HappyChick
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he warned me from day 1 he has commitment issues

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Hi,
It's the first time I've been involved with a Sagittarius, and WOW! He pulled the rug right under my feet.
he warned me from day 1 he has commitment issues
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It's the first time I've been involved with a Sagittarius, and WOW! He pulled the rug right under my feet.
We were friends for about 2 months before he made it clear he was interested. He told all his friends about me and how the chemistry sparked from day 1, how much of an impact I made on him when I left the room ETC before he told me lol.
We got together and had a great time, he warned me from day 1 he has commitment issues, that's fine with me, I hate having my freedom squashed too. We weren't in each others faces all the time, when out in public he made it clear with his actions I was his, his eyes never left me, always keeping me in sight.
Everything was perfect, until yesterday. He came round and said somethings that shocked me. He always felt wanted, relaxed, and got so comfortable around me to the point of him looking so far ahead into the future and imagined himself living in my house with me thinking "yep!I could be so happy, looked after and content here " he said his head and heart had progressed.
Then dropped the bombshell!! He ended it?! Said he panicked, can't.do commitment yet, not ready but wanted to stay good friends. I've never pulled in the ropes, always given him the freedom to come and go as he pleases, never demanded his time, (I don't like that myself) we are so much alike, he is the male version of me.
He.popped round today for a cuppa, is coming over tomorrow after work to put up a shelf and have some dinner...we're even planning a weekend Europe break in the summer today...
Can someone please shed some light what is going on in his head please? Was it just to release the pressure of the "relationship" status and he really wants to still be part of my life or is it he just wants "friends"