Do we play mind games?

I saw a post about how Sagittarius's play mind games by being emotionally unavailable. Personally, I hate mind games. No, I LOATHE mind games. But do we do them ourselves?








P.S. Sexy Aquarius Mandood, this is why I hate you so much that I want to slice your head off with a knife, use your blood to paint the words "Fuck you" on the walls, and then hide your body in the Bermuda Triangle.

I would like to say verbally sags can be very up front but!
Mind games or games period I can see that happening.

My current gf lives with me and during a 4month period we were not together. She kept telling lets just be friend because I don't see a future with us. Before I moved in things were so different. And I think friends are better. During this entire 4 months she would constantly call me, face time me, text me, play fight, attempt to cuddle and as soon as I felt like we were more than friends she would quickly remind me what we were!

But her actions were all saying other wise! However sexually and emotionally she kept her self guarded
Now we have rekindled and she's back to her old loving self.
I feel like it was all a game for her despite other things she couldn't help.

No, the Saggies I know are generally straightforward. I think people confuse their disappearing acts as 'mind games', when all that's really about is a mutable's need for space. This is a trait most present in Sagittarius, I feel like. Anyone who dates or befriends a Sag must take this into account. I'm an Aries sun, so I can be impatient. However my Mars is a mutable sign and house and I have a mutable moon house. I disappear a lot myself. So it doesn't worry me all that much.

Posted by xomelindabelle
No, the Saggies I know are generally straightforward. I think people confuse their disappearing acts as 'mind games', when all that's really about is a mutable's need for space. This is a trait most present in Sagittarius, I feel like. Anyone who dates or befriends a Sag must take this into account. I'm an Aries sun, so I can be impatient. However my Mars is a mutable sign and house and I have a mutable moon house. I disappear a lot myself. So it doesn't worry me all that much.

This is so true !!! I do disappear a lot.. Most of the time, it's me getting myself together... It's like I can't stay focused or something..

To Ssasy:

Usually what I'd say is do you want the title or the commitment? In actuality, most people are getting the commitment, it's just that the Sag hasn't made it "official" from their point of view.

It's the source of many a topic on this forum. It always makes me chuckle. Why? Easy. Plenty of people with rings and titles that say they're committed but one or both parties actions show otherwise. As an ode to our independent thinking, we do the exact opposite. We show you in our own way. Words mean shit, actions are everything.

Posted by thinktoomuch
What does emotionally unavailable even mean—?

I don't know. It was the quickest way to put it!

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P.S. Sexy Aquarius Mandood, this is why I hate you so much that I want to slice your head off with a knife, use your blood to paint the words "Fuck you" on the walls, and then hide your body in the Bermuda Triangle.

So you've really got the hots for this guy but he won't put out?




ps
I believe the plural of Sagittarius, is Sagittarius, not Sagittarius's
LOL

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Somebody finally noticed my masterpiece of a sentence. 😆
And yes, that was a grammatical error.

Posted by sagiluv
I'm sagi

No mixed signals

If I like you you'll know it.
If I don't you'll know it..
I don't stick around if I'm not interested.

Sun-sag
Moon Aries
Mercury sag
Venus cap
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn libra
Uranus sag
Neptune sag
Pluto libra

Let's give a round of applause for this person over here.

If it's a mind game, it's one I'm playing on myself. I never intentionally try to play games with someone, if I'm acting emotionally unavailable it's truly because I believe there is something that's not going to work out between us, and I'm trying to convince my heart to agree with my brain. In my experience, if he's getting mixed signals from me it's because I actually like him more than I think I should.

no. no mind games.


i mean what i say its up to you to believe it or not.

Posted by Shellyd238
If it's a mind game, it's one I'm playing on myself. I never intentionally try to play games with someone, if I'm acting emotionally unavailable it's truly because I believe there is something that's not going to work out between us, and I'm trying to convince my heart to agree with my brain. In my experience, if he's getting mixed signals from me it's because I actually like him more than I think I should.

