DMV
@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius
Comments: 294 · Posts: 28989 · Topics: 654
Are saggy men sexually aggressive? (Page 3)
You are on page out of 4 | Reverse Order
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
How can you expect honesty from him when you are far from the epitome of honesty yourself (again, purely from the cut of your jib on here) ?
i think i was very honest with him. i put it all out there. why i do the hot/cold, etc. he chose to be a seven year old and went in a different direction. he could have been an adult and addressed me like i did with him.
You had multiple guys going on at the same time and came here laughing and joking about you're the queen bee in the thick of it all ?click to expand
yes, i did have multiple guys going on. im not committed to anyone. i never called myself queen bee?! did i? this me who i am. i like men, i like sleeping with men, i like to party, i like to laugh and joke. i live a great life. i like it. i wake up singing. lol.
i know not everyone agrees with my life style because its taboo and its different.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
He won't tell you what hurts him given your mindset, and yeah a 3some behind his back makes you dirt I'd say, and to some degree that's correct (don't know how deep things were at that time), but it wasn't a clear decision as I remember. you were left alone at a party with two people canoodling and you joined in right ?
Not that clear cut if anything drunken and the sort of thing to get outta the way in the late teens/early twenties.
Have you entertained the thought that you may have been used for that reason ?
DOn't blame the booze or your friend either, the more you post the more it seems it all stems from you and furtermore the '1st place above all else' mentality that you tend to put across on the boards.
My own opinion is that you've been used and you're having trouble stomaching it, and personally I would never entertain anything of depth with a woman like that, if that truly is the case.
Hope this helps though.
what mindset is that?
the 3some was behind his back but im not ashamed of it and i wont apologize for it. he is not my man. i dont belong to him. he gets pissed off even when i dance or have a innocent conversation with other men; even with mutal male friends. he doesnt get to tell me what to do. the 3some would in fact make me dirt IF i was trying to be his girlfriend and in face acting all lovey dovey. lol, we werent even on speaking terms; his choice. he came to the party and didnt say one word to me. oh well, carry on.
i was drunk as a skunk. but i knew what i was doing. i take personal responsibility.
i think that we both fell in love with a fantasy and then reality set in. hard.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I dunno, if he's having a laughing with his friends and has a wife, I doubt he'll be coming back, harsh as it sounds.
That's not harsh. 🙂
He's a skeez.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
"Ive already started the countdown clock of when he come crawling back. "
See ? You can't let it go.
every dude gets a countdown clock lol. im fixed in my emotions, of course i cant let it go right away. that takes time.
The only emotions you're working with are revenge, again he has something to go home to.
and he came go home to her. that never phased me. i was still sleeping around myself. i never told him to stop his life style but he cant expect that im going to stop just because he wants me all to himself.
im truly not going to seek revenge on him. why? i dont have the attention span for it.
5 minutes ago you did ?click to expand
i said i wouldnt actively seek revenge. i wont go out of my way. i dont go out looking for drama or trouble.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
Although, you paint yourself on here as quite promiscuous and quite the 'take no shit play the playa' DMV, it may just be in this case that the game has played you.
Taking that into account, no doubt people you've come into contact with in relation to the above will have at some point been affected in a similar way because of your part in proceedings. Getting angry because it's your (karmic?) turn won't help matters I do think.
see, i dont think i did get played at all. what i do think is that i met my match and he met his. i think we both got carried away and then reality set in. i am one way and he is another.
im not angry. im actually very content. i feel great. lol, i called into this radio show the other day Bubba the Love Sponge and i cant wait to meet him tommorrow.
i never let anyone get the best of me, and this scorp is no exception. close, but no cigar.
i think he is afraid of me, which is why he talks so much shit but never to my face. he always seems to grow a pair when we are texting or emailing. but face to face, hes shy.
he's still in love with me and vice versa. feelings like that dont go away overnight.
So you don't let it get the best of you yet you got your friends and a radio show involved ?
lol, the radio show doesnt know anything about it. thats not what i meant by the post. all im saying is that the scorp doesnt consume my life.
of course my besties are going to get involved. they love me. they saw me hurt and went to action. ride or die.
