Match made in heaven or..?

Hi Sagg forum!

I don't know how to interpret Natal Charts so I was wondering if you could let me know what I should watch out in the combination below.

I recently met a Sagg guy who I've been texting for a while through a dating App.

We noticed we had very similar interests in life such as adventures, exploring, traveling and both are positive and sporty independent individuals.

He also values his family a lot like I do mine so there seems to be common ground on some important values.

Throughout the chatting I've always been the most flirty which he said he liked. He seems a bit more shy.

He was traveling when we first texted but he said he wanted us to meet when he returned and I agreed. We were both counting the days 🙂

We met in the first day he arrived and the date was very nice. When I saw how gorgeous he was I think my heart skipped a beat!!

So the date was really nice. We spent 5hours chatting, light hearted conversation, laughing, making reference to some things we had already talked about through text and so on. Once in a while a bit flirty but all very polite.

Afterwards he drove me home and when we were saying goodbye I told him I was going to kiss him 🙂 He smiled from ear to ear and so I did 🙂

It felt ahhhhh too good to stop! So when he asked if we should go inside instead I agreed.

We spent an amazing night exploring each other. When I took his shirt off I said his body was like a playground and he said nobody ever gives him so many compliments as myself. Well, I think women must be blind really and I told him so!

Then there was a moment he was lying down on his back on my bed but his eyes were far away and I asked him if he was ok. And he said he was just too happy to be here, that he was not expecting this to happen and smiled. I found that sweet.

So next day he leaves in the morning because he had a wedding to attend and sent me a sweet text during the day.

And today morning I sent him a text saying 'stop thinking about me' and he replied with a few smiles.

I left it at that. Im afraid to scare him if I go too strong. So I am planning to let him contact me now as we mentioned during the date to go and check a sports store together.

Anything in our charts I should be paying attention to?

Im trying to be careful and not go all full force aries on him because I really liked me.

We seem very compatible on the Chinese horoscope too. He is Rat and Im Monkey.

Im leaving the charts below if some one a bit more knowledgeable would like to comment.

Thank you!

Me

ascendant is in Scorpio

Sun Aries

Moon Cancer

Mercury Pisces

Venus Taurus

Mars Leo

Jupiter Virgo

Saturn Virgo

Uranus Scorpio

Neptune Sagittarius

Pluto Libra

Him

Ascendant in Pisces

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Scorpio

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Aquarius

Mars Aquarius

Jupiter Capricorn

Saturn Scorpio

Uranus Sagittarius

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Scorpio

No one? 😢

I see..

Here's a flower full of pollen to all those lovely bees out there 🙂 🙂

You gotta catch us. Some times we will all answer at once lol...

I would slow it down with his Venus & Mars being both Air signs. Besides that looks pretty good. Good luck !

Out of curiosity, He is generation Y (Pluto Scorpio) and you generation X (Pluto Libra). How much younger is he than you?

Hi Sofia!

Thank you for the tip.

I quickly took a look at what means having Aquarius in Venus & Mars and at a first glance seems like I should give him a lot of space. Correct me if I am wrong?

If that's the case that's fine. I wont chase him and will let him come to me. At least for a while. It would be awkward to change the entire dinamic of our brief 'relationship', by stopping being myself entirely...what do you think?

Hey Queen!

I am 5 years older than him. Well, that will be 4 years in December . 🙂

In terms of looks or physical aspect that doesnt make a difference as I look younger, so people say. And it is true, I exercise a lot and I guess that helps fighting the aging clock 🙂

In terms of maturity, it is still early days. But because he competed professionally (sports wise) from a young age, he is used to commitment, discipline and responsibility. I havent seen any red flags of him behaving imaturely.

Was just wondering as I think, the younger the Sag, the longer they take to commit. But this is just my opinion :-)

I think it's easy for a Sag to show commitment to a passion, commitment to a person is a whole other level.

Good luck though on your journey togeher

He is 31 (will be 32 in December) and I am 36.

