Sag staying

What would cause a Sag woman to stay with a man if they fight a lot?
Her boyfriend is caring. He calls her multiple times a day to see how she's doing, they text, he sends her flowers. But they fight a lot because she's lonely and depressed and her emotions are putting a toll on their relationship. Yet insist on staying even if she's unhappy with the situation.

So why would a Sag endure feeling like this if she's unhappy?

Ok, seriously. Thanks for all your concern about my relationship, but I came here to ask about a Sag girl. Please don't put all the eggs in the same basket.
Can I get a break from hearing about my relationship and just get answers?
I'm ascendant Gem, and I'm curious about a LOT of things. My mind is constantly wondering things. This is one of those things.

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Because unlike your fiance not caring about you, her bf loves and cares for her. She just doesn't like the situation they're in with the distance, but she loves who he is.

Why are you so obsessed with this girl?...

Come on. If you know your opponent you know how (and when) to strike.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Because unlike your fiance not caring about you, her bf loves and cares for her. She just doesn't like the situation they're in with the distance, but she loves who he is.

Why are you so obsessed with this girl?...

Come on. If you know your opponent you know how (and when) to strike.

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Posted by dontgetmewrong
I feel like she has all the info she needs though...she even knows what this sagi's bf does for her.

I don't know. With the kind of questions she asks this time..there's sometings else..

I know everything about this girl because my Gem told me everything. From the things that girl said to him about her relationship with her boyfriend, to what they talk about. He forwarded all pictures she sent to him after I asked politely. He's very open about everything.

love? inertia? masochism? soulmates? magic hidden powers?

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Posted by feby
Did your bf tell you if they've been intimate together yet?

She wrote on the other board that he lied to her amd drove an hour and a half to see this girl, he ditched all her calls...amd he's made out with the other girl, which i think theyve done more. The guy is a douche yet she tries to find some kind of commonality with this Sagi on why they stay with men who don't make them happy. She has an obsession on how this girl has a hold on men, including hers.

Deal with you and your guy Cappy. Free yourself from his grasp or your need to control, this is unhealthy.

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say what——??

ditching my calls is enough to make me leave

Posted by dontgetmewrong
I feel like she has all the info she needs though...she even knows what this sagi's bf does for her.

I don't know. With the kind of questions she asks this time..there's sometings else..

Not really. You're talking about basic info--the what and who vs the intention and motives. Intention and motive speaks to end game and allows you to plan appropriately to counter attack or cut someone off at the knees. Or plan a future with a man that "thinks he doesn't deserve love". Basically, shut it down.

You do notice she keeps asking about the Sags motives and thought process. Looking past what's in front of your face keeps your plan on track.

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Posted by dontgetmewrong
I feel like she has all the info she needs though...she even knows what this sagi's bf does for her.

I don't know. With the kind of questions she asks this time..there's sometings else..

Not really. You're talking about basic info--the what and who vs the intention and motives. Intention and motive speaks to end game and allows you to plan appropriately to counter attack or cut someone off at the knees. Or plan a future with a man that "thinks he doesn't deserve love". Basically, shut it down.

You do notice she keeps asking about the Sags motives and thought process. Looking past what's in front of your face keeps your plan on track.

I get that. I don't know why she's looking deeper when everything is right in front of her....

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Right. To us because we see this as a should she leave or stay in this relationship type of dilemma. She's not seeing it that way. She has determined and has stated so here and in her other thread that she isn't going anywhere. Therefore, if she staying, home girl has got to go. "Please dear Saggies, Help me figure her out so I can take her out of the equation."

She's presenting it in different ways, but that is at the heart of it.

You're not shaking a Cap off of her game plan once her eye is on the prize. A future with this dude is the "prize" apparently.

Jesus the typos....

Posted by PhoenixRising
You're not shaking a Cap off of her game plan once her eye is on the prize. A future with this dude is the "prize" apparently.

Jesus the typos....

