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How to Respond When a Partner Asks About Penis Size
When your partner asks about his penis size, focus on honesty and reassurance. Emphasize that intimacy and connection matter more than physical attributes. Avoid making comparisons or giving false compliments. Open communication can help both partners feel comfortable and confident without pressure or judgment.
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What you should say depends on how you feel.
The best sex of my life was also the smallest penis of my life. I dont know if he felt like he had to go all out but it was absolutely perfect.
How much time do we spend doing that anyway? A couple hours a week at most?
"He asks you how big you think his penis should be". What a weird question. I'd say as big as the Eiffel Tower. How the fuck should I know how big his penis is supposed to be? All I know is the size that he has right now. He is dumb. Just quadruple the size he has, that'll shut him up for asking stupid questions.
Btw, I've encountered a guy whose "equipment" didn't match up to his physique, but he didn't have a maggot sized dick..it was ok. He didn't get lost in there. LOL! So we never had any discussions about it.
Just how little was this guy? It's strange that you even had to have a talk about it. Wow.
Posted by WaterCup
"He asks you how big you think his penis should be". What a weird question. I'd say as big as the Eiffel Tower. How the fuck should I know how big his penis is supposed to be? All I know is the size that he has right now. He is dumb. Just quadruple the size he has, that'll shut him up for asking stupid questions.Btw, I've encountered a guy whose "equipment" didn't match up to his physique, but he didn't have a maggot sized dick..it was ok. He didn't get lost in there. LOL! So we never had any discussions about it.
Just how little was this guy? It's strange that you even had to have a talk about it. Wow.
erect, its the size of a lime-a-rita can 😢
I think someone brought it up 2 him which is why he asked. Lol, he asked me to google how big a 6'3 guy 200lbs penis should be. I didnt know if he wanted me to laugh or take him serious.
like u said, it isnt a hotdog in a hallway, so I dont know why he brought it up
Posted by exoskeleton
i'd be so biiigggggggggggggggggggggggaaaaaaaa! swinging in the wind.
youd be the ultimate sword fighter!
Posted by Nala13
What you should say depends on how you feel.The best sex of my life was also the smallest penis of my life. I dont know if he felt like he had to go all out but it was absolutely perfect.
How much time do we spend doing that anyway? A couple hours a week at most?
try a couple hours a day. Its like God played a trick on him.
I didnt care till he brought it up.
Personally I don't care about size, or even technique...I just care about being with a guy who's fun to be around. Someone easy to talk to, etc. And yeah, not forgetting a great personality. I sure as a heart attack wouldn't want to be with someone who has a lot of negatives ie. can't fuck etc, but has a nerve to be arrogant. Or have an all round stinking attitude. You better be nice to me, Mr Stuart LITTLE..you shouldn't be lacking in every aspect of your being.
My aries husband was a horrible lover & his penis was on the small side...he's average in height. But I still married him because he was a great person. He is very giving to people, I liked that about him. Good qualities like that can overshadow every other bad thing about a person. A monster of a man with a massive cock that fucks like he's starring in a wet dream would not be enough for me. I don't care how awesome he is in bed. Truth is, we won't be spending most of our time together having sex, so if a big dick is all he has to offer...no thanks.
Posted by Sagtastic1
First of all you have my sympathy. Honestly, I would make up a lie so that I wouldn't hurt his feelings and never talk to him again.
I quietly chuckled cause he chuckled and I got up to grab something so as to change the subject.
Posted by exoskeleton
i wonder how many men have serious anxiety about their dick size.
seriously. Do u think its the same as women who have small boobs?
it just sucks that there isnt a surgery to make them bigger
Posted by WaterCup
Personally I don't care about size, or even technique...I just care about being with a guy who's fun to be around. Someone easy to talk to, etc. And yeah, not forgetting a great personality. I sure as a heart attack wouldn't want to be with someone who has a lot of negatives ie. can't fuck etc, but has a nerve to be arrogant. Or have an all round stinking attitude. You better be nice to me, Mr Stuart LITTLE..you shouldn't be lacking in every aspect of your being..
lol, you are correct. You cant lack everywhere. Do u think its superficial to place more weight on sex?