"easy for a Sag to show commitment to a passion, commitment to a person is a whole other level"

Something to keep in mind if my mind starts dreaming too much 🙂

On a more serious note now: I don't commit to just any one myself. And if that's the case for him, I can only admire that. This is still early days, but because it is so rare to come accross someone with such similar interests as myself and some similar takes on life, I am being extra carefull and trying to see if I can get clues from our Natal Chart.

Yeah he is still a little foal :-) commitment wise. But then his moon is in Scorpio so he may just surprise you.

"Sun in Sagittarius, Moon in Scorpio

The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces much self-reliance, and a life that develops very rapidly in the early years. You know what you want and you know how to achieve your ends; a true go-getter. Blended are the well-developed capacity for judgment and wisdom innate in Sagittarius, and the Scorpio's knack for throwing everything into a project and fighting until the battle is won. Thus, it is easy to see why you can accomplish so much when you set your mind to it. Optimism and determination; a truly hard combination to defeat. Your nature is subtle and clever, as well, making you good at strategy in handling affairs in business or in the professions. The challenge of this position is handling people with tact and diplomacy, controlling temperament, and avoiding too direct or too blunt of an approach. You have to avoid conflict to really succeed. Your mind is quick and the ability to think on your feet is really superb, but all of this quickness is wasted if you are too impetuous. You have a lot of emotional energy, which when under the control and direction of your will and your mind, gives the force to achieve very high objectives in life. Actually, there is a good bit of sensitivity in your nature, and much of your aggressiveness is a defense that instinctively attacks. Your attacks are aimed right at the most vulnerable spot in what you say or do. You need to concentrate on listening to the opinions of others, and control your emotional reactions, allowing them to work for you."

http://astrology-numerology.com/sun-moon.html#9_8

He is texting me now asking how I am and how the Monday is going. 🙂

Sun in Sag

Moon in scorp

Uranus conjunct sun moon mercury

I love me some venus in taurus. The last 2 guys i was interested in were Aries Sun Venus Taurus. I was head over hills day 1.

I find Aries sun Venus Taurus to be extremely sexy. I could talk and stare at you guys allll day. I like being in close quarters with them. Keep in constant contact.

Where aries sun venus taurus goes wrong is you guys play way too many games. Not at all up front and direct. Games turned me wayyyy off and i parted ways. Aries rules the head and you guys like headgames. You think youre being childlike and playful but its immature.

Next, i love cancer moons more than any other moon sign. Scorp moons needs to be understood on an emotional level. We feel. We dont think. We dont even talk alot. We feel whats going on. Both aries sun guys i spoke of had fire moons. No bueno.

Lastly, aries burn themselves out way quick. Aries go so hard, say they dont like clingyness but they cling super hard in the beginning. Then all of a sudden they flip the script on you and call you clingy for matching their approach. Fawk. Make up your mind.

Let him be the man. Let him lead. Follow his lead. Match his intensity.

Posted by AneemA
ikr, sagis are busy bees, I guess. I also posted something in this board and end up with no replies so far lol

We have lives

I forgot this tid bit of info. You will knock his socks off if you reference a past memory of you 2. Subtly or obvious, dont matter.

Like you will send him to the moon and back!

Hi DMV!

That's quite interesting feedback from you there. Thank you for taking the time!

How funny that you also have moon in Scorpio 🙂

Never looked into my Cancer Moon as positive. I think it makes me more sensitive or emotional than I would like to be.

I agree with us coming too strong. Whats wrong with us Aries, we cant chillax 😄 we want it all and too fast. Tiring :p

But Im listening. I will really try to slow down..

Im not initiating contact. Im letting him do it.

We exchanged messages all day.

I mentioned Im going away in a couple of months to a holiday on the beach with family and friends. I joked and said: wanna come? Now he is actually considering coming!! Is he crazy or brave? 😄

What makes you like someone making a reference to something from the past? Is it the fact the person was paying attention and didn't forget?

