Fate?

I met this Sag man almost a year ago on our flight back from vacation. We talked all through the flight and exchanged numbers then. But, we actually didn't begin contacting each other until four months later when he sent me a text to say hello and see what I was up to. Ever since then our friendship took off like a rocket. We talk very regularly and usually about anything and everything, and always laughing and having a genuinely good time. For a while we tried a few times to meet up but something always came up one way or another because of both of our busy schedules. We finally hung out for the first time in 9 months since meeting that day and we had a blast.

The moment I walked into his apartment to meet his roommates, they all knew who I was, "We've heard so much about you." He and I then went to walk around the lake nearby and we just joked, laughed, pushed, shoved, and tripped each other. We talked about our likes, dislikes, philosophies, and talked about our past, he opened up to me about his dad's death and how it affected him. The night involved some light hand holding and a peck on the lips at the end. Over all, we have a very uncanny and playful connection.

Anyway, I didn't see him for two months after that; although we talk almost everyday. He invited me to his birthday and I made him this leather bracelet with an "infinity icon" (his company's symbol) tag as a gift. When I gave it to him, he wore it right away. I was introduced to his bestfriend and his neighbors and their reaction were the same as his roommates, "You're the girl on the airplane." It was yet again, a great evening. The following morning, he sends me this message, "Haven't worn anything on my wrist in years. I woke up and smiled to see the bracelet."

This may sound really silly of me for asking, but what are your interpretation of all of this? I truly enjoy his company and have grown this deep affection/care for him because we talk so often. But, a part of me still holds back out and act more "friendly" around him than "forthcoming" in my feelings for him. I believe a part of him is weighing the pros and cons too, he's been single for over 3 years (as for me, I've been single for over a year), which makes me believe he's probably just being his playful Saggy self and means nothing more.

Regardless of what comes out of this, I am SO SO very glad to have met him and to have cared for someone I didn't see for almost a year. It's a very pure feeling.

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I just would like your input and see what your thoughts are about all of this. Is this a Sag's friendliness or a Sag with deeper feelings?

he is probably excited about the prospect but equally terrified that if he spends too much time with you, he will naturally fall into a relationship and maybe he isnt ready for one or has other plans. also as a sag, i sometimes evaluate someone for a long time to decide if they are worthy or not and sometimes only time will reveal that true person. also i do this because i dont trust myself and i might change my mind if i jump in too fast. however, a sag likes to hunt, so if he doesnt hunt you, he is not sure how interested he is. us sags are unorthodox, so your confusion may continue. keep us posted 🙂

Hi justanothercrazysag,

Thank you for your response!

That makes perfect sense. And you're actually pretty spot on with the he isn't "sure" thing, I believe. He told me that he only recently started pondering the idea of "dating" again (after over 3 years of being single). So, I'm under the impression that with his new company just barely launching, his priority is that and he's afraid to bring a relationship into the mix. However, even though he's not aggressively "hunting," per se, he consistently messages me whenever I fall off the face of the earth.

I'm in no rush myself. I love spending time with him, his friends, and roommates; we all get along so well. His roommates asked me to plan to come over for a Monopoly game night sleepover next time I'm free, in which he is pretty ecstatic for as well. So, you're right in that only time will tell!