@watercup, I read the 2nd part of your post.
you are right again. The size of a mans dick shouldnt be a deciding factor, considering the opposite example you wrote.
on the flipside, I feel like men have nonegotiable items when selecting a partner. If a guy says he doesnt date fat chicks, not many bat an eye.
Posted by exoskeleton
i wonder how many men have serious anxiety about their dick size.You'd be surprise. I had a guy who way very "big" say to me he thinks it should be thicker. I said yeah, tell that to my multiple organism I has last night, this morning, and just now!
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I think men are anxious about their bodies just like women r.
Posted by WaterCup
Personally I don't care about size, or even technique...I just care about being with a guy who's fun to be around. Someone easy to talk to, etc. And yeah, not forgetting a great personality. I sure as a heart attack wouldn't want to be with someone who has a lot of negatives ie. can't fuck etc, but has a nerve to be arrogant. Or have an all round stinking attitude. You better be nice to me, Mr Stuart LITTLE..you shouldn't be lacking in every aspect of your being..
lol, you are correct. You cant lack everywhere. Do u think its superficial to place more weight on sex?
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I really don't know. Sex is also important in its own way. For an example, I used to be irritated when he wanted sex because I knew it was going to be yet another horrible experience. I'd rudely tell him to wait until I make myself cum 1st. LOL! I was mean to him when it came to sex.
On the other hand, my libra ex was wonderful in bed, yet he sucked everywhere else. I left him with his good dick. Many times I wished I could transfer his love making skills into the aries & I'd have a perfect man. LOL! I even had a phase where I used to pretend that I was having sex with the libra, when it was actually with the aries. It was THAT annoying, I had to be creative just to get through it 😄 So yeah, hard question lol.
Posted by exoskeleton
watercup, what is your moon, merc, venus, and mars, if you don't mind my asking? 🙂
moon in scorpio
venus in sagittarius
mars in scorpio. Why? Hahaha.
Posted by feby16aqua
If he brought it up to me I wouldn't make him feel bad about his penis size. I would just tell him, naaah baby you are perfect just as you are. Oh no, to even think of making someone feel bad about their penis is just so wrong...it would be like telling a woman she has a blown out vagina. Same kind of damming feeling.
yeah, I dont wanna be told that
Posted by feby16aqua
hey, the way I think about it...and more and more lately. The dick, boobs, ass all fade in time and then you are left with YOU. Your personality. Then it's time to see what you've got 😛
this is what I need to grasp.
Mercury in capricorn
ive stopped talking to a few guys who had some bomb ass sex but shitty attitudes
Posted by exoskeleton
watercup, what is your moon, merc, venus, and mars, if you don't mind my asking? 🙂moon in scorpio
venus in sagittarius
mars in scorpio. Why? Hahaha.thanks. 🙂 you seem to hold a low value/emphasis of sex in a relationship and i was wondering if that's an aqua thing (or aqua venus thing).
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could be house placements too, but the scorpio pendulum swings between extremes
Posted by exoskeleton
watercup, what is your moon, merc, venus, and mars, if you don't mind my asking? 🙂moon in scorpio
venus in sagittarius
mars in scorpio. Why? Hahaha.thanks. 🙂 you seem to hold a low value/emphasis of sex in a relationship and i was wondering if that's an aqua thing (or aqua venus thing).
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No, not really. I love sex... a lot. But I want more in a relationship. I can give myself mind blowing sex every single time & NO guy can do that 😛 So sex shouldn't be the only thing that's good about a guy. I really don't think I hold it in low regard. If a guy is a lame lay, I'll still date him, but I'll have to touch myself a whole lot too. LOL! I guess if it's low, then it's low with other people, but very high with myself (& with the libra 😄)
ive stopped talking to a few guys who had some bomb ass sex but shitty attitudes
IKR, did you wish you could take the penis with you? LOL! I know that's what I thought.