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No offense to my Cap friends but they can be VERY stubborn and come hell or high water...they will get their way. The sad thing is...it's often to their demise. That very same patience and steadiness is used against them in situations such as this and it's exactly what the Gem knows and is doing. Hence, "the I don't deserve love" line says exactly what his play was going to be.

But really OP, is it really about loving him or about you not being seen as a failure after 4 years and not being able to see past the "investment?" Being vindictive is never a way to go. Your best move is to be successful with someone else but do as you wish. Btw, if the Gem spilled the beans to you about her do you not think he's done the same about you to her? She will see you coming.

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by PhoenixRising
You're not shaking a Cap off of her game plan once her eye is on the prize. A future with this dude is the "prize" apparently.

Jesus the typos....

I certainly feel sorry for people like the OP!! Too many around! Real self esteem issues!

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But PR does not refer to self-esteem issues. She says cause Cap is stubborn and determined about their goal. There I agree with BS. The same talent can work against you in a special scenario. I hope Gem's dad is really rich.

Thanks everyone. I'm not blind to the lack of respect and I'm totally aware of what a jerk he is with his actions here.
To me, it's about support and standing by your man's side. It's about helping someone who told me he hates the way he deals with things, especially other women. He knows it will end badly with her, but he doesn't see very far in the future. He can see tomorrow when she's gonna ask him to come over. How his ego will be boosted, but he can't see past that.
He always had issues with women. He can't say no. He's like an alcoholic who can't stop drinking.
And he will endure a situation just to make women happy.

Last night we had plans. A date night and meeting up with friends after.
Sag girl asked to see him. He said no. Told her he was busy with me and our friends. She started getting needy. Begging him to go and ditch me for him. Using all sorts of tactics like "I don't like being alone. I need a cuddle buddy. I'm scared alone in this house. I'm so sad right now. We could make out if you say yes."
He said no.
Then, all night she blew up his phone. With cute pictures and acting like he's her boyfriend and he's single.
Then, he put his phone down and said a final No! She got upset. Then, she changed her facebook photo to a pic of her and her boyfriend, and then said how happy she is with him just to get a reaction out of my boyfriend who didn't give a rat's ass about her.

That's the kind of woman she is. And that's why she's a problem and why I need to know how to handle her.

My Gem is not perfect, but he gave me access to his phone. Every time I told him to forward me one of her photos, he did without hesitation. When I ask: What did she do this time? He will tell me, and I will have access to his phone if I want to.
His way of handling the situation isn't perfect! But he's trying and I want to help him.

Yes my goal is to get rid of her. Yes, I want to save my relationship, and PhoenixRising is right about me asking to put a plan in motion. I want to understand why she's acting the way she does to know what to say to her to get through her.

She's fucking mental.
Maybe to some of you I'm mental too, low self esteem, etc etc etc. I heard you all loud and clear! But wanting to do what's right for a relationship doesn't mean I'm crazy.

"I want to understand why she's acting the way she does to know what to say to her to get through her."

@MyLittleUniverse,

I like your analysis of the situation.

Are you sure he is the only one who cannot think past that? Some of the posts here are talking of the "past that". Well, in my opinion.

Are you sure she is acting out of her Sag Sun? Why not a Virgo or Cancer Moon? A Scorpio Venus? A Gem Mercury?

Experience has shown that relationships which are talked on dxp are actually going downhill. Maybe not only dxpnet but also any other forum on the internet.

Again, you can have so much success with being determined. Sometimes it happens that you miss the big picture too.

All I can say is I hope he is big rich. It's no new story that some rich men has a life long history of cheating and a wife who closes her eyes for that matter.

Posted by MyLittleUniverse
Thanks everyone. I'm not blind to the lack of respect and I'm totally aware of what a jerk he is with his actions here.
To me, it's about support and standing by your man's side. It's about helping someone who told me he hates the way he deals with things, especially other women. He knows it will end badly with her, but he doesn't see very far in the future. He can see tomorrow when she's gonna ask him to come over. How his ego will be boosted, but he can't see past that.
He always had issues with women. He can't say no. He's like an alcoholic who can't stop drinking.
And he will endure a situation just to make women happy.

