brianafay
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Question about Sag male friend please help!!
^^ Yep.
He kept asking me to come and visit him in his country and we kept setting up dates to visit, but I kept cancelling then he wanted to come and visit me.
Finally two months ago I sent him this random (and ill-thought out) email telling him about this other guy I was in love with, who doesn't like me (this Taurus guy) and he just responded one line "don't be silly about boys". Last month I moved to another continent and didn't tell him until I had moved, because he wanted to see me before I left.
We hate flakiness... Even if he was into you, he is probably more scared of you than you are of him "standing you up," someone who often changes their mind can become a challenge for us and will continue pursuing becuase its a challenge. But deep inside of us, we woudnt risk much because we know there might be a change of heart, the pay off is not worth the trouble... so we keep playing with the idea but he is not so much into you.
If you really "LOVE" him like you said, I would tell him how you didnt like him not showing up, apologize and ask him if he sees you both in a relationship in the future. We like honesty, to the point and if he really likes you he will have no problem answering with the truth. Good luck!
Finally two months ago I sent him this random (and ill-thought out) email telling him about this other guy I was in love with, who doesn't like me (this Taurus guy) and he just responded one line "don't be silly about boys". Last month I moved to another continent and didn't tell him until I had moved, because he wanted to see me before I left.
We hate flakiness... Even if he was into you, he is probably more scared of you than you are of him "standing you up," someone who often changes their mind can become a challenge for us and will continue pursuing becuase its a challenge. But deep inside of us, we woudnt risk much because we know there might be a change of heart, the pay off is not worth the trouble... so we keep playing with the idea but he is not so much into you.
If you really "LOVE" him like you said, I would tell him how you didnt like him not showing up, apologize and ask him if he sees you both in a relationship in the future. We like honesty, to the point and if he really likes you he will have no problem answering with the truth. Good luck!
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