The date is set :August 2012.

A huge part of me was holding it at bay. Its every girls dream day...but for me,I had to be sure,after countless posts.
Mulling things over with my mom,friends and also my aries. I finally made my mind up.
Now my mom and friends think its the best decision and I do too.
So why, do I get this nagging feeling??.

Sounds epic ... sad that this grand announcement comes to dxp for approval and support.


The fact that you build it up without revealing it .. means you just want attention.

Posted by dancer23

Posted by FemmeScorpion
A huge part of me was holding it at bay. Its every girls dream day...but for me,I had to be sure,after countless posts.
Mulling things over with my mom,friends and also my aries. I finally made my mind up.
Now my mom and friends think its the best decision and I do too.
So why, do I get this nagging feeling??.

Idk, but you should figure out what it means. A nagging feeling about being committed to someone for the rest of your life is not a good sign going in. Good luck. :-)

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Thank you.

Are people suppose to care?

Posted by everevolvingepithet
That Libra might ?

Hahahaha🙂
I might pm you the email i got from him sunday.
Tutu...🙂

Alot of people get that "cold feet" feeling. It's natural. Actually, I think alot of marriages would last longer (OR not happen in the 1st place) if more people would start being real with themselves.

There is NOTHING wrong with sitting yourself down & evaluating every little thing before stepping before God to make the ultimate commitment. As a matter of fact, I don't see how people DON'T do this! I mean getting married is only the biggest decision of your entire life, especially considering the goal is to end up with someone forever.

Hopefully your nagging is coming from a place within you that considers thinking things thoroughly through will only end up helping the relationship VS. this coming from a place of insecurity or the fear of commitment. Either way, you owe it to yourself AND your partner to make sure that if you're gonna do this marriage thing, that you should be doing it for the RIGHT reasons & that you should feel you're marrying the RIGHT person.

But then again be careful. Don't over-analyze things so much so that you actually end up fearing something that doesn't exist. I say that considering that trust, comfortability & faith are some of the main ingredients to a healthy relationship. Without those things, not only should the relationship cease or be in question BUT you damn sure shouldn't get married w/o those ingredients

You're going to marry the Aries?

Hahahahahahahahahahahaha


*deep breath*





Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah

Wow, I needed that. Thanks.

Taking bets on how long it lasts! I give it one year, anyone else want in on this? Maybe he is just as fucked up and she is and they'll both play games and be miserable together forever. Does your Libra get to be the best man? Maybe the ring bearer? Oooo, he should cater the bar! How about his aqua brother... DJ?



The nagging feeling you're having is because your relationship is a joke and you know it.

Oh, I get it now .. I wasn't following because well ... it's her, so why should I ... anyway, when Bling said the Libra might, I was lost.


Right .... so, now I get why she was throwing a fit about people not taking her seriously.




::::: yawns ::::::

Posted by FemmeScorpion
A huge part of me was holding it at bay. Its every girls dream day...but for me,I had to be sure,after countless posts.
Mulling things over with my mom,friends and also my aries. I finally made my mind up.
Now my mom and friends think its the best decision and I do too.
So why, do I get this nagging feeling??.

Hi! I don't know you but I read your post. If I may be so bold....

When I married my Leo ex-husband, well let me start back... when he propsed I was 5000% in love. I was happy, had my ring, everything.

We divorced.... obviously.

That nagging feeling you have-- let yourself feel it. I had one too but I was wrapped up in all the fun planning, the dress, the drama, I loved him so I assumed the nagging would stop-- and it did-- for a while.

I do not know about you-- in my case the nagging was-- I was not ready to get married. I SO should have waited.

IMHO, when you get married-- you should be so in love-- it's that love that will make you or break you when the hard times come-- and they will.

Pretend your relationship is a house. The most stable part is the foundation. Look at your foundation. Is there cracks? meaning do you two have issues? Is there enough room to build up? Meaning do you see yourself in love with him in 50 years or trapped to him in 50 years?

