Ewwwe ... I act like her dad

...and she acts like the rebellious daughter I never had. I can see that now watching these videos. Ewwwww, no wonder we aren't working out. Here's the breakup, but it's kinda boring compared to when she cared. The 1st time I broke up with her was the best ... too bad I didn't film that.

still no packing action going on ... and she is fucking master at making me feel sorry for her ... she's going on an on about how all her friends are letting her down now ... she has no one in this world. OMG

Tell her to rebel her ass on out of your house then...

don't be a Virgo, bro.

I stacked her stuff on the front porch when she was first getting started with this other guy. She threatened to call the police saying that she was a tenant and that I would have to give her 30 days notice. She's never paid me a dime to stay there, but I googled "how to evict a house-guest" and actually it's not so cut and dry. Even a house guest can make your life difficult if they have keys and get their mail there. Really, at this point I'm just gonna have all the fun messing with her that I can imagine and film everything until she leaves.

We have broken up so many times in the last 5 months, it is unfathomable to me why she doesn't have a few hundred dollars saved up to get her own place. She spontaneously bought a ticket to a concert 2 weeks ago that she had no time to go to ... it didn't sell out and she couldn't even scalp the ticket ... and the list goes on of crap she's been buying that she doesn't need, even lunches that she buys out because she's too lazy to fix a sandwich. I'm a nice guy, but I can't imagine that she would think that she can totally treat me like shit, fall completely in love with another dude, and still have me take care of her ass. I'm laughing because I find her mind so baffling right now.

Posted by brianafay
don't be a Virgo, bro.

please explain because i need some advice. i really don't know how to get her to leave. also, fuck, i'll admit it, when she starts walking around topless, i can't be mad anymore

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Posted by brianafay
don't be a Virgo, bro.

please explain because i need some advice. i really don't know how to get her to leave. also, fuck, i'll admit it, when she starts walking around topless, i can't be mad anymore

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Snap off on her Sagi style ?

She has to leave. The end.
It's your damn house...I can't believe you need help with this? Lol

Get angry. Fuck that ho!
Start acting like a raving lunatic. Break stuff and laugh like maniac while you do it.
Go off on her while smiling disturbingly and calling her pet names.

dont u all have guns in texas? call the cops yo. like Bri said, dont be a chump sucka, start breaking her shit OR put it in storage and give her the key. 1st month is free neways.

You need to stop sympathizing with her. She needs to be dead to you.
You're not there yet...so you're gonna make stupid decisions...like letting her stay cause she has no shirt on.
*smh*

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Posted by brianafay
don't be a Virgo, bro.

please explain because i need some advice. i really don't know how to get her to leave. also, fuck, i'll admit it, when she starts walking around topless, i can't be mad anymore

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i know 12 year olds who break up better than you. tell her to put on a shirt and get the fuck out.

forreal though.

Stop worrying about ending things on a "good note" Sagi, you tried that route.
She's a fuck face, it can't be helped. Set that bridge aflame...you don't want it to remain intact anyway she's clearly a freeloader and offers you nothing - just takes and takes and takes.



Be DONE already

Ok, what about what I really want to do? I really want to start looking for someone else for me. I want to add facebook friends back that she deleted; I want to send flowers to a bartender I like to let her know she has a secret admirer; I want to get the phone number of this cute as shit girl at work; I want to go to bar with my friend and hit on random chicks ... when I do this stuff, that's when she really goes ape-shit crazy ... at least in the past, but maybe she doesn't care enough to anymore.

Is that just asking for trouble, or should I feel free to do what I want?

Why wouldn't you feel free to do as you please?

Ummm she told you she is in love with someone else.

Tell her you're very happy for her, and then tell her to get the fuck out of your house.
Then sure, whatever, proceed with all your weird plans....lol

...yeah, I guess you haven't read about how many times she's broken shit in the house ... I still have holes in my wall from her last outburst. That's why i'm cautious. I just don't want anymore trouble like that. She is really over me though, so hopefully she won't freak again.

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Posted by brianafay
don't be a Virgo, bro.

please explain because i need some advice. i really don't know how to get her to leave. also, fuck, i'll admit it, when she starts walking around topless, i can't be mad anymore

Snap off on her Sagi style ?

