SagChick411
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Sag & Scorpio: Platonic Love? (Page 2)
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@ fum
I think he sound like a douche. I think he will want you if you move on for good. Let him believe it's done. Do your own thing for a while, meet new people, just have FUN! IF he comes back then as DMV said test the crap out of him but if he doesn't then fuck him. He doesn't deserve you ATAL.
He needs to grow up and fix his act up cause he will lose you for good to another man! And to be totally honest, you may even find someone else who is the ONE and will give you everything and need and more.
Sag (some) men are dickheads! They drive me round the bend! X
I think he sound like a douche. I think he will want you if you move on for good. Let him believe it's done. Do your own thing for a while, meet new people, just have FUN! IF he comes back then as DMV said test the crap out of him but if he doesn't then fuck him. He doesn't deserve you ATAL.
He needs to grow up and fix his act up cause he will lose you for good to another man! And to be totally honest, you may even find someone else who is the ONE and will give you everything and need and more.
Sag (some) men are dickheads! They drive me round the bend! X
Posted by Tacky_Tshirt
I think any Sag girl dating a Scorp guy deserves a medal. 😄
I mean- how do you put up with all the ridiculous bullshit?
Sting Cry Pout. Sting Cry Pout.
Rinse Repeat.
Ad Infinitum
HILARIOUS. 😄
Are they really that good in bed?
Because I can't see any other redeeming quality.
*shrugs* 🙂
LMFAO!
HA! Yes he is very good in bed. I have only really slept with him a 2 occasions and both times it was different from the last. He is the BEST kisser I've ever had. I met every time he holds me close and kisses my neck. My knees go weak, I'm surprised my legs haven't given way causing me to fall to the ground. It is seriously that good. Ahhhh thinking about him makes me shiver. OH I LOVE HIM! What is gonna become of me!? lol
melt**
Posted by DMV
well than FUM, this is your problem. not his. you said it yourself, you and him orignally got to gether for a "good time." but now, you want more. you cant expect him to want the same. i think you played a little scorpio female game and your trying to flip the script on him and (forgive me for being blunt) the shit aint working, now your mad and frustrated. again, this is 100% your problem.
he said what any dude would say who isnt down for a relationship let me know if you change your mind
its happened to the best of us. COOL, you want a more serious relationship, but your barking up the wrong tree sista girl. who starts this "continued conversation?"
this is not him being stubborn, he's waiting for you to give up on the idea of wanting a relationship from him and back to having a "good time." like any man, he will wait for ever 4 dem cookies.
your not following thru. no more communicaton. he's done. its a wrap. erase him. if he comes back ready to give you what you want, test the shit out of him.
LOL ... that's pretty funny. I laughed my butt off at the 4 dem cookies.
OK. I guess I don't understand men then. That casual thing was 4+ years ago. I changed my mind 2+ years ago. Since then it is non-stop.
I wish him well. I always used to think, perhaps there was something that he doesn't want to let go. This guy is attractive as hell. He has many talents. He has girls running after him... I point out... go with her... leave me alone! He always makes some excuse of why he doesn't want them.
I guess it is time to just stop replying. It is not my style to ignore people, but I guess that's the best next step to take.
Posted by SagChick411
@ fum
I think he sound like a douche. I think he will want you if you move on for good. Let him believe it's done. Do your own thing for a while, meet new people, just have FUN! IF he comes back then as DMV said test the crap out of him but if he doesn't then fuck him. He doesn't deserve you ATAL.
He needs to grow up and fix his act up cause he will lose you for good to another man! And to be totally honest, you may even find someone else who is the ONE and will give you everything and need and more.
Sag (some) men are dickheads! They drive me round the bend! X
thank you, SagChick. I will stop replying, which I did already. It shouldn't be too difficult to NOT having someone you never had in first place.
in response to FUM's 'LOL I very much agree with you, when you say it is not a substantial relationship. It's been always a casual one. However, he always shows interest in finding out if I'm with someone or not. Every time he came around, I was telling him that I was seeing someone else. But I also used to think... "Leave me Alone and move on!". He doesn't give me what I want, so why bother anyway? Then when he found out that I wasn't seeing anybody, he started this few-times-a-week thing. He was part of my Facebook. When I used to see him online there, I used to get out of FB as fast as possible, because I didn't want to be asked every time.'
So...do you want this guy or don'tchu? He's probably confused beyond belief right now about your intentions. If you want him to 'leave you alone and move on', TELL him. Whether he listens or not is another matter... I don't fully understand the situation here, honestly, but then again I might be too young to have any say in this matter 😉
You can't just expect this guy to 'see the signs', I mean, he's a fire sign for crying out loud. They're not the most intuitive people on this planet.
So...do you want this guy or don'tchu? He's probably confused beyond belief right now about your intentions. If you want him to 'leave you alone and move on', TELL him. Whether he listens or not is another matter... I don't fully understand the situation here, honestly, but then again I might be too young to have any say in this matter 😉
You can't just expect this guy to 'see the signs', I mean, he's a fire sign for crying out loud. They're not the most intuitive people on this planet.
and from the latest responses, it looks like the tables have turned...I'm just replying to something that happened quite awhile ago, I know...
just pointing something out.
