Oh, Good...

Well things already burnt out with the leo. Took about a month.


I thought I was gonna be able to drag that out longer, no suck luck.



Last two nights all we do is been talking about feelings. Same old story. He has feelings and doesn't want to be just a booty call. ( And I don't want to look like and asshole )


He said he'd try not to fall for me if that's what I wanted but it'd be hard for him. I have feelings for him too but I just don't want to go there though.





So we talk all night about this and than we don't have sex and not this morning either. Just cuddling.




I know whenever you sleep with someone there is consequences. I always seem to forget how big they are though.



I love sex but often I feel no good deed goes unpunished....

Well if he was professing feelings after only a month then they can burn out pretty quickly too, so don't feel too bad - that can happen with some Leo boys
Just come out of a similar thing with a Leo guy myself .. gets very messy. Best bet is to remember the good sex as a great experience and move on if your feelings don't match
Or if you think it has any staying power give yourselves a break to re-evaluate..

Posted by AriesGirl74
Well if he was professing feelings after only a month then they can burn out pretty quickly too, so don't feel too bad - that can happen with some Leo boys
Just come out of a similar thing with a Leo guy myself .. gets very messy. Best bet is to remember the good sex as a great experience and move on if your feelings don't match
Or if you think it has any staying power give yourselves a break to re-evaluate..

Yea I'm thinking maybe some space would be good, just to we can step back a bit and look at this level headed.

I just want things to go back to the way the were going before

Posted by Sag89
I just want things to go back to the way the were going before

Before what? Before sex? Before orgasm? Before the "I really like you" lol
Seriously though, distance brings perspective especially all that time talking about feelings but no sex in between? Hard lines!
Otherwise you may have to read that other recent thread "does FWB turn into LTR" :/

Ive noticed that Leos are NOT into casual sex. Theyre more attached to sex than saggis are. I dont know any better way to say this but, sex is more special to them than it is to us.

My ex is a leo and I had a fling with one briefly. My virg gal pal is also dating one. They dont like sex everyday or even every week. It cheapens it to them.

IMO, that felt like straight up bullshit to me. They give you great sex, then say no more till they feel like you deserve it. Like what the fuck is that controlling shit about. In the meantime they run your life how they feel you should live it. Talk about their feelings all the damn time and if youre a good girl you may get some sex. Do what they dont want you to do, blue balls and alot of talking.

Posted by AriesGirl74
Well if he was professing feelings after only a month then they can burn out pretty quickly too, so don't feel too bad - that can happen with some Leo boys
Just come out of a similar thing with a Leo guy myself .. gets very messy. Best bet is to remember the good sex as a great experience and move on if your feelings don't match
Or if you think it has any staying power give yourselves a break to re-evaluate..

again, this aries gives good advice

Not to say that sex isnt special to saggis, because it is. I think we take longer than leos to develop thos feelings.

remember 2, hes a fixed sign. Time off will not change his mind. Besides, no offense, dont be a GUY and try to get around his feelings just get back to the good ol times.

I like you, so I hope u dont take my words the wrong way 🙂

Posted by aquavita
sag has an issue uttering the word :love or speaking about it. commitment talks..especially when young... it has to be someone crazy then u may agree. sags often ruin their lives with this point of view. but u cant help wild hearts

My heart is wild. I just don't know if he is the right person to commit too. I don't want to just be in a relationship for the sake of it. I want to be with the right one.

Posted by AriesGirl74

Posted by Sag89
I just want things to go back to the way the were going before

Before what? Before sex? Before orgasm? Before the "I really like you" lol
Seriously though, distance brings perspective especially all that time talking about feelings but no sex in between? Hard lines!
Otherwise you may have to read that other recent thread "does FWB turn into LTR" :/

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Before I really like you!

Posted by DMV
Ive noticed that Leos are NOT into casual sex. Theyre more attached to sex than saggis are. I dont know any better way to say this but, sex is more special to them than it is to us.

My ex is a leo and I had a fling with one briefly. My virg gal pal is also dating one. They dont like sex everyday or even every week. It cheapens it to them.

IMO, that felt like straight up bullshit to me. They give you great sex, then say no more till they feel like you deserve it. Like what the fuck is that controlling shit about. In the meantime they run your life how they feel you should live it. Talk about their feelings all the damn time and if youre a good girl you may get some sex. Do what they dont want you to do, blue balls and alot of talking.

Seems about right!!! +1

Posted by aquavita
i honestly wish i had never ever had sex till i found the "right one". and i did and i knew it before sex

I want to find the one!

The one I had a fling with, we had some good sex one time and he wouldnt have sex with me again. Just talk about feelings. I was infuriated. He never once talked about relationships b4 sex. Ever. It was only until he screwed my brains out then he wants to talk relationship s and feelings and having sex alot.

f'n bs. Total manipulation. Lol, I felt like such a guy. Kick that bitch out my house if you aint puttin out.

*not having sex alot

Posted by DMV
The one I had a fling with, we had some good sex one time and he wouldnt have sex with me again. Just talk about feelings. I was infuriated. He never once talked about relationships b4 sex. Ever. It was only until he screwed my brains out then he wants to talk relationship s and feelings and having sex alot.

f'n bs. Total manipulation. Lol, I felt like such a guy. Kick that bitch out my house if you aint puttin out.

Lol well if next time we hang out and it isn't happening we'll definitely be having a talk!

Posted by DMV


IMO, that felt like straight up bullshit to me. They give you great sex, then say no more till they feel like you deserve it. Like what the fuck is that controlling shit about. In the meantime they run your life how they feel you should live it. Talk about their feelings all the damn time and if youre a good girl you may get some sex. Do what they dont want you to do, blue balls and alot of talking.

OMG!!! This is soooooo true lol
+1000000000000000000

Posted by aquavita
i honestly wish i had never ever had sex till i found the "right one". and i did and i knew it before sex

So are you admitting here that you've made the same mistakes?

Sometimes the way you express yourself is confusing.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Sag89

Posted by aquavita
i honestly wish i had never ever had sex till i found the "right one". and i did and i knew it before sex

I want to find the one!

Me.


Right here.


Pick me.

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Do it Sagi 89! Do ittttttt

— 🙂

Sag, you have an Aqua Venus right? I love that placement but both on Aries and Sag it really comes across as:


You see the trouble with you
Is you're in love with me
What a strange thing to do
What a brave place to be

You see the trouble with you
There's no trouble with you
So when you say that you love me
That stops me loving you

Posted by aquavita
sucks being a sag that s my point. sucks because we miss on the right guys.

Hahah...pretty much 😄

Thanks 🙂

Posted by aquavita
sorry Damnata i thought u were talking to me lol as sag. so i just confirmed what u said . duh...

Yup. 😄

Like I said, really good song for Sags in general but even more if they also have Venus in Aqua.

Posted by Damnata
Sag, you have an Aqua Venus right? I love that placement but both on Aries and Sag it really comes across as:

You see the trouble with you
Is you're in love with me
What a strange thing to do
What a brave place to be

You see the trouble with you
There's no trouble with you
So when you say that you love me
That stops me loving you

Hahaha