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Just Want To Be Alone
She just spoke to me about my current situation.
Posted by tiziani
Nothing wrong with a weekend getaway! ...
Posted by Se7en
... go through it. ... Stay strong.
Posted by Rosaknowsya
... take a moment to digest WHAT makes me think this. I devise a mental plan to remedy the situation or at least make peace with it.
... deep breathe and smile and keep plugging along.
... take your arms and push them to the ceiling (like in victory) it automatically sends chemicals to the brain that boost confidence and increase a sense of happiness. ((I suggest doing this in a bathroom or somewhere quiet))
... speak things out loud ... "TODAY IS GOING TO BE GREAT! I AM GOOD AND LOVED AND I LOVE MY JOB, I AM HELPFUL!" ...click to expand
all good advice.
we are all currently under pressure. Scorpio being our 12th house makes us of lower energy addiotionally to sag saturn.
PS: if you have to cry often and with no reason, then go to doc for checking depression.
Are you sure your not a Virgo eh?
Posted by WeedsI have hella sag placements and I've been feeling like leaving to somewhere, anywhere. I've been having that feeling even more than my Virgo Suns usual.
Are you sure your not a Virgo eh?
What degree is your sag sun?
We alll have one more year of transformation.
We alll have one more year of transformation.
If you have the ability to, don't even think twice, just do it. Sometimes you really need that.
But if it's going to affect your kid's school attendance and education, drop them off at your parents or something first
But if it's going to affect your kid's school attendance and education, drop them off at your parents or something first
Try going for walks, having some good ol fashioned fun. Go to Groupon and pick an activity and do one each month.
During this saturn transit, l picked up the unlikely of all things...my bible.
Its helped. Daily reading and reflecting.
During this saturn transit, l picked up the unlikely of all things...my bible.
Its helped. Daily reading and reflecting.
Posted by tiziani
Nothing wrong with a weekend getaway! I hope you can process the answers coming your way and feel on an even keel again soon
I'm talking about going away for good. Just me and my boy. Start over.
Posted by Se7en
The only way to get over it is to go through it. The feelings will pass. They always do. Stay strong.
Been going thru too long. Im always made to suppress my feelings sometimes. I'm tired of it. I just wanna be by myself.
Posted by mzmeeYou can. Make a plan and there ya go.Posted by tiziani
Nothing wrong with a weekend getaway! I hope you can process the answers coming your way and feel on an even keel again soon
I'm talking about going away for good. Just me and my boy. Start over.
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Posted by RosaknowsyaPosted by mzmee
For some reason, I've been feeling like packing my bags, my baby boys bags and leaving everything and everyone. I feel so overwhelmed.
Last night I had a long, hard cry out of nowhere. Thinking about things I've been thru and things I've seen in my life seem to be really hitting me hard. Normally I can shrug this feeling but its like it magnified for some reason.
Anyone else feel like this? How did you cope? I don't like talking to family about how I'm feeling sometimes.
I find my mind thinking "RUN AWAY" multiple times a day.
Normally I take a moment to digest WHAT makes me think this. I devise a mental plan to remedy the situation or at least make peace with it.
Then I take a deep breathe and smile and keep plugging along.
As odd as it may sound, I read if you 'think' of something like crossing a finish line or winning and you take your arms and push them to the ceiling (like in victory) it automatically sends chemicals to the brain that boost confidence and increase a sense of happiness. ((I suggest doing this in a bathroom or somewhere quiet))
Also, I speak things out loud (also alone like in the care on the way to work) like, "TODAY IS GOING TO BE GREAT! I AM GOOD AND LOVED AND I LOVE MY JOB, I AM HELPFUL!" Sometimes speaking what we want out loud is helpful.
🙂 Hope it gets better fellow Archer!
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Thanks for that. I hope it gets better as well. It's my surroundings,for sure. Thought I had a grasp on my marriage but it takes two. I'm tired of working on this alone. Family doesn't support me in anything but expect me to fly to then when they throw up a bat signal.
I'm tired. Of people. Going thru too much. I have all these people around me but I still feel alone. May as well be alone.
I will say that during this transit its easy to isolate yourself.