I know you're hurting, but friends 'ride or die' in this context ?
Hehehe😉😉click to expand
yes for me in this context, they did.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
It's not that taboo these days tbh, and nowhere did I say you should stop being yourself.
But given the way you go about your business, why are you expecting anything more than what your already getting ?
That makes no sense, and given that this Scorpio was the main contender in providing that something more, can you not see why you won't be getting it ?
he could never give me the "something more."
Posted by everevolvingepithet
From him that is.
Have you thought about lowering your standard.sights a little to someone that's more in line with your life style choices ?
dude, if i could find someone who understood my life style . oh man 🙂
for the right person, i woudl straighten up and fly right. i did it for my ex leo. i only had eyes for him. but if im not committed, dont expect me to do "commitment like things."
THIS IS IMPORTANT
The ONLY way you will ever "come out on top" is to walk away from this with dignity.
& by that I mean, just move on and let it go. Don't even give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt over this.
By feeding into it...involving friends, blasting him on the radio (which btw I'm from the same area as you I know Bubba the Love Sponge,) taking other forms of revenge....you're only showing him how bad you really got it for him.
The ONLY way you will ever "come out on top" is to walk away from this with dignity.
& by that I mean, just move on and let it go. Don't even give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt over this.
By feeding into it...involving friends, blasting him on the radio (which btw I'm from the same area as you I know Bubba the Love Sponge,) taking other forms of revenge....you're only showing him how bad you really got it for him.
actually i think i need to raise my standards lol. i do have a "list" in what i want from a potential mate but i get distracted by these types of men; men who have baggage.
they come my way and i get temporarily mesmerized.
they come my way and i get temporarily mesmerized.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Again, your flitting between taking responsibility and trying to apportion blame. I never said you were dirt and if you didn't feel some sort of connection this conversation and you ideas of payback wouldn't exist.
He didn't speak to you so you had a threesome ?
I think reality has hit you harder although I'd obviously need this dudes input to gauge that comment against.
i dont have any ideas of payback lol.
no i didnt have the 3some because he wasnt talking to me.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I think men can disconnect far easier and quicker though if that's of any help too.
not this one. i leave a lasting impression. in this case, he has left a lasting impression on me 2. thats what really sets him apart from the rest.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
"Ive already started the countdown clock of when he come crawling back. "
See ? You can't let it go.
every dude gets a countdown clock lol. im fixed in my emotions, of course i cant let it go right away. that takes time.
The only emotions you're working with are revenge, again he has something to go home to.
and he came go home to her. that never phased me. i was still sleeping around myself. i never told him to stop his life style but he cant expect that im going to stop just because he wants me all to himself.
im truly not going to seek revenge on him. why? i dont have the attention span for it.
5 minutes ago you did ?
i said i wouldnt actively seek revenge. i wont go out of my way. i dont go out looking for drama or trouble.
But your alluding to such right now, it's only other peoples opinions (not saying anyone on here) that make you take on board a bigger picture maybe ?click to expand
nope, i never said i was out looking to get revenge. 😉 even without this blog or my friends, i wont go out looking for revenge.
The only lasting impression you will leave on him is that you're a psycho love-sick female who just couldn't get over him if you don't let this go and move on...
DIGNITY
Like I said, he needs to feel like he lost something.
DIGNITY
Like I said, he needs to feel like he lost something.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
It's not that taboo these days tbh, and nowhere did I say you should stop being yourself.
But given the way you go about your business, why are you expecting anything more than what your already getting ?
That makes no sense, and given that this Scorpio was the main contender in providing that something more, can you not see why you won't be getting it ?
he could never give me the "something more."
Then you've been wasting your time can't you see that ?click to expand
no. i cant say he was ever a waste of time. he doesnt deserve that. as much BS that went on between us, i would never look at him as a waste of time. it saddens me to even ponder that thought.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
You've fallen harder than he I still think that.
i wont get into which one fell harder than the other. i think thats just silly to try to guage that.
