Are saggy men sexually aggressive? (Page 2)

Posted by ellessque
let me try this again.

Sun Sag -> Have fun with me, let me be myself
Moon Scorp -> Read my mind
Merc Scorp -> Tell me exactly what I need to hear when I need to hear it
Venus Scorp -> Possess me like I need to be possessed
Mars Scorp -> Screw me until I can't catch my breath

Not to keep bring up my boo 🙂 but he has 3 out of your 5 he has the Sun, Mer, and Mars........ So How that Elle?
He has a Pisces moon which is good but his venus is Sagg is a no go DAMN DAMN.....

Posted by ellessque
let me try this again.

Sun Sag -> Have fun with me, let me be myself
Moon Scorp -> Read my mind
Merc Scorp -> Tell me exactly what I need to hear when I need to hear it

i agree.

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Posted by ellessque
let me try this again.

Sun Sag -> Have fun with me, let me be myself
Moon Scorp -> Read my mind
Merc Scorp -> Tell me exactly what I need to hear when I need to hear it
Venus Scorp -> Possess me like I need to be possessed
Mars Scorp -> Screw me until I can't catch my breath

Not to keep bring up my boo 🙂 but he has 3 out of your 5 he has the Sun, Mer, and Mars........ So How that Elle?
He has a Pisces moon which is good but his venus is Sagg is a no go DAMN DAMN.....

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i like pisces and cancer moons.

Thanks Elle 🙂 I am also planning to ask your opinion abt compatibility with my partner if u dont mind?
Sun&Venus: Capricorn
Mars&Mercury: Aqua
Ascendant: Sagittarius
Jupiter&Saturn:Libra
Moon: Taurus

pisces people are so innocent and narrowminded. They can't understand what's going on with me. That p-woman accuses me of being a liar.. how sad she cannot see how I am real and my feelins are such complicated.

Posted by borderlinecapri
pisces people are so innocent and narrowminded. They can't understand what's going on with me. That p-woman accuses me of being a liar.. how sad she cannot see how I am real and my feelins are such complicated.

wait hold up. a pisces is accusing you of being a liar? pot calling the kettle black.

Posted by borderlinecapri
Thanks Elle 🙂 I am also planning to ask your opinion abt compatibility with my partner if u dont mind?
Sun&Venus: Capricorn
Mars&Mercury: Aqua
Ascendant: Sagittarius
Jupiter&Saturn:Libra
Moon: Taurus

yeah venus in caps!

LOL DMV 🙂 venus in cap is a curse 😢 I wish I had some scorp in my chart. The rising saggy puts me in trouble all the time and the cautious cappy side of me takes me out of those situations LOL but I would die from dullness and boredom if I hadnt that fun saggy part

oh you have a venus in cap? i used to think that it was a curse. sounded so dry right? lol. but its been a savior. makes me take my time, whereas the rest of me is ready for adventure.

what venus sign would you want?

Hmm I am not an expert unlike Elle. I really dunno but maybe venus in scorp would give me some action 🙂 there is really inertia here 🙂

I now checked my partner's chart.
Sun Leo
Rising Libra
Moon in Gemini
Mercury and Venus in Leo
Mars in Cancer

yes Elle I get that. Do you see any compatibility btw my planets and my bf's? bcs I really dunno how we are still together LOL

dont worry 🙂 I wont suicide attempt after hearing your comments 🙂 even the mean accusations of p-woman cant make it :p

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Posted by ellessque
good question.

see, that is why we can play and nobody gets butthurt. most signs take shit way too seriously. we can fuck around and screw with each other and at the end of the day everyone and everything is still in tact.

I would say the sag has the bigger ego. (don't tell the scorpios I said that)

Because at some point our watery nature takes over and the feelings start floating to the top and we get scared. real talk.

yes i would happen to agree that the sag has the bigger ego. BUT scorps think that their shit dont stink! its all in your poker face. we confront you mofos and you just keep that poker face. you do your own thing and come around when you feel like it. some scorps feel justified for their actions. i secretly like the no apologizing asshole approach to life. the only time i have a problem with that approach is when my feelings get hurt. a scorp knows no boundaries when their hurt.

Funnily enough, what's in bold has been said about Sags too, and I'm going to hazard a guess at a different moment in time you'll have admitted to it too, in a positive light no less.
Nothing to be embarassed or unhappy about.
On the *scorched earth policy* many a pincer laden one employs when hurt, it's not intentional, and I think Kohl put it right in a thread on the Scorp board.
Raze a city to the ground ?
*shrugs*
But a s.o can make them cry.
If that helps.🙂

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i knew someone was going to bring that up. lol. we def come around when we feel like it when our SO's would rather us come around more often.

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Posted by ellessque
let me try this again.

Sun Sag -> Have fun with me, let me be myself
Moon Scorp -> Read my mind
Merc Scorp -> Tell me exactly what I need to hear when I need to hear it

i agree.

