Match made in heaven or..? (Page 2)

I have been with a '84 december rat sag. With both venus and mars in aqua. Cant remember his moon and rising. They can love anyone from all walks of life unless you are willing to give them all the freedom and space they need. Support their mindset and passion.

Don't exhaust yourself waiting for a loveletter because you won't get that he is most likely to show you with action. He barely has time consider yourself on a pedestal if he wants to make time for you :-). Emotional talk wasn't his cup of tea either.

He told me once he felt sad after the break up because I was really cool... Which what he meant was he loved me very much (I had to pull it out of him). He avoided any direct confrontation about feelings or where a relationship is heading.

These people can stretch friendship for years until they are sure you're what they want because he'll have the longterm in mind. When he does nothing will stop him from getting you even if it takes years.

Enjoy what you have and go with the flow.

Every sag is different but just my experience.

Hi DMV,

I asked him what he likes / doesn't like. Good I did it because there is plenty things he doesn't eat. :p

I'm so thankful to this forum. Im so impulsive that I mess things up sometimes. And lately when Im about to mess something up, I come here, calm down and stop from doing/saying something impulsive that I know I will regret saying. Story of my life!

Like, he was very quiet when we were exchanging messages the other day and I was already starting to freak out 'maybe he doesn't want to come for dinner' or he is having seconds thoughts. Turned out he was tired of messaging and we ended up speaking on the phone for more than an hour!

Hey Oxytocin! What a coincidence! And thanks for the insight. Im wondering how long you were together and why things ended?

Well, dinner turned out to be great!!

We both enjoyed the food a lot but mainly the conversation. It goes so smoothly with him. It is so comfortable to speak to him non stop. We never ran out of subjects.

It was in fact a fun evening. Exchanging stories, laughing a lot. All very light but so pleasant. He is really a great company.

We then watched a comedy and kept on laughing all night.

This morning we stood chatting over breakfast for more than an hour and I could have stayed chatting with him all day! He seems such a kind human being!

I feel really good today. Even though we didn't talked about us, where we are, or nothing too deep or serious. I feel so connected to him today. Hope this feeling will last!

Wondering if this new moon has something to do with that! 🙂

Aries are fun. I'll say that much. Play a truth or dare type of thing.

Posted by Vulcansfire
Aries are fun. I'll say that much. Play a truth or dare type of thing.

Yassss but word of caution if you ask a question be prepared for the answer.

Posted by IamAries
Hi DMV,

I asked him what he likes / doesn't like. Good I did it because there is plenty things he doesn't eat. :p

I'm so thankful to this forum. Im so impulsive that I mess things up sometimes. And lately when Im about to mess something up, I come here, calm down and stop from doing/saying something impulsive that I know I will regret saying. Story of my life!

Like, he was very quiet when we were exchanging messages the other day and I was already starting to freak out 'maybe he doesn't want to come for dinner' or he is having seconds thoughts. Turned out he was tired of messaging and we ended up speaking on the phone for more than an hour!

Hey Oxytocin! What a coincidence! And thanks for the insight. Im wondering how long you were together and why things ended?

Well, dinner turned out to be great!!

We both enjoyed the food a lot but mainly the conversation. It goes so smoothly with him. It is so comfortable to speak to him non stop. We never ran out of subjects.

It was in fact a fun evening. Exchanging stories, laughing a lot. All very light but so pleasant. He is really a great company.

We then watched a comedy and kept on laughing all night.

This morning we stood chatting over breakfast for more than an hour and I could have stayed chatting with him all day! He seems such a kind human being!

I feel really good today. Even though we didn't talked about us, where we are, or nothing too deep or serious. I feel so connected to him today. Hope this feeling will last!

Wondering if this new moon has something to do with that! 🙂

Well. I wont disagree with you when it comes to your assessment if Aries people.

This is going really well. Happy for you.

Posted by IamAries
Hi DMV,

I asked him what he likes / doesn't like. Good I did it because there is plenty things he doesn't eat. :p

I'm so thankful to this forum. Im so impulsive that I mess things up sometimes. And lately when Im about to mess something up, I come here, calm down and stop from doing/saying something impulsive that I know I will regret saying. Story of my life!