"We feel. We dont think. We dont even talk alot. We feel whats going on."

I love this part you wrote. You're beautiful people!

I dont consider that crazy at all! One of the aries sun venus taurus i mentioned invited me to go with him to.chicago to hang out and i said hell yes! When it feels right, it feels right. I knew him all of maybe a month.

Cancer moons are amazing. Your memory turns me on. The fact that you guys can feel when things are rocky and you go to action to make us scorp moons feel better.

When you reference the past, it send me into orbit. To listen is to care. To remember is to give a shit. It lets me know that I'm important and valued. Dont dare save anything and then surprise me with it months later. I will stare at you blankly and then go home to dream about your kindness.

I may not do a whole lot of emotional talking but you will.be able to feel the under current of emotion between u 2. Dont ever doubt yourself or your feelings. You will then cause us to doubt.

Dont change your approach.once youve started. Consistency is big for us.

That's a very interesting tip to know 🙂 thanks!

And did you go to Chicago? How was it?

In this case he would be meeting my family.. Parents, sistets, brothers.... He says he is a bit scared of that and I completely understand that. Still, he is considering it 😄 I find it crazy that he even considers that!

I dont think he will in the end and I wouldnt blame him!! Lets see 😉

Posted by IamAries
That's a very interesting tip to know 🙂 thanks!

And did you go to Chicago? How was it?

In this case he would be meeting my family.. Parents, sistets, brothers.... He says he is a bit scared of that and I completely understand that. Still, he is considering it 😄 I find it crazy that he even considers that!

I dont think he will in the end and I wouldnt blame him!! Lets see 😉

I had a great time in Chicago. However, i decided to withdraw.from him because i didnt like things that were coming out of his mouth. He would say things that made me insecure. I didnt meet any of his family members but i did see.Beyonce at solider field.

Hi DMV! (And all of you reading too!)

I wonder if I can pick your brains a little bit 🙂

My Sagg and I have been speaking (well, texting) almost everyday. Sometimes I initiate and when I don't, he does.

We spent all day together today and it was super nice.

One moment I asked him to tell me 3 things about me, the first 3 things that come to his mind when he thinks of me and he said: good looking, a good person, and the person that compliments him the most. That never no one has given him as many compliments as I do.

It is the second time he acknowledges that.

I think I made this guy feel super good about himself that now he found a new self confidence. Which is probably playing against me.

Today after he left, I realized he went to the dating app and changed the order of his pics. His profile pic now is one (which is already there) where his arms really stand out.

Guess what, I always compliment his arms. Im always saying that I love them and they are my fav part of his body. Even joked about chopping them off to keep them to myself 😄

Im a bit disappointed I confess. That he is using the confidence I gave him to see if other women pick on that too.

We are making plans for more dates and activities together, so Im not sure if I should bring this up to him or play it cool for a while and see how things develop.

On one side I don't want to be all jealous and controlling, specially knowing how Saggs hate that, but on the other side Im a bit disappointed by this action.

What would be in your opinion the right / smartest thing to do?!

Im a bit put off by it..

Wondering if I made too easy to this guy by telling him constantly the good things he has and how attracted I am to him..

I just hate playing this hard to get thing... When I like someone I say it. Even to my friends, I like to compliment them on their good things.

Im thinking if I should just shut up now and be a bit more cold..

Ugh here comes the Aires pullback i was mentioning.

Just ask him where his head is at

By mentioning directly what's worrying me?

Ask him where you stand

Aarrghhh I dont need to ask, I see it.

He is so active on the dating app. Just kills ny enthusiasm...

Bummer.

Im around, but Im not going to initiate anything.

If he is mutlidating, specially after me inflanring his ego, then he is not fully satisfied with what he saw. : /

Posted by IamAries
Aarrghhh I dont need to ask, I see it.

He is so active on the dating app. Just kills ny enthusiasm...

Bummer.

Im around, but Im not going to initiate anything.

