Help for bereavement

Hey, my dog recently passed away and he was born on december 17 with a sun in third decan sag and a cancer moon. I'm completely distraught because he was euthanized behind my back and i have no idea what it means for a sag to die with dignity. I loved him more than i loved myself, so i wanna know what it means for a sag like him to die happy. I know this is a very touchy subject so if you guys can help me please feel free to message me over pm or through skype at benkrapivsky. I hope he didnt die afraid but im an aries, i don't know how saggitareans see it. It wasn't right no matter what, but i just wanna know something as opposed to blindly kicking myself without knowing what he might've felt. Thank you.

Posted by Lunarvore
Hey, my dog recently passed away and he was born on december 17 with a sun in third decan sag and a cancer moon. I'm completely distraught because he was euthanized behind my back and i have no idea what it means for a sag to die with dignity. I loved him more than i loved myself, so i wanna know what it means for a sag like him to die happy. I know this is a very touchy subject so if you guys can help me please feel free to message me over pm or through skype at benkrapivsky. I hope he didnt die afraid but im an aries, i don't know how saggitareans see it. It wasn't right no matter what, but i just wanna know something as opposed to blindly kicking myself without knowing what he might've felt. Thank you.

Knowing Sags, your dog didn't know what hit him.

Based on what you wrote, I am led to think that you had/have an inordinate amount of love and affection for an animal. So much so, that you had gone so far as to look up it's astrological aspects. Such leads me to conclude that you might have difficulty in the area of relationships with other human beings. This could be a problem stemming from negative childhood experiences and/or upbringing. For example, some people who come from a dysfunctional family or broken home, may not be able to develop a healthy set of social skills, that can discern and position the diverse types of relationships in their proper place, and, in so doing, might scramble up the order of priority.

One might love a pet more, than another human being. One might hug a tree, another might go on crusade to save a gnat-catcher by becoming a vegan, insisting with tears in their eyes that the world abstain from eating meat.

The manifestations of emotional inordinances such as yours, are indicative of underlying issues. Issues, that I think needs to be addressed, before you, too, become an emotionally confused tree-hugging, gnat-catching, outlier, in search of the outer-limits of tomorrow's yesterdays, today.

Just sayin.

my sympathies - I still miss my girl and it will soon be 2 whole years

You see what I mean?

It's pretty sad when you convince yourself that only dogs can love unconditionally.

Treat a dog like trash, and abuse it, and you'll find out how unconditional that dog's "love", truly is.

You treat other human beings the way you want to be treated. It's not hard to live someone, when they love you, back, or love you already. No, that's not a sign of any great love. Rather, to live someone who hates you, is the greater challenge. Making great friends of great enemies is probably the toughest endeavor, one can imagine.

Dogs are easy. So..... what have you gained?

Have you really bettered yourself, because a dog is the only friend you think you have made?

Come now.... is that the life you really want—??

Canine companionship—? No room for anyone else— Someone tries to be your friend, yet, you may put a set of rules and conditions upon them!!! You want unconditional love, but you don't want to extend the same, to others. That smacks of hypocrisy and it shouldn't be any wonder you find yourself resorting to pet.

Think about it.