Oh, if you can't tell from my username already, I'm also a Scorpio. 😛
just pointing something out.
Oh, if you can't tell from my username already, I'm also a Scorpio. 😛
Posted by Tacky_Tshirt
I think any Sag girl dating a Scorp guy deserves a medal. 😄
I mean- how do you put up with all the ridiculous bullshit?
Sting Cry Pout. Sting Cry Pout.
Rinse Repeat.
Ad Infinitum
HILARIOUS. 😄
Are they really that good in bed?
Because I can't see any other redeeming quality.
*shrugs* 🙂
hilarious! naw the sex is OK.
i find mine extremely emotionally interesting. its becoming more of an ego thing i see sometimes.
i do 🙂
he's like so far out there. like another planet. his mercury in sag gets him in hot water with my merc in scorpio, but all in all, he's a total asshole with dreamy sleepy eyes...but he's my asshole with dreamy sleepy eyes...sometimes i feel like i got bragging rights when he shuns others just to be in the presence of a girl who makes his blood boil.
he responds very well to my uranian traits, especially uranus in the 5th. he is the alien in the corner that i want to get to the bottom of. when he puts that scorpio sun on the back burner and lets that gemini moon come out to play. i dig it. its only when the his moon and sun compete that is the issue.
i dig it when he calls me out the blue to chit chat or when he sees me driving in the car with another dude and puts the fear of God in me. i love it when he takes orders from me. most of all, i dig it when he stares.
geez, what a wierdo
he's like so far out there. like another planet. his mercury in sag gets him in hot water with my merc in scorpio, but all in all, he's a total asshole with dreamy sleepy eyes...but he's my asshole with dreamy sleepy eyes...sometimes i feel like i got bragging rights when he shuns others just to be in the presence of a girl who makes his blood boil.
he responds very well to my uranian traits, especially uranus in the 5th. he is the alien in the corner that i want to get to the bottom of. when he puts that scorpio sun on the back burner and lets that gemini moon come out to play. i dig it. its only when the his moon and sun compete that is the issue.
i dig it when he calls me out the blue to chit chat or when he sees me driving in the car with another dude and puts the fear of God in me. i love it when he takes orders from me. most of all, i dig it when he stares.
geez, what a wierdo
Why are you with him, DMV?
ScorpTorch,
Thank you for your comment.
I'm inevitably charmed by him. I dated a number of Sag men, but this one awakened a totally different area in me, I never knew it existed. He is like mantra to me. When I think about him, I lighten up. He makes me smile each and every time when I imagine his face.
Our first meeting was quite unusual. Even if casual, I take a long time to decide if I want to be with a man or not. With him, I responded in an instant and we met the next day. I was taken by his discussions. He had travelled to Tibet, Brazil, and over the years to many other places. His views were quite revolutionary. So he swept me off my feet. I agreed to have a go with him, although he was so young compared to me. I utterly enjoyed my time with him, but after all it ended, I said, good bye. He said, "It's over!" LOL
I said to him, just say "it was nice, good bye 🙂 you don't have to say it's over. ha haha that was funny. But he was so confused, even today he admits to that. We had amazing chemistry.
I know he wants family and children. He has many plans before he wants to settle. He has a hard time accepting me seriously because of our age difference, but he also can't help himself staying away from me. I can't have any expectations with him. So it has become into LOOP relationship. I'm just trying to stay away from him, as much as I would want him, it is not healthy for me. I get affected by him. I've been very open with everything to him. I just tell him as is of how I feel for him, etc.
He remembers my birthdays.
Even though I never expected anything from him, he has sent me happy Valentines wishes and asked where I was.
In a way it is sad. Because I think some societal issues such as skin colour or homosexuality is THANK GOODNESS not an issue anymore in society, than it is with age difference. Especially, when the woman is much older than the man. The other way around, men cheer each other when an old guy dates/marries a 20-something yr old girl, but not the other way around.
So he reminds me EVERY TIME of our age difference 🙂
Thank you for your comment.
I'm inevitably charmed by him. I dated a number of Sag men, but this one awakened a totally different area in me, I never knew it existed. He is like mantra to me. When I think about him, I lighten up. He makes me smile each and every time when I imagine his face.
Our first meeting was quite unusual. Even if casual, I take a long time to decide if I want to be with a man or not. With him, I responded in an instant and we met the next day. I was taken by his discussions. He had travelled to Tibet, Brazil, and over the years to many other places. His views were quite revolutionary. So he swept me off my feet. I agreed to have a go with him, although he was so young compared to me. I utterly enjoyed my time with him, but after all it ended, I said, good bye. He said, "It's over!" LOL
I said to him, just say "it was nice, good bye 🙂 you don't have to say it's over. ha haha that was funny. But he was so confused, even today he admits to that. We had amazing chemistry.
