which relationship in your life affected you more

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Ssasy
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Had my daughter with an older guy.
As soon as she was conceived, things changed....as soon as she was born he dissapeard. Since then Ive landed my own place, going for my graduate degree, my own car, and a very great Job.
If it wasnt for HIS selfishness and Absence I wouldnt be soo Independent.
Following his departure I was in a relationship where I did everything that helped me learn to really go for WHAT I want. NOt lowerring my standards because the person is fun...or nice. But realizing I have alot to loose and will also like to gain as well.