If he is mutlidating, specially after me inflanring his ego, then he is not fully satisfied with what he saw. : /

LOL You sound like a typical Aries. I am sure you are not the sole contributor to what sounds like a HUGELY inflated ego! (All of a sudden)

You stalking him on the dating app. Perhaps he is stalking you on it as well, since you both seem to be logging in so often.

Of course I am a typical Aries..I am Aries 🙂

No, no stalking. I got a message on the app and went to read it and all of a sudden saw that he changed his profile picture to the one I praised the most.

I naturally got curious after that and then kept on looking to realise he was very active.

Wouldnt you be a tiny little bit curious yourself?

Posted by IamAries
Aarrghhh I dont need to ask, I see it.

He is so active on the dating app. Just kills ny enthusiasm...

Bummer.

Im around, but Im not going to initiate anything.

If he is mutlidating, specially after me inflanring his ego, then he is not fully satisfied with what he saw. : /

Ugh Aries. I begged you not to do this.

Youre both active on the site. Someone messaged you and you went to read it.

Be upfront n talk to.him. yes youre too early in the game for white picket fences but he still likes you.

Posted by IamAries
Of course I am a typical Aries..I am Aries 🙂

No, no stalking. I got a message on the app and went to read it and all of a sudden saw that he changed his profile picture to the one I praised the most.

I naturally got curious after that and then kept on looking to realise he was very active.

Wouldnt you be a tiny little bit curious yourself?

if you are wanting this relationship with him to progress, why are you even visiting the site yourself, messages or no messages.

I think you unsure of the relationship and maybe looking for reasons to justify why you are unsure. You should go with your gut instinct, if you don't feel you can trust him now, will you ever be able to?

Trust is earned, never gained.

If you like him, talk to him about where the two of you stand. But answering questions only he has the answer to is a dangerous playground.

Posted by DMV

Posted by IamAries
Aarrghhh I dont need to ask, I see it.

He is so active on the dating app. Just kills ny enthusiasm...

Bummer.

Im around, but Im not going to initiate anything.

If he is mutlidating, specially after me inflanring his ego, then he is not fully satisfied with what he saw. : /

Ugh Aries. I begged you not to do this.

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OK. Taking a deep breath and trying to regain my enthusiasm 😄

ohhh and I learned how to quote!

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by IamAries
Of course I am a typical Aries..I am Aries 🙂

No, no stalking. I got a message on the app and went to read it and all of a sudden saw that he changed his profile picture to the one I praised the most.

I naturally got curious after that and then kept on looking to realise he was very active.

Wouldnt you be a tiny little bit curious yourself?

if you are wanting this relationship with him to progress, why are you even visiting the site yourself, messages or no messages.

I think you unsure of the relationship and maybe looking for reasons to justify why you are unsure. You should go with your gut instinct, if you don't feel you can trust him now, will you ever be able to?

Trust is earned, never gained.

If you like him, talk to him about where the two of you stand. But answering questions only he has the answer to is a dangerous playground.

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ahh queen, Im not unsure of the relationship and seeking validation because...there is no relationship yet.

Early days. We've been speaking for a month and went on 4 dates only!

I like him and I want it to progress....I was so excited! But dammmnnn....seeing that he was on the app and probably going on another dates.....buhhhhhh...killed the fun!

hate to admit that made me feel a bit insecure 😢

I would feel insecure as well. No doubt about it. But i would state the issue you have with him. That way you dont.come across crazy.

Sometimes we as women have to teach men how to date us. Social media doesnt make it easy. A new date is a swipe away.

I was seeing an aries guy and he seemed into me but he was into online dating and dating multiple people and even wanted to date my friend. Was very vocal about it. Always asking about her to me. Turn off!

Instead of pulling back. I asked him about his feelings towards my friend and his unattractive dating habits.

You always have to give the person an opportunity to explain themselves.

Then make a decision off of what they say instead of paranoia or me jumping to conclusions.

hummmm....so:

Date on saturday, chatting on Sunday.