Like, he was very quiet when we were exchanging messages the other day and I was already starting to freak out 'maybe he doesn't want to come for dinner' or he is having seconds thoughts. Turned out he was tired of messaging and we ended up speaking on the phone for more than an hour!

Hey Oxytocin! What a coincidence! And thanks for the insight. Im wondering how long you were together and why things ended?

Well, dinner turned out to be great!!

We both enjoyed the food a lot but mainly the conversation. It goes so smoothly with him. It is so comfortable to speak to him non stop. We never ran out of subjects.

It was in fact a fun evening. Exchanging stories, laughing a lot. All very light but so pleasant. He is really a great company.

We then watched a comedy and kept on laughing all night.

This morning we stood chatting over breakfast for more than an hour and I could have stayed chatting with him all day! He seems such a kind human being!

I feel really good today. Even though we didn't talked about us, where we are, or nothing too deep or serious. I feel so connected to him today. Hope this feeling will last!

Wondering if this new moon has something to do with that! 🙂

Youre welcome. We were together for 3-4 months so not really long. He tried to win me back for years after stayed in touch with my mom funny is he poured his heart out to her about me. I ended our relationship. He seemed too detached for me. Really nice person but too loose.

Holy moly... We are going on a trip abroad together!!

For a week. Dont know what to make out of this! Just hope we will have fun!

@vulcansfire, maybe I'll try that game one of the evenings!

@oxytocin123 I think about him being so much more detached than I am too. Because he is. And it confuses me, so I understand why you felt you wanted more..

Have no idea how this trip will turn out to be. He will probably hate me after a week together or I'll hate him. Shoot, this will be awesome or a disaster! 😄

If you slept with a man the first night you met him you don't have to worry about his chart because there is no future outside of the confines of your mind. If he is calling and texting you (which I doubt) men usually dismiss hoes after they use them, I would keep my guards up. Sleeping with a man fast makes him disrespect you, unless he is crazy you will never be his woman, many times they won't even return for seconds for fear too many men have been up in there. So come out of fantasy..... and keep you legs close.

You have lost value, respect, and awe in his eyes. You were so willing to screw without him working for it, earning it, proving he deserved it. Men live to prove themselves to that special lady. You opened up your legs like it was a revolving door. You were not a challenge, you were too easy now he has lost interest. If you do continue to see him you will be the one initiating everything cuz he busy pursuing the woman who is hard to get. If you stopped pursuing him he would disappear. He thinks you are a slut.

@shrewdsharpe He doesnt have to work for it because sex is not my currency. Is that the only valuable thing you have and therefore refrain from giving it away with fear of a man loosing interest? I'm sure you are much more than a sexual object.

In any case, if things dont work out it will not be because of that for sure.

And well, with him I'll have sex - as Shakira says - whatever, whenever! And I think he loves it!

We were on the phone yesterday for 1h50.

Do not listen to any of that Aries from Shrewdsharpe. Keep your mind positive.

Posted by Sagsagsags
If a Sag shares his/her adventure with you and invited you , it's a good sign.. You're doing great, have fun @IamAries

Agreed. He is sharing his life with you.

update:

So tomorrow we're flying abroad! All good here...until he tells me that one of his best friends from home will meet us at his place and drive us to the airport!

Ahhhh we didnt do friends introductions yet! Best friend?! Arghh He says he knows about me! This is nerve racking! His mate will analyse me from top to bottom and report back to the other friends!

Not ready for it!!! Damnnn!

I know it is a good thing, not complaining..but unexpected! Well, maybe complaining a bit!

I find meeting best friends more nerve racking than meeting parents!

Now I was so calmly packing he throws this at me!

Guess I'll just turn the confidence button on and deal with it! ?

Hi Sag Forum, I'm back!

Our trip was a success! We got along really well.

Before leaving I met his best friend and the three of us had a laugh! Really cool guy as well!

While traveling we never had any issues. We were both very flexible and opened minded and actually had a great time! It was both romantic and fun!

We never spoke about our relationship. But we had some interesting chats about our life, families and values. It felt very comfortable with him the entire time! His family - and he is very family oriented - knows about me.