Which may not be the best thing. It helps alot to actually talk to people. Find a trusted person to really talk 2
Which may not be the best thing. It helps alot to actually talk to people. Find a trusted person to really talk 2
Posted by DwellingOnMoveNot crying for no reason, it's just its really getting to me now where as before I was just able to shrug it off.Posted by tiziani
Nothing wrong with a weekend getaway! ...Posted by Se7en
... go through it. ... Stay strong.Posted by Rosaknowsya
... take a moment to digest WHAT makes me think this. I devise a mental plan to remedy the situation or at least make peace with it.
... deep breathe and smile and keep plugging along.
... take your arms and push them to the ceiling (like in victory) it automatically sends chemicals to the brain that boost confidence and increase a sense of happiness. ((I suggest doing this in a bathroom or somewhere quiet))
... speak things out loud ... "TODAY IS GOING TO BE GREAT! I AM GOOD AND LOVED AND I LOVE MY JOB, I AM HELPFUL!" ...
all good advice.
we are all currently under pressure. Scorpio being our 12th house makes us of lower energy addiotionally to sag saturn.
PS: if you have to cry often and with no reason, then go to doc for checking depression.click to expand
The first part of your post, what does that mean?
Posted by DMV
What degree is your sag sun?
We alll have one more year of transformation.
Don't know
Posted by SassyKiwi
If you have the ability to, don't even think twice, just do it. Sometimes you really need that.
But if it's going to affect your kid's school attendance and education, drop them off at your parents or something first
My baby is only one so no issues there.
Posted by DMV
I will say that during this transit its easy to isolate yourself.
Which may not be the best thing. It helps alot to actually talk to people. Find a trusted person to really talk 2
I don't trust easily. For this reason, I've managed the art of holding shit in. People talk to me and can be confident I won't repeat what they said. Me, nope. These same people tell me other folks business.
Posted by BuffaloBills28
I went in for a cyber kiss and got this..
lol. seriously though, hope you feel better! Tough times don't last.
I'm sorry. All the romance has been sucked right out of me.
I hope I feel better too. I appreciate the cyber kiss. I owe you one.
It's Saturn beating the crap outta Sag right now. It's effecting anyone with heavy sag placements or those with aspects involving sag, Saturn and a few other things.
It WILL pass. Also are you dealing with Saturn return? That will compound it.
I understand the desire,no the desperate feeling of escaping it all and starting new. Did it when I was 30, left everyone I knew behind and started my life over, 1'000 of miles from family and friends. But you know what? I was still there so I had to suck it up and deal with the real issues behind why I felt that way... Dunno if that's what your dealing with, just sharing my experience.
Try rearranging your house or room. It helps me when I get those feelings of fleeing. Paint it a new color. Try something new you have never done. Those will all definitely help.
It WILL pass. Also are you dealing with Saturn return? That will compound it.
I understand the desire,no the desperate feeling of escaping it all and starting new. Did it when I was 30, left everyone I knew behind and started my life over, 1'000 of miles from family and friends. But you know what? I was still there so I had to suck it up and deal with the real issues behind why I felt that way... Dunno if that's what your dealing with, just sharing my experience.
Try rearranging your house or room. It helps me when I get those feelings of fleeing. Paint it a new color. Try something new you have never done. Those will all definitely help.
Posted by yupvirgo
I hope you feel better soon.
You should probably stop reading the infidelity subreddits and other philandering chronicles.
Those are the bowels of humanity lol
Lmao. I highly recommend that subreddit tbh. But nah, I'm dealing with real life infidelity. Nothing a subreddit can come close to.
Thanks. I hope I feel better too.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXI took a walk around the block today. It's actually nice out here for a November. As soon as I come back into this house, those feelings fester again. Last month, I repainted the house with my husband. It was torture. He made my experience horrible.
We've ALL been there lady; you're not alone.
Times when I'm feeling that dark cloud over my head, I go somewhere in my home that's private and quiet and I allow myself to cry. Sometimes a good cry really does help to release a lot, or at least some, of what's eating you up inside.
Do something that makes you happy. Go out with your friends and have a good time. Go for a long drive where there's nice scenery that can help you relax. The good thing about storms is that they eventually pass.
Keep your head up.
I go out but when I get home, I feel miserable. I can't be here.
Posted by justagirl
It's Saturn beating the crap outta Sag right now. It's effecting anyone with heavy sag placements or those with aspects involving sag, Saturn and a few other things.
It WILL pass. Also are you dealing with Saturn return? That will compound it.