She has to leave. The end.
It's your damn house...I can't believe you need help with this? Lol

Get angry. Fuck that ho!
Start acting like a raving lunatic. Break stuff and laugh like maniac while you do it.
Go off on her while smiling disturbingly and calling her pet names.

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lol, love it ... and i've kinda tried being a little like that. It's funny though, i could be a monster coming to eat her and more than likely she would just lay there. it's sad, like she doesn't care about herself enough to run .. or maybe i'm just not being scary enough yet.

jru -- you sound more like a jealous guy than a guy who wants to kick the girl out.

Do you really want her out?

EXACTLY! You don't sound convincing and she doesn't give a shit honestly. I wouldn't take you serious either...


I want myself a SAG man so badly now 😄

You need to get ANGRY!

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Posted by brianafay
don't be a Virgo, bro.

please explain because i need some advice. i really don't know how to get her to leave. also, fuck, i'll admit it, when she starts walking around topless, i can't be mad anymore

Snap off on her Sagi style ?

She has to leave. The end.
It's your damn house...I can't believe you need help with this? Lol

Get angry. Fuck that ho!
Start acting like a raving lunatic. Break stuff and laugh like maniac while you do it.
Go off on her while smiling disturbingly and calling her pet names.

lol, love it ... and i've kinda tried being a little like that. It's funny though, i could be a monster coming to eat her and more than likely she would just lay there. it's sad, like she doesn't care about herself enough to run .. or maybe i'm just not being scary enough yet.

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you seem way too calm. You need to angry

to get angry****

What is my goddamn problem lately. I sound dyslexic or something on here.
I leave out words, I add in extra words that make no sense. Haha I swear I'm very cohesive in person

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Nah, if he gets angry and flips/breaks, who's side do you think the cops will take regardless of what has gone on and what info he's got on her? Again, in most cases this situation would get flipped around in the girl's favour.

Yeah you're right....I don't mean literally knock her on her ass. Lol

Just get pissed enough to actually take action instead of going in circles with this ho

Posted by FUM
jru -- you sound more like a jealous guy than a guy who wants to kick the girl out.

Do you really want her out?

lol, I didn't make coffee for her this morning ... how much stronger of a message can I send 😉

really, i'm just in the mood to have fun with this. I don't care about her so much now, but i'm a tiny bit worried i might really drive her crazy if I have too much fun at her expense. I don't want her to have a real nervous break down. She has real issues, but she also milks things, so it's hard for me to discern sometimes what is real and what is fake with her.

This probably makes me sound like an asshole, but the whole situation just amuses me now. She makes life way more entertaining than any TV drama ever could. So, I think i'm just going to do whatever I feel like doing whenever I feel like doing it ... oh, and film her response of course 😛

OMG ... could you guys imagine if I brought another girl home? Now that I think about it, i'd give anything to see expression on her face if I did that.

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Posted by jru2
...yeah, I guess you haven't read about how many times she's broken shit in the house ... I still have holes in my wall from her last outburst. That's why i'm cautious. I just don't want anymore trouble like that. She is really over me though, so hopefully she won't freak again.

See this is where you need to be a bit careful.
If her stuff is boxed up etc, wouldn't it be simple to take the keys off her then plonk her out in the yard with her stuff?
At least she can't get back in and break more stuff.
I'd also wonder a bit about putting loads of vids up just in case there's a way she might flip this around on you at some point.

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well said!

fuck, i still feel sorry for her though ... she's really got me the way she said all her friends are letting her down. I'm a sucker for the "i need you" card.

as far as the vids go, they are all unlisted, so you guys are the only ones that know they exist. hopefully y'all aren't spreading links all over the internet.

I'm just filming in case she totally fucks her career anyway, I'll offer her some money to sign a consent form later.

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Posted by FUM
jru -- you sound more like a jealous guy than a guy who wants to kick the girl out.

Do you really want her out?

lol, I didn't make coffee for her this morning ... how much stronger of a message can I send 😉

really, i'm just in the mood to have fun with this. I don't care about her so much now, but i'm a tiny bit worried i might really drive her crazy if I have too much fun at her expense. I don't want her to have a real nervous break down. She has real issues, but she also milks things, so it's hard for me to discern sometimes what is real and what is fake with her.