I know he wants family and children. He has many plans before he wants to settle. He has a hard time accepting me seriously because of our age difference, but he also can't help himself staying away from me. I can't have any expectations with him. So it has become into LOOP relationship. I'm just trying to stay away from him, as much as I would want him, it is not healthy for me. I get affected by him. I've been very open with everything to him. I just tell him as is of how I feel for him, etc.
He remembers my birthdays.
Even though I never expected anything from him, he has sent me happy Valentines wishes and asked where I was.
In a way it is sad. Because I think some societal issues such as skin colour or homosexuality is THANK GOODNESS not an issue anymore in society, than it is with age difference. Especially, when the woman is much older than the man. The other way around, men cheer each other when an old guy dates/marries a 20-something yr old girl, but not the other way around.
So he reminds me EVERY TIME of our age difference 🙂
Posted by FUM
Why are you with him, DMV?
were not in a relationship. i mess around with him because i enjoy the emotional game play.
LMAO @ the rat working out.
the sex between us is ok. its gotten alot better since he's allowed himself to let go; took 2 years. we never used to kiss and now he slobs me down. he eats me out, he explores my body. i think im getting the passionate scorpio sex. i wasnt gettin this at all. i was getting wham bam, quickies. i felt like i was having casual sex, NOW i feel like im having sex with someone who cares and loves me. i swear for a minute, i thought he was very vanilla and i was not returning phone calls. i dont know where the change in sexual appetite came from but we dont have sex that often for me to be wow'd on a regular basis. so unfortunaely, he's just ok compared to the sag who knocks me down several times a week.
in our synastry, it is a uranian relationship (venus/uranus, mutually aspected). not much stability; which frustrates both of us. when we do get to gether, its unpredictable and electrifying. however, in true uranian fashion...its like a flash in a pan. one second were together, and the next it feels like abandonment. there is no established pattern. i dont think we would have nearly this meaningful of a relationhip if we saw each other on a regular basis because we would get bored of each other.
the sex between us is ok. its gotten alot better since he's allowed himself to let go; took 2 years. we never used to kiss and now he slobs me down. he eats me out, he explores my body. i think im getting the passionate scorpio sex. i wasnt gettin this at all. i was getting wham bam, quickies. i felt like i was having casual sex, NOW i feel like im having sex with someone who cares and loves me. i swear for a minute, i thought he was very vanilla and i was not returning phone calls. i dont know where the change in sexual appetite came from but we dont have sex that often for me to be wow'd on a regular basis. so unfortunaely, he's just ok compared to the sag who knocks me down several times a week.
in our synastry, it is a uranian relationship (venus/uranus, mutually aspected). not much stability; which frustrates both of us. when we do get to gether, its unpredictable and electrifying. however, in true uranian fashion...its like a flash in a pan. one second were together, and the next it feels like abandonment. there is no established pattern. i dont think we would have nearly this meaningful of a relationhip if we saw each other on a regular basis because we would get bored of each other.
I was laughing at the mouse too. Hope it is not at the expense of a mouse being trapped and videod, then animated into fun...
DMV, in a way it is good that you don't take Scorp man too seriously. It doesn't seem he is into a serious relationship. Familiarity is important to me also. But if it is only every 2-3 months, then that doesn't count as familiar. Unfortunately, the Sag man in question is not like your 3x/wk guy. So it's like starting all over again.
DMV, in a way it is good that you don't take Scorp man too seriously. It doesn't seem he is into a serious relationship. Familiarity is important to me also. But if it is only every 2-3 months, then that doesn't count as familiar. Unfortunately, the Sag man in question is not like your 3x/wk guy. So it's like starting all over again.
Interesting, I see lots of color here. On one hand, if im understand this correctly,you have infrequent sex which isnt neccesarily boring, but because he involved deeper emotion, are you saying that it keeps you interested in the sex/relationship despite the fact it took him a while to warm up?
you got it bud. i stopped talking to him for almost an entire year, although we saw each other several times a week. even though we werent having sex, the emotions remained steadfast. im truly amazed at that.
What were you saying about his sun/moon issues....
his gemini moon frustrates the hell out of my scorpio moon. ive figured out that its all about timing and me stroking his mars in leo. what i mean about the timing is, we have instances where our suns/moons clash. i will show more of my sag sun and he's all scorpio sun; clash. then he will let his gemini moon out to play and im all scorpio moon; clash. i am learning how to time our sun/moon connection (scorp/scorp) and oppostion (gemini/sag. its took a while. me observing, writing in my journal, logging his moods during the month, and me manipulating him into having a good time. like i said, stroke the mars in leo and drive his ego to give him confidence.
when the timing is right...fireworks. he gets really moody and down when i dont act the way he wants me to causing his insecurities to come out. or if i guy tries to talk to me and i entertain it.