Posted by brianafay
THIS IS IMPORTANT
The ONLY way you will ever "come out on top" is to walk away from this with dignity.
& by that I mean, just move on and let it go. Don't even give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt over this.
By feeding into it...involving friends, blasting him on the radio (which btw I'm from the same area as you I know Bubba the Love Sponge,) taking other forms of revenge....you're only showing him how bad you really got it for him.
WAIT! i did not blast him on the radio!!! lol. come on guys!
i am walking away with dignity. im just having a conversation right now. no revenge will be sought. lol
i dont go around moping thinking woe is me lol.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMV
scorps seem to do their dirty work in the shadows. i will do mine right in the open.
^🙂
And similar, or were you letting off steam ?🙂click to expand
oh i was referring to revenge when i posted this. i was just speaking in general. sorry for the mixup.
Posted by brianafay
The only lasting impression you will leave on him is that you're a psycho love-sick female who just couldn't get over him if you don't let this go and move on...
DIGNITY
Like I said, he needs to feel like he lost something.
moving on takes time. i will get there. im just having a conversation. im NOT looking for a way back to him.
Posted by ellessquePosted by brianafay
THIS IS IMPORTANT
The ONLY way you will ever "come out on top" is to walk away from this with dignity.
& by that I mean, just move on and let it go. Don't even give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt over this.
By feeding into it...involving friends, blasting him on the radio (which btw I'm from the same area as you I know Bubba the Love Sponge,) taking other forms of revenge....you're only showing him how bad you really got it for him.
yep...and he will totally gloat about it.
just stop. move on. he's a douche. don't give him the satisfaction. you are more important than him in the grand scheme of things. you are a queen.
*sticking my tongue out at bling*
we need more blings. hell, we need more libra/scorp cusps.
wait...DMV needs a libra/scorp cusp.click to expand
no need to fret. im not planning revenge. im not looking to be his friend.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
😛😛
I'm genuinely not trying to be a cunt, just real talk, going off DMVs representation of self here.
im not bothered by it.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
You've fallen harder than he I still think that.
i wont get into which one fell harder than the other. i think thats just silly to try to guage that.
Maybe just entertain the idea that it's you this time around ?
Because if someones sharing pm stuff etc, they're dirt. No exceptions.
You could easily do better than this, but as you currently stand, you're not girlfriend material, and yes I'm a stuck up little cunt 🙂click to expand
i agree 100% that i am not girlfriend material. im selfish right now. i never asked him to be my man or for me to be his woman.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
You've fallen harder than he I still think that.
i wont get into which one fell harder than the other. i think thats just silly to try to guage that.
Maybe just entertain the idea that it's you this time around ?
Because if someones sharing pm stuff etc, they're dirt. No exceptions.
You could easily do better than this, but as you currently stand, you're not girlfriend material, and yes I'm a stuck up little cunt 🙂click to expand
no i will not entertain that idea of who fell harder. i dont think he shared anything, he just said that yo hurt me. hes a private person.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by brianafay
THIS IS IMPORTANT
The ONLY way you will ever "come out on top" is to walk away from this with dignity.
& by that I mean, just move on and let it go. Don't even give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt over this.
By feeding into it...involving friends, blasting him on the radio (which btw I'm from the same area as you I know Bubba the Love Sponge,) taking other forms of revenge....you're only showing him how bad you really got it for him.
WAIT! i did not blast him on the radio!!! lol. come on guys!
i am walking away with dignity. im just having a conversation right now. no revenge will be sought. lol
i dont go around moping thinking woe is me lol.
You were at the top of this thread 🙂click to expand
what lol. show me
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Hahaha. So you've been talked down from the ledge ?
Awesome ! 😛
i was never on the ledge.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
"moving on takes time. i will get there. im just having a conversation. im NOT looking for a way back to him."
What percentage of this are you sure of ? 😛
(I'm just playing now fwiw)
100%
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
You've fallen harder than he I still think that.
i wont get into which one fell harder than the other. i think thats just silly to try to guage that.