This probably makes me sound like an asshole, but the whole situation just amuses me now. She makes life way more entertaining than any TV drama ever could. So, I think i'm just going to do whatever I feel like doing whenever I feel like doing it ... oh, and film her response of course 😛

OMG ... could you guys imagine if I brought another girl home? Now that I think about it, i'd give anything to see expression on her face if I did that.

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I was thinking about that too, but didn't want to suggest that you bring another girl -- just yet. Would probably slim your chances in hooking up with the other girl AND (on top) you would end up with your Aqua lady in a more weird knot.

lol, i'm tempted to pay some chick to go into extra bedroom with me and make sex noises ... while I have cameras rolling in the rest of the house to film the aquas response. oh god, starting to feel guilty thinking up these ideas ... but it'd be funny as shit!

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I just thought if she can play on your softer side then surely it's as easy to do that with other people and paint you as the bad guy in all this, with no slight if she does have mental health issues surely that would get factored in also? Although I do feel videotaping it all is fair enough for what's she's done, it's only ok to some degree, kwim? Taking it too far or feeding off that sort of vibe might work against you maybe.

yes, you're right ... i'm actually paranoid about the video. so far, i've only run the camera from within my truck or my house ... so it seems only fair that I would have the right to do that. Actually though, I already have footage that would just completely ruin her career, so I'm trying to be very careful. In fact once we are done with these threads, I will pull what I have out there now back down.

Gah...her whiny insipidness is annoying.

Interesting that she's threatened to call the cops on you for kicking her out...she's tried that legal angle with others. On the "friends who let her down" probably

As long as she's crawling into your bed she knows that she has the upper hand

I wouldn't worry about her too much - she's the type who will always find someone to sponge off of

You may need to travel down the legal road to be rid of her.

this stuff can't really see the light of day unless i somehow get her to sign off on it ... maybe i can re-edit to show her in a better light ... she is just following her heart after all.

she commented how she'd like to just make videos once when i showed her how much I make off them. I'm making over $ 200 a month off silly niche how-to videos. I'll be making a killing once I break the ice on some stuff that appeals to the general population.

definitely will have to show her in a better light though. this is about me having a place to complain about her right now though! 😉

she would have been more likely to sign off on the 1st one ... it was funny, i was handing her wine glasses (that the aries gave me) from the cabinet so she could throw them.

I'm guessing it is attractive to a man to be 'played'!

Bad boyz and bad girlz win the game... they get you hooked.

Perhaps some people deserve it.

Do you think it's karma!

lol @ karma

Posted by capgirl75
I find these videos creepy. Does she know you are taking video footage of her and posting it on the internet?

If you want to get rid of her, show her these videos. I would freak out and run the hell away. Creepy, creepy.

yeah, you're right ... have to understand how pissed i was for a bit there ... the storm has passed ... hope you guys watched while you had the chance because I'm pulling them down now ... except for the chase ... she knows about that one.

Sags with lots of Scorp in them are too extreme for they're own good, it seems.

In love relationships, that is.

she does say she is scared of me right now ... that I actually will pile her stuff in the front lawn, but she only has $ 49 left right now after just blowing $ 175 on a concert thing (where she was hoping to hook up with some other guy)

if she'd been concentrating on her work for the last 6 months instead of other men ... I wouldn't be going through her phone, and she'd be able to afford her own place.

so, I don't feel guilty for anything I've done. believe me, i would love to put some of the whole clips out for public view on youtube. some of it is ripe, and I think i would make some money off it ... but i'm not. you just can't imagine the crazy shit she's pulled with me

I'm curious to see what will happen when she has $ 0 (zero).

I'd hang to my every penny like a lunatic if I were in her situation. I also would pamper YOU to show my appreciation for watching out for me.

I understand how you feel, jru.

What I learned when 13 years old was, if you feel to much empathy for someone, you end up in their shit or get your foot stepped on. You want to empower her, but the first person she will turn against, will be you.

When YOU feel ready (that is angry enough) let her fly away. Allow her to learn how to use her wings. She seems to be a survivor. She is probably in her mid 30s at least. She'll manage.

Are you trying to make her jealouse? this Whole thing Sounds so shady... You dont even know what you want! why do you feel sorry for her... If you dont want her throw her out....move on!