No news from him on Monday...so I text Tuesday night. He replies immediatly but we didnt 'speak' much.

No news from him on Wednesday. No news from him on Thursday.

I am being gently blown off, right?

I know if I text him, he will reply shortly. Or so I think. But he hasnt said anyhting 😢 so now I should leave it at his hand, right?

ahhhh...I liked him 😢

No youre not being blowm off. He's probably has stuff to do.

You're behavior hasnt changed right?

Let him miss you

Hi chose to follow you advise and contacted him on Tuesday. My usual me.. Teasing him, fun and light.

But as he hasnt said anythingn since then, I havnt contacted him again.

Since we ve met this is the longest silence..

He just wrote, he just wrote, he just wroooooteeeeeeee

😄

Ahh the butterflies in my stomach!

Don't lose that confidence. 🙂

His aqua placements may need a break here and there.

You getting me all excited for you 😄 😄

Ahhh you girls are great, you calm my impulses! 🙂 🙂

Last sunday we were chatting and he suddenly invited me to meet him at his home town. (He lives in the city next to mine, 20mnts away). I said yes and was there in 1hour.

He showed me his house, pictures of his family, his sports medals/awards and I got to know a bit more about him! It was nice!

He showed me his bedroom too 😉 😄 ahhhhhh this is good karma. I've been good, I deserve that body 😄 😄



We went for a walk and then I didnt know exactly when to leave but he asked me to stay for dinner so we were together until late. We even lightly talked about doing a trip together but nothing set in stone.

I asked him casually if he was dating other people. I dont want to have the 'where do I stand' chat just yet. He said No, so I will believe him. Then he asked me and I said No too.

He drove me back home and then when we were saying goodbye he was kissing me and hugging me and said he will look forward to seeing me again, hopefully. I confirmed I would like that and left.

Now it has been 2 days since we dont chat and tomorrow he will be travelling for 4 days. Im holdiiinggg myselff not to contact him and let him breathe! On Monday I initiated contact so now....I'll wait. Ive been reading that you beautiful Sags like space and not clingy people, so I hope Im doing it right. I'll assume that as long as he keeps on coming back, thats right?!

Ahhhhh I like him! Cant wait to look into his gorgeous hazel eyes and destroy his neck with kisses! 🙂 🙂 🙂

He doesnt ask many personal questions about me, or deeper questions. Shouldnt he be more curious? :p

I am super thrilled. This is all good news!

Ok so he is inviting you into his world slowly. Remain consistent!!

Definitely call him b4 he leaves town. Tell him that you enjoyed your last outing and that you want him to think of you, have a good time etc etc.

Then let him miss you.

As a scorp moon, i Do Not ask alot of questions. Remember we "feel" our way through life. I also learn about people through what they say, how they interact with others, body language. Talking and asking questions aint shit. I study people. Im more interested in your quirks than what you have to say.

It makes me so happy that you are rooting for me 🙂 🙂 thank you!

well, I hope Im not boring this forum to death, but here's my update:

So he went for his trip and because so far your advices have been spot on, I followed it one more time and called him to wish him a good trip and so on. He went surfing with 2 friends. And I asked him to send me a pic from his time out which he failed to do. So for 2 days just silence...and on Sunday morning I woke up to a text saying 'hello' at 2:30 am...

I didn't like it. At all.

So I replied to him in the morning asking if he was hangover and he said a little, that he went out with his friends.

But that didn't feel good to me so I told him. I told him I like him and that he can text me / call me at anytime, but that texts in the middle of the night made me feel like I was waking up to a ...booty call.

(here between us, he didnt send me any pic, didnt contact me and comes back to text me in the middle of the night...hummm...that doesnt fly with me).

So he said that it was not a booty call and that he just felt like texting me. I said ok, it is all right, just that I tend to say what I feel and that didnt feel right to me. Then I asked him what he was doing that Sunday and he was about to leave to a bike ride with friends. Seriously, this guy doesnt stop 😄 He asked what I was doing and I said I was planning to see him but that I was too late. :p Then he said after the ride he would tell me if we could still meet as he didnt know how long that would take. I really thought he was going to be upset with me for telling him off.

