FlyingBurritos80
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What Is So Attractive...
See this is the funny part about it Eden. I consider myself to be kind of fugly. I have spikey blonde hair, pale, and trim with no muscular build. My assumption has always been really attractive women go for either tall dark and Johnny Depp, or lot of cash like hugh hefner.
I am always blown away when a hot girl finds me attractive. Sometimes I scratch my head especially when a girls boyfriend looks like a male model. The only thing I figure is once a girl sees my laidback, fun personality maybe that hooks her. I used to think that old line I like guys who arefunny from hot girls was just a line of crap because they felt sorry for those who arent packing a six pack. Maybe it is not.
I think it is better my friend find out for himself. Because men are rather easily manipulated by women. If I told him, chances are she is going to turn it around and say I hit on her. He'll believe her of course cause he is dating her. I am going to keep my distance from him. Not respond to his email. Maybe he'll catch on that something is wrong.
Otherwise in most situations as long as I dont know the guy and there is no kids, no problems hooking up with a taken girl. You gotta understand I live in a college city. Not a professional metropolitan type place. A majority of the people who live here have time for relationships.
Which means finding someone who is attractive and single a lot harder. The only single women that come my way are out of towners. I pretty much resigned myself to the fact the only attractive women I will draw are the taken ones. It has been this way for a long time. I dont expect it will change all of a sudden. Unless I can move the hell out of here. Which is a huge long shot considering the state of the economy.
I am always blown away when a hot girl finds me attractive. Sometimes I scratch my head especially when a girls boyfriend looks like a male model. The only thing I figure is once a girl sees my laidback, fun personality maybe that hooks her. I used to think that old line I like guys who arefunny from hot girls was just a line of crap because they felt sorry for those who arent packing a six pack. Maybe it is not.
I think it is better my friend find out for himself. Because men are rather easily manipulated by women. If I told him, chances are she is going to turn it around and say I hit on her. He'll believe her of course cause he is dating her. I am going to keep my distance from him. Not respond to his email. Maybe he'll catch on that something is wrong.
Otherwise in most situations as long as I dont know the guy and there is no kids, no problems hooking up with a taken girl. You gotta understand I live in a college city. Not a professional metropolitan type place. A majority of the people who live here have time for relationships.
Which means finding someone who is attractive and single a lot harder. The only single women that come my way are out of towners. I pretty much resigned myself to the fact the only attractive women I will draw are the taken ones. It has been this way for a long time. I dont expect it will change all of a sudden. Unless I can move the hell out of here. Which is a huge long shot considering the state of the economy.
"Do you think just having a fun carefree attitude about being single is what piques women's interest? Like it is a challenge for them since the guy appears to be independant?"
I wouldn't think so ... I think these kind of women are simply looking for the 20% missing in their relationship and this is You. You're simply the perfect 20% . I believe if they were single, they probably wouldn't go for you. They already have 80% which should be enough to make them happy but risk it looking for a missing 20% , which is not too wise to my opinion. Don't go out believing that there is something special about you that attracting these women. It has more to do with the type of women they are, the type of man you are or the position that you're in. If you were the full package, they would want to trade you with what they have and not add you to what they have.
I wouldn't think so ... I think these kind of women are simply looking for the 20% missing in their relationship and this is You. You're simply the perfect 20% . I believe if they were single, they probably wouldn't go for you. They already have 80% which should be enough to make them happy but risk it looking for a missing 20% , which is not too wise to my opinion. Don't go out believing that there is something special about you that attracting these women. It has more to do with the type of women they are, the type of man you are or the position that you're in. If you were the full package, they would want to trade you with what they have and not add you to what they have.
Nothing is attractive about that...
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Do you think just having a fun carefree attitude about being single is what piques women's interest? Like it is a challenge for them since the guy appears to be independant?