Are Sagittariuses emotionally closed?

We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Posted by UnicornSag
Yes I can only agree to that. Despite being so blunt and honest and straight forward my deepest emotions are always kept to myself. I find it hard to express them, feel awkward when I do and usually regret it later. One way or another it gets turned against me every single time, by every single person.

Yesterday I've been called unemotional and insensitive. I literally cried (hidden ofc) but I said nothing to it or did anything to object to that statement. Cause I just feel tired of people misunderstanding me and I'll rather be like that than overly emotional.

I feel like I have to tell my things to someone as well but I never do tell my deepest thoughts. It's like I always say part of everything, I just can't trust people in general and there are things that bug me cause like you said it feels so overwhelming to not tell it to someone but cause of the wight of it I feel like at some point it will be used against me and I just keep it to myself instead.

And regarding being blunt and hurting others in process it's not intentional and doesn't happen so often lately cause I learned to chose words more carefully but it did use to happen at some point. It can happen tho when I really want to hurt someone who has already hurt me, I know exactly what and how to use against them and it's nothing but truth, no insults or anything, just a plain truth but put in a way to put them back in their place

I get it. Our experiences seem similar. When I mentioned I clear out my thoughts to someone up to now it's like a relative that I know is trustful and there for me since birth. Thankfully I am lucky to have that. But sometimes there are things that bother me that I find both illogical and painfully embarrassing and silly to talk about that I keep them inside my head and these thoughts grow gigantic and create me problems.

Lately I watch myself opening up to more people. Its probably cause I clarified some old situations and that helped a lot. Released some suppressed and buried emotions and all got better. And also currently I don't care about opening up. People can do whatever they want with what I tell them. Its nothing that can harm me really. :p

My own mother tells me she thinks I am unemotional and I am like..... That's funny, you don't know me at all.... Uhh

Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Opening up means vulnerability, vulnerability relates to trust...and sometimes that's hard to come by...says the Scorpio-dominant Sag.

For realz though. I have no issues opening up to someone, it's the sustained part that I get clammy about. Just cause I open up about something once doesn't mean I want to continue to bring it up. I'm an awkward human bean who can show emotion easily but doesn't necessarily want to dwell on it. I use humor to diffuse A LOT. I don't care for confrontation, but push me far enough and I'm a completely different person...idk lol 🙂

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Yes I can only agree to that. Despite being so blunt and honest and straight forward my deepest emotions are always kept to myself. I find it hard to express them, feel awkward when I do and usually regret it later. One way or another it gets turned against me every single time, by every single person.

Yesterday I've been called unemotional and insensitive. I literally cried (hidden ofc) but I said nothing to it or did anything to object to that statement. Cause I just feel tired of people misunderstanding me and I'll rather be like that than overly emotional.

I feel like I have to tell my things to someone as well but I never do tell my deepest thoughts. It's like I always say part of everything, I just can't trust people in general and there are things that bug me cause like you said it feels so overwhelming to not tell it to someone but cause of the wight of it I feel like at some point it will be used against me and I just keep it to myself instead.

And regarding being blunt and hurting others in process it's not intentional and doesn't happen so often lately cause I learned to chose words more carefully but it did use to happen at some point. It can happen tho when I really want to hurt someone who has already hurt me, I know exactly what and how to use against them and it's nothing but truth, no insults or anything, just a plain truth but put in a way to put them back in their place

I get it. Our experiences seem similar. When I mentioned I clear out my thoughts to someone up to now it's like a relative that I know is trustful and there for me since birth. Thankfully I am lucky to have that. But sometimes there are things that bother me that I find both illogical and painfully embarrassing and silly to talk about that I keep them inside my head and these thoughts grow gigantic and create me problems.

Lately I watch myself opening up to more people. Its probably cause I clarified some old situations and that helped a lot. Released some suppressed and buried emotions and all got better. And also currently I don't care about opening up. People can do whatever they want with what I tell them. Its nothing that can harm me really. :p

My own mother tells me she thinks I am unemotional and I am like..... That's funny, you don't know me at all.... Uhh

this is so funny that you mentioned cause I also feel like my own mother doesn't know me at all actually...and it's not wrong at all! But this goes for other people sometimes, it just feels sometimes like they don't get me at all. But luckily it passes by soon enough to forget about those thoughts and it just feels easier to not think about it. I find it so funny how people often misunderstand Sags cheerful nature and chattering for not having depth and being shallow. People think they have you all figured out yet you see from their words and actions they're not even close to understanding you lol

