Sag89
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I think my scorp may be crazy :( (Page 2)
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Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by PurrrrHissssPosted by DazedScorpPosted by PurrrrHissssPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DazedScorp
The hacking was uncalled for, but the reaction was not
I want everyone here to tell me that if your S/O received a text during the middle of the night saying I want to kiss, fuck, etc. that you wouldn't be upset.
Anyone—
Still waiting...
For what? Applause? A medal? A cookie?
For everyone to answer the question
It's fine that he got upset, but they TALKED THROUGH IT. He should've dropped it then. But no, he had to be a giant creeper and try to add the dude on Facebook and text her brother to ask him if she has another boyfriend.click to expand
Regardless of sign, that is the markings of a lunatic lol
Ok my guess is purr hiss is the one of the few woman that doesn't let a man walk all over her. Seeing as she seems to believe she is a human being that deserves personal space.
Posted by Sag89Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Sag89
I get it. I get it alot but it doesn't make it okay.
Exactly.
We all have to take responsibility for our actions no matter what may have happened to usclick to expand
He did take responsibility though.
Did you explaining all of this.... this conversation of explanation... happen sober? Had sobered up? Both of you? Or did it start when he flipped the fuck out, and then end finally a day later when everyone was sober? He obviously did not believe you Sag89, drunk or sober, for him to try to add that guy AND ask your brother. These are things YOU need to think about, with and about yourself. HE DID NOT BELIEVE YOU.
So was that because you explained while you were drunk? Because you flipped out that he hacked your phone? Because you never mentioned Libra before now? Because you still didn't explain to him fully how and why Libra would want to text you? These are things you DO know. You obviously have a history with Libra, and you felt you shouldn't mention it to him. BEFORE now. Before he found that text.
We're all up and arms now, but you have not explained to us who Libra was to you in your past. If you swept it under the rug to him like you are here? Your relationship with this dude from before? Of course he isn't going to believe you. Anyone who skirts the issue has a reason to.
Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Sag89Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Sag89
I get it. I get it alot but it doesn't make it okay.
Exactly.
We all have to take responsibility for our actions no matter what may have happened to usclick to expand
He did take responsibility though.
Did you explaining all of this.... this conversation of explanation... happen sober? Had sobered up? Both of you? Or did it start when he flipped the fuck out, and then end finally a day later when everyone was sober? He obviously did not believe you Sag89, drunk or sober, for him to try to add that guy AND ask your brother. These are things YOU need to think about, with and about yourself. HE DID NOT BELIEVE YOU.
So was that because you explained while you were drunk? Because you flipped out that he hacked your phone? Because you never mentioned Libra before now? Because you still didn't explain to him fully how and why Libra would want to text you? These are things you DO know. You obviously have a history with Libra, and you felt you shouldn't mention it to him. BEFORE now. Before he found that text.
We're all up and arms now, but you have not explained to us who Libra was to you in your past. If you swept it under the rug to him like you are here? Your relationship with this dude from before? Of course he isn't going to believe you. Anyone who skirts the issue has a reason to.
I have no problem being honest and open to my new scorp!
He can ask me anything he likes.
What he can not do is invade my boundaries because he has been cheated on before.
I've been physically abused before you think since that happened to me I should be able to go around and hurt other people?
No.
Posted by Sag89Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Sag89Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Sag89
I get it. I get it alot but it doesn't make it okay.
Exactly.
We all have to take responsibility for our actions no matter what may have happened to us
He did take responsibility though.
Did you explaining all of this.... this conversation of explanation... happen sober? Had sobered up? Both of you? Or did it start when he flipped the fuck out, and then end finally a day later when everyone was sober? He obviously did not believe you Sag89, drunk or sober, for him to try to add that guy AND ask your brother. These are things YOU need to think about, with and about yourself. HE DID NOT BELIEVE YOU.
So was that because you explained while you were drunk? Because you flipped out that he hacked your phone? Because you never mentioned Libra before now? Because you still didn't explain to him fully how and why Libra would want to text you? These are things you DO know. You obviously have a history with Libra, and you felt you shouldn't mention it to him. BEFORE now. Before he found that text.
We're all up and arms now, but you have not explained to us who Libra was to you in your past. If you swept it under the rug to him like you are here? Your relationship with this dude from before? Of course he isn't going to believe you. Anyone who skirts the issue has a reason to.
I have no problem being honest and open to my new scorp!
