I think my scorp may be crazy :( (Page 3)

Aaaahhh facebook, facebook, facebook. I tell ya facebook is the cause of all problems...

Posted by Sag89

Posted by OceanDeep

Posted by Sag89
Your right everyone it's all my fault!

I'm so sad I wasn't born a perfect scorpio!

Dammit if I could only be that smart!

No one is saying it's your fault. Step back, and reread your own words.

If you are afraid that this man is showing tendencies that bring you back to abusive relationships, and you said in your OWN words you can only control yourself and YOUR actions, then you would have ended this relationship the minute you realized what he did. You would not still be in this relationship, and AGAIN you would be starting a thread instead about why you broke it off.

You said yourself you wanted to give him a second chance BUT you continue to point out how wrong he was, skipping along with the readers who are calling him an abuser, sticking your tongue out at those of us trying to get you to relate someone what of a minute bit of the Scorps way of thinking.

So, if you are THAT past all of this and you are THAT willing to forgive him then you need to say "Stop. I've forgiven him. I am making my OWN choice, and that is to stay with him on the terms this never happens again" Instead, you are upset because we are pointing things out that are obvious to US.

You are on the inside, and may not see it. You refuse to see how you need to talk to him about these things. But by not doing it, then you are creating your own drama. Do you get that— You are now not the victim. You now are the contributor.

Ok so what am I doing wrong? Tell me what I don't know about myself.

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I've already told you. About a dozen times now. *tap, tap...1,2,3...is this thing on? tap tap*

Btw, you never answered my question...speaking of FB.

You and Libra are friends on Facebook. What do you have your relationship status set as—?

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Posted by AA
Aaaahhh facebook, facebook, facebook. I tell ya facebook is the cause of all problems...

One of the many reasons why I don't have one!

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YES.

The most important thing you should say on your dating profile at match.com or during a date is -

"I guess the quality I'm looking for most in a man is someone who won't murder me."

Posted by ZenArcade
The most important thing you should say on your dating profile at match.com or during a date is -

"I guess the quality I'm looking for most in a man is someone who won't murder me."

By telling them upfront like that though only makes them better at hiding the fact they are going to kill you.

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by Sag89

Ok so what am I doing wrong? Tell me what I don't know about myself.

What you're doing wrong is trying to find a relationship built on trust, yet you don't take the time to work on yourself first.

You don't trust yourself. You don't trust yourself to find a man to treat you right. And that's because you haven't dealt with the issues from your past that are still huanting you.

Your subconcious is searching for men who match your own set of problems.

Work on yourself. When you a emotionally ready for a loving and trusting relationship, you will find it, but not until you get better.

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😢

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by Sag89

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Ok so what am I doing wrong? Tell me what I don't know about myself.

What you're doing wrong is trying to find a relationship built on trust, yet you don't take the time to work on yourself first.

You don't trust yourself. You don't trust yourself to find a man to treat you right. And that's because you haven't dealt with the issues from your past that are still huanting you.

Your subconcious is searching for men who match your own set of problems.

Work on yourself. When you a emotionally ready for a loving and trusting relationship, you will find it, but not until you get better.

😢

*smh*

Let me say it to where a preschooler could understand it...

Invest in a vibrator and batteries...and be own your own for a while.

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So you think I should break up with him?

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Ok so what am I doing wrong? Tell me what I don't know about myself.

What you're doing wrong is trying to find a relationship built on trust, yet you don't take the time to work on yourself first.

You don't trust yourself. You don't trust yourself to find a man to treat you right. And that's because you haven't dealt with the issues from your past that are still huanting you.

Your subconcious is searching for men who match your own set of problems.

Work on yourself. When you a emotionally ready for a loving and trusting relationship, you will find it, but not until you get better.

😢

*smh*

Let me say it to where a preschooler could understand it...

Invest in a vibrator and batteries...and be own your own for a while.

So you think I should break up with him?

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And the angels sang.

oh dear,
what happened here

Ok well it sounded like you guys were saying something different I think I get what your saying now

Posted by OceanDeep
Btw, you never answered my question...speaking of FB.

You and Libra are friends on Facebook. What do you have your relationship status set as—?

*crickets chirping*

Posted by OceanDeep

Posted by OceanDeep
Btw, you never answered my question...speaking of FB.

You and Libra are friends on Facebook. What do you have your relationship status set as—?

*crickets chirping*

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Sorry yes the libra is my friend on fb and yea it says I'm in a relationship but I don't know if it's on the top of my profile or you have to go under info to see it. That site confuses me there is alot of buttons and things

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by Sag89

Ok so what am I doing wrong? Tell me what I don't know about myself.