I did that release of emotions past summer and my friends just got shocked when I started opening up finally lol until then they all thought I'm so perfectly calmed and everything going so smoothly until that suppressed river of emotions came out finally lol

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So that's how it goes. From suppressing my emotions I had started to lose contact with myself and who I am. Or they would get out in a psychosomatic way, which really waked me up about how harmful it actually is to suppress emotions. Hopefully I will keep expressing them for as long as I can. I wish you the same 🙂

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

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I am not sure of what things are going to come out in this situation.... I dont really want to know xD

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

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Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.

i am not a Sagittarius but i do have a sagg moon so i share something similar whenever i am emotional i'd rather cry alone or not at all my optimism keeps me from becoming emotional but i can be really depressed because of that the only person i show my emotions to is my sagg although i am an open book and i will express myself i keep my deepest thoughts and emotions for myself.

After i have been emotional i become sober again which sort of cleanses my mind and then i am over it or at least that's what i say to myself i just never mention it again and i leave be as it is

I hide my emotions by being sarcastic by making jokes making other people laugh so i forget my own pain etcetc i try to focus on other things like my body sports,fun things and every now and then some alcohol but almost never. I don't know if it's Sagittarius moon but i often feel empty for no reason out of nowhere and no other feelings i feel at that moment

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.

Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments 😄

I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.

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From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.

And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.

Yes I get what you all describe. We pretty much share a similar experience on this.

I think that's how we have learned or tend to live from some reason and sooner or later each one of us realises that suppressing our emotions is not a healthy or even realistic way to live and we try to change that and let them out.

Think Cancers for example. Most of the times they will tell you straight or show you how they feel. The rest of us think they are cyclothymic. But all they actually are is emotionally open. Yes this may leads to being clingy and other stuff, you can't only be based and live by emotions.

But these people must feel true to themselves even in this way. Plain logic and suppressing emotions all the way down to life can cause serious harm and a lot or wrong decisions.

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.

Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments 😄

I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.

From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.

And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.

She is. And yes, i really appreciate it. These things are significant to me.

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I am glad for that. What's your sign and moon?

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.

Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments 😄

I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.

From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.

And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.

She is. And yes, i really appreciate it. These things are significant to me.

I am glad for that. What's your sign and moon?

Pisces sun and Aqua moon (in the eight)

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Sounds a pretty nice pair to me. Especially the sun's.

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.

Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments 😄

I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.

From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.

And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.

She is. And yes, i really appreciate it. These things are significant to me.

I am glad for that. What's your sign and moon?

Pisces sun and Aqua moon (in the eight)

Sounds a pretty nice pair to me. Especially the sun's.

So far so good! It's moving slowly (both of us are cap dominant) but safely in the right direction.

I like the moon-sun combos -> my sun and her moon are in sync as are my moon (air) and her sun (fire).

you are cap dominant sag too, right? where is your moon?

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Nice!

Yes I am Sag sun, and my rising, moon, mercury, venus, Mars, Neptune are all in Capricorn lol

The moon, mercury, Mars are in the 12th though

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.

Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments 😄

I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.

From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.

And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.

She is. And yes, i really appreciate it. These things are significant to me.

I am glad for that. What's your sign and moon?

Pisces sun and Aqua moon (in the eight)

Sounds a pretty nice pair to me. Especially the sun's.

So far so good! It's moving slowly (both of us are cap dominant) but safely in the right direction.

I like the moon-sun combos -> my sun and her moon are in sync as are my moon (air) and her sun (fire).

you are cap dominant sag too, right? where is your moon?

Nice!

Yes I am Sag sun, and my rising, moon, mercury, venus, Mars, Neptune are all in Capricorn lol

The moon, mercury, Mars are in the 12th though

Wow, quite the stellium you've got there! Have you ever been with someone with whom you felt like you could put down the walls and open up?

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Yes thats a real stellium haha. I am 20 to begin with.

Well there was a Taurus guy i was dating 1,5 year ago... The only man I actually dated and he was going well on this, I trusted him in general. But I was immature. So now seems like we never really got past each other though so currently we discuss of trying again. But it's still the beginning and I am not so sure. But I am in a way better place about opening up in general and to him too so it's good.

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.

Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments 😄

I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.

From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.

And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.

She is. And yes, i really appreciate it. These things are significant to me.

I am glad for that. What's your sign and moon?

Pisces sun and Aqua moon (in the eight)

Sounds a pretty nice pair to me. Especially the sun's.

So far so good! It's moving slowly (both of us are cap dominant) but safely in the right direction.