Lol, like you, i wish I could combine 3men to create the perfect man.
Posted by robyn808
don't think I've ever had an issue with just size. It really comes down to performance.I did date a guy who really self conscious about girth. It was almost like he felt responsible to make up for that, so he didn't let go of control and was always in his own head. So he wasn't really connecting, didn't understand what I wanted or liked, and almost would really work against me when I was trying to get my own pleasure out of the deal.
No, I didn't fault him for his anatomy. But I also think, if a women isn't satisfied, all the other little things about the person and the relationship stand out a whole lot more.
Put her in a great fuckin' mood, all the other things become a lot less noticeable.
Wow we are so much different as women in that case then. Good sex have no effect on my vision. As a matter of fact, sex is not even in the equation when I'm making up my mind about something.
This guy I had wonderful sex with had a habit of whipping out his weiner each time we were having a fight. LOL! And it worked like a charm. BUT I'd still be at it right after I finished moaning. You can't dickmatise me into oblivion for long. I guess it works for some *shrugs*
Posted by exoskeleton
no men have graced this thread yet, lol.
I believe men can cum with just about any vagina (even if it's like a gaping hell-hole)..so no problem there. Most of us women need a lot more. The mood must be right & so should be a whole lot of other stuff.
Last week I overheard this guy talking to his friends about this girl wearing a very short skirt. He said she made him horny lol. I was thinking, how strange because a man wearing the same length shorts or even a kilt wouldn't make many women horny that fast lol..if at all. Hell even if he walked by naked it wouldn't make very much difference libido wise...many women would probably scream in horror. But not men. Men are strange creatures.
Ive been dickmatized, but true, it only lasts for so long lol
Posted by exoskeleton
no men have graced this thread yet, lol.I believe men can cum with just about any vagina (even if it's like a gaping hell-hole)..so no problem there. Most of us women need a lot more. The mood must be right & so should be a whole lot of other stuff.
Last week I overheard this guy talking to his friends about this girl wearing a very short skirt. He said she made him horny lol. I was thinking, how strange because a man wearing the same length shorts or even a kilt wouldn't make many women horny that fast lol..if at all. Hell even if he walked by naked it wouldn't make very much difference libido wise...many women would probably scream in horror. But not men. Men are strange creatures.
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ive learned that men are too easily attracted. Tight shirt, like u said a short skirt, even the flip of your hair and its a wrap.
Posted by exoskeleton
no men have graced this thread yet, lol.
I bet theyre reading lol
Posted by DMV
Ive been dickmatized, but true, it only lasts for so long lol
once I figure out there "game" im left disappointed and annoyed
Posted by DMV
Ive been dickmatized, but true, it only lasts for so long lol
Don't you hate it when a man has that kind of power over you? Like when you're angry with him & yet a part of you still wants to do him. So conflicting. I hate that. It makes me feel weak.
My ex had me like that & he knew it. I hated him for knowing.
Posted by exoskeleton
i just laughed really hard at this 😛:"1. Dickmatized
When a girl can not concentrate on anything else because she is distracted with the DICK of her latest piece of ass. Her work is jeopardized, she's a sell out to her girlfriends, she picks up his shit including his kids or whatever. She will do whatever it takes for the DICK. Even if the dick isn't all that great, she doesn't know the difference because she is dickmatized."" 2. Dickmatized
When you are blind to the B.S. a man does because his penis/sex is good to you."
lol@ latest piece of ass. Ive been sooooo blind.
Posted by exoskeleton
i just laughed really hard at this 😛:"1. Dickmatized
When a girl can not concentrate on anything else because she is distracted with the DICK of her latest piece of ass. Her work is jeopardized, she's a sell out to her girlfriends, she picks up his shit including his kids or whatever. She will do whatever it takes for the DICK. Even if the dick isn't all that great, she doesn't know the difference because she is dickmatized."" 2. Dickmatized
When you are blind to the B.S. a man does because his penis/sex is good to you."