I agree. In the last two years I had to keep somebody at the arm length and I don't know what he thought. He kept contacting me and I had to ignore many of his calls. In between we met once in a few weeks or even months. He still kept contacting me or aksing if I was missing him. I had told him nothing of sexual nature was gonna happen between us. I refered to the age difference. I told it's sick to become conditioned by somebody's frequent calls if there is no serious intent behind it.

Interesting enough that he once said he was not ready for a relationship. One of these divorcees.

Now he has found a new job in another city. I wished him the best via short message. Since then he does not call anymore. I miss him in a subtle, quiet and not intensive way.

I really don't know if he was so lonley or he just thought I was playing hard to get. Maybe he has not met a Sagittarius ever before. Fact is it was ridiculous that he kept contacting me while he was not ready for a relationship. Maybe he thought I was sexually liberal. The sporty Sagittarius flirt can be misunderstood. Anyway we might have helped each other out of a difficult period of our lives. maybe.I don't think I would have died without him. BTW it was a fate encounter. AC meets SN.

Sag definitely play mind games...they just don't realize they do. They blow hot and cold.. Hot when you don't want them around and cold when you do!

Posted by bnr7013
Yup we sure do. However it's not ALL mind games. For example, we're pretty blunt about whether we like you or not but when it comes to calling first or texting, etc. we aren't always busy - we know you're waiting on us to pick up the phone first. We like winning....& you gotta play the game sometimes that's just the way it is.

GROW UP.

Posted by MissM
Sag definitely play mind games...they just don't realize they do. They blow hot and cold.. Hot when you don't want them around and cold when you do!

but if someone wants you more because they cannot get you, you are not played, they are played.

It's like when a Scorpio becomes curious with situations somebody forgets to give report. one is too busy to report. the other one thinks he has something to hide. The curious one is played. by the nature. not by the forgetful or busy person.

No cause you wanted them and they didn't want you so as soon as you start moving on cause you know they don't want you they start acting like they want you... It's like they don't want you, they just don't want anyone else to have you

Posted by arose32

Posted by bnr7013
Yup we sure do. However it's not ALL mind games. For example, we're pretty blunt about whether we like you or not but when it comes to calling first or texting, etc. we aren't always busy - we know you're waiting on us to pick up the phone first. We like winning....& you gotta play the game sometimes that's just the way it is.

GROW UP.

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she does not speak for all of us. I eagerly await my calls crush.

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Posted by arose32

Posted by bnr7013
Yup we sure do. However it's not ALL mind games. For example, we're pretty blunt about whether we like you or not but when it comes to calling first or texting, etc. we aren't always busy - we know you're waiting on us to pick up the phone first. We like winning....& you gotta play the game sometimes that's just the way it is.

GROW UP.

she does not speak for all of us. I eagerly await my calls crush.

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I'm a Sag Also. But those who do act like her, are usually the ones who are not as intelligent as the philosophical ones. It's two types of us. The ones who party 24,7 etc and the ones who actually care about life and work to be rich ... Like I've stated, I'm graduating college rich... But the ones who not as smart as the second group gives us a bad name !!

I have my Mars, Uranus, and Neptune in Sag.
I never realized how much I get along with Sag people.
My bf is a Sag and he is definitely the best match for me.
☺ï¸

Posted by xomelindabelle
No, the Saggies I know are generally straightforward. I think people confuse their disappearing acts as 'mind games', when all that's really about is a mutable's need for space. This is a trait most present in Sagittarius, I feel like. Anyone who dates or befriends a Sag must take this into account. I'm an Aries sun, so I can be impatient. However my Mars is a mutable sign and house and I have a mutable moon house. I disappear a lot myself. So it doesn't worry me all that much.

Yup, you nailed it. No games, we just need space. I hate when somebody doesn't understand this, so that is why we can quickly get bored with someone. If they don't understand our need...

Whaaaaaat lol.