I like the moon-sun combos -> my sun and her moon are in sync as are my moon (air) and her sun (fire).

you are cap dominant sag too, right? where is your moon?

Nice!

Yes I am Sag sun, and my rising, moon, mercury, venus, Mars, Neptune are all in Capricorn lol

The moon, mercury, Mars are in the 12th though

Wow, quite the stellium you've got there! Have you ever been with someone with whom you felt like you could put down the walls and open up?

Yes thats a real stellium haha. I am 20 to begin with.

Well there was a Taurus guy i was dating 1,5 year ago... The only man I actually dated and he was going well on this, I trusted him in general. But I was immature. So now seems like we never really got past each other though so currently we discuss of trying again. But it's still the beginning and I am not so sure. But I am in a way better place about opening up in general and to him too so it's good.

You and my gf are the same age ^^ 😄 2-4 December?

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OMG yes I am 2 Dec 1997!! So she is probably Dec 7-8? 😄

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Yes I believe that too. Cause moon is all natural to us. The sun is not so close to express itself as the moon.

Plus, the moon is the planet that represents emotions and being in a sign that is more expressive its easier for emotions to be shared. Even if the sun is in an otherwise reserved sign. I have a Cancer sun, Sag moon friend, and even if its hard for her to express her feelings, she still does via writing or just by being direct.

On the contrary, my sag sun, pisces moon and heavy cap stellium gf is extremely social but rarely if ever lets other people in that very very private space. One of her best childhood friends told me they have rarely ever spoken about emotions and hard moments 😄

I like that in sags actually. Im grateful she has started to let me in that space.

From what you describe if she has a pisces moon she must be very emotional and sensitive.

And yes it's very beautiful to see people tumble down their walls and let you in. It's actually the best thing. Cause you see you have earn their trust and respect.

She is. And yes, i really appreciate it. These things are significant to me.

I am glad for that. What's your sign and moon?

Pisces sun and Aqua moon (in the eight)

Sounds a pretty nice pair to me. Especially the sun's.

So far so good! It's moving slowly (both of us are cap dominant) but safely in the right direction.

I like the moon-sun combos -> my sun and her moon are in sync as are my moon (air) and her sun (fire).

you are cap dominant sag too, right? where is your moon?

Nice!

Yes I am Sag sun, and my rising, moon, mercury, venus, Mars, Neptune are all in Capricorn lol

The moon, mercury, Mars are in the 12th though

Wow, quite the stellium you've got there! Have you ever been with someone with whom you felt like you could put down the walls and open up?

Yes thats a real stellium haha. I am 20 to begin with.

Well there was a Taurus guy i was dating 1,5 year ago... The only man I actually dated and he was going well on this, I trusted him in general. But I was immature. So now seems like we never really got past each other though so currently we discuss of trying again. But it's still the beginning and I am not so sure. But I am in a way better place about opening up in general and to him too so it's good.

You and my gf are the same age ^^ 😄 2-4 December?

OMG yes I am 2 Dec 1997!! So she is probably Dec 7-8? 😄

8, yes 😄 nice

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If you need advice about her tell me haha 🙂

Even though you probably know better about her lol

It's really based around reciprocity. I will eventually shut that part of myself off if I feel I'm not understood on an emotional level or little to no attempt is made to try. It's their loss anyway.

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

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Try being a Sag moon with a Cap Venus. I am emotionally closed tighter than a virgin. The only people that usually get me to open up are Scorpio dominant people.

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

I am not sure of what things are going to come out in this situation.... I dont really want to know xD

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Oh trust me EVERYTHING will come out. I got high and drunk with my Sag fwb and he let out the fact that he is loves me and that no other man will be able to have me the way that he has me and that my lips are his. I too said a little too much then the next day he tried to pretend he did not say it and we laughed it off. Now I randomly catch him making googly eyes at me when we hangout.

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Try being a Sag moon with a Cap Venus. I am emotionally closed tighter than a virgin. The only people that usually get me to open up are Scorpio dominant people.

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Hahah I am Sag sun and among all the Cap I have..... I have Cap venus too. It's exactly as you say it hahah

Sagittarius in any placement is kind of intuitive. If they’re not opening up completely they don’t completely trust. A lot of people see Sagittarius as playful and fling ish but they’re just that way to hide what’s really on the inside.



You can know a Sagittarius and think you know them well but not really know them at all, except the fun side of them. Sometimes they share and i find that what they share are surface emotions nothing too deep, maybe they feel the emotions restrict them and they love their independence.

Other times some things are best kept to yourself and thats a real sag trait, they’re mysterious in a way because they never tell anything although they tell things and you think you know but you really don’t.