Personally, I tend to withhold that fire for later also.
interesting, i almost bailed out on him. even the first time we had sex, he wasnt anything to write home about. very guraded during sex; me as a scorpio moon, can feel the blockage during sex. i kept reading about all this good scorpio lovin and felt cheated. he sounded like all the other men id slept with. not much. so i treated him as such and it pissed him the hell off. things have gotten better. dude just works at his own pace, probably much like you.
you got it bud. i stopped talking to him for almost an entire year, although we saw each other several times a week. even though we werent having sex, the emotions remained steadfast. im truly amazed at that.
What were you saying about his sun/moon issues....
his gemini moon frustrates the hell out of my scorpio moon. ive figured out that its all about timing and me stroking his mars in leo. what i mean about the timing is, we have instances where our suns/moons clash. i will show more of my sag sun and he's all scorpio sun; clash. then he will let his gemini moon out to play and im all scorpio moon; clash. i am learning how to time our sun/moon connection (scorp/scorp) and oppostion (gemini/sag. its took a while. me observing, writing in my journal, logging his moods during the month, and me manipulating him into having a good time. like i said, stroke the mars in leo and drive his ego to give him confidence.
when the timing is right...fireworks. he gets really moody and down when i dont act the way he wants me to causing his insecurities to come out. or if i guy tries to talk to me and i entertain it.
Personally, I tend to withhold that fire for later also.
interesting, i almost bailed out on him. even the first time we had sex, he wasnt anything to write home about. very guraded during sex; me as a scorpio moon, can feel the blockage during sex. i kept reading about all this good scorpio lovin and felt cheated. he sounded like all the other men id slept with. not much. so i treated him as such and it pissed him the hell off. things have gotten better. dude just works at his own pace, probably much like you.
Posted by FUM
I was laughing at the mouse too. Hope it is not at the expense of a mouse being trapped and videod, then animated into fun...
DMV, in a way it is good that you don't take Scorp man too seriously. It doesn't seem he is into a serious relationship. Familiarity is important to me also. But if it is only every 2-3 months, then that doesn't count as familiar. Unfortunately, the Sag man in question is not like your 3x/wk guy. So it's like starting all over again.
you got it FUM. he's not into a serious relationship, but the fucker is into a serious "ownership" problem.
So it's like starting all over again
def a broken record, but i dont really mind it. been playing the same tune for so long, i know how to deal with the abandonment. him, im not quite sure.
Posted by FUM
Then a few weeks later, he started again emailing me. First he makes it sound like a chitter chatter... asking about my business, etc... then he pops again the question.
I spelled out in a loong email how I feel about him. I told him he turns my life upside down. Every time we are together, I first am OK for the first little while, but then I start missing him. And since he doesn't want my friendship, but only sex, I am not going to see him, because that is not what I want for myself. I want the man to be proud with me, not hide me from others.
I am 16 years older than him. So that's where the problem lies.
so he replied with a "LOL".
I will hide this post later. It contains too many details and I don't want him to find me here.
this is the only place I can vent.
In general, for young guys (regardless their signs), most likely...they are just interested in SEX...but they won't offer "commitment" because of SEX. They will continue to get any woman they want...and play with...
So if you don't want to play such "game" with a younger man, then you should cut him off completely.
Otherwise, you allow him to hurt you that way... Be wise to protect yourself!!!
Posted by Tacky_Tshirt
Aw, I hope things work out for you SagChick411.
You seem like a nice person.
🙂
*hugs*
Thanks chick x
Posted by FUMPosted by SagChick411
@ fum
I think he sound like a douche. I think he will want you if you move on for good. Let him believe it's done. Do your own thing for a while, meet new people, just have FUN! IF he comes back then as DMV said test the crap out of him but if he doesn't then fuck him. He doesn't deserve you ATAL.
He needs to grow up and fix his act up cause he will lose you for good to another man! And to be totally honest, you may even find someone else who is the ONE and will give you everything and need and more.
Sag (some) men are dickheads! They drive me round the bend! X
thank you, SagChick. I will stop replying, which I did already. It shouldn't be too difficult to NOT having someone you never had in first place.
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🙂 Easy to say but hard to do, trust me I am in a similar situation, lol xx
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by DMV
i do 🙂
geez, what a wierdo
By all means boast on,
I have a gem moon and a merc in scorp, my sag has a merc in sag, she also has a scorp in uranus and I a sag in uranus which is probably why we get each others weirdness?
she's the only human I will admit Im a bit afraid of lol but she aint jealous by any means, sometimes i wish she was...
she loves my wierd alien language, she's the only person I can speak fluent alien with all day lol, hates my ass hole language though but she gets it.
The gif was @ the 'OK' sex part lol aahhh your makin us look bad c'mon girl!
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ROLMFAO @ 'she loves my wierd alien language, she's the only person I can speak fluent alien with all day lol, hates my ass hole language though but she gets it.
'
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by DMV
Personally, I tend to withhold that fire for later also.
interesting, i almost bailed out on him. even the first time we had sex, he wasnt anything to write home about. very guraded during sex; me as a scorpio moon, can feel the blockage during sex. i kept reading about all this good scorpio lovin and felt cheated. he sounded like all the other men id slept with. not much. so i treated him as such and it pissed him the hell off. things have gotten better. dude just works at his own pace, probably much like you.
