Do you fantasize about the relationship??

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by seaclovers on Sunday, October 17, 2010 and has 13 replies.

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@seaclovers
19 Years

Before there even is one.
Example: Say you meet someone and right off the bat when you go home.. and for days... sometimes weeks.. you romantisize and fantasize about this person you dont even know?
Is it just Me? Im a what i like to call a scorptarius. born on the cusp.
I do this all the time and i set myself up for dissapointment.
Especially if anything comes of it and we get to the nitty gritty in the sheets.
I would have already fantasized about the person so much and make up so many scenarios in my head of us being perfect i get let down...
I just met this Leo... and ive never dated a Leo as of yet..
me: 22
dated: libra, aqua, virgo, and pisces
I've always longed to date a Leo
and i finally found one and im driving myself crazy. His family loves me and has invited me over 3 times for dinner and games and were all going out to the movies today..
I sent him a text saying he's incredibly adorable and i love his family.. sent him a message on FB, but he never checks it.. im trying to shoot my arrow with the "love me" sting at the end..and he replies that hes glad i had a good time.
but i cant stop trying to be mentally intimate(like sex and pretending its everything ive been missing) with this dude(more so with myself. haha) when we havent really talked much by ourselves..
uuhhggg.
am i crazy?! is it just me?
or do all signs do this?

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@rominan-sagittarius
16 YearsSagittarius

i do the same and i am born 04 December,i used too get despondent as well so i stopped myself from doing that. my sexual thoughts are too intense and hot for them to be real. i have had some really good sex but never get to that mental stage i want to be in. it is like i want to be inside you in a way. like in your thoughts and body. i read somewhere that it is a saggy part. they never reach that mental sexual part they want to reach...

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

holy hell...im 11/25 and i thought i was the only one doing this!! i have relationships with just about everyone i meet and i can play out the whole relationship in about 10 seconds of meeting them.

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@xxxLeogalxxx
16 Years

Ladies, this is a Woman thang.

Yup, you meet him for the first time and by wk 2 you have already moved in together and by wk 4 y'all have been married and expecting the twins 😉

It's normal (imo), but yes this sort of fantasising does have you placing them on a high pedal stall, so when we get to know the real them, were like 'huh what happened to the...'image' I conjured up of you?' Doh. 😉

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@TypicalScorpio
15 YearsScorpio

I'm not a cusp, I'm the 16th of november, but I find when I read about scorp/sag cusp I can relate to it a lot more than just the plain scorp descriptions... I can also relate to this post!

I never knew anyone else did this and I was starting to think maybe something was wrong with me. So even though I have no input for this thread I just wanted to thank you guys for being as weird as me! 😄

I don't think it's all signs that do this. It could be, as leogal says, a female thing, but I'm more leaning towards a scorpio thing..either that or even though I'm not a cusp I'm still close enough to have some of the energy affect me.

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by seaclovers
Before there even is one.
Example: Say you meet someone and right off the bat when you go home.. and for days... sometimes weeks.. you romantisize and fantasize about this person you dont even know?
Is it just Me? Im a what i like to call a scorptarius. born on the cusp.
I do this all the time and i set myself up for dissapointment.
Especially if anything comes of it and we get to the nitty gritty in the sheets.
I would have already fantasized about the person so much and make up so many scenarios in my head of us being perfect i get let down...
I just met this Leo... and ive never dated a Leo as of yet..
me: 22
dated: libra, aqua, virgo, and pisces
I've always longed to date a Leo
and i finally found one and im driving myself crazy. His family loves me and has invited me over 3 times for dinner and games and were all going out to the movies today..
I sent him a text saying he's incredibly adorable and i love his family.. sent him a message on FB, but he never checks it.. im trying to shoot my arrow with the "love me" sting at the end..and he replies that hes glad i had a good time.
but i cant stop trying to be mentally intimate(like sex and pretending its everything ive been missing) with this dude(more so with myself. haha) when we havent really talked much by ourselves..
uuhhggg.
am i crazy?! is it just me?
or do all signs do this?

I have done this 🙂

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@beautifulsoul74
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by xxxLeogalxxx
Ladies, this is a Woman thang.

Yup, you meet him for the first time and by wk 2 you have already moved in together and by wk 4 y'all have been married and expecting the twins 😉

It's normal (imo), but yes this sort of fantasising does have you placing them on a high pedal stall, so when we get to know the real them, were like 'huh what happened to the...'image' I conjured up of you?' Doh. 😉

Agreed?

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@GalacticFun89
12 YearsSagittarius

I've done it...
I'm doing it right now with a new Taurus guy i literally JUST started texting...'i wonder if he's my soulmate?'..'what will our kids look like?'
'i wonder if hes big down there'..'does he like the same food as me?'..'im NOT being his maid
if we end up getting married'....
lol. my mind goes on overload when its only been like a few days.