He can ask me anything he likes.
What he can not do is invade my boundaries because he has been cheated on before.
I've been physically abused before you think since that happened to me I should be able to go around and hurt other people?
No.
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Continuing below, or it'll get cut off lol
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Nights22Posted by exoskeleton
try a different sign, sag.
I think she should be single for a long while.
It seems she has not had a break from some kind of contact for men ever in her life.
I think she needs that most.
I gave the same exact advice to my Saggy roommate.
To her, all the drama that surrounds her relationships aren't caused by her. She can do no wrong.
But to outsiders, it's as clear as day.click to expand
So everythings my fault huh? I deserve that right?
Posted by exoskeletonPosted by Nights22Posted by exoskeleton
try a different sign, sag.
I think she should be single for a long while.
It seems she has not had a break from some kind of contact for men ever in her life.
I think she needs that most.
word. and she has her own issues to sort out before she can have a mature relationship.click to expand
This relationship was going fine actually until I found out he has control issues
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Nemesis
well, i??ll give him in dubio pro reo. (nearly) everybody should get a chance. imagine how fucked up you would feel if you discovered (by whatever means) a message like that, an ominous email.......who knows what kind of crusade you??d go on? i??d probably just sulk and give him fucking silent treatment. *poor pisces*
I'd be furious, but I wouldn't be trying to hack into someone's phone in the first place. It's okay that he got mad after initially seeing the text. The point is that she GAVE him a chance to explain himself, they talked, and he made it seem as though the issue was resolved. If he didn't really feel that way, he should've gone to her again to discuss it further. Not her ex or her brother.click to expand
Exactly.
No honey, you're not getting what I'm saying. But, you must look at it too that this is how it is going to be. You can't fix him, and if he doesn't get it by this though either, it will continue.
So with that said, I am now utterly confused. What exactly are you upset about? You need to keep in mind this: Your focus cannot be on the fact now that you know that he was cheated on therefore what stemmed his reaction. You need to reread your post from the get go.
I never said it was all because he had been cheated on, what I was adding to the point was because he HAD been cheated on in the past would and could probably cause him to do this on top of him being a Scorp. The main thing though here, is he is a Scorpio man. This you DID know going into it. And where I'm so surprised by everyones "Oh Em Geeeee, he did what? He's a crazed, pyscho killer, and your grave has GOT to be dug already"
You're comparing apples to oranges though when you're comparing yourself's past abuse to my thoughts. And I will say, if you choose to stay now after you comparing those as the same...his reaction to your past abuse, then you are admitting you feel abused. So why stay? Or was that not the focus until it was mentioned.
You need to dig deep. You also mentioned in your first thread that you two having been having some problems lately. Before this happened?
So with that said, I am now utterly confused. What exactly are you upset about? You need to keep in mind this: Your focus cannot be on the fact now that you know that he was cheated on therefore what stemmed his reaction. You need to reread your post from the get go.
I never said it was all because he had been cheated on, what I was adding to the point was because he HAD been cheated on in the past would and could probably cause him to do this on top of him being a Scorp. The main thing though here, is he is a Scorpio man. This you DID know going into it. And where I'm so surprised by everyones "Oh Em Geeeee, he did what? He's a crazed, pyscho killer, and your grave has GOT to be dug already"
You're comparing apples to oranges though when you're comparing yourself's past abuse to my thoughts. And I will say, if you choose to stay now after you comparing those as the same...his reaction to your past abuse, then you are admitting you feel abused. So why stay? Or was that not the focus until it was mentioned.
You need to dig deep. You also mentioned in your first thread that you two having been having some problems lately. Before this happened?
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
So everythings my fault huh? I deserve that right?
Not at all.
I'm saying that if you're relationships aren't working out, then maybe you should be on your own for a while.
There are many things you still need to work out for yourself.
Just like my roommie, you have some issues that need to be worked out before you can have a successful relationship...
And that's mainly addmitting that not everything is your partners fault.click to expand
I don't think it's everything is my partners fault!
Our relationship was going great!
Till I now see he has some angry and control issues, I didn't see before.
Posted by OceanDeep
No honey, you're not getting what I'm saying. But, you must look at it too that this is how it is going to be. You can't fix him, and if he doesn't get it by this though either, it will continue.
So with that said, I am now utterly confused. What exactly are you upset about? You need to keep in mind this: Your focus cannot be on the fact now that you know that he was cheated on therefore what stemmed his reaction. You need to reread your post from the get go.