Yea thats funny I was going to mention how quickly a woman will lose interest in a guy because of it, but it's the exact reason I do it, more for learning about a persons adaptability/flexibility if that makes sense..So it is a way to let people weed themselves out if im looking for something in particular....
I thought you meant his moodiness came from his scorp sun, gem moon combo.
I have a gem moon as well and my sag and i have those 'spark' moments and the clashes as well both being fairly consistent, I was wondering if it was me lolclick to expand
naw his moodiness is a direct result fron his scorp sun. when his gemini moon is ON, its like he shines!
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by DMV
Personally, I tend to withhold that fire for later also.
interesting, i almost bailed out on him. even the first time we had sex, he wasnt anything to write home about. very guraded during sex; me as a scorpio moon, can feel the blockage during sex. i kept reading about all this good scorpio lovin and felt cheated. he sounded like all the other men id slept with. not much. so i treated him as such and it pissed him the hell off. things have gotten better. dude just works at his own pace, probably much like you.
Yea thats funny I was going to mention how quickly a woman will lose interest in a guy because of it, but it's the exact reason I do it, more for learning about a persons adaptability/flexibility if that makes sense..So it is a way to let people weed themselves out if im looking for something in particular....
I thought you meant his moodiness came from his scorp sun, gem moon combo.
I have a gem moon as well and my sag and i have those 'spark' moments and the clashes as well both being fairly consistent, I was wondering if it was me lolclick to expand
nope its not you. since i have a cancer rising, i am ruled by the moon. my moon is in scorpio, so i can time my moodiness. his are epic but i can pin point his moodiness the moment i set eyes on him.
him waiting to give me the "good" stuff was probably not the best thing he could have done, but it worked.
LMFAO@ Soul glow! you have the coolest pix rock!
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by DMVPosted by RockthenerdsPosted by DMV
Personally, I tend to withhold that fire for later also.
interesting, i almost bailed out on him. even the first time we had sex, he wasnt anything to write home about. very guraded during sex; me as a scorpio moon, can feel the blockage during sex. i kept reading about all this good scorpio lovin and felt cheated. he sounded like all the other men id slept with. not much. so i treated him as such and it pissed him the hell off. things have gotten better. dude just works at his own pace, probably much like you.
Yea thats funny I was going to mention how quickly a woman will lose interest in a guy because of it, but it's the exact reason I do it, more for learning about a persons adaptability/flexibility if that makes sense..So it is a way to let people weed themselves out if im looking for something in particular....
I thought you meant his moodiness came from his scorp sun, gem moon combo.
I have a gem moon as well and my sag and i have those 'spark' moments and the clashes as well both being fairly consistent, I was wondering if it was me lol
him waiting to give me the "good" stuff was probably not the best thing he could have done, but it worked.
I've found that it actually makes the soul glow, soul first, full body O l8r, like a charm 🙂
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LMAO. i was watching this the other night! i wish they would re-release it. im picking up what your putting down. he def knows how to use sex to his advantage.
Posted by DMV
when we do get to gether, its unpredictable and electrifying. however, in true uranian fashion...its like a flash in a pan. one second were together, and the next it feels like abandonment. there is no established pattern. i dont think we would have nearly this meaningful of a relationhip if we saw each other on a regular basis because we would get bored of each other.
I tend to think the same with Sag man, if regularly established, it may not be the same. However, from the past I know, it only gets better.
Although I used to shake like a leaf when with Sag man, this last time didn't happen the same, because too much time has past and my mind also builds resentment. In a way, it is my fault too that I kept rejecting him, but I have my standards for myself. I can't just 'GO FOR IT' when I have feelings for him that I don't wish to deny anymore. I don't want to end up like a fool thinking about him, when he doesn't want to acknowledge he cares for me equally.
If he'd say, FUM... I care for you as well, but that is far as we can be. Then I'd accept that. But he plays strange games. He wants to keep things strictly business, which comes across as immature. I have time or desire for games.
*NO time or desire for games (lol these typos...)
Posted by DMVPosted by FUM
I was laughing at the mouse too. Hope it is not at the expense of a mouse being trapped and videod, then animated into fun...
DMV, in a way it is good that you don't take Scorp man too seriously. It doesn't seem he is into a serious relationship. Familiarity is important to me also. But if it is only every 2-3 months, then that doesn't count as familiar. Unfortunately, the Sag man in question is not like your 3x/wk guy. So it's like starting all over again.
you got it FUM. he's not into a serious relationship, but the fucker is into a serious "ownership" problem.
So it's like starting all over again
def a broken record, but i dont really mind it. been playing the same tune for so long, i know how to deal with the abandonment. him, im not quite sure.click to expand
you must be confusing him then LOL he can't figure you out. He figured you out to a degree he knows he likes you and feels the chemistry, and I'm sure you blow his mind like the SAG guy does mine, but I don't think he feels comfortable enough to think that you might be in for the stay. I must say, I have utter respect for Sag man and I know why.
