Jupiter people

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by BoomShakalakaBoom on Friday, December 27, 2013 and has 13 replies.

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@BoomShakalakaBoom
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Question to you if you have strong Sag in your chart, like moi..

Something that happens to me often; when you're talking to someone whos being overly negative, whiny and depressing..dont you feel like running away from that person as fast as possible? Usually in normal circumstances I will make an extra effort to try and understand the person if he/she is dealing with crap in their life, though sometimes I get super impatient thinking "dude..get over it"

Im super super impatient with people who are constantly negative, how about you?

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@LostinmyMind11
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Im negative...so I put up with myself lol

But with other people..meh just depends on my mood and how many times ive heard the same story over and over again....then it becomes emotionally draining and I cant be around them anymore.

I would think that is sounds pretty normal for anyone being around heavily negative person/people *shrugs*

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Question to you if you have strong Sag in your chart, like moi..

Something that happens to me often; when you're talking to someone whos being overly negative, whiny and depressing..dont you feel like running away from that person as fast as possible? Usually in normal circumstances I will make an extra effort to try and understand the person if he/she is dealing with crap in their life, though sometimes I get super impatient thinking "dude..get over it"

Im super super impatient with people who are constantly negative, how about you?

Generally it doesn't bother me if there's a lot going on with them. Patience and understanding. But I steer clear of bitching just to be bitching and not doing anything to solve the problem. Don't think less of them but I'm not going to keep you company.

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@BoomShakalakaBoom
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Good points!

I feel that I attract a lot of people who need help or advice for some reason, Im a good listener. I think generally people trust their problems much easier to someone who is cheerful and outgoing than someone who generally acts depressing.

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@Sag89
14 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Well life isn't perfect. But what I don't like to hear is excuses. That is probably what i don't like hearing the most. Negative is part of the experience and thats fine but with people who in that constant state what I hear is alot of blame and excuse. Thats when i wanna say just shut up and doing something about it.

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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Just looking at DXP, misery loves some damn company. Omg. Negative Nancys and Neddies love some misery and they try their hardest to keep you in it with them. It makes it easier and easier for them to LIVE in their pain. To keep retelling it over and over again. The pain never goes away. You never heal.

Laughter and smiling means that the pain is going away. Depression is ending. You are forgetting. To some this is a scary thought. Moving on is terrifying and not uplifting.

Being in misery and depression is like living in jails, chains. I never met anyone who was happy to be in jail.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Sagtastic1
But sometimes, people look for a sag to pull them out of disparity. It's a gift and a curse. Sag optimism is a power within itself, you just have to use it those open to fthose who really want to feel better, not the one who want to live in misery. Yuck

your right. People come to me for a break from reality. Like a drug.

You can always tell if DMV thinks your negative, I dont return any phone calls, I dont call you, I barely want to make small talk. I slowly creep away from you.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Im super super impatient with people who are constantly negative, how about you?

Life isn't a bed of roses all the time. It depends on how you define negative though, people often confuse negative energy with plain old common sense. It happens in here all the time, when you're truthful and honest.

People don't drain me though. I will enjoy your company, unless you're bitching about not affording a new Ipad. I zoom out when I hear that. Otherwise, most of my friends come from fucked up backgrounds, yet are some of the smartest, most well adjusted people I've ever had the joy to meet.

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@Shul
14 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Question to you if you have strong Sag in your chart, like moi..

Oui, messire. Moi has a Sag stellium in the natal chart.

As for negativity: I shoot it with my Holy Bow of Righteousness + arrows whose purpose is to cause full optimism instead of poison damage to the target. Even if the "afflicted" person is laughing out loud to death. I also use a special ability called "Humor". It creates wonders even in pretty serious situations, no doubt! In most fatalistic cases, I choose the ultimate skill of them all - FAITH. This one burns out all symptoms of pessimism instantly or over time, depending on how infested with negative thoughts a person can be. Moi has some nice cleansing attributes as well: they cure even the most vicious venom with plenty of inspiration and motivation.

What can I say? Sagittarius is just as magickal as Scorpio.