Last night we had plans. A date night and meeting up with friends after.
Sag girl asked to see him. He said no. Told her he was busy with me and our friends. She started getting needy. Begging him to go and ditch me for him. Using all sorts of tactics like "I don't like being alone. I need a cuddle buddy. I'm scared alone in this house. I'm so sad right now. We could make out if you say yes."
He said no.
Then, all night she blew up his phone. With cute pictures and acting like he's her boyfriend and he's single.
Then, he put his phone down and said a final No! She got upset. Then, she changed her facebook photo to a pic of her and her boyfriend, and then said how happy she is with him just to get a reaction out of my boyfriend who didn't give a rat's ass about her.

That's the kind of woman she is. And that's why she's a problem and why I need to know how to handle her.

She seems to be handling herself. You're clearly not paying attention.

Posted by MyLittleUniverse
My Gem is not perfect, but he gave me access to his phone. Every time I told him to forward me one of her photos, he did without hesitation. When I ask: What did she do this time?

So rather than spending your energy and time connecting with your partner, or unwinding from your day your conversations and mental energy revolves around her. At some point this will exhaust you and you will make a different choice that works for you, so the lecture ends here.

With that stated:

Posted by MyLittleUniverse
.... Yes my goal is to get rid of her. ...I want to understand why she's acting the way she does to know what to say to her to get through her.

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As I pointed out above she is handling herself. I suppose you can't see that because if your control issues.

Now his decision to ignore her may have been an act simply because you were there holding on tighter to the leash, but the fact that he is ignoring her means you don't have to do anything. She's unravelling all on her own. Simple wait and allow it to happen then move on with this Gem if this is what you truly want.

Simply be patient. If you do all of the work keeping him in line, telling him where he can and can not go, chase her off, you'll be doing that for the remainder of your relationship. Let him step up and fall back. If you do not have faith in his ability to do this what is the point of building a future with him? How far do you think you will go trying to control a Gem?

Hahahahahahaha
she is still sending pics and text and he still looks at them then shows you—
Sounds like you lost the battle a long time ago.

OP is use to getting her way and controlling the Gemini. Gemini is use to being controlled. The Sag sees that this is not a real relationship, so its easy for her to step in and interfere. OP you better hope the Gemini doesnt began to realize it too. You will always have problems with him because you dont love him the way you should....how can you when theres no respect there? You love being able to do what you want, controlling him, and having him follow along with the life you want to lead. Good luck, you will need it.

She doesnt care about the Geminis actions. She knows how to snap him back in line. Its about figuring out how to control the Sag now.

Posted by lnana04
She doesnt care about the Geminis actions. She knows how to snap him back in line. Its about figuring out how to control the Sag now.

Pretty much. If she can learn how to control a Sag she should write that info down in a book and sell it. Win-win for a Cap.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by lnana04
She doesnt care about the Geminis actions. She knows how to snap him back in line. Its about figuring out how to control the Sag now.

Pretty much. If she can learn how to control a Sag she should write that info down in a book and sell it. Win-win for a Cap.

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Sag women seen tough. My favorite couple is a Capricorn woman and Sag man. She seems a tad controlling, but not too much. A Sag woman...yeah, youd need to write a book lol.

I confronted her and she denied everything. So I messaged her boyfriend. I also told my boyfriend it was over.
He didn't believe me, called me crazy and then told me he love me and need me in his life.

That girl can fuck off, it's war.

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Posted by lnana04
She doesnt care about the Geminis actions. She knows how to snap him back in line. Its about figuring out how to control the Sag now.

Pretty much. If she can learn how to control a Sag she should write that info down in a book and sell it. Win-win for a Cap.

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haha lol

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Be careful about retaliation from the Sag though.

What do you mean?

Tires slashed, brick through window, your face pummeled, house burned down...
The capabilities are endless

Posted by Weeds
Tires slashed, brick through window, your face pummeled, house burned down...
The capabilities are endless

Just with how she's acting now, I have no problems believing it. A friend of hers confronted her about what she's doing to her boyfriend and she deflected everything. Pretending she's very happy and in love with her boyfriend and she's not doing anything wrong.

lol@ "what do you mean?"