I never said it was all because he had been cheated on, what I was adding to the point was because he HAD been cheated on in the past would and could probably cause him to do this on top of him being a Scorp. The main thing though here, is he is a Scorpio man. This you DID know going into it. And where I'm so surprised by everyones "Oh Em Geeeee, he did what? He's a crazed, pyscho killer, and your grave has GOT to be dug already"
You're comparing apples to oranges though when you're comparing yourself's past abuse to my thoughts. And I will say, if you choose to stay now after you comparing those as the same...his reaction to your past abuse, then you are admitting you feel abused. So why stay? Or was that not the focus until it was mentioned.
You need to dig deep. You also mentioned in your first thread that you two having been having some problems lately. Before this happened?
I meant lately as in the right now.
Posted by Nights22
Sag89 seriously.
You are so bent up on his trust issues that you dont see your own scorned issues. He is not your controlling ex.
I know your mad at yourself for letting the ex abuse you and control you but you cant take it out on this guy to try and make up for it! It doesnt work that way.
Now I'm not saying its not a red flag but you cannot be so bent out of shape on this one issue just because your ex was controlling. Taking shit out on the new scorp accomplishes nothing and just gives you more baggage than you already have.
I know he isn't my ex!
I thought I was actually moving to someone healthier I was very excited about that but that reaction made me have second thoughts.
Maybe he was just upset and he had a oops over reaction.
Maybe that is all this is.
But I'm just trying to be sure.
Posted by Nights22Posted by Sag89Posted by Nights22
Sag89 seriously.
You are so bent up on his trust issues that you dont see your own scorned issues. He is not your controlling ex.
I know your mad at yourself for letting the ex abuse you and control you but you cant take it out on this guy to try and make up for it! It doesnt work that way.
Now I'm not saying its not a red flag but you cannot be so bent out of shape on this one issue just because your ex was controlling. Taking shit out on the new scorp accomplishes nothing and just gives you more baggage than you already have.
I know he isn't my ex!
I thought I was actually moving to someone healthier I was very excited about that but that reaction made me have second thoughts.
Maybe he was just upset and he had a oops over reaction.
Maybe that is all this is.
But I'm just trying to be sure.
Well I mean he was drunk. Not much shit can be discussed well when drunk.
All I'm saying is dont be extra hard on this guy for no reason.click to expand
I'm really not.
Why are you guys so hard on me?
Is it because I'm honest and explain how I'm not perfect and have been through alot and everyday try to overcome that and be better?
Would you not tear me down as much if I lied about stuff and pretended I have all the answers?
I mean what!
Is it because I'm honest and explain how I'm not perfect and have been through alot and everyday try to overcome that and be better?
Would you not tear me down as much if I lied about stuff and pretended I have all the answers?
I mean what!
Posted by DazedScorp
Really? Because you started a thread about how you think he's a psycho...
I said I think he is crazy and it's that thing people say! Come on, don't act like you don't have humor dazed you say rude things to everyone.
I had saw his behavior has a red flag so I thought I'd get some input on it! Geeze
Posted by DazedScorp
I understand that...I really do.
But I don't think you see your own red flags that you are waving.
Really?
Ok please tell what I don't understand about myself.
Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by Sag89
Why are you guys so hard on me?
Is it because I'm honest and explain how I'm not perfect and have been through alot and everyday try to overcome that and be better?
Would you not tear me down as much if I lied about stuff and pretended I have all the answers?
I mean what!
They're not trying to tear you down, they're trying to help.click to expand
Some others I think it's the blind trying to lead the blind
Posted by exoskeleton
again, (when you've got your head together), try a different sign.
you can say these scorps are psycho and controlling and abusive and what not, and maybe these guys are, but bottom line, on an emotional level, you don't understand scorps and i doubt this will work out.
OMG!!!
I don't think any such thing! My god. You seriously think the world is against you.
Okay this is a fucking stick up so everyone sit the fuck down and shut the fuck up!
I want to know and have patiently been waiting, and for the umpteempth time that I have asked:.......................
WHAT was your relationship with Mr. Libra before——————————————————?
Can I get a simple answer to a very simple question, please——————————————?
I want to know and have patiently been waiting, and for the umpteempth time that I have asked:.......................
WHAT was your relationship with Mr. Libra before——————————————————?
