Stihl46
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Women that were in abusive relationships
A lot of work, the problem is that there others who dont require as much work so when you take the long view from the beginning stages, you can probably be happier with someone else.
Posted by rabidtalkerI wouldn't ever get involved with the Gemini woman she's got issues I was told she's become a real bitch.
A lot of work, the problem is that there others who dont require as much work so when you take the long view from the beginning stages, you can probably be happier with someone else.
The first Scorpio dated a guy what was a bit abusive funny thing after she dumped him she went into a relationship with a Gemini guy that is abusive.
Another female Gemini friend she was with husband that wasn't the best then she got into another relationship with a guy that was the same.
Why do women leave one abusive relationship to get involved in another one, they seem to be scared of good guys. I think that is the problem with the Gemini woman I'm discussing she's so hot and cold with me.
Posted by LiveAndLoveI don't like to hear about women being in abusive relationships she's has children so she most likely stuck it out for the kids until it got bad enough. I gather the relationship ended 4 years ago or so.
I don't really think it'd be right to label her as damaged goods from the start because she was with someone who truly is damaged and treated her badly. And the fact that she's not with this person anymore, shows she had the strength to get out of a toxic relationship. Her behavior towards you probably means she's not fully ready for a relationship right now even if she wants one at times. But I wouldn't write her off completely and assume she's worthless from this point on in her life and can never be relationship worthy in anyone's eyes. People learn and grow all the time, most anyway. Did that relationship end recently?
Posted by Stihl46
A gemini woman that I've been talking to acts really strange around me, I recently was informed she was in an abusive marriage.
So how much does an abusive relationship affect a woman? is she damaged goods for the rest of her life? is it one of the reasons why she's still single today?
I don't think I would ever get involved with her she packs too much baggage now finding out she's had an abusive husband she's most likely has some scars. She's so hot and cold with me friendly one day a total bitch the next.
there are SINGLE women who are not even abused. And aren't you single yourself? 😕
what does it matter, she is a woman who went through some trauma and if you loved someone you don't care if they are or not.
what's weird is you used to always meet Scorpio sun women, but now when it's an abused victim it's a Gemini sun women?
you do know that women in all 12 sun signs go through trauma and abuse.
edit - guess what? If you are a Cancer sun, did you know your Cancer sun brethren Taylor Kinney loves Lady Gaga, who has come out publicly that she was abused and raped??
it didn't stop him from loving her did it?
Did you wack off to her?
Posted by Stihl46oh ok so it's scorpio women AND Gemini women. *smh*Posted by rabidtalkerI wouldn't ever get involved with the Gemini woman she's got issues I was told she's become a real bitch.
A lot of work, the problem is that there others who dont require as much work so when you take the long view from the beginning stages, you can probably be happier with someone else.
The first Scorpio dated a guy what was a bit abusive funny thing after she dumped him she went into a relationship with a Gemini guy that is abusive.
Another female Gemini friend she was with husband that wasn't the best then she got into another relationship with a guy that was the same.
Why do women leave one abusive relationship to get involved in another one, they seem to be scared of good guys. I think that is the problem with the Gemini woman I'm discussing she's so hot and cold with me.
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you must have a strong Gemini/scorpio influence. lol
women fall in love, they aren't thinking when they fall in love.
have a bit of compassion for these ladies, life is hard enough already.
Posted by TheLibraMudrais this a serious thread? subject or is people just having fun?Posted by Scrumptiousfap fap fap
Did you wack off to her?click to expand
I can never tell the vibe at times, especially in a serious subject.
This Gemini woman has acted odd with me since I met her she can chat up any other guy but with me she doesn't.
As a Cancer man we can sense things with her I could tell she's had troubles, she is nice enough but I can see why she is still single too bad because she's attractive. Then I've found out her ex was abusive to her I don't like hearing that.
No matter how attractive she is I wouldn't get involved with her been there done that with women that have issues it just turns your life upside down. Life is already complicated enough to have a person in your life making it worse no thanks. From what I gather she's been single for a long time hate to say it she will be for the foreseeable future.
Getting involved with a girl that's had a fvcked up life has made me more aware it, if the woman has any hint of baggage run its not worth it. You can't fix them once they are damaged goods they don't change they may improve a little.
As a Cancer man we can sense things with her I could tell she's had troubles, she is nice enough but I can see why she is still single too bad because she's attractive. Then I've found out her ex was abusive to her I don't like hearing that.
No matter how attractive she is I wouldn't get involved with her been there done that with women that have issues it just turns your life upside down. Life is already complicated enough to have a person in your life making it worse no thanks. From what I gather she's been single for a long time hate to say it she will be for the foreseeable future.
Getting involved with a girl that's had a fvcked up life has made me more aware it, if the woman has any hint of baggage run its not worth it. You can't fix them once they are damaged goods they don't change they may improve a little.