"Tires slashed, brick through window, your face pummeled, house burned down...
The capabilities are endless"

It can all be done with a smile too if you pick the right one. I dont fool with Sags like that lol. People will always side with a Sag too because they are usually 99% of the time good natured, or present themselves to be. Its that darn 1% that could really mess you up.

I still dont see the point in being mad at her ESPECIALLY if you are done with him. Makes zero sense. She is a stranger to you, she owes you nothing.

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Posted by Weeds
Tires slashed, brick through window, your face pummeled, house burned down...
The capabilities are endless

Just with how she's acting now, I have no problems believing it. A friend of hers confronted her about what she's doing to her boyfriend and she deflected everything. Pretending she's very happy and in love with her boyfriend and she's not doing anything wrong.

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Why do you care about her relationship with her boyfriend?

So you are attempting to ruin her relationship because you feel she ruined yours? YOU and your "fiance" created that mess. I know it hurts, but if anything just thank your lucky stars you didnt marry this guy. The honest truth is...your bond with him was not that strong. There wasnt a solid enough foundation for "forever" with him. Just move on.

I may be wrong here but I never see the point of ruining someone else's situation when your man/woman is the root cause of you being upset in the first place. You leave karma to take care of the other person.

Should've cut the Gem off in the beginning and moved on.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
I may be wrong here but I never see the point of ruining someone else's situation when your man/woman is the root cause of you being upset in the first place. You leave karma to take care of the other person.

Should've cut the Gem off in the beginning and moved on.

I agree. Karma usually handles situations like this if you move on. Its never worth it in the end and wastes too much time and energy.

OP needs to just let it go.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I may be wrong here but I never see the point of ruining someone else's situation when your man/woman is the root cause of you being upset in the first place. You leave karma to take care of the other person.

Should've cut the Gem off in the beginning and moved on.

I agree. Karma usually handles situations like this if you move on. Its never worth it in the end and wastes too much time and energy.

OP needs to just let it go.

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Posted by MyLittleUniverse

Posted by Weeds
Tires slashed, brick through window, your face pummeled, house burned down...
The capabilities are endless

Just with how she's acting now, I have no problems believing it. A friend of hers confronted her about what she's doing to her boyfriend and she deflected everything. Pretending she's very happy and in love with her boyfriend and she's not doing anything wrong.

You are worthless and weak and you will also get what is coming to you. Forget sag. Fuck around with a taurus and I would hunt you down until I find you... Then it would be all out WAR if you ever did to me what you just did to her... WATCH YR BACK!!!

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You really like being mean. Must be awesome to feel superior over someone who is struggling with a personal issue. I bet your self esteem is high and you feel so much better about yourself!! Ohh I'm scared of you!! *Hides*

Posted by MyLittleUniverse
What would cause a Sag woman to stay with a man if they fight a lot?
Her boyfriend is caring. He calls her multiple times a day to see how she's doing, they text, he sends her flowers. But they fight a lot because she's lonely and depressed and her emotions are putting a toll on their relationship. Yet insist on staying even if she's unhappy with the situation.

So why would a Sag endure feeling like this if she's unhappy?

Stubborn pride (Venus in Scorp).

I didn't read past the first post (which I skimmed).


o.O

Posted by MyLittleUniverse
My Gem is not perfect, but he gave me access to his phone. Every time I told him to forward me one of her photos, he did without hesitation. When I ask: What did she do this time? He will tell me, and I will have access to his phone if I want to.
His way of handling the situation isn't perfect! But he's trying and I want to help him.

Yes my goal is to get rid of her. Yes, I want to save my relationship, and PhoenixRising is right about me asking to put a plan in motion. I want to understand why she's acting the way she does to know what to say to her to get through her.

She's fucking mental.
Maybe to some of you I'm mental too, low self esteem, etc etc etc. I heard you all loud and clear! But wanting to do what's right for a relationship doesn't mean I'm crazy.

