How should I respond to this Sag?

One of my Sagittarius exes showed up at my company event and started talking to me like we didn't break up on bad terms. I pretended she didn't exist (ha!). Then after the dinner, I'm outside talking to a colleague and friend and she calls me over. Sag: "can I talk to you for a minute" then walks off expecting me to follow. I ignored her and continued my conversation. Then she came back when she realized I wasn't coming and begged me to come talk to her. It almost turned into a heated argument when she asked me what my problem was and why I was upset. I rolled my eyes and was about to walk off when she grabbed my arm aggressively. She apologized, saying she lied about why she broke up with me, said she just needed space and if i'd message after a month or two we'd be okay.We broke up 3 years ago but seeing her again was a shock. When more colleagues walked outside I said we'd talk later (some of us were hitting a bar after).

I left early since one of my friends got drunk and I had to drive her home.

Next morning a ton of messages from her with an explanation...to be short...we talked things out over a span of a week, I got out what I needed too, my anger at her saying she was pregnant for one of my guy friends (long story). She said she went to therapy and was different. I said it didnt matter, I moved on but she was confident I still had feelings for her, still cared since that never goes away. She said she really missed me, she still cared about me and would be there for me blah blah.

A month later, my friends and I decide to hit a club. They invite her along and she asked if I had a problem with it, I said no. I dont care. She shows up...with her new boyfriend and he's basically buying the bar.

At first I was annoyed, feeling like she did it on purpose to see if i'd react, then I found it funny because I realized she was probably the same person she was then. Introducing him to my friend she said this is her husband to be ( they've been together a month). She's suppose to drive me home after but instead drops her bf first (huge make out session outside the car) then drives home. I said i'll wait in the car, she looked at me like she'd prefer I wait inside. I said fine, I was exhausted and still drunk high. She bathes, changes then drives me home. To say I was upset was a complete understatement.

Since then, when we talk she makes stupid comments like "i didn't know you cared lol" when I texted to see how she was doing after her surgery. I always ignore similar comments and simply say ok, great, excellent, have a nice day etc. lol

Is she trying to get a rise out of me? Or is it an ego thing? What dafuq is going on? I've been with other Sag women but they were never this confusing. Everything was straight forward.

Posted by Harukka
I didn't know you cared

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Whatever .. are you together now or what ?

lol no. We're not. She can remain her future husband/ bf's problems

Posted by MIIeFisk
After all these years, you just proved to her that she still has you eating out of her hands... *pets your head like a puppy*

Tell her to fuck off.

Yup, the bitch

I'm beginning to think she still does. She's almost 10 years older so she probably enjoys it

Weren't you the one pushing her away? And when she asked you if you would care if she came, you meant to say "yes only if you don't have a date", obviously.

lol I am in the same situation but I am the fire sign... Aries...

Uranus went retro in Aries and is bring back Aqua x... there major karmatic feelings

different story... but can see how it relates.

PM

Astro reads you will have much more emotions during fullmoon and should be looking and maybe getting back together by Oct.

PM

You are take your sweet time like she is ... we maybe behind... I do want to her back she drives me crazy

PM

Actually would say this is a Karamatic relationship... You should give it an honest shot and think you already will. Go slow but people mature over time... Mind was about 3 to 5 years ago.

PM

Hi there...

So what do you want from the stallion?

She's waiting for you to be more masculine than she, check her, than love her.

Posted by SagiScorp
An Aqua writing on dxpnet about a sag. I legitimately had no idea you guys cared about us. Thought you were only into leos/aries if you had to be with a fire sign.

Anyway, you broke up with her 3 years ago and didn't care anymore, but since she came back giving you bullshit stories you suddenly care about her again? Are you daft?

How do you respond? Just do what you were doing before and ignore her... she's literally pushing another guy in your face, literally, and you're bothering to respond to such childish nonsense? Go find a leo or something.

lol no she broke up with me. Said she wanted to be with the baby daddy. Now she claims it was all a lie. She just wanted some time alone given she was going through some stuff (what stuff? I don't know)

And I love Sags. One of my closest female friends is a Sag. Never dated a Leo...Aries leads to too much heartache

Posted by DMV
Hi there...

So what do you want from the stallion?

She's waiting for you to be more masculine than she, check her, than love her.

I'm waiting for her to be direct and stop playing with my head. I wish maturity came with age but apparently it doesn't

Posted by Aqua_firece

Posted by DMV
Hi there...

So what do you want from the stallion?

She's waiting for you to be more masculine than she, check her, than love her.

I'm waiting for her to be direct and stop playing with my head. I wish maturity came with age but apparently it doesn't

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She won't do that until she feel like you care... The more you ignore her ways and look the other way, the more she will work on pulling it out of you...

Just remain calm... She's trying to break you. But at some point you gotta stop letting her do this and put her ass in check. That's all females want sometimes... You know she full of it, so just keep it player with her.

Posted by Aqua_firece

Posted by DMV
Hi there...

So what do you want from the stallion?

She's waiting for you to be more masculine than she, check her, than love her.

I'm waiting for her to be direct and stop playing with my head. I wish maturity came with age but apparently it doesn't

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Lol. You wait on her, she waits on you.



Everyone masturbates

I swear Aqua has the biggest heart. I just wish you aim that kindness to someone who deserve it.

Ugh. Too bad you just can't slap the shit out of her.

Drive yourself next time.

Posted by Aqua_firece

Posted by SagiScorp
An Aqua writing on dxpnet about a sag. I legitimately had no idea you guys cared about us. Thought you were only into leos/aries if you had to be with a fire sign.

Anyway, you broke up with her 3 years ago and didn't care anymore, but since she came back giving you bullshit stories you suddenly care about her again? Are you daft?

How do you respond? Just do what you were doing before and ignore her... she's literally pushing another guy in your face, literally, and you're bothering to respond to such childish nonsense? Go find a leo or something.

lol no she broke up with me. Said she wanted to be with the baby daddy. Now she claims it was all a lie. She just wanted some time alone given she was going through some stuff (what stuff? I don't know)

And I love Sags. One of my closest female friends is a Sag. Never dated a Leo...Aries leads to too much heartache

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Aww I love Aquarius too! One of my guy friend is one. I'm currently in relationship with one.

As for your situation you should leave her alone. Just be straight forward and let her know you don't have time for her BS. That she need to be focusing on her soon to be husband. Smh. Im curious to know your Mars , Venus &. Moon sign ??

I wish u all the best & Hopefully she come to her sense back off & focus on her soon to be husband. Why get married if your not serious about person u going to get married to? Going to back talking to ex is not right.Geez lol