I understand the desire,no the desperate feeling of escaping it all and starting new. Did it when I was 30, left everyone I knew behind and started my life over, 1'000 of miles from family and friends. But you know what? I was still there so I had to suck it up and deal with the real issues behind why I felt that way... Dunno if that's what your dealing with, just sharing my experience.
Try rearranging your house or room. It helps me when I get those feelings of fleeing. Paint it a new color. Try something new you have never done. Those will all definitely help.
I saw that in the post on the first page. I have a lot of sag placements so I guess that's what it is.
I did all of those new things and painted the house, got new furniture. Husband offers to tag along but makes it hell when doing so.
I'll go places without him and he likes being an asshole when I return.
Posted by everlynn
I can sing you a beautiful acoustic song if I know how to work that vocaroo thing. Maybe that'll soothe you.
Tho somebody, I can't remember who it is, gave you a good suggestion that I agree with.
I like singing. I really do. I haven't even had the spirit in me to sing. Feel like my fire has been put out. Feel like a wet noodle, just dangling around. Horrible feeling.
I received tons of great suggestions. I'm gonna give some a try. It's got to the point now where I have to literally force myself out the house. When I do, I have a great time. When I get home, I regret coming home.
Sucks right?!? I hate this feeling.
Turn to prayer. Have faith things will be brighter when you least expect it . Stay strong for yourself and your child. Life is not over it's just beginning and after each storm there's many sunshines.
Plan what's best for you & execute. You'll do great!
Plan what's best for you & execute. You'll do great!
Posted by Mike79
Turn to prayer. Have faith things will be brighter when you least expect it . Stay strong for yourself and your child. Life is not over it's just beginning and after each storm there's many sunshines.
Plan what's best for you & execute. You'll do great!
I appreciate that. Thank you
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXPosted by mzmeeI agree with you. You do need to get out of that environment at least for a little while.Posted by xXxAliciaXxXI took a walk around the block today. It's actually nice out here for a November. As soon as I come back into this house, those feelings fester again. Last month, I repainted the house with my husband. It was torture. He made my experience horrible.
We've ALL been there lady; you're not alone.
Times when I'm feeling that dark cloud over my head, I go somewhere in my home that's private and quiet and I allow myself to cry. Sometimes a good cry really does help to release a lot, or at least some, of what's eating you up inside.
Do something that makes you happy. Go out with your friends and have a good time. Go for a long drive where there's nice scenery that can help you relax. The good thing about storms is that they eventually pass.
Keep your head up.
I go out but when I get home, I feel miserable. I can't be here.
If you can manage it, take a trip to somewhere nice.
Somewhere where you'd feel at peace.
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Yep. Not asking for much. I just want peace.
You are in grey or black psychological episodes. Go to the doctor and check your hormonal levels, and the balance between other hormones. I guarantee you, your seratonin levels have dropped.
Posted by draculaI'll be sure to ask about that, too. I have an appointment soon. Thanks.
You are in grey or black psychological episodes. Go to the doctor and check your hormonal levels, and the balance between other hormones. I guarantee you, your seratonin levels have dropped.
Posted by RosaknowsyaStill living with him. The area is overall peaceful. It's the people I'm around. Him, family, his family. They'll drive a crazy person sane.Posted by mzmeeAre you still living with him? What are your surroundings? That can make a huge difference.Posted by RosaknowsyaPosted by mzmee
For some reason, I've been feeling like packing my bags, my baby boys bags and leaving everything and everyone. I feel so overwhelmed.
Last night I had a long, hard cry out of nowhere. Thinking about things I've been thru and things I've seen in my life seem to be really hitting me hard. Normally I can shrug this feeling but its like it magnified for some reason.
Anyone else feel like this? How did you cope? I don't like talking to family about how I'm feeling sometimes.
I find my mind thinking "RUN AWAY" multiple times a day.
Normally I take a moment to digest WHAT makes me think this. I devise a mental plan to remedy the situation or at least make peace with it.
Then I take a deep breathe and smile and keep plugging along.
As odd as it may sound, I read if you 'think' of something like crossing a finish line or winning and you take your arms and push them to the ceiling (like in victory) it automatically sends chemicals to the brain that boost confidence and increase a sense of happiness. ((I suggest doing this in a bathroom or somewhere quiet))
Also, I speak things out loud (also alone like in the care on the way to work) like, "TODAY IS GOING TO BE GREAT! I AM GOOD AND LOVED AND I LOVE MY JOB, I AM HELPFUL!" Sometimes speaking what we want out loud is helpful.