Can I get a simple answer to a very simple question, please——————————————?
Ok so because I didn't understand and wanted some input on a behavior my bf that makes me unable to date scorpios.
Got it!
I'll dump him tomorrow!
Got it!
I'll dump him tomorrow!
Yes ocean he's was a friend and a hook up
Sag89,
Im going to say this once and after that, it's in your ballpark.
Get a bulletproof vest, registered AK-47, paperwork of restraining order, a tall roided up or just big guy friend for backup. Then ask to meet the scorp in a public place.
And then in a very nice way say, "It's not me, it's really you. You have me seriously questioning if Im dealing with the illegitimate spawn of Charlie Sheen. Dating you is not winning for me. I've tiger blood which I would have rather let bleed on someone else's dick"
Normally, this guy's reaction at first would have been justified. But ONLY had he come across it by accident. But he did not. He HACKED into the phone. Emphasis on hacked.
This guy was the inspiration for the lyrics "Every breath you take, every move you make, I'll be watching you"
Cut him loose. Stay single for a while. Have a "dick in a glass" on easy access. And if you happen to meet another Scorp who's so studly you cant resist, do one of two things. 1. Make sure homeboy's got either an Air or Fire Moon in chart like Sagittarius.
Or 2nd, hit it once and quit it. Then immediately go into Witness Protection.
Im going to say this once and after that, it's in your ballpark.
Get a bulletproof vest, registered AK-47, paperwork of restraining order, a tall roided up or just big guy friend for backup. Then ask to meet the scorp in a public place.
And then in a very nice way say, "It's not me, it's really you. You have me seriously questioning if Im dealing with the illegitimate spawn of Charlie Sheen. Dating you is not winning for me. I've tiger blood which I would have rather let bleed on someone else's dick"
Normally, this guy's reaction at first would have been justified. But ONLY had he come across it by accident. But he did not. He HACKED into the phone. Emphasis on hacked.
This guy was the inspiration for the lyrics "Every breath you take, every move you make, I'll be watching you"
Cut him loose. Stay single for a while. Have a "dick in a glass" on easy access. And if you happen to meet another Scorp who's so studly you cant resist, do one of two things. 1. Make sure homeboy's got either an Air or Fire Moon in chart like Sagittarius.
Or 2nd, hit it once and quit it. Then immediately go into Witness Protection.
Now that I know this, this is the deal:
Libra is all or one of this
A) If he knew you had a boyfriend, has a lot of balls.
B) Is clueless you had a boyfriend, WHICH would coincide that you never talk to him. BUT, for curiousity, do you have yourself 'in a relationship' on Facebook Status. This is an important question. Not the FB end, but the reality of if you DO have it on there, then WTF is Libra doing then?
C) Either way, Libra thinks he can still hook up with you.
D) Which if he does, he needs to be set straight. He is not taking that you are taking this with Scorp serious. You need to fix that PRONTO. Libra needs to respect you AND your space too. Let's not forget that.
Scorpio in all of this:
A) Will need reassurance all the way around. That is a given. That doesn't make him crazy, that makes him a Scorpio. Get that, breathe that, live that. 24/7.
B) Needs for you to love him enough to work past this AND not hold it against him. To understand him fully, and to embrace his past JUST as he has embraced yours. He loves you, and you know that there are things you have done that you wish you hadn't BUT you have grown from.
C) To understand that in order to be with him, what you think isn't hiding things to him? Is. You really, really need to think about that; which
Sag in all of this:
A) Must not be afraid of your past. You must confront it, and talk about it with Scorp. If you don't, You will live in your own fear of what youve done will catch up with you. By not, then she is still living in the past. It's yours, so you need to embrace it all: good and bad, face it head on. By opening up about it with him, leaves you vulnerable to his reaction yes. You will never be free of it EVER, AT ALL if you don't move past it fully, and not just by pretending it didn't happen when going into new relationships. BUT, by not talking about all of it now.... you are allowing your past to control your future. And right now, it's starting to catch up to you and this relationship.
Libra is all or one of this
A) If he knew you had a boyfriend, has a lot of balls.
B) Is clueless you had a boyfriend, WHICH would coincide that you never talk to him. BUT, for curiousity, do you have yourself 'in a relationship' on Facebook Status. This is an important question. Not the FB end, but the reality of if you DO have it on there, then WTF is Libra doing then?
C) Either way, Libra thinks he can still hook up with you.
