Sag wanted to keep it casual but now she's mad at me for not wanting something serious

So late last year I (Leo sun, Virgo moon & Leo rising) matched with this Sag woman on Bumble and after the second place, we went to her place and did it. It was fun but then I noticed she kept playing hot and cold with me. I saw her out one time holding hands with another dude and then the next time I see her, she tells me why I sounded so shocked because "it's not like we are serious or anything". We end up sleeping with each other again.

For months, we kept it casual and I didn't commit while also seeing other women. Then, we started seeing each other almost every weekend or every other weekend just straight up having sex and cuddling together afterwards.

Well, I saw her again this Saturday and it was weird. I came to her place and took my shirt off as usual and told her the new lamp looks great, she sternly told me "just get to it dude, it's not like you are here for anything serious". Now I was kind of weirded out but I got to it and we started making out. At some point, she shoves my head against her crotch and tells me "hey, it's the least you can do if you are just going to use me".

I stop and tell her "well you told me you didn't want anything serious". She gets mad and says "when did I ever f-cking say that? You march in here every week or every other week using me for sex you f-cking leech". I told her I got the wrong impression and that we don't need to see each other today but then she gets even more furious about me going away, just shouting and almost breaking down crying. I leave and then later on I get a voicemail from her saying that she feels "used" by me.

Then I call her back saying she was hanging with other guys and I never said a thing so where does she want me to go from here. She calls me out saying if I have any aspirations in life other than sleeping with random women, I playfully respond no and then she says "well lately you've been awful in bed so time to pick a new hobby". Low blow.....low blow....

And it gets weirder.

She called me a couple hours ago asking what I was up to and we had a normal fun conversation, as if she forgot what she said yesterday.

I legit do not know if I am messing with crazy.

I would stop. Let’s face it - it won’t get any ‘better’ if it is already going down to ‘scenes’ and insults. 🤷‍♀️

This is so superficial smh

Omg, this is what you base Sag’s on? 😂

Well communication might have helped in the beginning, but now this seems a big mess.

You are not wanting anything serious, so what does it matter? Move on.

Such a vacuous life style 😒

Just view it as constructive criticism. Work on your tongue game.

So we just ended up doing it again tonight and she is pretending like nothing really happened when she got mad. I wonder if this chick has Gemini placements or something.

I think it's the other way around since you're so obsessed with Sag females.

She wanted to keep it casual and you wanted something more but your pride can't handle that and this is your defense mechanism's last resort; trying to convince others to believe a lie in order to convince yourself of that lie to soothe your crushed and deflated ego.

Posted by Dastard2020

I think it's the other way around since you're so obsessed with Sag females.

She wanted to keep it casual and you wanted something more but your pride can't handle that and this is your defense mechanism's last resort; trying to convince others to believe a lie in order to convince yourself of that lie to soothe your crushed and deflated ego.

Naw bro. I wish I could avoid Sag women but at this point I cannot get them out of my life even if I try.

Posted by GammaArietis

Lol it makes sense now Virgo moon. You have a humiliation kink or something. You enjoy the abuse

No, I am just never happy and nitpick everything. Somehow I remember all the details about an environment.