Posted by SagChick411Posted by FUMPosted by SagChick411
@ fum
🙂 Easy to say but hard to do, trust me I am in a similar situation, lol xxclick to expand
well... you are right. I tell myself that every time that I will not respond the next time. I think there is some strange telepathy going in between us. He just appears at moments that I'd call perfect timing. Then he says something that makes me reply. I was angry at him that he deleted me off FB, but then he came with these Valentines wishes that were totally out of the blue. And I didn't want to be mean or revengeful. I just wished him back. And that was the beginning of another episode.
I don't think Scorp can pretend affectionate sex. Our mind is just too much connected to our soul. I wouldn't be even able to kiss if I would not like you. So going all over involves quite some connection.
I was with this Virgo man for 10 months. I loved him. But there always was some kind of disconnect that I never reached climax with him within all this time. It's the trust that just would not establish. Well.. in the end, he was quite cruel in completely cutting me off. Without ANY explanation. And just on my B-day.
But hey...Sag got me going second date. 😄
I was with this Virgo man for 10 months. I loved him. But there always was some kind of disconnect that I never reached climax with him within all this time. It's the trust that just would not establish. Well.. in the end, he was quite cruel in completely cutting me off. Without ANY explanation. And just on my B-day.
But hey...Sag got me going second date. 😄
Posted by Rockthenerds
@sag thanks boo!
@dmv yea sounds like he's into you 🙂
and it also sounds like, YOU are into him too 😉
I feel happy when I see that Sag & Scorp -- unlike astrologers LOVE to smear all over your face -- CAN have quite the loving and staying potential for each other. 🙂
In fact, I don't know, but I strongly believe that even my first serious bf was a Sag. Unfortunately, he died at very young age. At the time I wasn't interested in Astrology, so therefore I don't know his sign, But... he was physically strong, lovely smile on his face, wanting to marry me the moment we met, black-belt Karate, interested in flying, building his own motorless glider... he used to be into adventure, and many other things about him that makes me believe he was Sag.
ah...I'm getting all sentimental
In fact, I don't know, but I strongly believe that even my first serious bf was a Sag. Unfortunately, he died at very young age. At the time I wasn't interested in Astrology, so therefore I don't know his sign, But... he was physically strong, lovely smile on his face, wanting to marry me the moment we met, black-belt Karate, interested in flying, building his own motorless glider... he used to be into adventure, and many other things about him that makes me believe he was Sag.
ah...I'm getting all sentimental
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when we do get to gether, its unpredictable and electrifying. however, in true uranian fashion...its like a flash in a pan. one second were together, and the next it feels like abandonment. there is no established pattern. i dont think we would have nearly this meaningful of a relationhip if we saw each other on a regular basis because we would get bored of each other.
I tend to think the same with Sag man, if regularly established, it may not be the same. However, from the past I know, it only gets better.
Although I used to shake like a leaf when with Sag man, this last time didn't happen the same, because too much time has past and my mind also builds resentment. In a way, it is my fault too that I kept rejecting him, but I have my standards for myself. I can't just 'GO FOR IT' when I have feelings for him that I don't wish to deny anymore. I don't want to end up like a fool thinking about him, when he doesn't want to acknowledge he cares for me equally.
If he'd say, FUM... I care for you as well, but that is far as we can be. Then I'd accept that. But he plays strange games. He wants to keep things strictly business, which comes across as immature. I have time or desire for games.click to expand
I can't just 'GO FOR IT' when I have feelings for him that I don't wish to deny anymore. I don't want to end up like a fool thinking about him, when he doesn't want to acknowledge he cares for me equally.
ahh, same here girlie. *hugs* the scorp has made more concessions in our "relationsip" than i have. he goes the extra mile and makes the effort. im too chicken shit half the time, but im getting better at going for it. i just dont want people to look at me like a FOOL. just another girl falling for his stankin ass. he even said that girls fall in love with him all the time. however, i am NOT like all the rest. i made a promise to myself that i was going to give him a ride to hell for uttering that statement.
when i do GO FOR IT. omg, my heart races, i sweat bullets. i pray he doesnt reject me. i think about what people are saying (venus in cap cares for her reputation) and i wonder about the gossip lines. even when i pick up the phone and call him, i may get his moody ass scorp sun (which is all smoke & mirrors) or a sweet gemini moon.
when i hang up, i immediately think that im a dumbass (pessimissve scorp moon) and i beat my self up. when on the flip side, i think he goes nuts after i call him. like i make his day. even though he gives me the "cool" routine. i know he's excited and replays the convo over and over again.
so what im saying FUM, is go for it! even if you think you may have a heart attack lol. what i like about scorps is that they can turn a ho into a housewife. they dont care what others have to think or say. they do what they want.
so what im saying FUM, is go for it! even if you think you may have a heart attack lol. what i like about scorps is that they can turn a ho into a housewife. they dont care what others have to think or say. they do what they want.
