warped question of the day...

would you rather make love to someone you're in love with, but who is in love with someone else, or

have someone you're in love with love you back, yet fuck someone else?

maybe another way to word this is if you find yourself in a situation where love and sex are separated, which do you value most?

ahhh.....i don't know, but i would love a Guinness draft right now

Posted by Liberal777Libra
ahhh.....i don't know, but i would love a Guinness draft right now

Lol

The former, but the someone else would have to be dead.

Posted by jru2
would you rather make love to someone you're in love with, but who is in love with someone else, or

have someone you're in love with love you back, yet fuck someone else?

maybe another way to word this is if you find yourself in a situation where love and sex are separated, which do you value most?

Neither...I'd find or wait for someone who loves me and me only and doesn't want someone else.

Posted by harry99
Ive been through all that now I only want mutual love plus sex.

+1

Posted by Wynter
The former, but the someone else would have to be dead.

lol, haven't figured out where this one lives yet 😉

would you rather make love to someone you're in love with, but who is in love with someone else, or
no

have someone you're in love with love you back, yet fuck someone else?
no

maybe another way to word this is if you find yourself in a situation where love and sex are separated, which do you value most?

the old dmv would have said sex. the new dmv is on a whole different level.

... made up this question in response to something my gf said a few days ago ... to quote, "you're worried about where my pussy is, but you need to be worried about where my heart is."

1st thought that came to my mind was ... I don't give a fuck where your heart is if you're sleeping around.

yeah, we're pretty much done ... I'm just wondering how long its gonna take her to actually move out at this point ... although who knows, the heart is fickle

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by jru2
would you rather make love to someone you're in love with, but who is in love with someone else, or

have someone you're in love with love you back, yet fuck someone else?

maybe another way to word this is if you find yourself in a situation where love and sex are separated, which do you value most?

Neither...I'd find or wait for someone who loves me and me only and doesn't want someone else.

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I love that 🙂

Posted by Wynter
The former, but the someone else would have to be dead.

LOL!

they both sound awful lol i don't get it?

thanks size zero ... evidently I make her feel just as bad sometimes too. I've learned a ton of stuff from this relationship, but still have to figure out how to be uplifting and supportive instead of critical, and how to communicate to people how they are valued and admired. I have a nasty habit of dragging people down too.

we've talked about how we have worn some rough edges off each other. It just seems maybe there is a little too much resentment left from the scars.