Libra

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by herlimbicmind on Tuesday, May 31, 2016 and has 10 replies.

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@herlimbicmind
11 Years

This Libra makes me crazy... we slept together, he kept up chatting via text...when we ran into each other he was pleasant, excited to see me, chatty.

We continued to chat via text but he got evasive whenever I'd ask to hang out.

I finally reached my limit when he blew me off on Thursday and told him that I wasn't going to beg for his attention and if he wanted to talk he knew how to reach me.

So he messaged me early yesterday morning... a random message indicating that he'd been looking at my Facebook. We had a small exchange of conversation and he stopped replying midconversation and so last night I sent him a random title of a song and told him to have a good night. He responded with the lyrics to the song and returning the sentiment...

So I sent a message today asking what he was doing and he read it but no response. Hours later my mind is boggled... what the hell is going on?

He could have walked? Why didn't he? I'm so lost and irritated.... help! Does anyone have experience with a Libra?

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

I love Sag there is a kindred spirit feel to the relationship. Just go about your life and pretend he doesn't exist and then when he pops up again pretend nothing happened. Treat him like a home boy he wont like that shit and he should change his tune or walk away. He might be in a bad place right now and just wants a friend, but don't give too much of your self it will only hurt you in the end. Until you find out whether he is contacting you because he is bored or because you mean something then keep things light and casual and don't do anything with him unless you know you can handle it! Sounds like he is in bachelor mood. Libra Men will be romantic regardless if they really want you or not so don't read too much into it.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Harukka

No more leeb and sag

Please. Ok thank u. 😄

It does usually end badly from personal experience lol only thing good I ever got out of Sag was my son and a couple of cool adventures LOL, but they make great friends unless you have an emotional problem then forget it.

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11 Years500+ Posts

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by Harukka

No more leeb and sag

Please. Ok thank u. 😄

It does usually end badly from personal experience lol only thing good I ever got out of Sag was my son and a couple of cool adventures LOL, but they make great friends unless you have an emotional problem then forget it.

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Libra and sag would be perfect, if we would admit the love is real and settle down lol... The relationship is good... It's just one of those relationships where deep rooted fear of commitment is there...

It's like the perfect balance but still so much missing, idk lol.

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@herlimbicmind
11 Years

I get the feeling he was equally as thrown as I was with it all.

So, I've just been trying to figure it all out and I'm still at a loss.

He hasn't messaged me since I told him to make up his mind. But yet, smiled and waved when we drove past each other yesterday.. can't he just ignore me and be evasive? It is conflicting.

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@herlimbicmind
11 Years

Mmm. I don't like games. I've vowed to not message him again and if he messages me I'll be polite, but short... it sucks. There was something deep with this one.

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@herlimbicmind
11 Years

Woke up to a message from Leebs. I'd like to say I could resist messaging him back but I didn't and I'm glad. We had a really nice conversation. I struggle with "games" but after chatting with him this morning, I'm not sure it is intentional.

We are both going through so pretty big transitions right now and I think that plays a part in it. I just graduated nursing school and he's planning a pretty major career transition.

The conversation was light and nice. So, I guess I'm just going to focus on light conversation for awhile and just let go of the rest for now.

Seems easier that way. He doesn't seem like a game player.