D) Which if he does, he needs to be set straight. He is not taking that you are taking this with Scorp serious. You need to fix that PRONTO. Libra needs to respect you AND your space too. Let's not forget that.
Scorpio in all of this:
A) Will need reassurance all the way around. That is a given. That doesn't make him crazy, that makes him a Scorpio. Get that, breathe that, live that. 24/7.
B) Needs for you to love him enough to work past this AND not hold it against him. To understand him fully, and to embrace his past JUST as he has embraced yours. He loves you, and you know that there are things you have done that you wish you hadn't BUT you have grown from.
C) To understand that in order to be with him, what you think isn't hiding things to him? Is. You really, really need to think about that; which
Sag in all of this:
A) Must not be afraid of your past. You must confront it, and talk about it with Scorp. If you don't, You will live in your own fear of what youve done will catch up with you. By not, then she is still living in the past. It's yours, so you need to embrace it all: good and bad, face it head on. By opening up about it with him, leaves you vulnerable to his reaction yes. You will never be free of it EVER, AT ALL if you don't move past it fully, and not just by pretending it didn't happen when going into new relationships. BUT, by not talking about all of it now.... you are allowing your past to control your future. And right now, it's starting to catch up to you and this relationship.
Posted by ZenArcade
Sag89,
Im going to say this once and after that, it's in your ballpark.
Get a bulletproof vest, registered AK-47, paperwork of restraining order, a tall roided up or just big guy friend for backup. Then ask to meet the scorp in a public place.
And then in a very nice way say, "It's not me, it's really you. You have me seriously questioning if Im dealing with the illegitimate spawn of Charlie Sheen. Dating you is not winning for me. I've tiger blood which I would have rather let bleed on someone else's dick"
Normally, this guy's reaction at first would have been justified. But ONLY had he come across it by accident. But he did not. He HACKED into the phone. Emphasis on hacked.
This guy was the inspiration for the lyrics "Every breath you take, every move you make, I'll be watching you"
Cut him loose. Stay single for a while. Have a "dick in a glass" on easy access. And if you happen to meet another Scorp who's so studly you cant resist, do one of two things. 1. Make sure homeboy's got either an Air or Fire Moon in chart like Sagittarius.
Or 2nd, hit it once and quit it. Then immediately go into Witness Protection.
That was amazing lol
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by ZenArcade
Normally, this guy's reaction at first would have been justified. But ONLY had he come across it by accident. But he did not. He HACKED into the phone. Emphasis on hacked.
I'm willing to bet that Saggy has an iPhone.
In that case...
The message would pop up on the screen where you can see part of it, and then you have to unlock to see the rest.click to expand
Yes dazed
Posted by DazedScorp
Saggys and Scorps = no bueno
I will admit that he was wrong for going through your phone.
But....
Your Leeb is in the past, and should stay in the past. I wouldn't be happy if you were receiving texts from and old boyfriend during the middle of the night.
I agree with this. Why do you think he broke into your phone? Usually when a text pops up (depends on the phone) you can see either, the whole text, or just who the text is from, or like you originally said, a snippet of the convo. The Scorp bf probably friended the old Libra impulsively. Regretted it, but cannot take back the friend request on FB. And as a sag on scorp cusp, I would be pissed off if my guy was getting late night texts from an old gf, just sayin'...and I am not so sure its jealousy, maybe the fear of being taken for granted, made a fool of. I would give him a break.
Posted by OceanDeep
Now that I know this, this is the deal:
Libra is all or one of this
A) If he knew you had a boyfriend, has a lot of balls.
B) Is clueless you had a boyfriend, WHICH would coincide that you never talk to him. BUT, for curiousity, do you have yourself 'in a relationship' on Facebook Status. This is an important question. Not the FB end, but the reality of if you DO have it on there, then WTF is Libra doing then?
C) Either way, Libra thinks he can still hook up with you.
D) Which if he does, he needs to be set straight. He is not taking that you are taking this with Scorp serious. You need to fix that PRONTO. Libra needs to respect you AND your space too. Let's not forget that.
Scorpio in all of this:
A) Will need reassurance all the way around. That is a given. That doesn't make him crazy, that makes him a Scorpio. Get that, breathe that, live that. 24/7.
B) Needs for you to love him enough to work past this AND not hold it against him. To understand him fully, and to embrace his past JUST as he has embraced yours. He loves you, and you know that there are things you have done that you wish you hadn't BUT you have grown from.