You know...I used to have a problem with women who think and act like you are in this circumstance. Then one day me and my ex hubby had a candid convo about situations like this. He summed it up for me in one statement, "How can a man really resist a woman who is willing to fight for what's hers. That's sexy!" Got me to thinking. Now, I wasn't THOROUGHLY convinced until my Cap bestie who I had the FWB situation did the SAME exact thing with me. He told me that I was trying hard to push him away, but that he was determined to fight for us, even if it meant fighting ME for us. He made it very clear that he wasn't going anywhere, because each time he tried or did so, because I was pushing him away, it hurt him more to leave than to stay. Then...I understood it.

If you don't feel like anyone could ever be worth enough of your time and energy to fight for them...then don't do it. That's probably going to work for you. However, I don't think that people should put the OP down, because this is the course that she's taking. Actually, I've seen more relationships last and become extremely fulfilling by going OP's route than people who are with others, because they made it easy for them to do so.

And I will say something else too...I'm lol'ing at the single women who are laughing at OP. I'm sitting here wondering...why are you so invested in ridiculing her when you could be focusing on your OWN love life. Now, excuse me while I go to the store and get groceries to make chicken soup for my man.

Bitter Bettys....smh I tell you.

Yeah, I see way worse than this, especially dealing with a broken engagement. Women can be crazy...men too.

Anyway, I never see it really amount to anything. The women that Ive seen fight for their relationships never ended with the guy in what Ive witnessed....or its been long emotional rollercoaster rides that proved not to be worth it.

Posted by dontgetmewrong
I feel like she has all the info she needs though...she even knows what this sagi's bf does for her.

I don't know. With the kind of questions she asks this time..there's sometings else..

She already had him... but can't understand why

he won't leave the Sag.


That's my guess... waiting in the wings.

No offense OP.

It's easy to judge someone and insult them from behind a computer screen. I've always believed in supporting others. I'm against bullying and I don't call people names as I know it can hurt.
Sure what I go through make me feel like I'm desperate to save something that you see is over, but you don't know everything and you're quick to call names on someone who only gave you part of a story.
I left a lot of it out as I don't want to write a book.

Plus, I asked for specific things about a sun sign, and it turned into an insult fest towards me as a person. You don't know me, you don't know all the good I do in my community.
Mean words don't mean anything to me.

Posted by busyeyes88
It just angers me that there are so many desperate women out there!!! DESPERATE!!!

Actually and I think it's about time for this convo...you seem like the desperate one. A woman who understands what's going on in her life on some level doesn't feel the need to consistently PROVE herself or try so hard to have her worth validated. And yes, I'm talking about you. You're always on a 10 with the exclamation marks and shit. This to me screams out something weird...and whenever someone has ANY issue with a man, your first response is always, DUMP HIM.

Why you so bitter? Did shit happen to you that you're still trying to get over. The man who she is with is her dude. He's not a crush and he's not...ehem...a man who is taking his time as a friend to decide whether or not he really wants said woman...*cough cough*. Yea...so, what's up with that? You're calling other women desperate and yet you're waiting for this "friend" of yours to get with you. Like my female Cancer friend from Alabama would say, "somethin' just ain't right in the milk." It's not about a woman NOT WANTING to be single. It's about people who have invested in their relationships and are taking them VERY serious. When this happens, you don't just walk away from someone. Not easily anyways. I'm not saying that I would handle OP's situation the same way, but I do understand where she's coming from.

When you find your perfect man who commits to you...let me know and I don't mean for a week...hit me up when you guys have been together for at least 2 years. LMBO!!!! I'll wait for it.

Posted by MyLittleUniverse
It's easy to judge someone and insult them from behind a computer screen. I've always believed in supporting others. I'm against bullying and I don't call people names as I know it can hurt.
Sure what I go through make me feel like I'm desperate to save something that you see is over, but you don't know everything and you're quick to call names on someone who only gave you part of a story.
I left a lot of it out as I don't want to write a book.