So all in all, I came back extremely happy! It was really a fun trip! I even made a short video of the trip afterwards and he loved it!

But I still feel odd... This space thing! When he is with me he is fully WITH me. But when we are apart he is ok if we don't speak for 2 or 3 days..like now!

I am traveling again and he just checked on me if I got here all right but thats it.

I keep on reading about Sag taking it slow or needing space, so Im not calling him either. Im letting him initiate and miss me. But, are Sags always like this? Im trying to have his needs in consideration - the space thing - but what about my own? I need to communicate more often and I feel trapped: if I ask for attention I will put him off and at the same time I don't want to ask for it...I want him to give it to me out of his will.

Ahh such another long message, sorry for that. Im just venting again, thinking if he will ever be the man I want / need or if I should stop having too many expectations here.

I know if I suggest a call, we will be on the phone for more than 1 hour. But I want him to initiate more too... Im testing him now, not initiating anything for the last 3 days. :/

Posted by IamAries
Hi Sag Forum, I'm back!

Our trip was a success! We got along really well.

Before leaving I met his best friend and the three of us had a laugh! Really cool guy as well!

While traveling we never had any issues. We were both very flexible and opened minded and actually had a great time! It was both romantic and fun!

We never spoke about our relationship. But we had some interesting chats about our life, families and values. It felt very comfortable with him the entire time! His family - and he is very family oriented - knows about me.

So all in all, I came back extremely happy! It was really a fun trip! I even made a short video of the trip afterwards and he loved it!

But I still feel odd... This space thing! When he is with me he is fully WITH me. But when we are apart he is ok if we don't speak for 2 or 3 days..like now!

I am traveling again and he just checked on me if I got here all right but thats it.

I keep on reading about Sag taking it slow or needing space, so Im not calling him either. Im letting him initiate and miss me. But, are Sags always like this? Im trying to have his needs in consideration - the space thing - but what about my own? I need to communicate more often and I feel trapped: if I ask for attention I will put him off and at the same time I don't want to ask for it...I want him to give it to me out of his will.

Ahh such another long message, sorry for that. Im just venting again, thinking if he will ever be the man I want / need or if I should stop having too many expectations here.

I know if I suggest a call, we will be on the phone for more than 1 hour. But I want him to initiate more too... Im testing him now, not initiating anything for the last 3 days. :/

Sags need space? I'm talking to one and he's constantly popping up on my phone ?

Really, PinkBird?

Mine is so reserved sometimes. I don't fully get him.

Like today, texted me to check if I got home all right, I replied Yes, and that's it.

Feels like as always he is waiting for me to start chatting away or suggest calling. It is so demotivating 😢 Im not saying anything else. He can ask me to if he wants. I know he is more reserved and he always follows my lead but it is descoraging..

What do you think guys? Would love to hear a male perspective. When a man is more passive it isnt a good sign, right?

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Posted by IamAries
Hi Sag Forum, I'm back!

Our trip was a success! We got along really well.

Before leaving I met his best friend and the three of us had a laugh! Really cool guy as well!

While traveling we never had any issues. We were both very flexible and opened minded and actually had a great time! It was both romantic and fun!

We never spoke about our relationship. But we had some interesting chats about our life, families and values. It felt very comfortable with him the entire time! His family - and he is very family oriented - knows about me.

So all in all, I came back extremely happy! It was really a fun trip! I even made a short video of the trip afterwards and he loved it!

But I still feel odd... This space thing! When he is with me he is fully WITH me. But when we are apart he is ok if we don't speak for 2 or 3 days..like now!

I am traveling again and he just checked on me if I got here all right but thats it.

I keep on reading about Sag taking it slow or needing space, so Im not calling him either. Im letting him initiate and miss me. But, are Sags always like this? Im trying to have his needs in consideration - the space thing - but what about my own? I need to communicate more often and I feel trapped: if I ask for attention I will put him off and at the same time I don't want to ask for it...I want him to give it to me out of his will.

Ahh such another long message, sorry for that. Im just venting again, thinking if he will ever be the man I want / need or if I should stop having too many expectations here.