C) To understand that in order to be with him, what you think isn't hiding things to him? Is. You really, really need to think about that; which
Sag in all of this:
A) Must not be afraid of your past. You must confront it, and talk about it with Scorp. If you don't, You will live in your own fear of what youve done will catch up with you. By not, then she is still living in the past. It's yours, so you need to embrace it all: good and bad, face it head on. By opening up about it with him, leaves you vulnerable to his reaction yes. You will never be free of it EVER, AT ALL if you don't move past it fully, and not just by pretending it didn't happen when going into new relationships. BUT, by not talking about all of it now.... you are allowing your past to control your future. And right now, it's starting to catch up to you and this relationship.
How do I come off?
Posted by Tacky_Tshirt
I can't believe some people are justifying this guy's actions. Talk about a complete and utter invasion of privacy!
If someone I had just started dating hacked my phone, I would be pissed and probably dump his ass immediately.
It's only a sign of bigger things to come, Sag89. Be safe, and do what's right for you....
🙂
Thank you
Posted by ZenArcade
Sag89,
Im going to say this once and after that, it's in your ballpark.
Get a bulletproof vest, registered AK-47, paperwork of restraining order, a tall roided up or just big guy friend for backup. Then ask to meet the scorp in a public place.
And then in a very nice way say, "It's not me, it's really you. You have me seriously questioning if Im dealing with the illegitimate spawn of Charlie Sheen. Dating you is not winning for me. I've tiger blood which I would have rather let bleed on someone else's dick"
Normally, this guy's reaction at first would have been justified. But ONLY had he come across it by accident. But he did not. He HACKED into the phone. Emphasis on hacked.
This guy was the inspiration for the lyrics "Every breath you take, every move you make, I'll be watching you"
Cut him loose. Stay single for a while. Have a "dick in a glass" on easy access. And if you happen to meet another Scorp who's so studly you cant resist, do one of two things. 1. Make sure homeboy's got either an Air or Fire Moon in chart like Sagittarius.
Or 2nd, hit it once and quit it. Then immediately go into Witness Protection.
No, a Scorp is intense. Thats the way they are. He had every right to be upset...we Sags like some freedom but we also want and need) a man who steps up and fights for us. If there was no reaction, he wouldn't care about her.
I thanked her ocean because she said to do what is right for you.
I am I not allowed to thank people now? 😛
You scorps are a trip sometimes
I am I not allowed to thank people now? 😛
You scorps are a trip sometimes
Thank you shmank you. My thoughts remain the same. Everything goes over your head. This surprises me coming from a Sag.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
I thanked her ocean because she said to do what is right for you.
I am I not allowed to thank people now? 😛
You scorps are a trip sometimes
Oceans' not a Scorp.click to expand
Ok well whoever
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
I thanked her ocean because she said to do what is right for you.
I am I not allowed to thank people now? 😛
You scorps are a trip sometimes
Oceans' not a Scorp.click to expand
Thank you for seeing that and pointing that out, Dazed. Nope...notta Scorp, full-fledged Cancer thank you very much 🙂
Posted by DazedScorp
But it's very obvious that you and many others think that Scorps are crazy psychotic people.
I do not think that dazed. That statement made me realize this all about you.
I think you want me to say that though
Posted by Sag89
I thanked her ocean because she said to do what is right for you.
I am I not allowed to thank people now? 😛
You scorps are a trip sometimes
What I would like to say on this is that you thanked her to do what you feel is right. You said you want to give him a 2nd chance, then any and all of your 'jumping on the crazy scorps are psycho' bandwagon should A) never happened, but since it DID start B) shouldve stopped on your end, or never started at all.
No matter how you twist it, YOU are not seeing how easy this is becoming to see. You are talking out of both sides of your mouth now. Reminds me of Taylor Housewives of Beverly Hills.
Break it off with him. For both of your sakes.
Posted by DeadRingerrPosted by DazedScorp
But it's very obvious that you and many others think that Scorps are crazy psychotic people.
You're just being paranoid😉click to expand
Lol
Posted by oldskoolflavor
do you have unfinished business w/ the libra ?
My take? It is for now. I think that she didn't tell Scorp because it was nothing to her, but what she said: they were friends that hooked up.