Posted by jru2
she does say she is scared of me right now ... that I actually will pile her stuff in the front lawn, but she only has $ 49 left right now after just blowing $ 175 on a concert thing (where she was hoping to hook up with some other guy)

if she'd been concentrating on her work for the last 6 months instead of other men ... I wouldn't be going through her phone, and she'd be able to afford her own place.

so, I don't feel guilty for anything I've done. believe me, i would love to put some of the whole clips out for public view on youtube. some of it is ripe, and I think i would make some money off it ... but i'm not. you just can't imagine the crazy shit she's pulled with me

if the shoe were on the other foot, she wouldnt give 2 shits about u

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Posted by jru2
she does say she is scared of me right now ... that I actually will pile her stuff in the front lawn, but she only has $ 49 left right now after just blowing $ 175 on a concert thing (where she was hoping to hook up with some other guy)

if she'd been concentrating on her work for the last 6 months instead of other men ... I wouldn't be going through her phone, and she'd be able to afford her own place.

so, I don't feel guilty for anything I've done. believe me, i would love to put some of the whole clips out for public view on youtube. some of it is ripe, and I think i would make some money off it ... but i'm not. you just can't imagine the crazy shit she's pulled with me

if the shoe were on the other foot, she wouldnt give 2 shits about u

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😄 I can't but love DMV for her wisdom lol

eh, maybe, but she actually does have a big heart. sometimes wonder if she would open up to me more if i "needed" her. she's the type to pick up strays too.

Oh well, i am slowly warming up the "flirt-machine" when i go out ... got some digits last night, but not particularly attracted to that one. i met someone with the aqua the other day that i'm really attracted to, but she gave her card to my aqua ... got to figure out how to casually ask for that card.

i'm excited about meeting new people, but kinda bummed to be going through holidays again without a more established relationship.

Posted by jru2
eh, maybe, but she actually does have a big heart. sometimes wonder if she would open up to me more if i "needed" her. she's the type to pick up strays too.

Oh well, i am slowly warming up the "flirt-machine" when i go out ... got some digits last night, but not particularly attracted to that one. i met someone with the aqua the other day that i'm really attracted to, but she gave her card to my aqua ... got to figure out how to casually ask for that card.

i'm excited about meeting new people, but kinda bummed to be going through holidays again without a more established relationship.

That's her whole game jru. She gives you the impression that she needs you to appeal to your savior mentality. She's an aqua! The most detached sign. They are known to also have sex with you and will have no feelings about it...although they can act the part.

Plus why are you bringing an innocent party into thus mess. Forming an attachment without breaking your current one. You're only making the situation worse.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Plus why are you bringing an innocent party into thus mess. Forming an attachment without breaking your current one. You're only making the situation worse.

Yep

got a free massage today from a student masseuse ... I tried to leave her a tip, but they are not allowed to accept tips so she said to buy lunch for a homeless person. Haha, i took aqua to lunch. it was good though. she's being really honest with me now ... finally. says the only reason that she didn't want me seeing anyone is because she's worried i'll meet someone i really like and be more anxious to kick her out. she's really done. it's weird, i've never been in situation like this exactly ... usually i'm the one who is done and biting at the bit to find my freedom again.

she thanked me again for breaking up her little love affair though ... she's meeting with the boss lady today and that would be a very awkward meeting if anything had happened.

i'm hoping to sit her down and set some goals, figure out exactly what she needs to do to get moved out, and maybe even try to get her to make a budget. I kinda do see her as a kid at this point ... ewwwe!

oh, we did talk about possibly re-enacting the wine glass throwing day ... I would be happy as far as footage goes, to have that, and I presume she would give me permission to post that. it would be fake, but she still has enough shitty stuff going on in her life i think to draw up some emotion from.

i think its gonna be a happy ending now.

sorry you are talking foreign language to me, Ms Taurus.

SHE is the creap!

Weird.. don't get people who just air fight.

awwwe, thanks FUM 🙂

It's insane how no one stops to mention the fact you have kids

What a selfish douchebag you are..you make posts after posts about your love life, not giving a fuck your kids are caught in this saga (whether they live with you or not).

And you're 41 and THAT immature? WOW...just wow.

I have no doubt you'll keep on making threads about the aqua...in the end trash attracts trash.