LMAO
Posted by DMV
Ive been dickmatized, but true, it only lasts for so long lolDon't you hate it when a man has that kind of power over you? Like when you're angry with him & yet a part of you still wants to do him. So conflicting. I hate that. It makes me feel weak.
My ex had me like that & he knew it. I hated him for knowing.
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I do. Its fo sho a weak moment, who am I kidding, a weak moment that turned into weeks and then a month or so. But when I step back imto reality and see the game, I do become vengeful toward him even though it was my fault im such a dumbass.
I have lost a job and friends over a dick.
For shame DMV, fo shame
i knew a tauri like that. the constant need for assurance is maddening.
so i guess the moral of the story; guys keep to yourself!
Posted by DMV
That you meet a guy and hes pretty spectacular, you have sex and you discover his penis doesn't match the body. Hes tall, full of confidence but he has a small dick.
LMAO!
Posted by DMV
What do you do when he brings if up? He asks you how big you think his penis should be?
Just what the hell am I supposed to say?click to expand
This thread makes me realize not to take for granted the gifts you were given in life...like my generously-sized dick 😛
I never realized the extent of inferiority complex some dudes have about it :S
Hey Boom,
yeah some men are self concious about it. I can understand why, some women will shame you for it.
True! Which also makes me wonder why for instance women with way too much hanging tissue in their pussies or huge clits (which are bigger than some dicks in some cases) arent as stigmatized, personally it is a bit of a turn-off for me especially cause I love going down on women!
The Cancerian I was dating some time ago (which I left for my current Taurus) has quite a lot of tissue down there if you know what I mean, giving her oral was not a big issue but I wasnt enjoying it very much, I was doing it more to make her happy as opposed to getting personal enjoyment out of it, which is what I get in most cases. I just wanna do it all night long..
But make no mistake...as a male being "big" also brings its problems sometimes, I can remember a couple of times when doggie was just too painful for the girl, that sucked cause its my favourite position 😛
girls stuff tissue to get a bigger camel toe—?
how r u and your tauri doing?
Not to mention you can fuck all night and still walk the next day.
that is definitely one of the benefits of a smaller then average member
even when we were watching porn, he kept bringing it up. he would say "yeah you need more length do that position."
its like dude, stop showcasing your flaws its okay.
LOL awkward.
It's like when guys ask if they are the biggest you have ever been with? Or was some other guy bigger than me?
You wanna just laugh.
In my mind when I think about my sexuality it's " I have never had any complaints and if I did I wouldn't care "
Posted by DMV
Ive been dickmatized, but true, it only lasts for so long lolDon't you hate it when a man has that kind of power over you? Like when you're angry with him & yet a part of you still wants to do him. So conflicting. I hate that. It makes me feel weak.
My ex had me like that & he knew it. I hated him for knowing.
I do. Its fo sho a weak moment, who am I kidding, a weak moment that turned into weeks and then a month or so. But when I step back imto reality and see the game, I do become vengeful toward him even though it was my fault im such a dumbass.
I have lost a job and friends over a dick.
For shame DMV, fo shame
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Dude, I have done so much stupid shit for a good one, they can be overpowering ahhhhhhhhh
Posted by Arietteheart
I was with a guy who was small and like you, it didn't bother me until he brought it up. His insecurity about it was more of an issue than his actual size. Him whining about his dick size and wanting constant reassurance completely turned me off.
+ 1
Posted by Sagtastic1
First of all you have my sympathy. Honestly, I would make up a lie so that I wouldn't hurt his feelings and never talk to him again.
lolololol
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That you meet a guy and hes pretty spectacular, you have sex and you discover his penis doesn't match the body. Hes tall, full of confidence but he has a small dick.
What do you do when he brings if up? He asks you how big you think his penis should be?
Just what the hell am I supposed to say?