What you're doing wrong is trying to find a relationship built on trust, yet you don't take the time to work on yourself first.

You don't trust yourself. You don't trust yourself to find a man to treat you right. And that's because you haven't dealt with the issues from your past that are still huanting you.

Your subconcious is searching for men who match your own set of problems.

Work on yourself. When you a emotionally ready for a loving and trusting relationship, you will find it, but not until you get better.

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I'm sorry but that some typical *puts on astrological stereotyping hat* Scorpio shit.
Her fault? Dude the guy looked through her phone messages, AND FRICKEN ADDED THE GUY ON FB SO HE COULD KILL HIM SLOWLY BY IMPALEMENT THROUGH THE ANUS, AND DUMP HIS BODY IN IANS BACK YARD?
How is it her fault?

... Unless of course i don't know about details here, which is? Probably true, i would say.

Posted by Sag89

Posted by OceanDeep

Posted by OceanDeep
Btw, you never answered my question...speaking of FB.

You and Libra are friends on Facebook. What do you have your relationship status set as—?

*crickets chirping*

Sorry yes the libra is my friend on fb and yea it says I'm in a relationship but I don't know if it's on the top of my profile or you have to go under info to see it. That site confuses me there is alot of buttons and things

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Okay, here is something huge. Thank you for answering this. You need to get that guy out of your life. He obviously does not respect boundaries, NOR does he take the fact that you are seriously in this relationship. He's not taking you OR that fact serious. He is NOT respecting you Sag89 as a woman or a friend. This is where you start confronting your past................

I guess I'll bring this up too since we are letting it all hangout.

The night we had the talk about all this we went to a 711 to get some chips and soda.

While we were checking out the asian lady said jokingly " Did you let your boyfriend get in a fight or something? "

I said " What? "

she said " He's knuckles are all bloody, he get in fight, he trying to do kong fu or something? "


I had no idea what the fuck she was talking about until I looked over and I saw his knuckles all red and swollin with some blood!


As soon as we walked out I said " Babe what the fuck is that from?? "


He went on to say " I was upset and I thought I was going to loose you "


I said " Babe don't never hurt yourself like that, that is crazy "

and he said " I was upset "

so I just kissed his hand.

I don't know if that is just something boys do when they get mad, punch things or what?

I mean, c'mon guys? Jesus. Ya know, we have a young, 22 year old young Sagittarius female here who's in her prime ya know? 22 YEARS OLD— Young and supple with probably great skin, probably really soft and smooth ya know?. And here we are, telling her stuff, THAT WE HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT? I mean, guys, for fuck sake she's young and prime guys?? For gods sake we're talking about a piece of tender meat here! Tender delicious meat here who is in urgent need of out help.
Now lets think about this for a minute here ok, lets think, ... and really consider our options here ok, and get our facts straight, before jumping to conclusions and accusations
Now we don't know what goes on in her life do we? All we know is, that she's a young 22 year old, innocent little girl who's in need of our help, our intellectual help, NOT practical, physical sweaty help, but actual mental help. Ok? And it's Christmas, probably feeling lonely, and horny, all warm next to the fire in her apartment, and lets face it, if she next to the fire, she's probably wearing little clothing right?
So here we have, a young sweet prime little 22 year old Sagittarius, sitting next to an open fire, probably on her little pink hello kitty laptop, searching, and asking the world wide web, COMPLETE RANDOM STRANGERS! Where she could meet any old freak, for answers, and inspiration. AND THEN WE SIT HERE, GRILLING HER, TELLING HER OFF, LIKE A NAUGHTY LITTLE SCHOOL GIRL, FOR ABSOLUTELY NO REASON WHATSOEVER!?!?!?! You guys disgust me. You really do.

@Sag89 Punching things until your knuckles bleed over a text you weren't supposed to have seen in the first place? He's definitely carrying too much baggage from the past. That's no good. 😢

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by Sag89

I don't know if that is just something boys do when they get mad, punch things or what?

Better something non living rather than you, right?

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Lol. They've been a couple for a few months now. Make it a year, and he'll be so upset that he will hit her, and tell her how she made him do it. No one is perfect. But when someone needs to heal, they shoulldn't be with someone that triggers their bad points. Sag89 might be his trigger in this relationship, considering where he's coming from.

Ok thanks.

I just like getting all opinions on things cause I know everyone has a different view. My last scorpio punched holes in walls too and I guess I always thought that was normal but he never made himself bleed or anything.


Sometimes I have a really hard time gaging what is normal and what isn't because of how I grew up. I like talking to you guys, my friends, and therapist. I just wanna know all thoughts.