I know if I suggest a call, we will be on the phone for more than 1 hour. But I want him to initiate more too... Im testing him now, not initiating anything for the last 3 days. :/

Sags need space? I'm talking to one and he's constantly popping up on my phone ?

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You'll miss it when it stops.

It seems we are over...or if not, very near to be all over, I'm sad to report. 😢

After our trip (which in my opinion went extremely well and he agreed), I felt him a bit distant. And I told him. But I didn't pressure him.

But as soon as I said I felt him distant he immediately asked if we could meet that week. I said yes, but he never suggested when. So the next day he asked what my plans for the week were, and I told him. But then he dint reply with any suggestion.

I was feeling things were not right and texted him the next morning saying we should book a day because I actually also needed a few things I had at his place, and I needed them for Friday.

Then he replies that he is actually travelling to see his parents on Thursday. Then I suggest to meet on Wednesday because I had plans that evening. He says he had plans with work colleagues on Wednesday. So I suggest then to meet that evening (Tuesday) even though I had plans but I really needed to collect my stuff. He answers he will be busy and I freak out. I needed my stuff (was work related) and he was not being very helpful. So I suggest to go, meet him, he gives me my stuff, I take his stuff that I have in my place and I leave. He agrees.

In between I also tell him that if that's what he wants, we can end this. He goes his way, I go my way, no drama. But that at least he lets me collect my things. To which he replies that I shouldn't get him wrong, that he is not avoiding me, it is just that he is busy and that we can meet Sunday when he returns.

I went to meet him and I was really upset. He tried to hug me but I was stressed and we had a little argument. It ended with him saying we could meet when he comes back, on Sunday. I left upset.

This was Tuesday and after leaving him I didn't contact him again. He didn't contact me either. On Saturday I just texted him asking how his parents were and he replied, asking how I was and stuff. Nothing major.

Then Sunday I wanted to clear the air and texted him a bit more sweet asking if he wanted to meet Sunday as it would be really nice to see him!

He replies, yes of course and asked at what time he could pick me up to stay at his place.

We were at his place and all was good. I missed him! I very lightly, and in a non accusatory way, explained to him my frustration from the previous week. That I was feeling a bit insecure and I needed attention. And instead of asking for attention directly I freaked out a bit. He didn't make many comments, just smiled and we kept on hanging at his place.

At some point that evening I asked him why was I at his place. What was it about me, that he liked. He said, he liked I was pretty, fun and my personality. He said he liked everything! The whole me.

At that point I asked him if he was still in the dating site. He said yes, but that he is not using it. And asked about me. I said yes too, but that I'm not going there.

So at some point when we went to bed I told him that I wanted to leave the site, that I don't want to meet any other man and what he thought about it. He said that was my decision and I agreed. So I reinforced it that I just want to be with him.

And then he says it feels I am trying to see where we were heading too, and I said yes, I want to understand what you think so I can see what I can count on.

...and then....he says he feels that I want more than him now, that he is not feeling sure about starting a relationship because he still needs time, that he doesn't feel ready. That he is coming from a recent break up (June). That was hard to hear. But I didn't make any drama. I thanked him for his honesty and said it was a shame, as I thought we were very compatible and that I was enjoying to know him.

So he says he likes me. A lot. But that he is not ready, that he doesn't know. And that he doesn't want to hurt me and he is afraid I will get hurt.

I asked him if he had met someone knew that made him feel unsure and he said no. I asked him if since we started going out (beginning of August) if he met any other girls. He said yes, but that he didn't sleep with anyone.

And that was that. I thanked him for the honesty, asked if we should stop contacting each other, and he said he would respect that if that's what I wanted.

That night he hugged me very strongly, as he never did.

In the morning I woke up (well, barely slept) and told him I couldn't believe we were not going to see each other again. I didn't tell him more, but I cant believe it because with him it feels so natural...feels it is Home, meant to be. But I didn't want to put more pressure on him..

On the drive back to work in the morning I asked him what he wants to do, how he wants to proceed from here. If we should go a bit slower, not so much pressure and see what happens or cut it completely. But that I was not sure of how I would feel knowing that if he needs to see other people.

