people I am in a choice between two kinds of girls

help me.I know and love a girl but her face and body are average not so beautiful.I have a friend telling me that in university I will find many beautiful girls and I would wish I could be with them,but I love the girl I know now although she is average but I see her beautiful and I love her.what do think is good to still in the relation or to go in university and see my luck with pretty girls. Note:I Am not the guy who girls run at him and I don't enough experience in communicating with girls and I can't have a girl impressed from me easily at all. it happens for me once in a lifetime.
Thanks for reading.

If you have to wonder about this and come here to ask this question... You are sadly mistaken if you think you are in love.

no am here because I need to know which is better for me

Your not inlove with her as you say you are or this question would not of been a thought. Just go as a single man, so you don't end up breaking this girl's "average " heart.

I would just break up and meet some new ppl girls included n university. U could meet ur wife there 🙂

I will not ever break her heart I love her really and even if I not I will not break with her my principals is against that

by the way am a virgo and she is a capricorn

Posted by abdoolly
no am here because I need to know which is better for me

Better for you, according to who?
People on the internet who don't know you?
Your friends, who are not living your life?

Go with what you know about yourself. Life is one long long long learning experience. Spend your time with this woman, until you find for yourself, it is time to move on. Statistically speaking, this relationship will eventually end. But, then again, you are not a statistic.

i understand where your coming from in any and every situation people need a mediator or someone to make you have your first epiphany for say. I say go with it don't let people make you think your confused about the love you have for her maybe your confused or maybe you fear the fact of taking this next step with her as you go away. ive always been a guy that had luck with girls because im never afraid of rejection it happens it hurts and my friend I can tell you looks dont matter as much to a female as they say its all about the concept of being a man. ive seen many couples and ask why the hell is she with him. there are things youll never know until you try. the prettiest girls do the ugliest things my friends always expect me to have a top notch girl because how successful I am me being really fit good at sports and so on. but I told them id rather take an average girl above a girl for looks because at the end of the day every real man gets tired of dealing with "very very very attractive girl" because theyre not sound. cant do what a woman is on earth for. nurturing, cooking, cleaning and making sure her man is satisfied if you have that stop looking for more. just like on the movie wall street money never sleeps "is greed good" take that quote and apply it to your life if you do decide to leave her "based on her looks" that means you have your insecurities as well. maybe you feed into what people think. just the other day I walked into a place I hangout at called the hooka lounge on a Friday night with a blonde chick that on a scale id give her a 7 but let me tell you why I thought she was a 10 to myself and friends. so there were a group of girls and one guy who I know say why are you with her id seen you do better you shouldn't be here with her. so I laughed walked away asked other people what they think just to see where there heads were at. I asked my a group of close friends that went out me and the girl before we showed up there at the end of the night what did they think they all said this " forget what they say at the end of the day she was very cute and what makes even more attractive was her personality, charisma, ability to keep a conversation and she was funny" those were words of the people who met her only one time. that's how it is kid at the end of the day. do you feel at ease around her, does she make you happy, does she make you laugh, can she walk into a room with people she never met and get along with them all with no problem and

have them like her, can she do all the necessaries then nobeuno kid you have a winner that right there is not a "gf" shes your partner in crime. so give her a chance your going to know the real deal when you too are away from each other then you will be able to tell

just like deja vwe said life is full of long long experience. take a chance endure the experience and theres no if or maybes about it. "let it change your life" god throws bumps on everyones road in life and heres yours.

cant do what a woman is on earth for . . ., cooking, cleaning . . .

Ahem.

What?

Such a dilemma

The average sure thing sitting at home vs the prospect of meeting exciting fabulous exotic women whilst away at school.

It's a test. I'm sure you'll pass with flying colours.

smh this is what is wrong with the world now....DO NOT be shallow, if you already love her what does her looks have to do with shit?

she was good enough when you fell in love with her...now you have questions? I woldnt even want to be with you anymore.

Posted by bkbella86
smh this is what is wrong with the world now....DO NOT be shallow, if you already love her what does her looks have to do with shit?

I actually don't think shallowness is the right problem to address. I think the real problem is that as a society we expect too much from each other and even more from those younger than us. Constantly, we feel we're not allowed to "settle" and must always strive for better—to reach the top and succeed.

Whenever a pretty girl has a boyfriend who isn't the best looking her peers may tell her behind his back that she can do much better. Or when a handsome, fit guy falls in love with a fat girl they'll occasionally receive bullshit from the world around them...all because we cannot fathom why such differences were brought together in the first place.

...Because we're conditioned from birth to look so far beyond it becomes so difficult for many of us to look within ourselves and so we don't even bother even trying to see inside others...we've forgotten that its more than okay to like, enjoy, and love things and people just as they are and that they're beautiful because we think so.

this kind of stuff just doesnt compute... my ex was gorgeous and a nightmare. my ex-ex was probably pretty average but i was very attracted to him none-the-less and truthfully, i still am, because of who he is.

this isn't something anyone else or a forum can answer for you.

figure it out

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Posted by bkbella86
smh this is what is wrong with the world now....DO NOT be shallow, if you already love her what does her looks have to do with shit?

I actually don't think shallowness is the right problem to address. I think the real problem is that as a society we expect too much from each other and even more from those younger than us. Constantly, we feel we're not allowed to "settle" and must always strive for better—to reach the top and succeed.

Whenever a pretty girl has a boyfriend who isn't the best looking her peers may tell her behind his back that she can do much better. Or when a handsome, fit guy falls in love with a fat girl they'll occasionally receive bullshit from the world around them...all because we cannot fathom why such differences were brought together in the first place.

...Because we're conditioned from birth to look so far beyond it becomes so difficult for many of us to look within ourselves and so we don't even bother even trying to see inside others...we've forgotten that its more than okay to like, enjoy, and love things and people just as they are and that they're beautiful because we think so.

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i agree but that does boil down to some level of shallowness....things were perfectly fine with his girl until his friend put in his head he can get someone better and this fool is considering it. Weird tho

I wouldnt want to be his girl because A) he has no balls and is easily mislead
B)shallow C) cares what people think.....just doesnt sound real manly to me

I understand your uncertainly at your age if you are in fact 17 years old.

Stick with this one as she makes you happy. Beauty does not equal happiness.
What matters is that you are with the girl who makes you happy.
YOU see her beauty. Society nor friends determine beauty, even if they try to force feed it to us.
It's best you learn this now before you reach 30 and still unwittingly sabotaging your personal happiness.

Know your own mind and recognize that sometimes when we are happy in a relationship others may want to drive a wedge whether they know it or not.

Stick by your principles and don't dump a girl because some friend thinks you would be better off screwing university chicks for kicks. If you meet someone else, cross that bridge when you get to it. Be honest with yourself and your girlfriend about your feelings.

Many couples have met their husbands/wives in high school btw.

I don't know why people think love is a cure all. Love does not equal strength and conviction.

Posted by bkbella86

i agree but that does boil down to some level of shallowness....

Indeed. But tackling shallowness head on would be shallow. We want to hit deeper than that.