Idk its something about them that doesn’t seem so out there even with their openness

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Sagittarius in any placement is kind of intuitive. If they’re not opening up completely they don’t completely trust. A lot of people see Sagittarius as playful and fling ish but they’re just that way to hide what’s really on the inside.



You can know a Sagittarius and think you know them well but not really know them at all, except the fun side of them. Sometimes they share and i fond that what they share are surface emotions nothing too deep, maybe they feel the emotions restrict them and they love their independence.

Other times some things are best kept to yourself and thats a real sag trait, they’re mysterious in a way because they never tell anything although they tell things and you think you know but you really don’t.

Idk its something about them that doesn’t seem so out there even with their openness

Sagittarius comes after Scorpio. It contains Scorpios darkness and actually tries to trascend it. So their shadow side in a sense is Scorpio. Especially Sag risings with Scorpio in the 12th.

I'll open more with a stranger. LOL

I hide it, very few would ever know Im down, etc. I cry alone. I had a cry a few nights ago asking the universe to help me let go of someone. Its been a while since I cried outside a sappy movie moment. haha. Certainly been a very very long time since I cried over a guy! I guess I needed to do it...

Im blunt as well and Im not fond of having to hold back. I have learned as Ive aged to turn it down a bit just like as much as I love my freedom Ive settled way down.

To add Im an Aqua moon and Venus in Capricorn.

I don't think im emotionally closed.

i do think that i have a hard time showing emotion physically, i don't like when people cry, i don't know how to connected to someone in an emotional state. i don't like to feel or appear weak.

i also don't like to feel negativity. if i know im going through something negative or something that causes a negative emotion i don't see the point in talking about it, or expressing it or harping on it. i don't want to put negativity in the universe because i just want to focus on things that make me feel good. or atleast content and i like to deal with things on my own. i always want to do whats best for me and i don't always want or need the opinions of others. but i think that im emotionally available to others, im just not going to harp on negative and im not going to allow people to harp on their negative because i don't think that's a healthy energy.

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I don't think im emotionally closed.

i do think that i have a hard time showing emotion physically, i don't like when people cry, i don't know how to connected to someone in an emotional state. i don't like to feel or appear weak.

i also don't like to feel negativity. if i know im going through something negative or something that causes a negative emotion i don't see the point in talking about it, or expressing it or harping on it. i don't want to put negativity in the universe because i just want to focus on things that make me feel good. or atleast content and i like to deal with things on my own. i always want to do whats best for me and i don't always want or need the opinions of others. but i think that im emotionally available to others, im just not going to harp on negative and im not going to allow people to harp on their negative because i don't think that's a healthy energy.

Sounds a bit similar to me, even though I share when I have a problem with close ones sometimes.

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I don't think im emotionally closed.

i do think that i have a hard time showing emotion physically, i don't like when people cry, i don't know how to connected to someone in an emotional state. i don't like to feel or appear weak.

i also don't like to feel negativity. if i know im going through something negative or something that causes a negative emotion i don't see the point in talking about it, or expressing it or harping on it. i don't want to put negativity in the universe because i just want to focus on things that make me feel good. or atleast content and i like to deal with things on my own. i always want to do whats best for me and i don't always want or need the opinions of others. but i think that im emotionally available to others, im just not going to harp on negative and im not going to allow people to harp on their negative because i don't think that's a healthy energy.

Sounds a bit similar to me, even though I share when I have a problem with close ones sometimes.

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I have a very small circle of trusted friends. I do admit I share things, when BS happens its more like a "can you believe this type of sharing" I however don't often only because I don't feel like people care and I don't feel like people can relate or provide good advice. I suppose I only trust myself and my own choices.

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I don't think im emotionally closed.

i do think that i have a hard time showing emotion physically, i don't like when people cry, i don't know how to connected to someone in an emotional state. i don't like to feel or appear weak.

i also don't like to feel negativity. if i know im going through something negative or something that causes a negative emotion i don't see the point in talking about it, or expressing it or harping on it. i don't want to put negativity in the universe because i just want to focus on things that make me feel good. or atleast content and i like to deal with things on my own. i always want to do whats best for me and i don't always want or need the opinions of others. but i think that im emotionally available to others, im just not going to harp on negative and im not going to allow people to harp on their negative because i don't think that's a healthy energy.

Sounds a bit similar to me, even though I share when I have a problem with close ones sometimes.

I have a very small circle of trusted friends. I do admit I share things, when BS happens its more like a "can you believe this type of sharing" I however don't often only because I don't feel like people care and I don't feel like people can relate or provide good advice. I suppose I only trust myself and my own choices.