He answers he doesn't know...that when one wants more than the other it is no good. I asked again now more firmly: that doesn't answer my question What do you want? He replies it is not something he can answer now, that we can speak later. That an answer can't be given like that.

I told him: I know you like me! I dont know how much, with which intensity, but I know you do! And it would be a shame because we've been so good together so far.

Then I arrived at my destination, we kissed, wished each other a good week and that was it.



😢

I'm so sad.. 😢

Well this is not what i expected.

Not ready for a relationship but ready to go galvanting around on a trip together.

I dont think you should waste any more time. He's grown enough to have said that a while ago.

He's testing you. Stop with the labels. Stop with the questions. Relax. Loosen up. If he told you that much he cares about you. What he needs is someone to share his life with. He's trying to do something most guys skip and that's to be your friend before he moves further. Stop thinking so much. Your killing it for both of you. I would probably go as far to say that he has developed a sense of needing your company and he feels weakened by this need. Kick back. We don't like to be caught so easily and we fight it unconciously. Good luck.

Posted by Shrewdsharpe
You have lost value, respect, and awe in his eyes. You were so willing to screw without him working for it, earning it, proving he deserved it. Men live to prove themselves to that special lady. You opened up your legs like it was a revolving door. You were not a challenge, you were too easy now he has lost interest. If you do continue to see him you will be the one initiating everything cuz he busy pursuing the woman who is hard to get. If you stopped pursuing him he would disappear. He thinks you are a slut.

Sag guys don't expect much resistance from anyone in the bedroom. We spend alot of time charming our asses off so that the chlothes come off as we enter it. When the bow is drawn we it rarely miss. Most sag males dont even use the term slut. Im gonna get mine, so why cant a female get hers? That's beneath most of us.

The conversation afterwards is what usually decides the next few weeks. Sex is only partial to what most mature sag males need. Sex is also available to most mature sags on demand. I don't even consider sex a need. It's easy.

Posted by DMV
Well this is not what i expected.

Not ready for a relationship but ready to go galvanting around on a trip together.

I dont think you should waste any more time. He's grown enough to have said that a while ago.

I thought the same.

He could have told me before agreeing on going on a trip together. Before introducing me to his best friend. Before telling to his parents he was traveling with me.

Posted by NobleSag
He's testing you. Stop with the labels. Stop with the questions. Relax. Loosen up. If he told you that much he cares about you. What he needs is someone to share his life with. He's trying to do something most guys skip and that's to be your friend before he moves further. Stop thinking so much. Your killing it for both of you. I would probably go as far to say that he has developed a sense of needing your company and he feels weakened by this need. Kick back. We don't like to be caught so easily and we fight it unconciously. Good luck.

What do you mean with kick back? To loosen up?

You're right, Im thinking way too much about it...bringing a heavy energy into it.

At the same time, assumptions are the mother of all f** ups, so I dont regret having had the convo.

He likes me. I know it.

But now it is totally out of my control. If I contact him I will probably scare him away.

No idea now when will I ever hear from him. 3 days, 3 weeks?

Posted by IamAries

Posted by NobleSag
He's testing you. Stop with the labels. Stop with the questions. Relax. Loosen up. If he told you that much he cares about you. What he needs is someone to share his life with. He's trying to do something most guys skip and that's to be your friend before he moves further. Stop thinking so much. Your killing it for both of you. I would probably go as far to say that he has developed a sense of needing your company and he feels weakened by this need. Kick back. We don't like to be caught so easily and we fight it unconciously. Good luck.

What do you mean with kick back? To loosen up?

You're right, Im thinking way too much about it...bringing a heavy energy into it.

At the same time, assumptions are the mother of all f** ups, so I dont regret having had the convo.

He likes me. I know it.

But now it is totally out of my control. If I contact him I will probably scare him away.

No idea now when will I ever hear from him. 3 days, 3 weeks?

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You can send a hey message just make sure that you don't make it sound like you expect a reply.

Like crazy off the wall non serious shit. Make it fun. We can't pass up fun.

Thanks NobleSag! Will do 😉

Almost 7 days since we last saw each other. No contact.

