Sagittarius man and virgo woman

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6 Years

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I'm a virgo woman who has been in a relationship with a sagittarius man for 2 years. Our relationship didn't workout due to our immaturity. ..Fast forward the sag finally came back to me after disappearing for 1 year & a half; begging me to get back together. So many things have changed! Both of us are more wise and actually still love each other. I don't mind giving him a second chance. But my only issue is in communication. I have a strong intuition and I can easily say if someone is lying to me, yet this man seems to get away with every lie. My intuition tells me he's lying to me and hiding things from me. But everytime I confront him hoping he would give me the truth, He just makes me believe his words even more and dismiss what's in my head. I don't know how he does it! It's like magic.

I'm restless! Because I can't trust him. When I try to believe him and go with the motions, something just seems off. I can feel he's lying to me or hiding. I looked up "how sagittarius man lie " on the internet and it's all him. I'm very confused with this man. Neither do I want to start getting attached to him again, only to discover he's a liar and get hurt.
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6 Years

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Yes you're right, he seems miserable to me . It's almost like he enjoys playing the "helpless" role and I'm a helper by nature so I can't not help him get on his feet. The most irritating thing is all of this, is his big lies. For example he told me he worked with Russian mafia and he have been in the woods for months living in harmony with dangerous animals.. and once he made 8 million dollars from trading..etc

He described these stories with details and actually play them so well that you can not believe him.

Being with him always gets me confused, while with other men I'm more certain and in control. I seriously don't know what to do about him! Should I walk away once and for all ( believing my intuition) or continue with him to see where this goes.
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6 Years

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Ever since we were dating he use to say he has "this thing" or talk about some friends etc. But I never really saw any of the things he use to talk about. I was very honest with him and as things got serious I introduced him to my family and friends. He knew every detail of my life. While I knew very little about him. He didn't introduce me to anyone from his side nor show me all the things he said he have done or own. Honestly I didn't realise he's lying until in one of the arguments we had he said " I'm not all I told you I'm " and when we broke up I finally saw the bigger picture, with no emotions attached. I obviously began to doubt everything he told me, because his stories are unrealistic and seems to me like a gas lighting tools.
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Weeds
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Posted by LN

Ever since we were dating he use to say he has "this thing" or talk about some friends etc. But I never really saw any of the things he use to talk about. I was very honest with him and as things got serious I introduced him to my family and friends. He knew every detail of my life. While I knew very little about him. He didn't introduce me to anyone from his side nor show me all the things he said he have done or own. Honestly I didn't realise he's lying until in one of the arguments we had he said " I'm not all I told you I'm " and when we broke up I finally saw the bigger picture, with no emotions attached. I obviously began to doubt everything he told me, because his stories are unrealistic and seems to me like a gas lighting tools.


I question you even being a virgo.

Anything I wanted to know about someone I went looking and found.

Nothing I wanted to know was going to be hidden from me.

You knew this person for how long? And you knew nothing? And still no nothing... other then speculation of lying?

Shame shame.

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Sags sometimes dont like to discuss there personal problems directly. They have that weird dream fantasy shit like pisces where they want to personally be left in obscurity. I would use my intuition & ask certain questions to get to the root of 5he problem. The way he reacts to the questions will give u enough clarity for urself.

If u really like him, break him into pieces slowly.

I have a feeling he might not actually be ur style & ur forcing it, considering the fact ur instincts wont let u trust him. Lying is a big no no. & never ever try to fix a liar
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Posted by LN

Ever since we were dating he use to say he has "this thing" or talk about some friends etc. But I never really saw any of the things he use to talk about. I was very honest with him and as things got serious I introduced him to my family and friends. He knew every detail of my life. While I knew very little about him. He didn't introduce me to anyone from his side nor show me all the things he said he have done or own. Honestly I didn't realise he's lying until in one of the arguments we had he said " I'm not all I told you I'm " and when we broke up I finally saw the bigger picture, with no emotions attached. I obviously began to doubt everything he told me, because his stories are unrealistic and seems to me like a gas lighting tools.

I question you even being a virgo.

Anything I wanted to know about someone I went looking and found.

Nothing I wanted to know was going to be hidden from me.

You knew this person for how long? And you knew nothing? And still no nothing... other then speculation of lying?

Shame shame.
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some virgos gave up

if we're all gonna get conned, might as well have fun with it
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6 Years

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Thank you all so much, I needed to hear this!

However, I confronted him for the last time on the same day I wrote into this website and he finally confessed. My intuition was 100% right, all the things I thought were lies are actually lies...

He explained his situation and that he's different now.. blah blah ..begging me to stay

I know your can call me foolish but seriously when I love, i love deeply that's why it wasn't easy for me from the 1st place.
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leeberated
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9 Years

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Virgos always give it to me blunt so I’m gonna try to be as blunt as possible:

“Aside from the fact that he lied, everything about him is perfect” Okay I’m just going to leave that one alone lol, it’s too easy

- He succeeded in attracting you...because he lied

- He’s very intelligent...at lying

The only thing he may have going on for himself is the handsome face. And I hope you never gave him any money or let him live off of you in any way, because he sounds like a wolf and you are the target....I’ve been in this with a Sag man before. Two, but the first one was the worst. Where I could even have evidence and he’d still be like, “No, it’s not true.”

And he hit me up randomly a year later too, looking for a place to stay. Then the year after that, wanting money. And they will sweet talk you to no end, and even cry and try to win your pity!

I chose to have peace rather than always trying to catch him in his lies, which took a long time to finally give me the verdict that yes, he’s just a liar, and that it was no coincidence that I felt like he was always lying

And it’s not even like your dude lied to spare your feelings. He was just reckless and compulsive for no reason. You can’t build a foundation on that. And what if you have kids or had kids with him, is that who they’d look up to?? PASS.

It’s not your job to fix him. Don’t waste any more time on him. He’s playing a role right now. He is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. You will never find out who he really is. I hope I’m scaring you because it is scary!