Posted by FUMPosted by DMVPosted by FUM
I was laughing at the mouse too. Hope it is not at the expense of a mouse being trapped and videod, then animated into fun...
DMV, in a way it is good that you don't take Scorp man too seriously. It doesn't seem he is into a serious relationship. Familiarity is important to me also. But if it is only every 2-3 months, then that doesn't count as familiar. Unfortunately, the Sag man in question is not like your 3x/wk guy. So it's like starting all over again.
you got it FUM. he's not into a serious relationship, but the fucker is into a serious "ownership" problem.
So it's like starting all over again
def a broken record, but i dont really mind it. been playing the same tune for so long, i know how to deal with the abandonment. him, im not quite sure.
you must be confusing him then LOL he can't figure you out. He figured you out to a degree he knows he likes you and feels the chemistry, and I'm sure you blow his mind like the SAG guy does mine, but I don't think he feels comfortable enough to think that you might be in for the stay. I must say, I have utter respect for Sag man and I know why.
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i am on the fence.
Posted by FUM
I don't think Scorp can pretend affectionate sex. Our mind is just too much connected to our soul. I wouldn't be even able to kiss if I would not like you. So going all over involves quite some connection.
I was with this Virgo man for 10 months. I loved him. But there always was some kind of disconnect that I never reached climax with him within all this time. It's the trust that just would not establish. Well.. in the end, he was quite cruel in completely cutting me off. Without ANY explanation. And just on my B-day.
But hey...Sag got me going second date. 😄
when you say disconnect, can you elaborate?
Posted by FUMPosted by Rockthenerds
@sag thanks boo!
@dmv yea sounds like he's into you 🙂
and it also sounds like, YOU are into him too 😉
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i dig him and i tell him. but i dont like myself for feeling this way. because i do, i leave myself open to hurt.
Posted by FUM
I feel happy when I see that Sag & Scorp -- unlike astrologers LOVE to smear all over your face -- CAN have quite the loving and staying potential for each other. 🙂
In fact, I don't know, but I strongly believe that even my first serious bf was a Sag. Unfortunately, he died at very young age. At the time I wasn't interested in Astrology, so therefore I don't know his sign, But... he was physically strong, lovely smile on his face, wanting to marry me the moment we met, black-belt Karate, interested in flying, building his own motorless glider... he used to be into adventure, and many other things about him that makes me believe he was Sag.
ah...I'm getting all sentimental
it is not an easy "ship". takes lots of time and understanding.
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by FUMPosted by Rockthenerds
@sag thanks boo!
@dmv yea sounds like he's into you 🙂
and it also sounds like, YOU are into him too 😉
noclick to expand
elaborate please?!
Posted by DMVPosted by RockthenerdsPosted by FUMPosted by Rockthenerds
@sag thanks boo!
@dmv yea sounds like he's into you 🙂
and it also sounds like, YOU are into him too 😉
no
elaborate please?!click to expand
you can be honest
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by DMVPosted by RockthenerdsPosted by FUMPosted by Rockthenerds
@sag thanks boo!
@dmv yea sounds like he's into you 🙂
and it also sounds like, YOU are into him too 😉
no
elaborate please?!
oh, either fum thought i was a girl, or am gay, I am neither 😉..He's all yours.click to expand
famous last words He's all yours
Posted by FUM
I feel happy when I see that Sag & Scorp -- unlike astrologers LOVE to smear all over your face -- CAN have quite the loving and staying potential for each other. 🙂
In fact, I don't know, but I strongly believe that even my first serious bf was a Sag. Unfortunately, he died at very young age. At the time I wasn't interested in Astrology, so therefore I don't know his sign, But... he was physically strong, lovely smile on his face, wanting to marry me the moment we met, black-belt Karate, interested in flying, building his own motorless glider... he used to be into adventure, and many other things about him that makes me believe he was Sag.
ah...I'm getting all sentimental
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. This has got me all teary! Such a sweet story. *hugs*
Oh guys! GUESS what?
I've decided to sack my Scorp off (for now) he has started to play games and I am once again losing my sanity (something I promised I wouldn't allow myself to back into). I'm pretty sad. I am beginning to 'feel' that he doesn't think of me more than a treetrunk buddy (which he's not making the most of anyway). I hate feeling like this. I do hope I'm wrong! I have a weird feeling this is ALL one sided on my part. Ughh!
HE is A FOOL! WHY must HE torment me? WHY must I allow MYSELF to be tormented this way! Wehhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've decided to sack my Scorp off (for now) he has started to play games and I am once again losing my sanity (something I promised I wouldn't allow myself to back into). I'm pretty sad. I am beginning to 'feel' that he doesn't think of me more than a treetrunk buddy (which he's not making the most of anyway). I hate feeling like this. I do hope I'm wrong! I have a weird feeling this is ALL one sided on my part. Ughh!
HE is A FOOL! WHY must HE torment me? WHY must I allow MYSELF to be tormented this way! Wehhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by SagChick411
Oh guys! GUESS what?