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That's true. Probably yours is a better approach. My aunt teases me saying that when I have a problem or need to make a decision I ask so many people... Like I am going to choose based on statistical results..... :p

I share thoughts with others.

Emotions are mine.

could also come from PiMoo.

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Try being a Sag moon with a Cap Venus. I am emotionally closed tighter than a virgin. The only people that usually get me to open up are Scorpio dominant people.

Hahah I am Sag sun and among all the Cap I have..... I have Cap venus too. It's exactly as you say it hahah

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Do you find yourself alone crying for no reason sometimes then later cheering yourself up? lol I think the optimism is so strong it outweighs sadness.

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We all know Sagittariuses are open and happy and social and light hearted and all that stuff.

But what I find in common with all of them, myself included, is that Sags don't not open up easily or a lot emotionally. This means we engage, spend time with others, associate but not really connect. We can talk about random stuff for hours.... Personally I can't I suffer through it.

Also Sags are famous of being painfully honest or bold. This is true. And I was asked by a friend why Sags do this?

I answered first of all personally I am not that bold to hurt others. Second I really want and need to have some people in my life where I can throw all my thoughts on. I have some of them. And it's like when a thought comes up I just get it out. And I know they are OK with it. Of course I don't try to hurt them or say bad stuff about them right on their face.

But If I can't share with at least one person in my life all of my intimate thoughts, I feel like I will go crazy.

Sags do you have same experiences?

Liquor and weed opens them up...trust me. Sag moon here who will spill my guts in the right environment with the two things mentioned.

Sag moon is way more open.

Try being a Sag moon with a Cap Venus. I am emotionally closed tighter than a virgin. The only people that usually get me to open up are Scorpio dominant people.

Hahah I am Sag sun and among all the Cap I have..... I have Cap venus too. It's exactly as you say it hahah

Do you find yourself alone crying for no reason sometimes then later cheering yourself up? lol I think the optimism is so strong it outweighs sadness.

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To me it happens yes.

I'm open emotionally. I love making men I'm interested in uncomfortable with all of mine and seeing how they handle them. I will give them all to that person and if he hurts me, it will only be his fault cause I was completely open. I do things with no regrets and cam keep getting up and doing it all over again. I never build walls when I love someone. I'm very resilient when it comes to that. I don't know why.

Maybe cause I love the feeling of being in love and finally able to trust someone.

I don't cry by myself though. I rarely cry, just at movies and when a person I love (a man) hurts my feelings. For everyone else I don't let them in that far.

I feel that Sagittarius at times miss out on opportunities because they are emotionally closed, wait perhaps the wrong word. Selective as to who they open up to.

How do you get a Sagittarius to open up to you?

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I feel that Sagittarius at times miss out on opportunities because they are emotionally closed, wait perhaps the wrong word. Selective as to who they open up to.

How do you get a Sagittarius to open up to you?

I am not sure.... Maybe they need to trust you, but more probably Sags don't open up to themselves about their emotions... I used to at least.

What changed you?

Well I'm not here to run the gamut on emotions or open up to the world...like that.

I'd rather be and show happy ecstatic life's a party emotions. That's the openess your getting and only getting.

That's where we shine or maybe it's my 5th house stellium.

But I have no time nor patience for negative or sad feelings.

Life is too short

Let the other 11 signs have those other emotions. I will gladly keep the optimistic ones.

Accept the positive

Reject the negative

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What changed you?

A relationship, some friends talked to me and helped realize I suppress my emotions, psychotherapy and my own work with myself. I am in a way better place than I used to be with emotional expression.

Two years ago I expressed every emotion I felt by saying 'I am bored'. I would say it all the time and people would get annoyed and thought I am rude. I have read Boredom is suppressed anger too.

Oh my Sun is in Sag in 11th house.

But my moon is in Cap in 12th house... You get the picture... This moon is destructive lol

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Well I'm not here to run the gamut on emotions or open up to the world...like that.

I'd rather be and show happy ecstatic life's a party emotions. That's the openess your getting and only getting.

That's where we shine or maybe it's my 5th house stellium.

But I have no time nor patience for negative or sad feelings.

Life is too short

Let the other 11 signs have those other emotions. I will gladly keep the optimistic ones.

Accept the positive

Reject the negative

Haha that's very good for you! I need to tell you the rest of us don't exactly choose to have these emotions... We just feel that way. Even though it is said that our thoughts create our emotions so there's a link there too. You are possibly a very bright and optimistic person to begin with.