Would you marry a virgin? Why or why not?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by taurus123 on Sunday, March 29, 2009 and has 11 replies.

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@Dreamweaver23
17 YearsPisces

The idea of it is nice, I still dont think I would do it. If you were the only person someone had been with, how long do you think it would be before they started thinking about how someone else would be?

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@Klover_Fish
18 Years

No. The idea of someone being my age and still a virgin is creepy. I took a guys virginity many moons ago and the sex was horrible-he was a Leo btw. Virginity is only an issues for those who are really, really into their faith or religion. I dont have a problem with it, but personally if you are going to go that route than make sure you pick a mate who is a virgin as well, otherwise saving yourself for marriage will mean nothing if your partner was a whore.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

That's a funny thought, Klover ..... save, save, save .. all pure and shit, and then give it to a whore.

It takes a long time and a lot of experience for a man to learn how to fuck right ....

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@Taurus83
18 YearsTaurus

Well damn... guess I'm screwed.

I might have to just go buy me a hooker once I finish up with my degree and got extra money to burn...

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@london_libra
17 YearsLibra

i would marry a virgin if i was in love with them. though, tbh, i'm a romantic libra and i would marry a three legged goat if i was in love with them.

the boy i like just so happens to be a virgin himself....

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@AquaSun
18 Years

Posted by AquariusGoddess
ABSOLUTLY NOT.....If I was marrying a virgin that would mean that we would have never had sex in the duration of our relationship.....uhhhhmmmm yeah I'm not about to buy the car without test driving it first....that's stupid. lol.

Lol, x2 on that one.

I would NEVER marry a virgin. Sexual compatibility is important to me (I realized this after being with the dead fish that is the Cap).

And x235 on Klover. I've said it before. You value your virginity and would give it up to someone who never valued theirs? FAIL.

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@wheelhomies
20 Years10,000+ Posts

hell yeah i would. let me explain my reasoning:

1.) i'd only marry someone if i was really into them. like, everything about them. so there would be a lot more than sex on my mind when i was deciding if i could be happy w/them long term.
2.) just because they're a virgin doesn't mean you can't do other stuff....😛 and that can give you a pretty good picture of how they would be as a lover.
3.) you could also talk about it! what each of you expects from sex and what turns you on etc. just cause someone's a virgin doesn't mean they're asexual.

so yeah, i would, if it felt right.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

I was brought up with the idea that you should wait until marriage.
That didn't necesarily work out...but atleast it was a good moral foundation and I don't go around screwing everything I see in the normal Sag fashion.

*and I am still with "my first." Which is the whole point I guess.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

I respect any girl who saved herself. It's hard, especially in today's society, where sex is expected in relationships -even if you're only 14 years old...
and not to mention, it's hard to find a guy with the same morals.