I've decided to sack my Scorp off (for now) he has started to play games and I am once again losing my sanity (something I promised I wouldn't allow myself to back into). I'm pretty sad. I am beginning to 'feel' that he doesn't think of me more than a treetrunk buddy (which he's not making the most of anyway). I hate feeling like this. I do hope I'm wrong! I have a weird feeling this is ALL one sided on my part. Ughh!
HE is A FOOL! WHY must HE torment me? WHY must I allow MYSELF to be tormented this way! Wehhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
his scorp moon is working a number on you (DMV, brushes her shoulder off). he probably feels MAD disappointed that you cancelled your date. he thinks that you dont like him that much nemore. he is extremely sensitive to rejection. extremely.
besides, you cant sack him. he already sacked you first. in his mind, you cancelling was like a sucker punch to the gut.
its not that he's playing games (remember who turned off her phone missy!), he just thinks your about the bullshit.
you remind me of this gemini male who i kicked to the curb.
Day 1: i meet him and he is head over heels. coming on strong, im a bit suspicous, but after a few days of thinking i decide to give him a chance.
Day 5: he calls me and tells me that he would like to go on a date, but that he just wants to be friends. im thiking to myself..COOL. im a bit disappointed, but i cant make anyone do what they dont want to do.
we go on the date and he tells me that he wants to be exclusive. he wants me and me only. he thinks hes met the one. i call SHENANIGANS!!!!!!!!! i give him back the same BS he tried to feed me. i tell him that i need time to think cause he's changing his mind too much for my lil ol scorpio moon to bear. im seeing red flags.
Day 12: we go out again on another date and he keeps telling me how much he likes me and wants to be with me. also, that hes willing to wait for me to make a decision. he texts me all through the week, calls me and leave lovely messages. but because of that 1st instance where he told me he wants to be friends; thats the only thing that sticks out in my mind. chil please! but i tell him that i just need time to develop feelings.
after he pays for my steak dinner, i change my clothes to something more "comfortable" and i sit him down in my house. then i give him the muthafucking business and tell him that ive chosen to drop him and im not interested in him in the meanest way possible.
SO TRUST. your getting off easy.
stop with all the back and forth. you tell him your down, then you just want to be friends, then you want him again, you cancel a date (you were sick, but shit, he added this to your tab). he has no idea of how to take you!! all his silence and disappearing is him trying to save himself from YOU and your ambivalence.
Day 1: i meet him and he is head over heels. coming on strong, im a bit suspicous, but after a few days of thinking i decide to give him a chance.
Day 5: he calls me and tells me that he would like to go on a date, but that he just wants to be friends. im thiking to myself..COOL. im a bit disappointed, but i cant make anyone do what they dont want to do.
we go on the date and he tells me that he wants to be exclusive. he wants me and me only. he thinks hes met the one. i call SHENANIGANS!!!!!!!!! i give him back the same BS he tried to feed me. i tell him that i need time to think cause he's changing his mind too much for my lil ol scorpio moon to bear. im seeing red flags.
Day 12: we go out again on another date and he keeps telling me how much he likes me and wants to be with me. also, that hes willing to wait for me to make a decision. he texts me all through the week, calls me and leave lovely messages. but because of that 1st instance where he told me he wants to be friends; thats the only thing that sticks out in my mind. chil please! but i tell him that i just need time to develop feelings.
after he pays for my steak dinner, i change my clothes to something more "comfortable" and i sit him down in my house. then i give him the muthafucking business and tell him that ive chosen to drop him and im not interested in him in the meanest way possible.
SO TRUST. your getting off easy.
stop with all the back and forth. you tell him your down, then you just want to be friends, then you want him again, you cancel a date (you were sick, but shit, he added this to your tab). he has no idea of how to take you!! all his silence and disappearing is him trying to save himself from YOU and your ambivalence.
LOL!!
OK I get it nowwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! see I can't see how I'm coming across! lol!
RIGHT I better fix this (if i can)
OK I get it nowwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! see I can't see how I'm coming across! lol!
RIGHT I better fix this (if i can)
Also when I say 'sack off' I mean give him space. Not be needy etc etc. Let him see what he wants to do, love me or leave me... He has gotten in touch quite a bit today which is good sign and no sexual comments so far....so who knows?
Posted by SagChick411
Also when I say 'sack off' I mean give him space. Not be needy etc etc. Let him see what he wants to do, love me or leave me... He has gotten in touch quite a bit today which is good sign and no sexual comments so far....so who knows?
be accepting, listen, be yourself, be consistent, show and prove.
trust saggy, he's doing ALOT of thinking. alot of thinking about you.
@eee
Tell me about it, THATS ME! Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
@DMV. Consistency starts NOW> I really want him, I'm gonna my hardest be 'consistent'. That's my KEY word! Thanks DMV! I feel alot better now! xx
Tell me about it, THATS ME! Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
@DMV. Consistency starts NOW> I really want him, I'm gonna my hardest be 'consistent'. That's my KEY word! Thanks DMV! I feel alot better now! xx
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