Forcing myself not to get in touch with him.

Thanks for your words @sagsagsag

I couldn't hold myself after 6 days of silence and I texted him a few hours ago something light and asking how he was.

He read it. No reply.

After almost 3 months of dating, meeting every week, sharing intimacy, experiences and life stories... Im not even worthy a reply?

What the hell!

Let this sag sun scorp moon miss you.

No more contact. Create some space.

You guys just had the "relationship" talk and he probably feels bad cause you 2 aren't on the same page. He's a bit afraid honestly. Creating space to reduce tension. He doesnt want to be the bad guy.

Hey i feel ya on the no reply. Its happened to all of us.

Things are getting heavy now and he may be uncomfortable with it.

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Posted by DMV
Hey i feel ya on the no reply. Its happened to all of us.

LOL. Saturn effect?

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No. Ive texted/called a guy or 2 and been completely ignored.

I'd like to know what happens to a big start with an Aries AND he has Venus in Aries too————?

Ive never been around a Aries sun and venus.

But i have been around many venus aries. One was a pisces. He moved fast. Met married and impregnated his wife in less than a year.

I know another who dates constantly.

Another who cheats on his wife.

All in all, its a fun placement to be around.

Keep your head up Aries. Your placements thrive on commitment.

Fixed venus signs dont move on easily.

He may feel comfortable to call, he may not.

Ahhh ladies, thanks for the support! 🙂

The taste of rejection..not something we Aries take lightly 😉

Oh well, life goes on and he is not the last cookie of the package.

Posted by IamAries
Ahhh ladies, thanks for the support! 🙂

The taste of rejection..not something we Aries take lightly 😉

Oh well, life goes on and he is not the last cookie of the package.

Well hold on. He didnt reject you. He does like you but isnt interested in a relationship right now.

Aint that the truth. Sometimes water signs need time off to miss ppl

After my text went unanswered on Sunday, he replied on Monday asking how I was. I replied in the evening saying I was well and made a little joke but didn't ask him anything.

Tuesday he sends me a few smiles.

I leave it at that.

Today he texts: Hello! How are you?

4hours go by and I answer: Hi (his name)! I'm good and you?

After one hour he replied: Good also

I just feel like laughing now! What the heck is this?!

Is he expecting me to go all flirty and chatty with him again?!

Wtf?

Posted by IamAries
After my text went unanswered on Sunday, he replied on Monday asking how I was. I replied in the evening saying I was well and made a little joke but didn't ask him anything.

Tuesday he sends me a few smiles.

I leave it at that.

Today he texts: Hello! How are you?

4hours go by and I answer: Hi (his name)! I'm good and you?

After one hour he replied: Good also

I just feel like laughing now! What the heck is this?!

Is he expecting me to go all flirty and chatty with him again?!

Wtf?

He misses you

But what a silly message exchange..

- how are you?

- Good and you?

- Also good

Why does he bother if he can't make an effort?

Feels like he is expecting me as usual to initiate something.

I don't feel I should though.

Posted by IamAries
But what a silly message exchange..

- how are you?

- Good and you?

- Also good

Why does he bother if he can't make an effort?

Feels like he is expecting me as usual to initiate something.

I don't feel I should though.

Understandable. You want him to fight for you, declaration of love.

You cant control how he talks to you. What speech he uses.

You guys just had a small tiff but it was a relationship talk. He probably feels like he has to walk on egg shells, he just not that comfortable with you right now.

Hes approaching you kinda dry like because he doesnt know if youre still mad or not.

Approach him more warmly

This man likes you but he isnt sure of a relationship yet. Why not get to learn about each other better.

You cant dig your heels and not budge until he gives you what you want. You would have a punk on your hands. Aries women dont respect punks.

Let him be the man and keep courting you.

Hes making the effort. It may not be the effort you want. But hes making one.

Build

Here's an update... just because I'm home sick and got nothing better to do 🙂

We talked a few days after that message. Him still saying he likes me a lot, that he always did and still does but blablabla he doesn't feel ready for a relationship, that his feelings are pretty much messed up and he doesn't want to disapoint me more than he knows he already did.

