Needs advice with. sagg male

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HappyChick
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10 Years

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Hi,

It's the first time I've been involved with a Sagittarius, and WOW! He pulled the rug right under my feet.

We were friends for about 2 months before he made it clear he was interested. He told all his friends about me and how the chemistry sparked from day 1, how much of an impact I made on him when I left the room ETC before he told me lol.

We got together and had a great time, he warned me from day 1 he has commitment issues, that's fine with me, I hate having my freedom squashed too. We weren't in each others faces all the time, when out in public he made it clear with his actions I was his, his eyes never left me, always keeping me in sight.

Everything was perfect, until yesterday. He came round and said somethings that shocked me. He always felt wanted, relaxed, and got so comfortable around me to the point of him looking so far ahead into the future and imagined himself living in my house with me thinking "yep!I could be so happy, looked after and content here " he said his head and heart had progressed.

Then dropped the bombshell!! He ended it?! Said he panicked, can't.do commitment yet, not ready but wanted to stay good friends. I've never pulled in the ropes, always given him the freedom to come and go as he pleases, never demanded his time, (I don't like that myself) we are so much alike, he is the male version of me.

He.popped round today for a cuppa, is coming over tomorrow after work to put up a shelf and have some dinner...we're even planning a weekend Europe break in the summer today...

Can someone please shed some light what is going on in his head please? Was it just to release the pressure of the "relationship" status and he really wants to still be part of my life or is it he just wants "friends"

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augustmoon
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I don't know what's going on in his head. What's his moon, venus, etc?
I'm 9th house heavy, and yeah, sometimes a relationship title may put pressure on me... but usually only if with that title comes typical expectations from the other half of the commitment.

I think that having commitment issues is different from simply needing freedom, though. If you're ready for a long-term commitment, don't waste your time waiting for someone who doesn't know if they want it, there are plenty of people who do.
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HappyChick
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Hi, thanks for the reply, I haven't got a clue what his moon Venus is. Birthday is 16th December

All I know is he's confused the hell out of me lol because the reasons he gave are normally the reasons people stay, he always said how "right" it feels.

he is also in my mixed circle of friends, and they all knew before me how he felt, always talking about me when I wasn't there, then BOOM out of the blue he panicked about his feelings progressing