Do you guys agree with my ex-wife?

She won't let the kids come over until all the crazy chic's stuff is completely gone. She says just throw it out if you have to. Am I just too nice? My ex kept a bunch of my crap at her place for 3 years ... didn't make me come get it all until she sold the place. Although, I must admit, people will take advantage as long as you let them ... even I left my stuff there as long as it was the most convenient place to leave it.

*smh*

so are you looking for a reason to keep her stuff around?

Tell her you're putting it in the driveway at this time and date and she should come get it or you'll be forced to post a curb alert on craigslist.

Jru...some Sags tend to hold on to stuff that reminds them of someone who had a profound impact on their life...especially a love interest. They hold on to "things" in hopes to keep the feeling alive. Desperately clinging on to something that does not exist anymore. Do not go down this path. You have to release it and her. Or else you can't move forward spiritually. Yes...I speak from experience.

Toss her stuff out or put it in storage but you need to remove it from you home.

ok, I guess you guys are right. I don't have any particular attachment to anything ... except the temperpedic mattress and her flat screen ... must admit I would like to just buy those from her, or keep them in exchange for all the damage to my house. She ruined the hard wood floor in kitchen ... funny how things like that don't bother you when there is still hope for a relationship ... but when it's done and you have to accept the fact that everything you put up with was all wasted effort ... now the holes in the walls and messed up floors are real pissers.

she has two aunts in town. neither of them are volunteering to take her in (that should be a clue for the next guy she dates) anyway, surely they can take her stuff.

Burn it.

Posted by ellessque
lol @ craigs list curb alert!

Is that real?

That's priceless.

I really need to spend some time on there, I bet you can get some KICK ASS deals.

After a breakup people throw away the most awesome-ist stuff to get revenge on their ex.

LOL!

check out the missed encounters...very romantic and creepy at the same time

OMG ... if y'all could only hear today's convo ... wow. it boils down to this. if I try to brush her off, tell her to give me some space ... she lights my phone up with texts and calls, insisting I answer some stupid question over and over, going on and on about why I should keep her stuff ... even threatened to call cops on me ... to which I threatened her with the info I have on her. She's a master manipulator. So she tells me to stop trying to brush her off like she's crazy ... says she already feels crazy enough as it is. So I give it a try, sweeten up and just talked to her on the phone for a bit tonight. It calmed her down and I presume she's off to bed ... leaving me alone now at least.

I'm confused how I should handle this. I've never had to go through a breakup like this before. I know sometimes when you ignore someone that it makes them try harder to get your attention. So, should I just entertain her a little ... is that just going to cause more problems? She says she understands that we can't be together and doesn't even blame me for calling the police on her ... I'm just super paranoid about her motives at this point. It's comforting to me too, talking to her, but I was hoping for more of a clean break after all the crap that went down.

Thank god she's staying over 50 miles away.


So, MellyMel, how many long term relationships have gotten into you? 😛