We agreed then to not cut things off completely. To see each other when we both feel like to, no pressures, no relationship.

Then we saw each other a few days later. And then I completely stopped contacting him. I just let it go. He went on holidays with a friend, another sporting thing. I didnt hear from him in 10 days. Silence on my side too. Until after 10days he texted from his hotel saying were he was, showing me pics, asking if I wanted to meet this week. This was Sunday. I said sure, let me know when you want to come to my town (as lately I was the one always going to his house and now I cant bother anymore).

So thats it. Maybe I'll see him this week, maybe I wont.

Still like him. But I cant give a shit anymore.

Are you dating other guys?

I think you should just focus on what you want, especially finding the right guy.

Update your dating app profile and make it clear that you are looking for a relationship.

Perhaps that will weed out any guy looking to just "hang out."

One thing I noticed about Sag guys is that they can easily just be friends with you, all the while having sex with you, traveling, meeting family & friends and seeing other people and those people are just friends too. Perhaps this is just the stage in their life when they haven't met "the one."

I truly think the best match for a Ram girl is a Leo, because you can actually be your forceful Aries selves and it doesn't seem to phase them. Lion's are very direct too, and talk a lot, so you will know where you stand.

@LunarMaiden

Hello and thank you for your feedback! 🙂

It can very well be that scenario you just described. This is my first time dating a Sag and therefore Im only now discovering their traits.

I love Leos! As friends, I really do! It is so effortless to be their friends and fun too! But I dont want another Leo as a partner. I finished last year a 6year relationship with one that ended badly! Prior to that my 2 ex bfs were also Leos! I'm done there. 🙂 Too much ego stroking. I had to constantly reassure them how good looking, great, incredible they were...

But as friends, I love them!! We click 🙂

Yes, Im still on the dating App and even meeting people organically. Im not waiting on this Sagg. I do get some male attention....even though I wanted his instead.

But Im good now. From him I now expect all and nothing. I cant chase him anymore. Im good either way.

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Posted by IamAries
@LunarMaiden

Hello and thank you for your feedback! 🙂

It can very well be that scenario you just described. This is my first time dating a Sag and therefore Im only now discovering their traits.

I love Leos! As friends, I really do! It is so effortless to be their friends and fun too! But I dont want another Leo as a partner. I finished last year a 6year relationship with one that ended badly! Prior to that my 2 ex bfs were also Leos! I'm done there. 🙂 Too much ego stroking. I had to constantly reassure them how good looking, great, incredible they were...

But as friends, I love them!! We click 🙂

Yes, Im still on the dating App and even meeting people organically. Im not waiting on this Sagg. I do get some male attention....even though I wanted his instead.

But Im good now. From him I now expect all and nothing. I cant chase him anymore. Im good either way.

Actually your best match is your opposite which is libra which is either hit or miss or a Gemini or another aries.

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Is it so?

Never dated any..

Well, there is this Gemini that I really like. He gets me. But I don't feel it. Im not phisically atracted to him and that ruins it for me.

Very cool guy though. And he really tried. Even surprised me a couple of times with stuff like: be ready at X time, Im taking you to a place you will like.

I was very honest with him, told him I liked him but couldnt see things developing between us. He is sort of a friend now, more of a confident. He even knows about the Sagg.

Have to keep my eyes opened for those Libra, Gemini, Aries

Soon wont be many signs left for me! 🙂

Sometimes I swear the Sagg reads this shit.

Everytime I come here to vent he texts. Just texted me now.

Guess I will be spamming this thread on a daily basis! 😄

Go get her back, Libra!!

@Librasetting

Maybe she is more than superhot to the Texas dude? ?

I still have hope for this relationship.

I do agree tho about leo and aries getting along better than sag n aries.

Geminis dont get me all hot n bothered. So no, i dont like my opposite romantically.

Happy belated birthday DMV! 🙂 🙂

Ahh wish I could hold on to your hope. But no. He got in touch Sunday, then Wednesday. I called him yesterday to hear about his holidays and he didnt even pick up or ackowledge my call. So right now I just feel like: fuck him. Im now just looking forward to travel next week on holidays and be on the beach away from my phone and the thoughts of him.