Posted by Stihl46She may have been raised in an abusive household. If thats the case her perception of love may be based on abuse. Esp since that was not her first abusive relationship. An idea of a calm, and normal relationship may feel odd or leave her feeling confused. In which case she would need therapy to get out of the cycle.Posted by rabidtalkerI wouldn't ever get involved with the Gemini woman she's got issues I was told she's become a real bitch.
A lot of work, the problem is that there others who dont require as much work so when you take the long view from the beginning stages, you can probably be happier with someone else.
The first Scorpio dated a guy what was a bit abusive funny thing after she dumped him she went into a relationship with a Gemini guy that is abusive.
Another female Gemini friend she was with husband that wasn't the best then she got into another relationship with a guy that was the same.
Why do women leave one abusive relationship to get involved in another one, they seem to be scared of good guys. I think that is the problem with the Gemini woman I'm discussing she's so hot and cold with me.
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Posted by LibraLovesHimYes I do believe she came from a troubled household her parents divorced.Posted by Stihl46She may have been raised in an abusive household. If thats the case her perception of love may be based on abuse. Esp since that was not her first abusive relationship. An idea of a calm, and normal relationship may feel odd or leave her feeling confused. In which case she would need therapy to get out of the cycle.Posted by rabidtalkerI wouldn't ever get involved with the Gemini woman she's got issues I was told she's become a real bitch.
A lot of work, the problem is that there others who dont require as much work so when you take the long view from the beginning stages, you can probably be happier with someone else.
The first Scorpio dated a guy what was a bit abusive funny thing after she dumped him she went into a relationship with a Gemini guy that is abusive.
Another female Gemini friend she was with husband that wasn't the best then she got into another relationship with a guy that was the same.
Why do women leave one abusive relationship to get involved in another one, they seem to be scared of good guys. I think that is the problem with the Gemini woman I'm discussing she's so hot and cold with me.
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Gosh I could say so much on this post. But it's a serious matter for me.
Main point though: she may be avoiding a relationship herself if she is still healing or she's afraid of one.
And I'm glad you are staying away from her. She will (eventually) need someone who will understand her and be there for her. She's not damaged goods, BUT it does take time to heal and it is difficult to overcome. It's not something that just goes away.
My heart hurts for her and hopes she is able to one day be happy again.
Main point though: she may be avoiding a relationship herself if she is still healing or she's afraid of one.
And I'm glad you are staying away from her. She will (eventually) need someone who will understand her and be there for her. She's not damaged goods, BUT it does take time to heal and it is difficult to overcome. It's not something that just goes away.
My heart hurts for her and hopes she is able to one day be happy again.
Damaged women come by the boatload
Posted by Stihl46Not to be rude, but maybe she is hot and cold because she suspects you would call her things like "damaged goods" on social media and realizes you probably do not to get involved with her due to her past
A gemini woman that I've been talking to acts really strange around me, I recently was informed she was in an abusive marriage.
So how much does an abusive relationship affect a woman? is she damaged goods for the rest of her life? is it one of the reasons why she's still single today?
I don't think I would ever get involved with her she packs too much baggage now finding out she's had an abusive husband she's most likely has some scars. She's so hot and cold with me friendly one day a total bitch the next.
Also, gemini women are "the twins" so thats pretty much their personality. I'm not saying they're friendly then a cookiemonster, they just change up their personality that is what geminis are known for
Posted by Stihl46You must be the most perfect of all men to demand a woman who is perfect as well. *rolls eyes
Getting involved with a girl that's had a fvcked up life has made me more aware it, if the woman has any hint of baggage run its not worth it. You can't fix them once they are damaged goods they don't change they may improve a little.
To live is to be damaged and to accumulate baggage.
Posted by LadyNeptuneTHANK YOU. PREACH. Like dude why are you still single? You're saying "maybe her baggage is why she is still single" like WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE? Maybe it is because you're a sexist jerk. If you were a real man who cared about her, you would try to make her feel safe. You found out her "baggage" from a source other than herself and this is your reaction other than trying to get to know her and calling her a "cookiemonster." Do yourselves both a favor, and just stop this whole thing because you are clearly no better than her abuser. Sure, maybe he was physically abusive, but you will clearly be verbally abusive if this continues.Posted by Stihl46You must be the most perfect of all men to demand a woman who is perfect as well. *rolls eyes
Getting involved with a girl that's had a fvcked up life has made me more aware it, if the woman has any hint of baggage run its not worth it. You can't fix them once they are damaged goods they don't change they may improve a little.
To live is to be damaged and to accumulate baggage.
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I think the "chainsaw" wants to couple with her but is afraid she can turn the abuser and he the victim.
What else could be the interest in her past luggage.
What else could be the interest in her past luggage.
Stihl, you're a lost cause yourself. I'll bet you wear your heart on your sleeve and people can tell you're sketchy and judging them. People don't like to feel like somebody is psychoanalyzing them all the time.