Maybe just entertain the idea that it's you this time around ?
Because if someones sharing pm stuff etc, they're dirt. No exceptions.
You could easily do better than this, but as you currently stand, you're not girlfriend material, and yes I'm a stuck up little cunt 🙂
i agree 100% that i am not girlfriend material. im selfish right now. i never asked him to be my man or for me to be his woman.
But you wanted him to be at some point, or you wouldn't have been gushing as much on these boards, no matter how fun,zesty,push-pull they were at the time.
You were both selfish from the get go, now there's nothing. I understand that you never asked but that way guarantees never looking like the one who got took for a ride.
Pride, not dignity is the over-riding theme again, I think.
I guess more opinions that ramify you current train of thought are probably what's needed.click to expand
yes i would agree that we were both selfish. 2 big prideful egos.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by borderlinecapri
DMV I think u should avoid getting a scorp enemy. they are the worst enemies in astrology I guess 🙂
i think he should avoid getting me as an enemy.
^^ one right here, continue on for a few pages 🙂click to expand
he SHOULD avoid getting me as an enemy. i whole heartedly agree with this. i can be a monster, but only if im really pushed. i dont go out looking to become enemies. make love not war.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
Hahaha. So you've been talked down from the ledge ?
Awesome ! 😛
i was never on the ledge.
You were, ish.🙂
Posted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
"moving on takes time. i will get there. im just having a conversation. im NOT looking for a way back to him."
What percentage of this are you sure of ? 😛
(I'm just playing now fwiw)
100%
Hahahclick to expand
lol, stop that. thats beccy.
Posted by ellessquePosted by DMVPosted by ellessquePosted by brianafay
THIS IS IMPORTANT
The ONLY way you will ever "come out on top" is to walk away from this with dignity.
& by that I mean, just move on and let it go. Don't even give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt over this.
By feeding into it...involving friends, blasting him on the radio (which btw I'm from the same area as you I know Bubba the Love Sponge,) taking other forms of revenge....you're only showing him how bad you really got it for him.
yep...and he will totally gloat about it.
just stop. move on. he's a douche. don't give him the satisfaction. you are more important than him in the grand scheme of things. you are a queen.
*sticking my tongue out at bling*
we need more blings. hell, we need more libra/scorp cusps.
wait...DMV needs a libra/scorp cusp.
no need to fret. im not planning revenge. im not looking to be his friend.
you have the perfect combo....sag sun/scorp moon
no revenge - only thoughts
no grudges - only thoughts
....and you don't need him to be your friend.
*snip* NEXT!!!!!!!!
yeah, it hurts. probably worse than a scorp sun. *hands you ice cream* but, on the other side of it, it becomes a distant memory.click to expand
when you say snip, i picture a guy getting a vasectomy (sp?) lol
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Feel better for having a purge though ?
i was already in a great mood when i woke up. im just talking about what happened between us.
*sigh*
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by borderlinecapri
DMV I think u should avoid getting a scorp enemy. they are the worst enemies in astrology I guess 🙂
i think he should avoid getting me as an enemy.
^^ one right here, continue on for a few pages 🙂
he SHOULD avoid getting me as an enemy. i whole heartedly agree with this. i can be a monster, but only if im really pushed. i dont go out looking to become enemies. make love not war.
Pssshh, give it up ! 🙂
You probably had smoke coming out of your nose at that point in time 🙂click to expand
no, no smoke. but a shit load of tears and snot.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
Hahaha. So you've been talked down from the ledge ?
Awesome ! 😛
i was never on the ledge.
You were, ish.🙂
Posted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
"moving on takes time. i will get there. im just having a conversation. im NOT looking for a way back to him."
What percentage of this are you sure of ? 😛
(I'm just playing now fwiw)
100%
Hahah
lol, stop that. thats beccy.