That's why I like you 😉

If you had a venus and mars in scorp I'd be trying to hook up 😛

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if i could be any venus sign, it would be a venus in cancer. but since thats not astrologically possible, i will have to settle for a venus in cap.

merc in scorp curses alot lol

moon in gemini - an easily bored comedian, eccentric dresser, and quick witted mofo. most gemini moons are celebrities; mainly comedians.

Should we create a chart of our ideal mate and spend the life to try to find him/her 🙂?

interesting. I never noticed he had such talent though :/

Posted by borderlinecapri
Should we create a chart of our ideal mate and spend the life to try to find him/her 🙂?

Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Mercury in Scorp
Mars in Scorp
Venus in Cancer or Scorp
Sag Rising.

Good luck Elle 🙂 I really hope this one makes you so happy that you forget abt the saggy :p

Sorry DMV I dunno anyone with libra and rising cancer. but Ill keep my eyes open for you 🙂

LOL good luck with that. Oh thanks a lot! and if you dont have time, I can ask you later again .)

@ellesque,

he responded but i didnt read it till i got home just in case it was a shitty response. while i was driving home i was driving by a bar we used to frequent and guess whose car was pulling into the bar extra early. probably needing to drink right away after that letter.

so i get home and read his response. he told me that he fowarded my letter to all his friends so they could all laugh at me. then he called me trash again. yadda yadda yadda.

so there ya go.

why does he keep continually shitting on me? is he that hurt?

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Posted by Sagittarius89
Oh yea, the one I messed with was. I just found out he had a venus in scorp tho as well. Never did fuck him tho.

With this placement I find these Sagg to be a little clingly.

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He was kind of clingy but more like weird than anything. Thats why I never did. It didn't feel right sexually for some reason. I liked him better as a friend that I kissed sometimes lol idk

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Posted by borderlinecapri
Sorry DMV I dunno anyone with libra and rising cancer. but Ill keep my eyes open for you 🙂

So on the surface you want a dude who cries a lot ?🙂

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no lol. no crybabys

Posted by ellessque

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@ellesque,

he responded but i didnt read it till i got home just in case it was a shitty response. while i was driving home i was driving by a bar we used to frequent and guess whose car was pulling into the bar extra early. probably needing to drink right away after that letter.

so i get home and read his response. he told me that he fowarded my letter to all his friends so they could all laugh at me. then he called me trash again. yadda yadda yadda.

so there ya go.

ok. so now you do nothing. don't you dare respond to that. let him think about it when he gets NO reaction at all.

fuck him.

the guilt will start working in his mind in about 48 hours or so. I guarantee it. If not, he's an empty soul and deserves no conversation from a woman like you because he's incapable of doing anything productive in this life and he'll pay for it dearly in the next.

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i havent responded at all. my virgo/aries friend confronted him in the bar with it and they told me exactly what he said about me. 15 mins later he wants to take it all back and still wants to be friends. he is so fucking hurt that i cant do anything more for him. i pity him.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Although if that happened to someone else I get the impression you'd laugh, all swings and roundabouts really.

nope, i wouldnt laugh if that happened to someone else.

Posted by ellessque
you owe him no conversation, no acceptance of an apology, not even the time of day.

he is invisible as far as you are concerned.

lay low and do you let him baste in his guilt and self loathe for awhile.

screw him for now. (not literally...LOL)

me and you think alike. he is an undeserving individual.

i want to get him a therapist. lol

oh man Dr Phil would have a field day with him. he would get a major breakthrough

DMV I think u should avoid getting a scorp enemy. they are the worst enemies in astrology I guess 🙂

Posted by borderlinecapri
DMV I think u should avoid getting a scorp enemy. they are the worst enemies in astrology I guess 🙂

i think he should avoid getting me as an enemy.

it seems he is not aware of. But i still think scorps are more dangerous than saggies as enemy

scorps seem to do their dirty work in the shadows. i will do mine right in the open.

I think you should just let it go. He's not worth it.

Just bask in the fact that you'll be over him in no time....he will probably never get over you.

🙂

If you take the revengeful road you're probably only going to make an ass of yourself and give him and his friends more reason to talk about you and laugh at how bad you got it for him....

Carry yourself with dignity and confidence.

You extended your paw for peace and he turned it down. You said what you needed to say. Now it's time for you to move on and act relatively unfazed by his immaturity. You get the last laugh.

Make it obvious to him that HE lost something. He's the loser.


You'll be just fine. 😄

He'll come crawling back, they all do. I hope you kick him in the face too.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Not always. Plus you seem to be enjoying it more now revenge is in mind right ?
So you can't be hurting that much, surely ?

yes, inside im still hurting. but time heals all wounds.

Posted by brianafay
Just bask in the fact that you'll be over him in no time....he will probably never get over you.

🙂

nope, i made sure of it. he should get a tattoo that reads "DMV was here"

Posted by brianafay
If you take the revengeful road you're probably only going to make an ass of yourself and give him and his friends more reason to talk about you and laugh at how bad you got it for him....

Carry yourself with dignity and confidence.

You extended your paw for peace and he turned it down. You said what you needed to say. Now it's time for you to move on and act relatively unfazed by his immaturity. You get the last laugh.

Make it obvious to him that HE lost something. He's the loser.