Coming from a woman with multiple past abusive relationships, it's not something I ever went out looking for lol they always seemed to find me as I'm really nurturing and a softy for the downtrodden. Most of time the guys were very good at hiding their true nature until we were really involved. I try to compromise and accept people as they are but not everyone is out to uplift others. Some seem very pleased with dragging you down to their level. Luckily, I've gotten away with minimal scarring but I am more wary with age.
Ugh, you need to stick to your Scorps. They can see thru you better.
She's probably uneasy around you bcuz you remind her of her abusive ex. Calling her "damaged goods" is very rude and shows you have no respect for women.
Women who are abused tend to relive it over and over bcuz they don't know any different. And, you're definitely not a better role model. Abused women have to be shown there is something better out there, and you're not it!
It would be best for you just to walk the other way.
Women who are abused tend to relive it over and over bcuz they don't know any different. And, you're definitely not a better role model. Abused women have to be shown there is something better out there, and you're not it!
It would be best for you just to walk the other way.
I'm polite and friendly to this Gemini girl she can be a real b*tch around me for no reason at all it was getting to the point I was going to say what is your problem. From what I gather she's been away from her ex 4 years or so you would think the bitterness would be gone by now.
I'm not interesting in dating this woman it would be nice if she was a little more friendly all I can say is what ever.
It is proving my point women that come from unhealthy families have issues it affects guys too a buddy of mine had an unhealthy family life its taken him years to get himself sorted out. He's making sure his family never goes through what he went through.
A good friend of mine her family life wasn't healthy growing up she worked really hard to change her life around same with another girl I know she was rebellious when she was younger again unhealthy family life
I don't want to end up being a woman's therapist life is too short to be with a woman that has issues.
I'm not interesting in dating this woman it would be nice if she was a little more friendly all I can say is what ever.
It is proving my point women that come from unhealthy families have issues it affects guys too a buddy of mine had an unhealthy family life its taken him years to get himself sorted out. He's making sure his family never goes through what he went through.
A good friend of mine her family life wasn't healthy growing up she worked really hard to change her life around same with another girl I know she was rebellious when she was younger again unhealthy family life
I don't want to end up being a woman's therapist life is too short to be with a woman that has issues.
Posted by Stihl46If she's a bitch to you why would you ever think she would be interested in you? Lmao at you 'turning down' these women who wouldn't give you the time of day if you were paying them.
I'm polite and friendly to this Gemini girl she can be a real b*tch around me for no reason at all it was getting to the point I was going to say what is your problem. From what I gather she's been away from her ex 4 years or so you would think the bitterness would be gone by now.
I'm not interesting in dating this woman it would be nice if she was a little more friendly all I can say is what ever.
It is proving my point women that come from unhealthy families have issues it affects guys too a buddy of mine had an unhealthy family life its taken him years to get himself sorted out. He's making sure his family never goes through what he went through.
A good friend of mine her family life wasn't healthy growing up she worked really hard to change her life around same with another girl I know she was rebellious when she was younger again unhealthy family life
I don't want to end up being a woman's therapist life is too short to be with a woman that has issues.
Posted by Stihl46I'm sure she'll survive without you. No one is interested in a whiney bitchy gossipy man.
From what I gather she's been away from her ex 4 years or so you would think the bitterness would be gone by now.
I'm not interesting in dating this woman
I can tell you now that cancer men dont know shit about other peoples problems, in fact they will take other people's problems and super impose their uncanny ability to worry, whinge and whine in an attempt to justify their self importance..
She doesnt need you, in fact you're the last thing she needs.
To come out of an.abusive relationship and have someone show kindness and (understanding) is so powerful that you can actually overcome any fucked up situation, its called time, love and tenderness, and time is something she should not be giving you. I mean this as bluntly as I put it.
She doesnt need you, in fact you're the last thing she needs.
To come out of an.abusive relationship and have someone show kindness and (understanding) is so powerful that you can actually overcome any fucked up situation, its called time, love and tenderness, and time is something she should not be giving you. I mean this as bluntly as I put it.
Speaking as a Gemini woman, we are the sign of duality being hot and cold is in her nature. I'm the same way some days I'm extra communicative and attentive, next I'm cold, introverted and don't want to be bothered. I was in an abusive relationship with my now baby daddy, the only real effect it had on me is educated me on staying away from his kind and their mentality (I read books on this as well to further my knowledge), and made me enjoy being single THAT MUCH MORE, I love my freedom and not having to be obligated to someone or even dealing with rules.
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So how much does an abusive relationship affect a woman? is she damaged goods for the rest of her life? is it one of the reasons why she's still single today?
I don't think I would ever get involved with her she packs too much baggage now finding out she's had an abusive husband she's most likely has some scars. She's so hot and cold with me friendly one day a total bitch the next.