Fuck her off that ledge maybe ?click to expand
i better stop before beccy comes and curses me out again.
i do appreciate your bluntness and asking those tough questions. you did raise good points. alot of other blogs walk on eggshells for people.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
You saggies try, I'll give you that.
Tenacity is an endearing quality, but just that the pat on the head/hair ruffling when it comes to you aight ?
😛😛
🙂
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Yeeee hawww !!!
http://photobucket.com/images/cowboy% 20dance" target="_blank">
omg. i was doing this this morning; Happy Friday dance. i get ready for work listenting to music. thats funny.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
Feel better for having a purge though ?
i was already in a great mood when i woke up. im just talking about what happened between us.
That was the other day when the smoke was coming out though 🙂click to expand
wednesday night - shit hit the fan
wednesday night - snot and tears
thrusday morn - snot and tears
thrusday afternoon - where the party at?!
thursday night - smoke session with some friends, i was munching on ice cream ironically.
friday morning - happy friday!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Well, this has made bagging shit up for ebay more enjoyable if that helps some.🙂
you sell on ebay 2? my scorp buddy does ebay movies and stuff. he stays boxing stuff up and having me run to the post office for him. he my buddy. i miss him. he quit his 9-5 and took off to do his own thing. i admire him for that.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
Feel better for having a purge though ?
i was already in a great mood when i woke up. im just talking about what happened between us.
That was the other day when the smoke was coming out though 🙂
wednesday night - shit hit the fan
wednesday night - snot and tears
thrusday morn - snot and tears
thrusday afternoon - where the party at?!
thursday night - smoke session with some friends, i was munching on ice cream ironically.
friday morning - happy friday!
By ice cream do you mean fanny ?click to expand
well weed gives me the munchies sometimes. and i chose ice cream.
so no, i dont mean fanny.
oooooooooooooooooooo
LOL
*shakes head*
I didn't. I'm feeling left out.
You selfish assholes
You selfish assholes
the fuck is a ladyboy?
oh word. I googled it.
But I don't think it's the same thing unless you were really referring to transgendered thai males?
But I don't think it's the same thing unless you were really referring to transgendered thai males?
lol...goggle is great
is this why you're always scratching your chin—?
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Hey guys... What does it mean...my libra replied to my valentine`s day message. mmm...yeeesh...still stuck in the same
so my sag dude is coming over soon and its dress-up time!
Do Sags generally are nice to their ex, or just my sag? This sag I'm in relationship with is very generous to his ex
I only name these too since they are familiar with my situation from my post on the Sagg thread and I know all you other
I am a Sag and I have to say (No offense to any signs intended by the way): Women (Least) Cancer and Pisces- I get a
I keep asking (and being asked) people's birthdays in the OR. Seems like at LEAST 2/3 of them are Saggs. So I wondered,
US President Barack Obama has sent a message to Egyptian President Hosni Mubarak in which he advised him not to run for
I read all the time that Sagis are supposed to be especially lucky in life. Just wondering if this is true for anyone
Be my support group, please! I haven't seen him for 3 weeks, no calls, no messages (just like on a diet, no sugar, no
I'm an aries and she's a sagg, we both moved to this small town because our families are military and sorta became best
Sagi Scottish :D
thoughts?
I've heard MANY people say that arguing is good for the relationship. They say that if 2 people never have a disagree
I'm a sagi and for me some Taurus and Pisces rub me the wrong way. Taurus seem to get offended so easily over the little
Leave legacy's. Jimi Hendrix, born November 27, 1942. Enjoy, Little Wings. ~GM
Okay this is a general thread about how a sagg men or woman like their partner of the opposite sex to talk to them. I kn
So as some of you may know, I'm on POF. A virgo just sent me a message asking why i didn't message him after viewing his
how to find out what my sagittarius chart is? o.O all i know is i'm born on november 23rd 1988 and between 5am to 6am
Year 2011 Overview When it rains it definitely pours Sag -- and this year it's raining romance. Love hits a serious h
i do have a big ego. i have alot of pride. i dont see anything wrong with that. i dont need other people to make me feel like im on top. im a one man show all by myself lol.