Plus, I asked for specific things about a sun sign, and it turned into an insult fest towards me as a person. You don't know me, you don't know all the good I do in my community.
Mean words don't mean anything to me.

Thank GOD. I did the same thing in the Leo forum trying to get a better understanding of Leo moon people and was met with "Dump him"...I was like WTF?? I'm NOT dumping my dude. LMBO!!!

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Posted by MyLittleUniverse
It's easy to judge someone and insult them from behind a computer screen. I've always believed in supporting others. I'm against bullying and I don't call people names as I know it can hurt.
Sure what I go through make me feel like I'm desperate to save something that you see is over, but you don't know everything and you're quick to call names on someone who only gave you part of a story.
I left a lot of it out as I don't want to write a book.

Plus, I asked for specific things about a sun sign, and it turned into an insult fest towards me as a person. You don't know me, you don't know all the good I do in my community.
Mean words don't mean anything to me.

Thank GOD. I did the same thing in the Leo forum trying to get a better understanding of Leo moon people and was met with "Dump him"...I was like WTF?? I'm NOT dumping my dude. LMBO!!!

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That's exactly what I think!! Only a handful of people gave me an answer to my question. Everything else was just insults and personal opinions assuming how dumb I am about keeping someone I've known for YEARS over my Gem knowing someone for 2 weeks. Telling me that she won and I lost.
Like commitment and understanding don't mean anything anymore.
Thank you for your support, it means a lot.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by MyLittleUniverse
What would cause a Sag woman to stay with a man if they fight a lot?
Her boyfriend is caring. He calls her multiple times a day to see how she's doing, they text, he sends her flowers. But they fight a lot because she's lonely and depressed and her emotions are putting a toll on their relationship. Yet insist on staying even if she's unhappy with the situation.

So why would a Sag endure feeling like this if she's unhappy?

Stubborn pride (Venus in Scorp).

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I agree with this. Same with Scorp Rising as well. My Saggie bestie fought with all of her men to my knowledge (even unnecessarily). She thrives off of conflict though. I couldn't see her in a functional relationship. She called me the other day to announce that she's getting married to a man who she never met. She converted to Muslim and this is one of the benefits, it's totally acceptable to marry without a long term courtship. Now mind you, she was married and separated from a Virgo male when I met her, they reconciled a relationship that was two years solid marriage and an ENTIRE year of separation. Then she cheated on him with a Pisces, getting divorced and engaged within 6 months of that divorce. She and Pisces broke up whilst she was courting a Libra (Muslim guy, this is why she converted). He pushed and pulled with her regarding marriage for what...a year and a few months? They just called things off for good like...early August and now she's getting married to someone else already? LMBO!!!!!

Busyeyes Bitch...let me tell you something...no I haven't recovered. And you're an evil witch for trying to throw some shit like that up in someone's face. It's alright though, because it further goes to prove just have evil and bitter you are. No, I wasn't bullying Hemiphere in the thread. He just pop in there on MY thread and starting talking shit. Relationships have issues which is something that at your age...you look about in your 40's....you SHOULD know. Nothing is ever smooth sailing and consistent. Either the issues come from the outside or they come from within. Either way, you have them between two people. Sooooo as far as you telling me that I'm using my CONDITION to have a go at anyone...trust you me, I don't need my enemies sympathy. Funny how both of you guys are Taurus's. I usually get along with y'all, but you two are just bullies. That's what it is. You guys are sitting behind a computer with a love live unfulfilled and so you come here and try to bash anyone who you feel has weak enough cracks in their relationships.

It's transparent, because both of you guys do that shit...trolling people's posts looking for damage so that you can destroy. And whether he's waiting on you (which I HIGHLY doubt lol) or you're waiting on him...your relationship is still unfulfilled and you know it.

How about you stop trolling and actually try to help someone for once. You're one of those cackling bitches that sits there looking for shit wrong with people to make you feel better about your own shitty ways, life, etc. You look old, and you're bitter. Bitter Betty Bitchy Busyeyes. BBBB.