Thanks again.

Posted by aquaj
Sag89, why don't you just ignore the Scorpopaths on this thread who don't think there's anything wrong with breaking into someone's phone, and seem to believe that seeing that as a dealbreaker means YOU have the problem.

You are obviously not in the wrong AT ALL here. You need to follow your gut and ignore the freaks and geeks who are chronically single for a reason😄

STFU. Did you bother to read all of this airhead aqua? She chose to stay with him. Ding, ding, ding. Does that ring anything— This is where it now boils down to us working on her. And she's opening up more. For those of us who actually have followed her from before. It's not because we hate her and are all lovers of Scorps, it's because we do love her and sometimes it takes an outside, OBJECTIVE mind to read through the bandwagoners such as you, or I am a woman hear me roar who love projecting their problems or past problems as the cure all answer because everyone is a fucking cookiecutter of a human being, or a son of a bitching horrible person. So learn to read, open up that brain of yours a little more................. or again, STFU.

Posted by scorchedearth
i did read the thread. did you?

i already posted that i don't give a flying fuck if his reaction to information he had no business CREEPER STALKER HACKING SOMEONES PHONE TO GET.

his reaction is meaningless because the way he got the information made his reaction invalid.

if he had overheard a phone conversation? fine. i'd be on his side.

he fucking broke into her phone. there is absolutely no justification for that.

The guy did NOT break into Sag's phone, he saw the text pop up in the middle of the night while she was passed out sleeping. Dazed is a Scorpio male so he is the closest to understanding how a Scorpio man would react, thats all. He never stated that he thought everything this guy did was ok.

Posted by DazedScorp

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The guy did NOT break into Sag's phone, he saw the text pop up in the middle of the night while she was passed out sleeping. Dazed is a Scorpio male so he is the closest to understanding how a Scorpio man would react, thats all. He never stated that he thought everything this guy did was ok.

OMG! Now someone I don't even know is backing me up!

I obviously can't fight yall on my own because I'm a crazy ass scorp that doesn't know shit!

AHHHHHHHHHH

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That wasn't my intention...you seem perfectly able to fight your own battles.. whatever

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Posted by OceanDeep

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do you have unfinished business w/ the libra ?

My take? It is for now. I think that she didn't tell Scorp because it was nothing to her, but what she said: they were friends that hooked up.

Now on the outside, anyone would for even a nano second wonder if that was still going on OR if the potential was there for it to happen again. Anyone would, and may ask their SO just to be sure. Ya know, build that trust in thier relationship.

Buuuuutttttt this is why Sag89 here didn't tell Scorp. Thus, it would then require her to talk to him about Libra. But if she DOESNT bring up Libra, then she still can remain friends with him, Scorp is none the wiser, it won't cause waves with Scorp AND if things don't work out with Scorp? She hadn't cut off all ties with Libra in the event, well, that she couldve given him that Christmas wish he had if she so chose 😉

Again, WHY should she have to cut all ties with her ex? Maybe she continued to text him... maybe she didn't and this was a random text. Either way, why is it necessary for her to not be on speaking terms with the Libra? Are you that possessive?

Oh, Cancer. Nevermind.

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No she doesn't have to cut all ties with him. This guy is a fuck wad. He has no respect or knows no boundaries of Sag89. That is the reason to cut all ties with him. Had you read through all of that, you would have seen the truth came out. Maybe though you did read it, but you can't comprehend things—? Hmmmmmm, that could be it too.

And you don't know shit about Cancers at all. I have no problem telling people when they are a fuck wad and kicking them to the curb. Like right now? Youre a fuck wad. Oh yeah, and I told you that before too before I read your idiodicy of narrowmindedness spew you call your knowledge from above. If you go back and read, you'll see. Oh, but that would take effort and work on your end. Better to just blab and call it the holy grail, right? 😉

WAIT!
This is a serious question guys.
Does it count as rape if you don't FULLY agree to it BUT, and this a big but, DON'T exactly negate the situation?

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Posted by scorchedearth
i did read the thread. did you?

i already posted that i don't give a flying fuck if his reaction to information he had no business CREEPER STALKER HACKING SOMEONES PHONE TO GET.

his reaction is meaningless because the way he got the information made his reaction invalid.

if he had overheard a phone conversation? fine. i'd be on his side.

he fucking broke into her phone. there is absolutely no justification for that.

The guy did NOT break into Sag's phone, he saw the text pop up in the middle of the night while she was passed out sleeping. Dazed is a Scorpio male so he is the closest to understanding how a Scorpio man would react, thats all. He never stated that he thought everything this guy did was ok.