Sags are the most straight up people ever

Sags who play mind games are probably defective or broken, just pray they're within warranty

Posted by deedee85
My Sagittarius friend:
Monday-texts 50 times with little comments thrown in about wanting to get to know me better.
Tuesday-long conversation about love and life with comments about how I have it all figured out.
Wednesday-texts all day and mentions how he wants to just run away from the world with me and I made him so happy and got him out of the down mood that he had for weeks
Thursday-very short texts
Friday- I send on text and he doesn't reply. It wasn't anything that needed a reply so no big deal
Saturday-nothing
Sunday-nothing
Monday-I send one text with a question and 14 hours later and no reply.
Is that a game? Did I just get played?
We are just friends but things were starting to go in another direction.

Chill your scorp magnifying glass, don't dig in too much. "Mentions how he wants to just run away from the world with me and I made him so happy and got him out of the down mood that he had for weeks" clearly he's going through some crisis and has been using you as an escape and is probably back going through something serious atm. It's not mind games... give them space. If they don't contact you within 2 more days, just send a text saying you hope they're okay since you haven't heard back in a while and that you're here if they need anyone.

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Posted by xomelindabelle
No, the Saggies I know are generally straightforward. I think people confuse their disappearing acts as 'mind games', when all that's really about is a mutable's need for space. This is a trait most present in Sagittarius, I feel like. Anyone who dates or befriends a Sag must take this into account. I'm an Aries sun, so I can be impatient. However my Mars is a mutable sign and house and I have a mutable moon house. I disappear a lot myself. So it doesn't worry me all that much.

This is so true !!! I do disappear a lot.. Most of the time, it's me getting myself together... It's like I can't stay focused or something..

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Wow so true.. so the need of space is mainly the sag need for space n freedom to do his own thing? Sometimes I wonder if that is the Venus in Scorpio need for power. Lost. lol

Posted by beautifulsoul74
To Ssasy:

Usually what I'd say is do you want the title or the commitment? In actuality, most people are getting the commitment, it's just that the Sag hasn't made it "official" from their point of view.

It's the source of many a topic on this forum. It always makes me chuckle. Why? Easy. Plenty of people with rings and titles that say they're committed but one or both parties actions show otherwise. As an ode to our independent thinking, we do the exact opposite. We show you in our own way. Words mean shit, actions are everything.

I love that theory..

Posted by bnr7013
Yup we sure do. However it's not ALL mind games. For example, we're pretty blunt about whether we like you or not but when it comes to calling first or texting, etc. we aren't always busy - we know you're waiting on us to pick up the phone first. We like winning....& you gotta play the game sometimes that's just the way it is.

That sounds like a game !

Posted by MissM
Sag definitely play mind games...they just don't realize they do. They blow hot and cold.. Hot when you don't want them around and cold when you do!

+1

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Posted by Harukaa
Oh yes

The sad thing ..that most of people are lazy .. and sometimes stupid so they don't love games

Hahahhaha?!?!!!!

Please explain my dear Harukaa : ) I want to see if I can relate.

I always crack up at your posts. You say exactly what you want.

Will .. most of people will say :"I want u ..ur love ...etc that's boring .. I know it's lovely but not all the time

I mean when someone told you that he had dream about u.. you know he is lying but it's funny lol

When we play games ..it's mean that we care (we made games for u) not in a bad way .. but when someone play game it's mean he is a player or madly in love
U will know the difference when u look at them

When you made games it's mean u think about the person and care ..you want him to not forget about you
Not mean that u will play with their hearts .. no
but u make them learn from you a lot about love
cuz it's not about just words or sex.. it's about the ideas and the soul of person u are in love with

and that's it

Your English is weird but I understand. Yes. I play game but not the typical ",fuck you mind games" but more of an, "I love you and I need reassurance" game.

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Oh wow !!! It's great seeing it this way... 🙂

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Posted by MissM
Sag definitely play mind games...they just don't realize they do. They blow hot and cold.. Hot when you don't want them around and cold when you do!

+1

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+1 so true
That's the reason why i've to play mind game ^^
Me sagg venus (aqua sun/scorp moon)