My Leo My Life

Hey Peeps!!

My leo and I got into it a few weeks ago. because i push things and say things with out thinking. he feels like i dont appriciate him.

he wouldnt speak to me at all for a solid week. we finally talked he says he doesnt know if we can make this work.. we live together we have kids (not with each other) but our kids are involved...

I have been bending over backwards trying to make amends... but he has changed... no more sweet things like xo's after texts or day time well wishes over text.. at home its quite only one word responses when i ask about his day.... however he always asks me still how my day was if i had a good sleep, still pours my coffee in the morning and will cuddle with me on the couch at night... but he seems cold.

now my issue is that this is driving me CRAZY... i wish it didnt but i feel like if you dont care anymore then just say so... why am i bending over backwards to make things work with someone who doesnt want to make it work?? but then again how the hell do i know cause he is being the king of mix signals. and i cant talk to him about how he is feeling about us at this point because he gets frusterated.

i need to know how people deal with a situation like this?? do i wait?? do i learn patients? im the one who messed up maybe he can get over it?? but then at the same time i feel like im a good person just because i acted like a S $ % t doesnt mean im still not the same kind,loving caring sweet thoughtful person i was a few weeks ago that he loved.

Ugh relationships are so hard....

First off, what did you do to make him turn cold on you? I need details....Second, I guess you still have not tried the rubberband effect like I suggested.Chasing him, and bending over backwards, is a sign of weakness, but you think that it would get you back into his good graces, but it will only have the opposite effect.In the back of his mind, he may have emotionally given up on the realtionship, just has not done so physically...

Also,Shorty, give me your placements, and his....I want to help you, because this rubberband effect is working on my Leo. I do not call him. We see eachother everyday, and I use my Virgo rising to remain professional towards him...It is confusing him, that I can tell....He recently tried to corner me, and asked what I have been up to?Good timing that my brother called, and he thought that it was another guy who was interested in me.I saw the jealousy in his eyes, but I am not going to stop there...The key to ANY man is to keep THEM guessing.Especially with a Leo man, as they have the tendency to become bored rather quickly.Flip the script...If he says *F* you, you say, *F* you harder...Show him better than you tell him; because action speaks louder than words.I see my Leo man changing to my benefit😉

I sent you a private message. i appriciate your help very much