You'll be just fine. 😄

He'll come crawling back, they all do. I hope you kick him in the face too.

he swears up and down that he lied and didnt send the letter out. he was just very hurt and didnt know what else to say. which is lame; he should have just been honest with his feelings and why he was hurt in the first place. its a flaw of his to not be able to voice whats bothering him. shit, i thought i internalized my emotions.

when my virgo and aries friend confronted him at the bar, he already knew that he had been exposed for the dirtbag that he is and now no one will look at him as a sweetheart anymore. he can no longer hide behind a fascade and pretend that hit shit doesnt stink. his reputation has been changed. good luck with that PR. he even left the bar because he was so affected and ashamed of what he did. now people wont look at me like im crazy anymore when i tell them that he is this way and that way. hes no longer an angel.

Ive already started the countdown clock of when he come crawling back.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I dunno, if he's having a laughing with his friends and has a wife, I doubt he'll be coming back, harsh as it sounds.

no, he will in time. but i will be so far gone and moved on that it wont matter.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Although, you paint yourself on here as quite promiscuous and quite the 'take no shit play the playa' DMV, it may just be in this case that the game has played you.
Taking that into account, no doubt people you've come into contact with in relation to the above will have at some point been affected in a similar way because of your part in proceedings. Getting angry because it's your (karmic?) turn won't help matters I do think.

see, i dont think i did get played at all. what i do think is that i met my match and he met his. i think we both got carried away and then reality set in. i am one way and he is another.

im not angry. im actually very content. i feel great. lol, i called into this radio show the other day Bubba the Love Sponge and i cant wait to meet him tommorrow.

i never let anyone get the best of me, and this scorp is no exception. close, but no cigar.

i think he is afraid of me, which is why he talks so much shit but never to my face. he always seems to grow a pair when we are texting or emailing. but face to face, hes shy.

he's still in love with me and vice versa. feelings like that dont go away overnight.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Can you be so sure, without your intervention ?

100%

Posted by everevolvingepithet
"Ive already started the countdown clock of when he come crawling back. "
See ? You can't let it go.

every dude gets a countdown clock lol. im fixed in my emotions, of course i cant let it go right away. that takes time.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
How can you expect honesty from him when you are far from the epitome of honesty yourself (again, purely from the cut of your jib on here) ?

i think i was very honest with him. i put it all out there. why i do the hot/cold, etc. he chose to be a seven year old and went in a different direction. he could have been an adult and addressed me like i did with him.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Again, I'm pretty blunt right now, but he always has something to go home to and is that what's hurting the most, seeing as manipulating to always have the upper hand seems to be a predominant sag trait ?

dont worry about being blunt. its okay, i can handle it. thats why i come to this blog.

him having something to go home to and that is whats hurting the most? no that does hurt me. what actually hurts me is that he still wont tell me what hurts him. i can read his mind, assume, guess, speculate. but it hurts me that he cant tell me. even after all this. still trying to save face.

the 3some that i had hurt him. if he would just say it, he could find healing in it. i can admit that my actions that night hurt him. having that 3some was a clear decision i made. before i did i asked a mutual friend what was the deal with the scorp. the mutual friend looked at me so crazy. he goes "dumbass, hes married." my heart sank and i went up stairs and had a 3some.

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
"Ive already started the countdown clock of when he come crawling back. "
See ? You can't let it go.

every dude gets a countdown clock lol. im fixed in my emotions, of course i cant let it go right away. that takes time.

The only emotions you're working with are revenge, again he has something to go home to.

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and he came go home to her. that never phased me. i was still sleeping around myself. i never told him to stop his life style but he cant expect that im going to stop just because he wants me all to himself.

im truly not going to seek revenge on him. why? i dont have the attention span for it.

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Although, you paint yourself on here as quite promiscuous and quite the 'take no shit play the playa' DMV, it may just be in this case that the game has played you.
Taking that into account, no doubt people you've come into contact with in relation to the above will have at some point been affected in a similar way because of your part in proceedings. Getting angry because it's your (karmic?) turn won't help matters I do think.

see, i dont think i did get played at all. what i do think is that i met my match and he met his. i think we both got carried away and then reality set in. i am one way and he is another.

im not angry. im actually very content. i feel great. lol, i called into this radio show the other day Bubba the Love Sponge and i cant wait to meet him tommorrow.

i never let anyone get the best of me, and this scorp is no exception. close, but no cigar.

i think he is afraid of me, which is why he talks so much shit but never to my face. he always seems to grow a pair when we are texting or emailing. but face to face, hes shy.

he's still in love with me and vice versa. feelings like that dont go away overnight.

So you don't let it get the best of you yet you got your friends and a radio show involved ?

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lol, the radio show doesnt know anything about it. thats not what i meant by the post. all im saying is that the scorp doesnt consume my life.

of course my besties are going to get involved. they love me. they saw me hurt and went to action. ride or die.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I'm not sure women get a countdown clock, if that helps. This might be just in your head.

nope. im not gloating but guys come back. im a fun person to be around. the sex isnt too bad either.