I didnt thought I was going to meet him because I thought he was upset and when he goes for sports adventure he stays long. Then he returned but was already a bit late. He asked if I would like to have dinner at his place and stay for the night, In the morning he would take me to the station to go to work. I really liked that because he knows that I like us to sleep together. I have this thing...I always feel like sleeping together is more intimate than sex..and he knows that. So I was very happy with it and went.

It was such a nice time! I feel so phisicaly atracted to him..I think that night I gave him the bj of his life! 😄 Sorry for being graphic! 🙂 But controlling his body was such a turn on 😉

Today I am travelling for work and he just checked on me to see if I arrived all right and we made a few private jokes about that night.

He really doesnt express himself the way I do.. But I really can see the `feel` part that DMV talks about. I can almost hear his mind working. He is starting to mirror me a bit though. Complementing me a little back, or writting the way I do..even stupid stuff like using emoticons.

Do Saggs tend to mirror people? I can really see that he is copying me (in a good way) in some things.

I'm not pushing him for anything or being demanding for attention...I just hope he doesnt disappear out of the blue as some stories Ive read here 😢

Nothing wrong with establishing boundaries! Good for yoi!

Nope youre not boring me at all. I was actually thinking about this match. I think youre doing really well.

Sagg man stay on the move. Dont attempt to slow him down. In fact plan an adventure and invite him out. Scorpio moons love thoughtful planning. We also love to mirror people. Good or bad.

Building intimacy makes my heart race. Way more memorable than hot sex.

I also dont think he meant anything weird from then2am rext, but its still good you established boundaries. Mercury retrograde is weird but youre handling it well.

He also secretly loves and hates that you have your own life lol. If you can get his exact birth time that would be good info.

Im super happy tho.

Dont read these other stories about sag men. It will disillusion you. Stay positive. Above all else respect each other

Ahhh DMV... I have bad news 😢

I'm back in town and I had to drop by my friends house, she lives in his city. I told him I was going to be there and that if he wanted to meet, as he will travel tomorrow for a sports competition.

He said he didnt know I would be in town already and that he had a bbq organised with friends. He doesnt know how late he will arrive. Then nothing more.

Remember the dating app? I never liked that he was active there, changing pics and so on, but hey, early days and as some of you might rightly say, Im still there too (even though Im not being active). So today I logged in. I hadnt logged in there for a while. And I could no longer see him... Or I was blocked or he left the app. But we don't have such a deep connevtion yet for him to leave the app I thought, at least not for me. Specially because we havnt spoken about it.

So my friend logged in and...he was there. 😢 With new pics. Meaning he is just hiding it from me. And maybe hiding it from other ppl too... Who knows now? 😢

Im a bit sad with this. I never pressured him or mention his activity. So why this?

Im just... Dont even know how to describe it. Disapointed. I dont like games and lies. If I like someone, I like and I say so and I show it. And if that person or someone else doesnt like me, thats fine. It sucks but I accept it and move on.

So now Im just ..baahhhhh.....

What now?

I dont even want to confront him about it or ask about it. Hate drama. Just feel like letting him do his thing but stop seeing him.

Dont want to start nothing with this bad feeling. 😢

I dont want to sound pretensious, but Im almost sure no one has ever made him feel so good about himself like I was doing. He is now enjoying this new found confidence. I might of course be wrong. THis is what my gut tells me.



😢 ahhhh it was good while it lasted. 😢

Damn social media and dating apps. It just makes us all insecure. Even tho you arent in a committed relationship, he is free to do what he wants. Hes probably trying to avoid hurting you with hiding you from the app, alas here we are anyway.

Im sorry you are hurting but i think you should at least bring it up to see where you stand!!

Honesty is the foundation of anything. Ask him.

Count to 3 and let it all out.

