Why do I often feel like slapping my boyfriend’s face?

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When I look at him, think of him, cuddle him…..I did it several times…..It’s puzzling and annoying to me, and who knows what is really doing to him and our relationship. I need your input to gain clarity.

He’s got a round face, so my hand doesn’t hurt. It clearly hurts him though…sometimes he grabs my hand and holds it firmly, looking at me in silence. Months ago he was telling me “yes, slap me, I deserve it!”. It was because 2.5 years ago, he broke our relationship after he got transferred at work, moved miles away and disappeared for one year. We’ve been in a LDR since last November.

I don’t think this is why I keep hitting him, though…. I don’t feel anger when I’m doing it, just arousal. I never did this to previous boyfriends or husband….which themselves would never hit a woman.....but he is the only ex I ever took back…!?

We have Moon-Mars DW (square and wide orb conjunction). I'm Aries Mars, Pisces moon. He's Gem Mars, Aries Moon. We also have nodal reversal, with my Saturn on his descending node and moon conjunction.

A karmic or astrological explanation, perhaps…?

What do you feel the most likely explanation is?
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The kinkiness in this thread is killing me. 50 shades of Undine.

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Sounds like you are the reincarnation of a troglodyte. Back in the day you'd clobber your guy over the head and drag him off to your cave & show him what's what.

In the 21st century you slap them. Things change......things stay the same. To quote Robbie Williams "everything changes but you".
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The kinkiness in this thread is killing me. 50 shades of Undine.

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Sounds like you are the reincarnation of a troglodyte. Back in the day you'd clobber your guy over the head and drag him off to your cave & show him what's what.

In the 21st century you slap them. Things change......things stay the same. To quote Robbie Williams "everything changes but you".
What a coincidence! I was thinking about this gif quite recently (seen it on dxpnet long time ago), wanting to send it to my BF in response to some teasing. Didn't know where to look for it...and you "gave" it to me 🙂.

Thank yoy!
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When I look at him, think of him, cuddle him…..I did it several times…..It’s puzzling and annoying to me, and who knows what is really doing to him and our relationship. I need your input to gain clarity.

He’s got a round face, so my hand doesn’t hurt. It clearly hurts him though…sometimes he grabs my hand and holds it firmly, looking at me in silence. Months ago he was telling me “yes, slap me, I deserve it!”. It was because 2.5 years ago, he broke our relationship after he got transferred at work, moved miles away and disappeared for one year. We’ve been in a LDR since last November.

I don’t think this is why I keep hitting him, though…. I don’t feel anger when I’m doing it, just arousal. I never did this to previous boyfriends or husband….which themselves would never hit a woman.....but he is the only ex I ever took back…!?

We have Moon-Mars DW (square and wide orb conjunction). I'm Aries Mars, Pisces moon. He's Gem Mars, Aries Moon. We also have nodal reversal, with my Saturn on his descending node and moon conjunction.

A karmic or astrological explanation, perhaps…?

What do you feel the most likely explanation is?


Well if that ever happen to me which probably wouldnt because i would beat the shit out of the girl then fuck her dry in her butthole then dump her lol
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LOL! That's the reason boys like you are running scared of women like me:

Hurt me and you'll never leave the room walking upright! 😄
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I get this feeling quite often too actually. I'm a naturally aggressive and playful person though and I also have Aries in my chart if that counts. For me it's that love/hate kind of feeling of wanting to slap/punch and fuck someone at the same time. Pain can equate to pleasure, in fact I believe they're very much intertwined as there is often a very thin line between them. It's a weird paradox. Reminds me of that show Californication lol….

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You could just be discovering that you're a bit of a sexual sadist and he's the one who has made that side of you finally come out. I firmly believe that no matter how much we think we know ourselves, some people make parts of us come out that we never thought existed, could be due to synastry. It can be fun or it can be frightening, it all depends on how you handle it.


You may be right and I blame religion for it!

All these stories about saints being ridiculed, tortured and killed I grew up with....😄
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When I look at him, think of him, cuddle him…..I did it several times…..It’s puzzling and annoying to me, and who knows what is really doing to him and our relationship. I need your input to gain clarity.

He’s got a round face, so my hand doesn’t hurt. It clearly hurts him though…sometimes he grabs my hand and holds it firmly, looking at me in silence. Months ago he was telling me “yes, slap me, I deserve it!”. It was because 2.5 years ago, he broke our relationship after he got transferred at work, moved miles away and disappeared for one year. We’ve been in a LDR since last November.

I don’t think this is why I keep hitting him, though…. I don’t feel anger when I’m doing it, just arousal. I never did this to previous boyfriends or husband….which themselves would never hit a woman.....but he is the only ex I ever took back…!?

We have Moon-Mars DW (square and wide orb conjunction). I'm Aries Mars, Pisces moon. He's Gem Mars, Aries Moon. We also have nodal reversal, with my Saturn on his descending node and moon conjunction.

A karmic or astrological explanation, perhaps…?

What do you feel the most likely explanation is?


Well if that ever happen to me which probably wouldnt because i would beat the shit out of the girl then fuck her dry in her butthole then dump her lol
LOL! That's the reason boys like you are running scared of women like me:

Hurt me and you'll never leave the room walking upright! 😄
Haha seeing that you're a pisces same as rihanna you need to meet a chris brown, he would teach you a thing or two in life
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Too late! I'm the teacher 😄!
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When I look at him, think of him, cuddle him…..I did it several times…..It’s puzzling and annoying to me, and who knows what is really doing to him and our relationship. I need your input to gain clarity.

He’s got a round face, so my hand doesn’t hurt. It clearly hurts him though…sometimes he grabs my hand and holds it firmly, looking at me in silence. Months ago he was telling me “yes, slap me, I deserve it!”. It was because 2.5 years ago, he broke our relationship after he got transferred at work, moved miles away and disappeared for one year. We’ve been in a LDR since last November.

I don’t think this is why I keep hitting him, though…. I don’t feel anger when I’m doing it, just arousal. I never did this to previous boyfriends or husband….which themselves would never hit a woman.....but he is the only ex I ever took back…!?

We have Moon-Mars DW (square and wide orb conjunction). I'm Aries Mars, Pisces moon. He's Gem Mars, Aries Moon. We also have nodal reversal, with my Saturn on his descending node and moon conjunction.

A karmic or astrological explanation, perhaps…?

What do you feel the most likely explanation is?


Well if that ever happen to me which probably wouldnt because i would beat the shit out of the girl then fuck her dry in her butthole then dump her lol
LOL! That's the reason boys like you are running scared of women like me:

Hurt me and you'll never leave the room walking upright! 😄
Haha seeing that you're a pisces same as rihanna you need to meet a chris brown, he would teach you a thing or two in life
Too late! I'm the teacher 😄!
Yeah i am sure he in a cancer guy since you mentioned round face, mother fucking emasculated males letting down the alphas, hope he gets into prison and gets raped.

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Wrong again, yo!

He's the opposite of a Cancer and a potential prison director 😄 😄
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Oh wait i just read "LDR" in your original post, another millienial-type-loserish relationship dynamics, hes probably needy as fuck and willing to do anything just to be in love and get sex thus accepting the abuse from you, i dont know how hot you are but probably a 5 and below because hot girls dont do LDR.
Hot girls don't do it with YOU 😄 😄 😄