Now on the outside, anyone would for even a nano second wonder if that was still going on OR if the potential was there for it to happen again. Anyone would, and may ask their SO just to be sure. Ya know, build that trust in thier relationship.
Buuuuutttttt this is why Sag89 here didn't tell Scorp. Thus, it would then require her to talk to him about Libra. But if she DOESNT bring up Libra, then she still can remain friends with him, Scorp is none the wiser, it won't cause waves with Scorp AND if things don't work out with Scorp? She hadn't cut off all ties with Libra in the event, well, that she couldve given him that Christmas wish he had if she so chose 😉
All Im sayin is if it look like OJ, stalk like OJ, I think you all know where I'm going here...
And one more thing Sag89, if the dick dont fit, you gotta acquit.
And one more thing Sag89, if the dick dont fit, you gotta acquit.
Your right everyone it's all my fault!
I'm so sad I wasn't born a perfect scorpio!
Dammit if I could only be that smart!
I'm so sad I wasn't born a perfect scorpio!
Dammit if I could only be that smart!
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
Your right everyone it's all my fault!
I'm so sad I wasn't born a Psycho scorpio!
Dammit if I could only be that crazy!
Is this what you were trying to say?click to expand
Dazed why do you like to toy with me? What did I do to you? I like you man
Posted by ZenArcade
All Im sayin is if it look like OJ, stalk like OJ, I think you all know where I'm going here...
And one more thing Sag89, if the dick dont fit, you gotta acquit.
LOL
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Sag89Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
Your right everyone it's all my fault!
I'm so sad I wasn't born a Psycho scorpio!
Dammit if I could only be that crazy!
Is this what you were trying to say?
Dazed why do you like to toy with me? What did I do to you? I like you man
He said earlier in this thread that he's trying to be the next P-Angel. It's never gonna happen.click to expand
Oh I seee
Posted by Sag89
Your right everyone it's all my fault!
I'm so sad I wasn't born a perfect scorpio!
Dammit if I could only be that smart!
No one is saying it's your fault. Step back, and reread your own words.
If you are afraid that this man is showing tendencies that bring you back to abusive relationships, and you said in your OWN words you can only control yourself and YOUR actions, then you would have ended this relationship the minute you realized what he did. You would not still be in this relationship, and AGAIN you would be starting a thread instead about why you broke it off.
You said yourself you wanted to give him a second chance BUT you continue to point out how wrong he was, skipping along with the readers who are calling him an abuser, sticking your tongue out at those of us trying to get you to relate someone what of a minute bit of the Scorps way of thinking.
So, if you are THAT past all of this and you are THAT willing to forgive him then you need to say "Stop. I've forgiven him. I am making my OWN choice, and that is to stay with him on the terms this never happens again" Instead, you are upset because we are pointing things out that are obvious to US.
You are on the inside, and may not see it. You refuse to see how you need to talk to him about these things. But by not doing it, then you are creating your own drama. Do you get that— You are now not the victim. You now are the contributor.
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by DazedScorp
No I said, I'm on my way to becoming the next P-Angel...
Meaning that no matter the advice I give, even if it's good advice, people such as Purr are going to argue with me for the sake of arguing.
Actually, I really do disagree with what you posted. THAT'S why I debated with you. It had nothing to do with who you are.click to expand
I wonder why he goes straight to that. Don't you?
Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Sag89
Your right everyone it's all my fault!
I'm so sad I wasn't born a perfect scorpio!
Dammit if I could only be that smart!
No one is saying it's your fault. Step back, and reread your own words.
If you are afraid that this man is showing tendencies that bring you back to abusive relationships, and you said in your OWN words you can only control yourself and YOUR actions, then you would have ended this relationship the minute you realized what he did. You would not still be in this relationship, and AGAIN you would be starting a thread instead about why you broke it off.
You said yourself you wanted to give him a second chance BUT you continue to point out how wrong he was, skipping along with the readers who are calling him an abuser, sticking your tongue out at those of us trying to get you to relate someone what of a minute bit of the Scorps way of thinking.
So, if you are THAT past all of this and you are THAT willing to forgive him then you need to say "Stop. I've forgiven him. I am making my OWN choice, and that is to stay with him on the terms this never happens again" Instead, you are upset because we are pointing things out that are obvious to US.
You are on the inside, and may not see it. You refuse to see how you need to talk to him about these things. But by not doing it, then you are creating your own drama. Do you get that— You are now not the victim. You now are the contributor.click to expand
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