In my case I got married and had children-- one of whom is Autistic-- and that plus money issues from medical costs-- whew! We needed a better foundation to make it. We didnt have that.

If you sit back and look at your foundation-- and there is no cracks or leaks-- you'll be just fine. Then all you're feeling is normal jitters.

Think about it! It's a HUGE JUMP! You should be nervous! ..lol..

Sweetie- if you have a good base-- meaning strong, deep love-- then you'll be able to ride the waves just fine when they come and THAT is what will keep you together. Love.

G'night & Congradts!!!!!!
Enjoy it.

OMG that poor Aries man. 😢

Posted by TasteOfChaos

P - this bitch has been sweating her vagina all over the Libra board for months obsessing over this bartender guy who is ALSO in a relationship! She couldn't get the Libra so she turned her attention onto his Aqua brother... for revenge maybe? I guess they both didn't want her so she has now settled with the Aries....

Bitch is whack!

I'm literally laughing out loud .. my dogs are now staring at me !!!!!

Posted by krysrenee7
Alot of people get that "cold feet" feeling. It's natural. Actually, I think alot of marriages would last longer (OR not happen in the 1st place) if more people would start being real with themselves.

There is NOTHING wrong with sitting yourself down & evaluating every little thing before stepping before God to make the ultimate commitment. As a matter of fact, I don't see how people DON'T do this! I mean getting married is only the biggest decision of your entire life, especially considering the goal is to end up with someone forever.

Hopefully your nagging is coming from a place within you that considers thinking things thoroughly through will only end up helping the relationship VS. this coming from a place of insecurity or the fear of commitment. Either way, you owe it to yourself AND your partner to make sure that if you're gonna do this marriage thing, that you should be doing it for the RIGHT reasons & that you should feel you're marrying the RIGHT person.

But then again be careful. Don't over-analyze things so much so that you actually end up fearing something that doesn't exist. I say that considering that trust, comfortability & faith are some of the main ingredients to a healthy relationship. Without those things, not only should the relationship cease or be in question BUT you damn sure shouldn't get married w/o those ingredients

Very good advice. Thank you K.🙂

Posted by prettymoonlight2

Posted by FemmeScorpion
A huge part of me was holding it at bay. Its every girls dream day...but for me,I had to be sure,after countless posts.
Mulling things over with my mom,friends and also my aries. I finally made my mind up.
Now my mom and friends think its the best decision and I do too.
So why, do I get this nagging feeling??.

Hi! I don't know you but I read your post. If I may be so bold....

When I married my Leo ex-husband, well let me start back... when he propsed I was 5000% in love. I was happy, had my ring, everything.

We divorced.... obviously.

That nagging feeling you have-- let yourself feel it. I had one too but I was wrapped up in all the fun planning, the dress, the drama, I loved him so I assumed the nagging would stop-- and it did-- for a while.

I do not know about you-- in my case the nagging was-- I was not ready to get married. I SO should have waited.

IMHO, when you get married-- you should be so in love-- it's that love that will make you or break you when the hard times come-- and they will.

Pretend your relationship is a house. The most stable part is the foundation. Look at your foundation. Is there cracks? meaning do you two have issues? Is there enough room to build up? Meaning do you see yourself in love with him in 50 years or trapped to him in 50 years?

In my case I got married and had children-- one of whom is Autistic-- and that plus money issues from medical costs-- whew! We needed a better foundation to make it. We didnt have that.

If you sit back and look at your foundation-- and there is no cracks or leaks-- you'll be just fine. Then all you're feeling is normal jitters.

Think about it! It's a HUGE JUMP! You should be nervous! ..lol..

Sweetie- if you have a good base-- meaning strong, deep love-- then you'll be able to ride the waves just fine when they come and THAT is what will keep you together. Love.

G'night & Congradts!!!!!!
Enjoy it.

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Thanks for sharing your experience and for your very useful advice.🙂