My now no sweet Sag Wants to be just friends, Now What?

We met online, it was dope the attraction since day one, he told me he liked me that night we went to his house after having a blast, we had some Great Sex, the Next day he came to visit me and we had Great Sex Again,.some other days we just went out to the movies, for dinner, we cooked together... and we were spending time with no sex involve... which made me realized he wasn't just for the sex... We live like 5 min from each other and he was extremely happy of that, he said we were lucky to meet online and live so close and be attracted to each other... We had fun all the times, We talk a lot and about everything, he asked me about my life, my family, my job, my day... He encourages me to get my goals... I also help him out when he is feeling Stressed out, he was spoiling me, he was making me coffee, dinner, he was buying me drinks for our drink nights etc etc.... but all of a sudden after almost 2 months, I start to notice there's no more touching or kissing...Yesterday, I was already feeling weird cuz Come on.. I want sex, I want to kiss him, Why he aint touching me.... whats going on?? I couldnt stand being there laying next to him watching tv and not feel him not even touching my hair or my butt or my hands, like he always did... lol so I asked him if he was seeing someone else, he said No. The next day I told him He been acting weird, and I told him that I like when he kisses me and we haven't even make out for a while... and then he just dropped the Bomb! and said : He'd prefer to be just friends. ( How did I messed this up?) Whats next?

He has to of noticed something he didn’t like you in that time frame. And was just waiting it out until you noticed.

We start pretty fast until little by Lowe start to see stuff we don’t like.

Just ask him what the issue is. He probably will be straight up. Do you nag a lot? Have negative energy? Sag don’t like that.

Posted by saggurl88

He has to of noticed something he didn’t like you in that time frame. And was just waiting it out until you noticed.

We start pretty fast until little by Lowe start to see stuff we don’t like.

Just ask him what the issue is. He probably will be straight up. Do you nag a lot? Have negative energy? Sag don’t like that.

I did not nag at all, I was doing me all the time, unless he asked me to come visit him or he asked me to visit me, and I was always very careful with him cuz on top of everything he suffers from depression, I did asked him what was the issue he said " he didnt know what happened." One thing he used to do. And he also stopped doing was, he used to give me details of his whereabouts, where he was going, what time he was coming back. what he was doing. I did noticed tho. He was constantly texting with a woman, the first time he tried to hide it from me, but the second time he didnt, so I didnt say anything cuz I assumed if he wasnt hiding it from me, it's just maybe a regular friend. Im really not the jealous type (As long as you not hiding shit from me). One of my friends think that maybe he was having the feeling that we were into a relationship. Even tho, I never asked him or said anything about a relationship, I was just there anytime he wanted to spend time together... And he was the type to say " wherever your going, im going with you" anytime I invited him to come w me to run errands.

Still the night before the "lets be friends convo " he made a joke saying that everything in his house belonged to him, I claimed and laugh " I dont belong to you " he said: Yes, you do, I said everything, Im putting a sticker on you with my name on it.

We did had a small argument that night bc we were watching a movie where everybody was having sex.

He made the comment " Damn, they are just having sex in this show "

I said in a funny way " wow, Lucky them "

so he pulled me to him and started touching me, but he wasnt kissing me,

I asked him, " what was going on"

he said " Nothing"

im Like, "well, what are you doing, im a litle bit confuse of whats going on" We had sex, but he didnt kiss me at all. When we finished, I was feeling uncomfortable, bc It wall felt like he didnt want to have sex.

Im a very honest and straightforward person, so I told him that I didnt know what was wrong with him, that we usually have great sex and what we just did was just weird.

Then the next day, he didnt text me at all and when I texted him, I told him I was sorry if I was mean with the sex comment I did, but that we were not even making out and I missed that. Then his answered was that , He'd like to be friends. I dont know if I should think He just got stressed out , if I hurt his ego or if he is probably seeing this person he was texting with.