🙂 Hope it gets better fellow Archer!
Thanks for that. I hope it gets better as well. It's my surroundings,for sure. Thought I had a grasp on my marriage but it takes two. I'm tired of working on this alone. Family doesn't support me in anything but expect me to fly to then when they throw up a bat signal.
I'm tired. Of people. Going thru too much. I have all these people around me but I still feel alone. May as well be alone.
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Posted by RosaknowsyaPosted by mzmeeYea. Can't even pull your hair out in peace lol.Posted by RosaknowsyaStill living with him. The area is overall peaceful. It's the people I'm around. Him, family, his family. They'll drive a crazy person sane.Posted by mzmeeAre you still living with him? What are your surroundings? That can make a huge difference.Posted by RosaknowsyaPosted by mzmee
For some reason, I've been feeling like packing my bags, my baby boys bags and leaving everything and everyone. I feel so overwhelmed.
Last night I had a long, hard cry out of nowhere. Thinking about things I've been thru and things I've seen in my life seem to be really hitting me hard. Normally I can shrug this feeling but its like it magnified for some reason.
Anyone else feel like this? How did you cope? I don't like talking to family about how I'm feeling sometimes.
I find my mind thinking "RUN AWAY" multiple times a day.
Normally I take a moment to digest WHAT makes me think this. I devise a mental plan to remedy the situation or at least make peace with it.
Then I take a deep breathe and smile and keep plugging along.
As odd as it may sound, I read if you 'think' of something like crossing a finish line or winning and you take your arms and push them to the ceiling (like in victory) it automatically sends chemicals to the brain that boost confidence and increase a sense of happiness. ((I suggest doing this in a bathroom or somewhere quiet))
Also, I speak things out loud (also alone like in the care on the way to work) like, "TODAY IS GOING TO BE GREAT! I AM GOOD AND LOVED AND I LOVE MY JOB, I AM HELPFUL!" Sometimes speaking what we want out loud is helpful.
🙂 Hope it gets better fellow Archer!
Thanks for that. I hope it gets better as well. It's my surroundings,for sure. Thought I had a grasp on my marriage but it takes two. I'm tired of working on this alone. Family doesn't support me in anything but expect me to fly to then when they throw up a bat signal.
I'm tired. Of people. Going thru too much. I have all these people around me but I still feel alone. May as well be alone.
Maybe it's time you develop a plan to do what will make you happy. If you want him then talk about it. If you want to get away start making it happen!
Last time I felt like this I released everything I felt clearly, how I felt about him, his family and their life style . Was engaged half way across the country 6 months after dating 5 years. A lot of history, AND I was trapped closer to his parents.One day I fell apart. I left on the first 5am first class flight the next morning with what I could fit into 2 suitcases and threw my ring and left.
Story continued but I felt that way too once. I ran a lot those days. Two, three times when i was at my worst.click to expand
Everything you said is how I feel.
strange.
with transit Pluto in sextile to Pluto
und
Mercury trine Chiron
it must be actually a time of empowerment. at least I enjoyed such a turn around today.
with transit Pluto in sextile to Pluto
und
Mercury trine Chiron
it must be actually a time of empowerment. at least I enjoyed such a turn around today.
Posted by mzmeePosted by DMV
I will say that during this transit its easy to isolate yourself.
Which may not be the best thing. It helps alot to actually talk to people. Find a trusted person to really talk 2
I don't trust easily. For this reason, I've managed the art of holding shit in...
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Look, what CA says:
November 7, 2016
While you've been doing a lot of keeping to yourself these days, dear Sagittarius, there can be a very sudden need to connect and interact today. Try to express this need as fluidly as possible, or else you may frustrate others who may feel that this is too sudden. You've been gathering a lot of power from some level of solitude or through behind the scenes activities recently, but a new cycle has begun that encourages a more visible expression of personal power. You'll want to take the lead and prove your independence now and in the coming three months. Watch that you don't put a wall around you in the process, but do experiment with ways to improve a sense that you're in charge and in control. A desire to reinvent yourself in some way can be strong now and in the weeks ahead.
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