women who cry to manipulate situations and make themselves out to always be victims. Certain women are very guilty of this because their parents never mf taught them accountability and society will coddle them. Please! Parents, if your kid starts crying because they did something bad which hurt another kid, make sure you confront them and remind them they are not the real victims. It's a freaking hard habit to break for some adult women. 🙄

Can we take this to every parent foreheads?

Please! Parents, if your kid starts crying because they did something bad which hurt another kid, make sure you confront them and remind them they are not the real victims.

👍👍👍

😂😂😂

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9 Years5,000+ Posts

I always tired my hardest to NEVER EVER cry in front of people especially men.

But then one of my ex was with me during the hardest times of my life and we would argue like crazy. I couldn't hold it in anymore and I cried then he completely changed and was super sweet to me... at least for the day.

So might do it more often now.