Also, he could have gotten annoyed that you were on the app meanwhile, hes on the app. Every one on the app checking after each other.

Well...I'm confused.

On Friday he was traveling and I asked him why did he deleted me from the App, to which he replied he was just cleaning it up.

I mentioned that I saw him there with new pics and asked if he was dating other ppl from the App. He replied he was not, that he has no time for anything else.

He is indeed always busy, but even if he was not, keep on changing pics shows he is still very active there.

So I kept on asking, saying that since we are both recently single it is only natural for us to want to know whats out there. And that if he was multidating we should reconsider be so intimate and be friends instead.

And then later in the day when the sports stuff was over he apologized for the late reply and says 'I understand your concerns...' Just. That.

So I tell him that there's no drama. If he is in a more exploring phase, I wouldn't want to stop him and he should do as he feels. That we could be friends and chat, as that is also nice. And I wished him a good sports weekend!

Tonight - Sunday - he texts me making no reference to what I wrote, just asking me how I was, how his weekend was, etc

At some point it seemed like he was after my usual compliments by telling me about the sports accomplishments etc. Well, he got none. He also didn't get my usual questions about his weekend, the event...I spoke a bit about me and that was it. What the heck?

He is not a great communicator, is he?

The ball is so on his side now!

Ugh. He is trying to be normal and not get into a fight with you. Also he's not ready to make a declaration of love. I think youre searching or wanting to fish it out of him. He apologized and said he understood. Also he is STILL texting you afterwards.

Youve started to go cold. Warm backnup. Be friends and see where this goes.

I dont like ppl who date multiple people either. It does show a reluctance to form a deep connection.

Oh my dear sweet DMV! My voice of reason 🙂

Please bear with me. This is the only place where I come to share my insecurities. Outside of here co workers and some friends just see me as this power girl full of energy and confidence. Thank God for anonymity sometimes 😄 This became my official vent place. 😄

Of course I was trying to fish that out of him. Silly silly silly... How insecure does that sound? Gggrrrrrr

Well, he kept on contacting me throughout the week for the basics: how was I, how the days were going and so on.

As he was AGAIN traveling on the weekend to see his folks, he asked me if I would like to see him Thursday night. So I went to his place and stayed the night.

I think I broke his back because when he came to pick me up I literally jumped to his lap and started kissing him. The guy might think I'm crazy 😄

Anyhow, all good I guess, we talked a bit, cuddle on the sofa laughing at a Tv show and stuff and yes, another sleepless night for both. 😉

We catch up again on Sunday to share details on both weekends and I asked him if I could invite him over for dinner at my place sometime this week. He said he would like that and would let me know which day would be best.

But he was a bit quiet until today and today apologized for not speaking too much lately but that he had been busy. Better late than never, I said 😄

I had to ask again though if he still wanted to come for dinner. A bit annoying having to ask again when he said he would let me know, but he said yes and we agreed Friday night.

It seems like it is always me making things happen. He never says no if I ask, or rarely, but it feels like if I don't ask he just stays there waiting for me to do it!

He is more shy and reserved than me but before anything else he is a man, and when a man wants something nothing stops them, right?

I don't want to fall into the hook up category...if Im not there already, cant really tell.

Do you Saggs take your time?

BecAuse as an Aries, when I like, I like! Or don't like! I go with full force and don't hold back.

Is he taking his time or just enjoying the ride while he can?

Am I setting up the wrong tone by not pressure him for something more stable? I don't feel it is the right timing yet, though.

As a scorp moon, yes he will rake his time. As a sag, yes ge will damn sure take his time.

He has definitly been hurt in the past. So he will take his time.

Let him lead. Aries also burn out quickly so maybe he wants to make sure you wont lose interest. Anyways, again let him lead. Youre partly still interested because he isnt just rolling over and giving you what you want.

For dinner, do you remember his favorite food? Favorite wine? Favorite dessert?

Enjoy the time together without worrying too much about where you stand just yet.

Youre still getting to know each other.