Sunshine Peace
@ShineSunPeace
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Posted by ShineSunPeace
i’m a libra sun taurus moon scorpio rising
dating a sagg sun leo moon capricorn rising
I love him but our communication sucks! We communicate a lot (or try to) and it ends up being a miscommunication! Hard to understand the others motives or reasoning for reacting certain ways.
He says i’m irky and fuss too much while I think he’s soft & phoney because he never says how he really feels, always biting his tongue. I don’t like that because I don’t hold back and I always say how i feel no matter how ugly/nice...
So he wants to be taken seriously, but how can i do that when you pick & choose when to be expressive?
How am i supposed to gage your emotion or know the “true” you when it’s always something different. Or one day you react this way the next you don’t say anything
I’m just confused because he lacks emotion and calls it being lighthearted... and will turn around & say “it’s not that serious” or that big of a deal... after i done fussed and cussed and poured my heart out!
what’s your experience with a sag male or libra woman? any suggestions? advice?

Posted by Pisces1803Posted by ShineSunPeace
i’m a libra sun taurus moon scorpio rising
dating a sagg sun leo moon capricorn rising
I love him but our communication sucks! We communicate a lot (or try to) and it ends up being a miscommunication! Hard to understand the others motives or reasoning for reacting certain ways.
He says i’m irky and fuss too much while I think he’s soft & phoney because he never says how he really feels, always biting his tongue. I don’t like that because I don’t hold back and I always say how i feel no matter how ugly/nice...
So he wants to be taken seriously, but how can i do that when you pick & choose when to be expressive?
How am i supposed to gage your emotion or know the “true” you when it’s always something different. Or one day you react this way the next you don’t say anything
I’m just confused because he lacks emotion and calls it being lighthearted... and will turn around & say “it’s not that serious” or that big of a deal... after i done fussed and cussed and poured my heart out!
what’s your experience with a sag male or libra woman? any suggestions? advice?
I’ve noticed that with my Sag husband. Because he overthinks too much he will literally dissect everything I say and which is where our miscommunication comes from. I found now if it’s something really important and if I need to get my point across I will write down and either text or write him a letter.
It’s much easier to convey in words than speech. But that’s just my experience.click to expand
Posted by dilettante
what are yalls mercury placements?
Posted by Erin
If you are with some guy, why are you sweating the Capricorn woman who is also a Sagittarius woman?? Lol.
Posted by blvckphvse
I think you need a time out.. Between the Cap and the Sag, you got too much on your plate. Chill
Posted by saggurl88
Sag like to pick and choose their battles. Sometimes it's just unnecessary to make a negative comment. We try to let you be your natural self, so we can see it all before making a judgement about you.
He will make subtle comments along the way and open up to you the longer you are around each other. We just don't show everything at once.
With his Sun/Moon combo, he probably enjoys upbeat convos and doesn't dwell much on the negativity. But you think he's fake cause he can skim over it and not be bothered with it? It just may not be a big deal and even worth talking about. We are just that easy going. We don't want our positive energy interrupted by some bullshit.
Start a fight with him, if you want to see him upset. But you shouldn't be mad at him with the way he knows how to control himself and HIS OWN emotions, just because you want to see them.
Stick around and you will see how he opens up, but it will be on his time, not yours.
Posted by mudra_
I dated a sag heavy on the scorp placements. It was 🔥 fun. We went on all sorts of trips to the mountains hiking. Very outdoorsy guy. I got pretty sick of the know it all attitude though lol 🙄 funny guy though. And full of all sorts of inspirational talks. We got on well with spiritual conversations. He will still message me from time to time to see how I am and tell me about his travels. He's a cool guy.

Posted by ShineSunPeacePosted by saggurl88
Sag like to pick and choose their battles. Sometimes it's just unnecessary to make a negative comment. We try to let you be your natural self, so we can see it all before making a judgement about you.
He will make subtle comments along the way and open up to you the longer you are around each other. We just don't show everything at once.
With his Sun/Moon combo, he probably enjoys upbeat convos and doesn't dwell much on the negativity. But you think he's fake cause he can skim over it and not be bothered with it? It just may not be a big deal and even worth talking about. We are just that easy going. We don't want our positive energy interrupted by some bullshit.
Start a fight with him, if you want to see him upset. But you shouldn't be mad at him with the way he knows how to control himself and HIS OWN emotions, just because you want to see them.
Stick around and you will see how he opens up, but it will be on his time, not yours.
“it just may not be a big deal and even worth talking about”
my point exactly!!! lol i am in depth type of gal and i read energy so all that “unbothered” shit is a game! y’all always think it’s “playtime” that’s the problem.
easy going and easily influenced, that mutable fire element is something elseclick to expand
Posted by blvckphvsePosted by ShineSunPeacePosted by blvckphvse
I think you need a time out.. Between the Cap and the Sag, you got too much on your plate. Chill
I think you need to worry about your own plate and give some type of viewpoint on placements & the planets and stop tryna be my fucking therapist Boss
Rather be a boss than a hoe/troll 💯click to expand
Posted by sweetpea2977
OP, originally i was going to say that he sounds like a handful and quite likely, not worth your time. But, based on the way in which you've responded to commenters here, you may in fact be a waste of his.
You come across as a smart-mouthed assh--e.
I can see CLEARLY why he's not opening up and brushes your concerns off, with the "it's not that serious" move.
Being direct w him or any adult is always good, but sprinkle that with a nasty attitude? Forget about it.
Good luck lol
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dating a sagg sun leo moon capricorn rising
I love him but our communication sucks! We communicate a lot (or try to) and it ends up being a miscommunication! Hard to understand the others motives or reasoning for reacting certain ways.
He says i’m irky and fuss too much while I think he’s soft & phoney because he never says how he really feels, always biting his tongue. I don’t like that because I don’t hold back and I always say how i feel no matter how ugly/nice...
So he wants to be taken seriously, but how can i do that when you pick & choose when to be expressive?
How am i supposed to gage your emotion or know the “true” you when it’s always something different. Or one day you react this way the next you don’t say anything
I’m just confused because he lacks emotion and calls it being lighthearted... and will turn around & say “it’s not that serious” or that big of a deal... after i done fussed and cussed and poured my heart out!
what’s your experience with a sag male or libra woman? any suggestions? advice?