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Actually he did break into my phone. He broke thru the password.

Okay, back to the real action here.

Sag, you need to end this. He has past issues, that is now all coming out since you posted this. This coincides with issues you have from your past. Neither will mesh until both of you work past it. This is not healthy for either of you, and it doesn't matter whether you're Sags and Scorps or not. The thing is honey, you knew about his bloodied knuckles before you posted this if I read that correctly? You are not breaking your past tendencies, you know this. So don't be afraid to see it, recognize it, and to do something about it starting now.

Take care of yourself above and beyond all else, and above and beyond anyone else. I think you get what Dazed and I have been trying to say 🙂

Posted by Prince_Pisces
ew lol

LOL you just came in here to see what all the fuss was about, saw all the freaks and desperate people, and left! lol

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Posted by OceanDeep
Okay, back to the real action here.

Sag, you need to end this. He has past issues, that is now all coming out since you posted this. This coincides with issues you have from your past. Neither will mesh until both of you work past it. This is not healthy for either of you, and it doesn't matter whether you're Sags and Scorps or not. The thing is honey, you knew about his bloodied knuckles before you posted this if I read that correctly? You are not breaking your past tendencies, you know this. So don't be afraid to see it, recognize it, and to do something about it starting now.

Take care of yourself above and beyond all else, and above and beyond anyone else. I think you get what Dazed and I have been trying to say 🙂

It's really hard to see this when you have people trying to tear me a new one just because they hate me.

Just PM saggy like I'm doing.

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NO PM me saggy. I give great advice and i have cake.

Posted by risingabovethemasses
Man ScorchedDeath you sound really really angry... you are not a Scorpio and you are charing like a raging bull....

THIS, my friend, is the ESSENCE, of the one they call SCORCHEDEARTH

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lol I see want ya mean Dazed...

read page 1 then 29,30...

eh... I may read the others later when I feel.

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Scorpio Sun/Aqua Moon Male (that's my new name)

I don't know.. I kinda like Rising Above Them Asses ;P

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LOL 😛

He was never my boyfriend. He was a hook up and friend like I said earlier.

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Posted by risingabovethemasses
Hahahahaha aPiscesPrincess: all that of that hard groundwork I have laid with reverse psychology on certain angry folks has turned them into nice folks all of a sudden. Anyhow, I don't think there is such a thing as a perfect sun or moon sign. They all have their shortcomings. But I would much rather that you have a virgo moon instead of something like a scorpio moon. Jeeez that would complicate things.

Do you know if your rising sign dictates anything other than how others perceive you physically on the outside by any chance when combined with your sun/ moon signs?


Scorpio Sun/Aqua Moon Male 🙂

I'm glad I have a Virgo moon too instead of a water moon. Since I have a water sun, a water moon would be too much emotion I think :X Also, I always hear of how people with Pisces moons are so sensitive and feel everything.. so I'm just glad I have a Pisces sun instead (probably a little less sensitive) 😛

Well the rising just seems to add to your personality. Sometimes I feel more Aries than anything else (I also have Aries venus).

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Yeah true, but the unemotional side of Virgo moon is kinda scary 😢 I mean seriously i once squashed quite a large bug once and felt nothing! I just stared at it. It's dead body.

Posted by aquaj
Does the rising sign make you look more like the sign that's represented there? (For instance, would a Capricorn rising benefit from good Cappy bone structure or no?)

If that's the case I don't think it would suck to have Pisces rising as Pisces women are usually thin and beautiful.

Good point. And you notice women with Cancer rising are really beautiful i think. Diaz, Jolie, Kudrow. To be a bloke with it is just plain GAY.

This is exactly 1000% why I can't deal with scorp guys- instead of just talking with you about it he decided to freak out.

Posted by aquaj
Yeah, still physically can't block people from sending you a text😄

Furthermore, both my boyfriend and I remain friendly with our exes. Not best friends of course but there's no animosity. We're acquaintances. One of my old Pisces exes (from like 6 years ago) comes out to my boyfriend's shows and shows his support. If every woman who'd dated my boyfriend hated his guts after the fact, that would be a huge red flag!!


Scorpio + Sag = no bueno, and your Scorpopath's behaviour illustrates WHY.

On AT&T you can😉 I have 11 crazies blocked on my smart limits 😉 only 9.99 per month !

Posted by risingabovethemasses
DazedScorp:

also, no matter what your sign is: the moment you get emotional, get angry and lash out, you actually end up losing all of your power and respect. it is what it is


Scorp Sun/Aqua Moon

+1

Thanks aliennation

Lol wa?