@Ms Teeq

"... he's getting married to a man who she never met. "


I had a Sag friend who did something similar. .. though she did not convert to

another religion.

They met online and he flew in to meet her, shortly thereafter-- bought her a ring

on that visit and wanted her to go to vegas with him right then and do the deal.

But she wanted her family to know so they waited for maybe... idk a few weeks?

They are still married afaik... and its been years.

He's an amazing guy though-- thinks she hung the moon... I really think it was

meant to be.


Oh and they both have Pisces moons. 🙂

Posted by Montgomery
@Ms Teeq

"... he's getting married to a man who she never met. "


I had a Sag friend who did something similar. .. though she did not convert to

another religion.

They met online and he flew in to meet her, shortly thereafter-- bought her a ring

on that visit and wanted her to go to vegas with him right then and do the deal.

But she wanted her family to know so they waited for maybe... idk a few weeks?

They are still married afaik... and its been years.

He's an amazing guy though-- thinks she hung the moon... I really think it was

meant to be.


Oh and they both have Pisces moons. 🙂

That's awesome and an amazing love story. I really hope things do work out for my Sag bestie. The only reason why I'm doubtful is that she starts so much conflict in her relationships and because I've seen her pattern over and over and over again. I just wish she would deal with her personal issue before moving on to yet another SERIOUS commitment with a man. This will be man number 4 that I've seen her go through in like....5 years. Crazy! Now, i'm not talking just men...but 4 SERIOUS relationships where either marriage was happening or about to happen. Like with the Pisces, they even had their rings, date, venue, etc. The Muslim Libra fled the scene after over a year of going back and forth, for good reason. It seemed that he was never comfortable with the idea of marrying her, because of her past. Usually, I don't believe in judging according to the past, but in this case, I think anyone who is considering marrying her SHOULD take her past into consideration. She also has 4 kids by 4 different men and gave the first one up for adoption. Now, that was selfless, but none of the other 3 kids fared well being raised with the level of instability that she brings into her life by focusing on trying to have one committed relationship after the other. I love that woman, but I think that she's going to end up aging and living with one of her kids. lol I mean, nothing wrong with that, but that's not what she wants.

No, I hear you.. some of the best people have

the most MAGNIFICENT flaws.

Truth. 🙂

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Posted by Montgomery
@Ms Teeq

"... he's getting married to a man who she never met. "


I had a Sag friend who did something similar. .. though she did not convert to

another religion.

They met online and he flew in to meet her, shortly thereafter-- bought her a ring

on that visit and wanted her to go to vegas with him right then and do the deal.

But she wanted her family to know so they waited for maybe... idk a few weeks?

They are still married afaik... and its been years.

He's an amazing guy though-- thinks she hung the moon... I really think it was

meant to be.


Oh and they both have Pisces moons. 🙂

I remember that thread! I think you even made it in this forum

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I did, that's right. 🙂

Also, I said venus in Scorpio because my mom, who is Sagittarius-Gemini,

has that placement... and she stayed in her 2nd marriage

ten or fifteen years longer than she should have.

I know a lot of it was because of the idea that she would be considered a

"failure," though it wasn't true... but her generation stigmatized divorcees.

For someone so mutable, she's really rigid about some things.

Shes loosened up a lot though. 😛

Posted by dontgetmewrong

Posted by Montgomery
@Ms Teeq

"... he's getting married to a man who she never met. "


I had a Sag friend who did something similar. .. though she did not convert to

another religion.

They met online and he flew in to meet her, shortly thereafter-- bought her a ring

on that visit and wanted her to go to vegas with him right then and do the deal.

But she wanted her family to know so they waited for maybe... idk a few weeks?

They are still married afaik... and its been years.

He's an amazing guy though-- thinks she hung the moon... I really think it was

meant to be.


Oh and they both have Pisces moons. 🙂

Do you know the husband's sun sign Monty?

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He's a Cancer with a charming LEO Ascendant 🙂

That's just it bitch. I'm not smug. YOU are. Quit projecting.